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By *exiliciousme OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I've been sending messeges to a small selection of people but not much response. What more can I do, I'm always polite and never cut and paste messeges always individual messeges. I'm sure people can vouch for me. How do you get more involved here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try showing a bit of your personality through I struggled for meets when I first started out. Went the same route. Polite, individual messages. Then I came on the forums and showed my charming cheeky side which had me talking to more people

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I've been sending messeges to a small selection of people but not much response. What more can I do, I'm always polite and never cut and paste messeges always individual messeges. I'm sure people can vouch for me. How do you get more involved here "

Go to clubs. And just have a laugh. Stressing doesn't help

MrsSB

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By *exiliciousme OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"I've been sending messeges to a small selection of people but not much response. What more can I do, I'm always polite and never cut and paste messeges always individual messeges. I'm sure people can vouch for me. How do you get more involved here

Go to clubs. And just have a laugh. Stressing doesn't help

MrsSB "

Not as such stressing about it just intrigued as too how I can improve my success as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been sending messeges to a small selection of people but not much response. What more can I do, I'm always polite and never cut and paste messeges always individual messeges. I'm sure people can vouch for me. How do you get more involved here

Go to clubs. And just have a laugh. Stressing doesn't help

MrsSB "

I'd agree. Try and get yourself to a club or a social. I think a lot of single men get ignored initially because of male/female ratio. I'm sure you'll find someone though. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing particularly wrong with your profile OP and we agree with you about users on this site that are too lazy simply to respond, we abhor that!

It's not an easy solution, if there is one, but time and money spent on attending "socials" will always provide better results than hour after hour on this site nor any other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been sending messeges to a small selection of people but not much response. What more can I do, I'm always polite and never cut and paste messeges always individual messeges. I'm sure people can vouch for me. How do you get more involved here "

Most people won't ask you for picture, so maybe putting a select few as public would help. They don't have to be face pics, and cock pic's are usually best avoided. Maybe a body/chest shot or 2. Just a suggestion of course.

Poppy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been sending messeges to a small selection of people but not much response. What more can I do, I'm always polite and never cut and paste messeges always individual messeges. I'm sure people can vouch for me. How do you get more involved here "

I think the top and bottom of it is if people aren't attracted to you they won't reply

You can spend a week working out a new message approach and send the best message but looking at that pic will be the deal breaker for most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going into the chat room is also a good idea. a conversation is what most women are looking for before meeting. you can even flirt, go on cam too, puts a face to a name, you cannot be shy on Fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair fella only 3 hours ago you were asking if you should contact people or sit back and let them contact you.

The advice there on that thread was to be proactive and it appears like you have in the meantime - good!

But as someone else said in your earlier thread, be prepared for rejection but also give people the chance to respond! 3 hours is nothing!

Lots of ladies get LOADS of messages and their personal situation means that they might be able to read or respond instantly even if they are online. You might not be their type or they might be waiting to reply later.

There are thousands of men seeking out meets with a limited supply of women, you need to stand out from all the others in their inbox and, above all, realise that you might not get instant results.

Good luck fella, I'm sure the meets will come!

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge

Agree with the photo advice given already, I've struck up many a conversation just thanking somebody for the "fab".

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'd certainly have at least a handful of pics, how are people to know if they're interested if there's nothing to judge you on.

It's fair enough to keep face pics private if you need to (many do), but even better if they can be public too.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As, Take. That. would say "have alittle patience"? lol.

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By *exiliciousme OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"As, Take. That. would say "have alittle patience"? lol."

Believe me I am more than patient not looking too rush anything, just asking for the general advice

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I would also say put some pics on, we wouldn't bother to respond if we had to ask for pics. It is very hard for single guys, so you have to stand out from the rest. Good luck!!

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