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"It was only meant as a suggestion if you don't have anything decent to say plz don't ad this is a serious topic . Well it is for the ones that care about our siblings x" I have just seen your age, how many siblings do you have under the age of 18? | |||
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"It was only meant as a suggestion if you don't have anything decent to say plz don't ad this is a serious topic . Well it is for the ones that care about our siblings x" What age are you talking of ? We have been on here on and off for 5 years and never encountered anyone we thought was younger than 18 . | |||
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"It was only meant as a suggestion if you don't have anything decent to say plz don't ad this is a serious topic . Well it is for the ones that care about our siblings x" There was an article on BBC news this morning about sex education lessons including porn, because its becoming very obvious that its starting to affect peoples perception of what sex is like. If we educate our children about this sort of thing, and monitor their internet use, then it should reduce any illegal shenanigans. If they're over 18 then I have no problem with them being on here. Yes, I would even accept my daughter being on here, as long as she told me so I could block her! | |||
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"It was only meant as a suggestion if you don't have anything decent to say plz don't ad this is a serious topic . Well it is for the ones that care about our siblings x I have just seen your age, how many siblings do you have under the age of 18? " Perhaps they're worried about their kids. | |||
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"The only slightly realistic way would be to do an age verification credit/debit card check. But that don't stop a kid taking his/hers parents card for this. " Problem is, after the Ashley Madison scandal, how many people would want to do this ? | |||
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"We were wondering what yous think it was on the news about certain sites getting younger people on and ending up in trouble . How do you stop these people getting on sites that they shouldn't be on . Th reason we are putting this on here is we think we have had people on here who were not of age . We did seek advice and followed it up but what can be done to keep an adult site just for adults I'm sure most on here like us have daughters and grandkids so let's see if someone can come up with a way to stop it thnx showing passports or summit like that x" Contact the site directly with your concerns. | |||
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"We put this on here because there are concerns don't say contact the site as though we are not entitled to put a thread on here if you don't want to help don't comment thnx and how many siblings have we under 18 the answer is three and we care very much for there welfare . I'm telling you now there's underage people on here it's plain to see when you have been swinging as long as us you can see through people and yes we have been in contact with the right authority and took there advice thnx" Are you in severe defensive mode this evening? I put 'Contact the site' because I do believe you will receive some advice? | |||
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"We put this on here because there are concerns don't say contact the site as though we are not entitled to put a thread on here if you don't want to help don't comment thnx and how many siblings have we under 18 the answer is three and we care very much for there welfare . I'm telling you now there's underage people on here it's plain to see when you have been swinging as long as us you can see through people and yes we have been in contact with the right authority and took there advice thnx" Hope you don't help your siblings with their homework. | |||
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"Why are people going on about 18yo. Here's me thinking the age of consent is 16" it is yes but for Internet purposes I believe 17 is the minimum for any photos over wise you get a visit from CEOPs | |||
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"Why are people going on about 18yo. Here's me thinking the age of consent is 16" The site age is 18+ (adult site) | |||
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"Sorry to be a pedant here but does the op know what a sibling is?" I thought siblings were your sisters/brothers. Offspring are well, your offspring. | |||
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"We were wondering what yous think it was on the news about certain sites getting younger people on and ending up in trouble . How do you stop these people getting on sites that they shouldn't be on . Th reason we are putting this on here is we think we have had people on here who were not of age . We did seek advice and followed it up but what can be done to keep an adult site just for adults I'm sure most on here like us have daughters and grandkids so let's see if someone can come up with a way to stop it thnx showing passports or summit like that x" How can you be so sure they're underage? I'm 27 and got asked for id when buying a bottle of wine last week.... Sassy | |||
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"Why do you have to nit pick yous know exactly what we meant I don't know what part of the country yous are from but where we come from we care if you don't want to help in stopping these people getting on the sites like this maybe you should consider leaving as it might not be the site for you we know admin do every thing they can but its nice to get some adult feedback on the matter thnx" It's a forum, people can post anything in response | |||
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"It was only meant as a suggestion if you don't have anything decent to say plz don't ad this is a serious topic . Well it is for the ones that care about our siblings x I have just seen your age, how many siblings do you have under the age of 18? " I was wondering that myself | |||
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"You can tell by how immature they come over and when you question them about certain stuff they leave the site then they come back on you can tell it's the same people cos they say all the same things x" So people 18 and over are never immature?? | |||
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"You can tell by how immature they come over and when you question them about certain stuff they leave the site then they come back on you can tell it's the same people cos they say all the same things x So people 18 and over are never immature??" Wibble | |||
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"Why do you have to nit pick yous know exactly what we meant I don't know what part of the country yous are from but where we come from we care if you don't want to help in stopping these people getting on the sites like this maybe you should consider leaving as it might not be the site for you we know admin do every thing they can but its nice to get some adult feedback on the matter thnx" Tbf it feels you're overreacting. Common sense should stop you from fucking someone underage. It's all a bit dramatic | |||
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"Age of consent is one thing but on adult sites like fab you have to be 18 . And no I don't help our daughters are in there thirty s. It was our grand daughters we were on about . Look all we were asking is if anyone has any ideas we can put to admin to help make this site as safe as we can so no one gets caught up in something they never intended getting into thnx" My twins are 21 and both look about 15. Must be a nightmare trying to work out who is what on here for admin. Especially as the older we get the younger they look at an higher age. | |||
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"Just remembered, I haven't actually got a passport at the moment what do I do in that case, will that make me a fake swinger? " I don't have a passport or photo is driving licence. Anyone who signs up and is under age is breaking the law. | |||
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"The point is trying to stop them getting on in the first place why do we stand like prats with a card saying fabswingers when you can open an account don't get veri and just use the site to abse people thnx" Probably impossible guys. Unless you bring in passport rules. | |||
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"We were wondering what yous think it was on the news about certain sites getting younger people on and ending up in trouble . How do you stop these people getting on sites that they shouldn't be on . Th reason we are putting this on here is we think we have had people on here who were not of age . We did seek advice and followed it up but what can be done to keep an adult site just for adults I'm sure most on here like us have daughters and grandkids so let's see if someone can come up with a way to stop it thnx showing passports or summit like that x How can you be so sure they're underage? I'm 27 and got asked for id when buying a bottle of wine last week.... Sassy" I'm 35 and got id'd recently too, some people do look a lot younger than they actually are. To the OP, if you thinking someone may be under the age of 18 on this site the best thing to do is to report the profile to admin so they can look into it. As for security, I wouldn't feel comfortable putting my id onto a site such as this, I have shown my id in clubs, they have taken down details and proved I am old enough to enter those but I wouldn't on the internet. The reality is under 18s will be able to access any adult site with will. It's their own parents or carers responsibility to stop them, via parental controls on the internet etc, but so many kids have mobile phones with 4g etc it's difficult for that to be stopped. So again if anyone suspects an underage profile report it. | |||
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"Sorry to be a pedant here but does the op know what a sibling is? I thought siblings were your sisters/brothers. Offspring are well, your offspring." I thought offspring were a punk rock band? | |||
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"Sorry to be a pedant here but does the op know what a sibling is? I thought siblings were your sisters/brothers. Offspring are well, your offspring. I thought offspring were a punk rock band? " Isn't that blink182? | |||
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"We are not saying show your passport just asking sensible people if the have any ideas and yeah it's easy to report but when a profile has a single 18 year old no pic and very few details what can admin do Anyway any single females looking for an older cple ha ha lol" I find most '18' year old single girls with no photos are men. | |||
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"See some people on here who comment about other cples age limit then go with people who are a lot older than there own age limit might be they can't pick n choose ha ha lol" Uncalled for. | |||
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"Yeah we run pubs so we know about the age limit .and paradise city we know where your coming from you just don't care thnx blonde what has our age limit got to do with anything yeah we meet younger cples but we have kept ourselves in trim so we can pick n choose not like some thnx if you don't have anything nice to say about the thread by that we mean trying to help don't comment on here and take up your own thread . Think it's time this thread should be closed thnx very much to the nice comments off the genuine cples they that know us know we have been swinging over 20 years and got on with most people thnx " It's prettytiedup Love! | |||
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"People lie about all kinds of shit on the internet. Me personally if someone isn't old enough to remember shows such as round the twist or knightmare then they're too young for me and we wouldn't have many things in common. " If you'd of said Jamie and the Magic Torch, Tiswas or Knightrider we might of been in business!! | |||
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"See some people on here who comment about other cples age limit then go with people who are a lot older than there own age limit might be they can't pick n choose ha ha lol Uncalled for. " that have taken the time to look at our veris but not to actually read them. Immature comments | |||
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"See some people on here who comment about other cples age limit then go with people who are a lot older than there own age limit might be they can't pick n choose ha ha lol Uncalled for. that have taken the time to look at our veris but not to actually read them. Immature comments " Been looking at mine too but got my username wrong. xxx | |||
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"It was only meant as a suggestion if you don't have anything decent to say plz don't ad this is a serious topic . Well it is for the ones that care about our siblings x What age are you talking of ? We have been on here on and off for 5 years and never encountered anyone we thought was younger than 18 . " I have been here no so very much longer than you and I have seen profiles where they looked younger than 18.. All you can do is report it but I doubt it would stop them coming back | |||
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"Yeah we run pubs so we know about the age limit .and paradise city we know where your coming from you just don't care thnx blonde what has our age limit got to do with anything yeah we meet younger cples but we have kept ourselves in trim so we can pick n choose not like some thnx if you don't have anything nice to say about the thread by that we mean trying to help don't comment on here and take up your own thread . Think it's time this thread should be closed thnx very much to the nice comments off the genuine cples they that know us know we have been swinging over 20 years and got on with most people thnx " No offence but this is a public forum .. You may be able to pick and choose who you meet but unfortunately you can't pick and choose who posts on your thread.. | |||
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"Obviously can't read too well either " I'm still trying to work out what my reply means but they must fancy me as they have looked at me twice now. xxx | |||
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"Where we are you have to have a gosh to fit in not sure if that goes for other places what do you think maybe we could open a new thread on this ha ha lol" Do you mean a GSOH, or is gosh a new acronym I haven't heard yet? | |||
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"Yeah to much time on our hands then again we only come on here when we get tired of counting our money ha ha lol isint funny others saying you have to much time on your hands how have they got the time to reply ha ha luv this site it cracks me up lol" Cringe! | |||
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"See what I mean about soh oh and someone else who can't read lol hey I'm not name calling did I say I couldn't read lol by the way every reply on here gets me to donate £1 to children with cancer and before anyone says summit think about that's £84 quid up to now why hey" Bullshit! Prove it? Disgusting | |||
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"Yeah heels don't agree one bit with you but thnx another quid for the charity lol" Why am I not surprised! Seriously. Grow up. | |||
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"See some people on here who comment about other cples age limit then go with people who are a lot older than there own age limit might be they can't pick n choose ha ha lol" I don't understand the point of this comment. | |||
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"This thread is almost a tick box exercise of how not to make a point and alienate people whilst doing so. FORUM INSURANCE doesn't cover this. " Forum Insurance, hmmm. Does it cover floods, do you know? | |||
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"This thread is almost a tick box exercise of how not to make a point and alienate people whilst doing so. FORUM INSURANCE doesn't cover this. Forum Insurance, hmmm. Does it cover floods, do you know?" Only floods of gibberish posted within Fab, subject to various disclaimers, small print, technicalities and the stuff that makes one go, 'gosh, I though that was covered!' | |||
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"This thread is almost a tick box exercise of how not to make a point and alienate people whilst doing so. FORUM INSURANCE doesn't cover this. Forum Insurance, hmmm. Does it cover floods, do you know? Only floods of gibberish posted within Fab, subject to various disclaimers, small print, technicalities and the stuff that makes one go, 'gosh, I though that was covered!' " Oh okay, I see. THAT is most helpful. I'll adjust my wording to claim for 'Floods of feckless fickle finger pointing on the Forums.' | |||
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"We were wondering what yous think it was on the news about certain sites getting younger people on and ending up in trouble . How do you stop these people getting on sites that they shouldn't be on . Th reason we are putting this on here is we think we have had people on here who were not of age . We did seek advice and followed it up but what can be done to keep an adult site just for adults I'm sure most on here like us have daughters and grandkids so let's see if someone can come up with a way to stop it thnx showing passports or summit like that x" I don't think you'll ever stop them getting on the site to b honest, just have to be vigilant and them out.XXX | |||
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"OP. Name calling and insults are a totally unnecessary way of reacting to people who don't share your views. Perhaps step away from the keyboard, have a cup of tea, and return when you're feeling a little more mature. As for your original point. Use your own common sense and experience to deal with those who may not be all they seem and report to admin anything against site rules or law. " Tea! Tsk, krug only for these high rollers | |||
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"Floods ha ha lol shut your legs girl mmmm" OP. Use the "+quote" button to reply to someone. It makes the thread rather easier to follow. | |||
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"Why are people going on about 18yo. Here's me thinking the age of consent is 16 it is yes but for Internet purposes I believe 17 is the minimum for any photos over wise you get a visit from CEOPs" The minimum age for photographs of a person is 18 in the UK. Photographs of 17 year old are classified as photographs of a minor and are therefore illegal. | |||
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"How many parents buy their children video games rated as 18+? These often contain images of women that could be classed as almost pornographic. How many allow their children to watch films over their age limit? We are making it normal to be allowed to breach the age restrictions and then expecting these clever young people to adhere to the age limits set for the interweb. We need to educate young people better about sex and relationships. We need to stop operating double standards by being lenient in one area and expecting them to strictly adhere to the rules in another. We need to talk to them and know them so that we trust them. If you suspect someone is under age here then report. There's not a lot else you can do about it." | |||
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"This site allows over 18s so if they're lying about their age (which has never happened in the history of the internet ever!) I'm not sure what more you expect. There's literally no way on this planet that anyone is going to volunteer their passport on this website." I'm 26. | |||
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"This site allows over 18s so if they're lying about their age (which has never happened in the history of the internet ever!) I'm not sure what more you expect. There's literally no way on this planet that anyone is going to volunteer their passport on this website. I'm 26. " In badger years....... | |||
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"Sorry to be a pedant here but does the op know what a sibling is? I thought siblings were your sisters/brothers. Offspring are well, your offspring.[/quote Yes siblings means brothers and sisters" | |||
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"Sorry to be a pedant here but does the op know what a sibling is? I thought siblings were your sisters/brothers. Offspring are well, your offspring.[/quote Yes siblings means brothers and sisters" Good to know | |||
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"This site allows over 18s so if they're lying about their age (which has never happened in the history of the internet ever!) I'm not sure what more you expect. There's literally no way on this planet that anyone is going to volunteer their passport on this website. I'm 26. " Thought you looked a lot younger xx | |||
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"Yeah mark I might like a drink now n then did I see that right you were born in 47 ha ha lol " Probably the beer goggles, but no, you didn't see I was born in 47. *Loads sarcasm font. Ha ha. Lol. | |||
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"This site allows over 18s so if they're lying about their age (which has never happened in the history of the internet ever!) I'm not sure what more you expect. There's literally no way on this planet that anyone is going to volunteer their passport on this website. I'm 26. In badger years....... " Which is best Badger or Beaver ? Only one way to find out ! | |||
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"This site allows over 18s so if they're lying about their age (which has never happened in the history of the internet ever!) I'm not sure what more you expect. There's literally no way on this planet that anyone is going to volunteer their passport on this website. I'm 26. In badger years....... Which is best Badger or Beaver ? Only one way to find out !" Fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. | |||
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