FabSwingers.com forum: Newbies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How are you ment to meet people if nobody reads your messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a hard one,,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes ur right but problem is I'm stuck hard on my own!

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Coz they're boring messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ur right but problem is I'm stuck hard on my own! "

You should take a hands on approach ......

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Why read a message if the profile isn't great?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What am I supposed to right? If ur blunt it gets deleted if ur to pleasunt it's not replied to u can't win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you ment to meet people if nobody reads your messages? "

Your profile meet counter says you met a couple and a single female in the 7 weeks you been here so you must be doing something ok?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How are you ment to make it better if u haven't had the chance to experiment yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I was last choice and was able to get to locations first probably got lucky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make them worth reading

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How? If ur to blunt it just gets deleted

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"How are you ment to make it better if u haven't had the chance to experiment yet? "
Read other people's profiles and see what they've done better than you. There are some really good profiles out there.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make them worth reading

You fsncy 10 inch fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make them worth reading

You fsncy 10 inch fun "

Is that all you have to offer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make them worth reading

You fsncy 10 inch fun

Is that all you have to offer ?

I can offer you anything il fulfil any of your needs

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"How? If ur to blunt it just gets deleted "

Most ladies will read your profile before they read your message (so they tell us). Having a good profile will certainly help.

Then the message, women like to know that you've read their profile. They like character and humour, and they like to know that you're messaging them because you actually find them attractive... rather than just feeling that you've messaged everyone hoping that one of them will respond.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How? If ur to blunt it just gets deleted

Most ladies will read your profile before they read your message (so they tell us). Having a good profile will certainly help.

Thank u so much. Looks like I have to work on my profile then. Is it really that boring?

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By *sborne2Couple
over a year ago

northants

You could try improving your grammar , seriously .....

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Try going to a club or keep an eye out for social gatherings. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I was last choice and was able to get to locations first probably got lucky lol "

That's going to make them feel special if they read the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could try improving your grammar , seriously ....."

I'm sorry I'm not the smartest of people to many bangs to the head from boxing but didn't realise this was an English lesson!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP if you want profile advice you need to ask us for it.

Alternatively you can do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' read all the good stuff and put it into action

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By *sborne2Couple
over a year ago

northants

It's not but you would be surprised how many people are put off by this ... I know that we are not alone !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had 2 meets in 7 weeks

That's pretty good going for a newbie single male

It should be you giving the advice out, not asking for it ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've had 2 meets in 7 weeks

That's pretty good going for a newbie single male

It should be you giving the advice out, not asking for it ..."

Really 2 meets in 7 weeks is rubbish just seems every1 u talk to have atleast 11 meets in less the. That. How do they do it?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'll read and reply to your messages op.

Otherwise it's about having as great a profile as you can. People usually look at profiles of people sending them messages. And tons here get so many messages that it's impractical to reply to them all.

Make some friends and hang in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the pub x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've had 2 meets in 7 weeks

That's pretty good going for a newbie single male

It should be you giving the advice out, not asking for it ...

Really 2 meets in 7 weeks is rubbish just seems every1 u talk to have atleast 11 meets in less the. That. How do they do it? "

If they have that many veris in such a time then they most likely are members returning and friends verifying them again, they go to clubs and socials and meet people, and have a couple of private meets. That is why we have so many in 8 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havnt met in over a year,and im not that bothered tbh, if i do get one then fine if i dont then fine

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !

You cannot accommodate - I think married or has a partner. Your grammar is bad - I like intelligence. Your profile does not stand out

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I havnt met in over a year,and im not that bothered tbh, if i do get one then fine if i dont then fine"

Mmmm you look lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I havnt met in over a year,and im not that bothered tbh, if i do get one then fine if i dont then fine

Mmmm you look lovely xx"

Nice shoe

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I havnt met in over a year,and im not that bothered tbh, if i do get one then fine if i dont then fine

Mmmm you look lovely xx

Nice shoe

Thanks xxx

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"How are you ment to meet people if nobody reads your messages? "

Clubs

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !

..."

That sums it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !

...

That sums it up.

I dont think that?

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !

...

That sums it up.

I dont think that?"

Because you are a gentleman.

I'm not a lady

Fancy a fuck?

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !

...

That sums it up.

I dont think that?

Because you are a gentleman.

I'm not a lady

Fancy a fuck?

MrsSB

Think i'll let you're heal first dont want you hopping around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !

...

That sums it up.

I dont think that?

Because you are a gentleman.

I'm not a lady

Fancy a fuck?

MrsSB

Think i'll let you're heal first dont want you hopping around"

Toe*

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !

...

That sums it up.

I dont think that?

Because you are a gentleman.

I'm not a lady

Fancy a fuck?

MrsSB

Think i'll let you're heal first dont want you hopping around

Toe*"

Siiii

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I havnt met in over a year,and im not that bothered tbh, if i do get one then fine if i dont then fine

Mmmm you look lovely xx

Nice shoe

Smooth

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"You could try improving your grammar , seriously ....."

Exactly this ... I never respond to anyone who cannot spell simple words and use them in the correct context ... its just rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I havnt met in over a year,and im not that bothered tbh, if i do get one then fine if i dont then fine

Mmmm you look lovely xx

Nice shoe

Smooth

Cant beat a nice shoe pic

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By *hoco DMan
over a year ago

Clapham

"How are you ment to meet people if nobody reads your messages? "

Go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've had 2 meets in 7 weeks

That's pretty good going for a newbie single male

It should be you giving the advice out, not asking for it ...

Really 2 meets in 7 weeks is rubbish just seems every1 u talk to have atleast 11 meets in less the. That. How do they do it? "

I think, if anything, you are ahead of the game.

Most single guys struggle to get anywhere until they lose the expectation (and sometimes the entitlement) that they join with.

Those with large numbers of meets in a short period are exceptional cases who, as someone else has said, are likely to be mostly re verified as opposed to newly verified.

Besides, for many, swinging is not a numbers game, it is a lifestyle choice.

Just chill and enjoy

If you make it a quest, you're inevitably going to find more disappointment than you are fun.

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