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"Do we find intelligent people boring? Do you meet your kid's teacher or your solicitor and think, ' I'm happy to be his/her client but by Jove I would want him at my party!'? Do people feel compelled to "dumb up" a bit just so they can fit in? Would you meet and play with intelligent fabbers? And by intelligent, I don't mean loudmouthed wise guys. " . Did you throw "by Jove" in just to dumb up a bit | |||
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"Do we find intelligent people boring? Do you meet your kid's teacher or your solicitor and think, ' I'm happy to be his/her client but by Jove I would want him at my party!'? Do people feel compelled to "dumb up" a bit just so they can fit in? Would you meet and play with intelligent fabbers? And by intelligent, I don't mean loudmouthed wise guys. . Did you throw "by Jove" in just to dumb up a bit " "By Jove" does quite the opposite! | |||
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"I would say it's not so much that we want to meet "intelligent" people. More that we don't want to meet thick people. Sorry if that sounds really snobby, but the thought of spending time with foul-mouthed yobs who can barely read just leaves us cold. " This. We don't claim to be "intelligent" but we can both hold a conversation, with every other word not a swear word. | |||
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"So how do you know who is dumb and who is not Do we guess .....should not judge a book by its cover ...otherwise you will be f***ed " Play them Rossini's William Tell Overture, if they say it reminds them of the Lone Ranger you've got your answear | |||
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"I have to find the other folk socially engaging, that requires a personality more than intelligence, " | |||
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"It depends on what you think is intelligent or what you find boring. I class people who know how to say the right things and how to behave as intelligent and not boring." And how do you define a wise person...is there any correlation with intelligence, if what? | |||
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"It depends on what you think is intelligent or what you find boring. I class people who know how to say the right things and how to behave as intelligent and not boring. And how do you define a wise person...is there any correlation with intelligence, if what? " Dunno. | |||
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"Initially I expect many try to judge whether people are on a similar level socially, and that may incorporate perceived intelligence from the visible cues on the profile. At the end of the day, if you wouldn't be attracted to someone you meet in everyday life for this reason, why make an exception on fab? " Exactly. Just because it's a swinging/sex site I don't see why I should meet anyone I wouldn't be happy to meet in everyday life. I realise some people aren't bothered and are just purely meeting for sex but I tend to socialise. Intelligence and a good personality are a massive turn on. Just my opinion | |||
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"I (Mr) have been ridiculed at work for using "big words" and been told at an appraisal that I'm "clearly very clever and educated" but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm very good at the job.Very strange comments, I work for a public sector organisation in a skilled role and my manager is less qualified than myself!Not sure they appreciated the irony of their sniping comments " Maybe they thought you were being a bit pretentious. | |||
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"I (Mr) have been ridiculed at work for using "big words" and been told at an appraisal that I'm "clearly very clever and educated" but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm very good at the job.Very strange comments, I work for a public sector organisation in a skilled role and my manager is less qualified than myself!Not sure they appreciated the irony of their sniping comments Maybe they thought you were being a bit pretentious." Maybe but unlikely in this instance. They said similar to a colleague too. | |||
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"It depends on what you think is intelligent or what you find boring. I class people who know how to say the right things and how to behave as intelligent and not boring. And how do you define a wise person...is there any correlation with intelligence, if what? " Intelligence is a gift of birth, but wisdom is learning how to use it well. | |||
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"It depends on what you think is intelligent or what you find boring. I class people who know how to say the right things and how to behave as intelligent and not boring. And how do you define a wise person...is there any correlation with intelligence, if what? Intelligence is a gift of birth, but wisdom is learning how to use it well." | |||
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"Intelligent is as intelligent does " And the forest gump version? | |||
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"Depends on what kind of person makes you laugh...... For example, trigger from only fools and horses, no intelligence at all but he is hilarious! He may have a profile on here? " Just did a search for 'trigger'.... ooops | |||
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"Intelligent is as intelligent does And the forest gump version? " I was thinking of an older saying I once heard - "Handsome is as handsome does" - but it works just as well. Forest Gum too, of course. | |||
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"So how do you know who is dumb and who is not Do we guess .....should not judge a book by its cover ...otherwise you will be f***ed Play them Rossini's William Tell Overture, if they say it reminds them of the Lone Ranger you've got your answear " On it | |||
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"Sapiosexual here. Give me a smart, fun, average looking person over a dull, brainless hotty any day " Oh, I don;t know, I can be quite shallow. Depends on what you want them for | |||
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"I'm far from boring just saying " Can you do a hand stand while singing ice ice baby by vanilla ice ? | |||
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"I'm far from boring just saying Can you do a hand stand while singing ice ice baby by vanilla ice ? " if that's the sort of thing that turns you on...I fear you are on the wrong site sunshine | |||
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"I'm far from boring just saying " Hey sweetheart how are you xx | |||
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"I'm far from boring just saying Can you do a hand stand while singing ice ice baby by vanilla ice ? " I can do that actually. | |||
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"Sapiosexual here. Give me a smart, fun, average looking person over a dull, brainless hotty any day " Can you pass the dull , brainless hotties our way please | |||
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"I'm far from boring just saying Can you do a hand stand while singing ice ice baby by vanilla ice ? I can do that actually. " | |||
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"I don't ask for a list of qualifications but I do like to be able to talk to people so they need to be interesting and have a modicum of social ability. " I don't talk to myself. (Refer to the thread on talking to yourself the other day) | |||
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"Personalities make people boring not their intelligence. People who run their intelligence in your face is far more boring that someone with low intelligence but a plesant personality xx" | |||
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"Personalities make people boring not their intelligence. People who run their intelligence in your face is far more boring that someone with low intelligence but a plesant personality xx " I was going to say something similar about anyone having a boring character. I've known people who can't read and write well,who wouldn't be classed as intelligent by society,have a quick wit and be the life and soul of the party. | |||
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"No I love intelligence, I find a sharp mind exciting to play with " Naaaaa give me dumb blonde with big tits any day | |||
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"No I love intelligence, I find a sharp mind exciting to play with Naaaaa give me dumb blonde with big tits any day " *Quickly pops to the shop and buys some hair dye* | |||
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"Do we find intelligent people boring? Do you meet your kid's teacher or your solicitor and think, ' I'm happy to be his/her client but by Jove I would want him at my party!'? Do people feel compelled to "dumb up" a bit just so they can fit in? Would you meet and play with intelligent fabbers? And by intelligent, I don't mean loudmouthed wise guys. " I wouldn't go with a dumb guy who had nothing about him and struggled to hold a conversation | |||
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"No I love intelligence, I find a sharp mind exciting to play with Naaaaa give me dumb blonde with big tits any day " For you, I'll play dumb | |||
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"I'm not turned on by intelligence per but I do like one on one meets with people on the same general wavelength as me. I did consider simplifying my profile but then it wouldn't reflect me. I have had messages from people saying they couldn't be bothered to read it or that they clicked on it but got distracted by the pictures. I take that as a very strong indication that we probably want different things from our respective fab experiences." Sorry....i didn't hear a word you said....i was distracted by your boobs | |||
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"Do we find intelligent people boring? Do you meet your kid's teacher or your solicitor and think, ' I'm happy to be his/her client but by Jove I would want him at my party!'? Do people feel compelled to "dumb up" a bit just so they can fit in? Would you meet and play with intelligent fabbers? And by intelligent, I don't mean loudmouthed wise guys. " Surely intelligent people are more interesting and probably better in bed as well. Why would anyone want to mask their intelligence . | |||
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"Do we find intelligent people boring? Do you meet your kid's teacher or your solicitor and think, ' I'm happy to be his/her client but by Jove I would want him at my party!'? Do people feel compelled to "dumb up" a bit just so they can fit in? Would you meet and play with intelligent fabbers? And by intelligent, I don't mean loudmouthed wise guys. " Intelligence is so overrated.... I can't stand intelligent people... They don't bareback , and always lecture me about sti's and pregnancy on meets | |||
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"I could be as clever as Stephen Hawking. If the guy doesn't fancy me it wouldn't make any difference. You need to be compatible with each other." p.s. you're better looking than Hawking. | |||
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"Depends on what kind of person makes you laugh...... For example, trigger from only fools and horses, no intelligence at all but he is hilarious! He may have a profile on here? " There is a difference between laughing with someone and laughing at them | |||
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"I'm not turned on by intelligence per but I do like one on one meets with people on the same general wavelength as me. I did consider simplifying my profile but then it wouldn't reflect me. I have had messages from people saying they couldn't be bothered to read it or that they clicked on it but got distracted by the pictures. I take that as a very strong indication that we probably want different things from our respective fab experiences. Sorry....i didn't hear a word you said....i was distracted by your boobs " Spaghetti.... | |||
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"There's one small thing that decides if it's a yes or no for me. The use of 'lol'. Nothing dampens my ardour quicker. " So is laugh out loud ok? Great status message btw | |||
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" Spaghetti...." Hoops......sorry this is the word association thread isn't it? | |||
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"to "dumb down" would be dishonest. I find intelligence a turn on and would seek out those who appear to be smart and witty. " | |||
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" Spaghetti.... Hoops......sorry this is the word association thread isn't it?" Think about it | |||
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"Do we find intelligent people boring? Do you meet your kid's teacher or your solicitor and think, ' I'm happy to be his/her client but by Jove I would want him at my party!'? Do people feel compelled to "dumb up" a bit just so they can fit in? Would you meet and play with intelligent fabbers? And by intelligent, I don't mean loudmouthed wise guys. . Did you throw "by Jove" in just to dumb up a bit "By Jove" does quite the opposite!" Hahaaahaaaaa. That sentence should have read, ".... by Jove, I WOULDN'T want him at my party". Sorry guys. | |||
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"There's one small thing that decides if it's a yes or no for me. The use of 'lol'. Nothing dampens my ardour quicker. So is laugh out loud ok? Great status message btw " Yup. As soon as I see it, instant lady bonner killer. And thanks Seems to be getting an interesting range of responses | |||
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"Do we find intelligent people boring? Do you meet your kid's teacher or your solicitor and think, ' I'm happy to be his/her client but by Jove I would want him at my party!'? Do people feel compelled to "dumb up" a bit just so they can fit in? Would you meet and play with intelligent fabbers? And by intelligent, I don't mean loudmouthed wise guys. " What? I don't understand. I must be stupid. | |||
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"Do we find intelligent people boring? Do you meet your kid's teacher or your solicitor and think, ' I'm happy to be his/her client but by Jove I would want him at my party!'? Do people feel compelled to "dumb up" a bit just so they can fit in? Would you meet and play with intelligent fabbers? And by intelligent, I don't mean loudmouthed wise guys. What? I don't understand. I must be stupid." Well, hmmm mm. | |||
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"Do we find intelligent people boring? Do you meet your kid's teacher or your solicitor and think, ' I'm happy to be his/her client but by Jove I would want him at my party!'? Do people feel compelled to "dumb up" a bit just so they can fit in? Would you meet and play with intelligent fabbers? And by intelligent, I don't mean loudmouthed wise guys. What? I don't understand. I must be stupid. Well, hmmm mm. " I don't understand that either. | |||
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