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The TIme Wasting Lament

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh woe is me

I must complain

For I have been

Stood up again

I called a sub

From off the bench

He couldn't cope

With this much wench

Trying to make light of it but oooh I could spit tacks ! Once again, 6 times in 3 weeks in fact, I have been let down by guys who message repeatedly saying "Oh can't wait" and "soon .. counting days" etc etc

Come the day, cometh NOT the man ..

They go AWOL on here. One even blocked me this morning then messaged me later to demand I call him.

It's not just the women !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So pathetic, I would turn up a day early for a meet with you and camp out until it's time

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"So pathetic, I would turn up a day early for a meet with you and camp out until it's time "

Yeah....loads of them say that too. But when you say "cool meet me at the club ".....Nada. zilch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So pathetic, I would turn up a day early for a meet with you and camp out until it's time

Yeah....loads of them say that too. But when you say "cool meet me at the club ".....Nada. zilch. "

That's a valid point, maybe the pressure gets to some guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah know how this feels had it happen to me Saturday night, arranged a babysitter and everything. It's so annoying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

6 times in 3 weeks tNough

I need a sense of humour makeover, a shoulder rub and a good seein to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 times in 3 weeks is a very high number. Obviously I don't know your personal situation OP but how stringent are your vetting procedures - all highly verified people?

Once is unfortunate, twice is bad but six times in 3 weeks suggests that something is amiss - good luck going forwards and I hope that thins pick up for you

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Bloody hell that's not good!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"So pathetic, I would turn up a day early for a meet with you and camp out until it's time

Yeah....loads of them say that too. But when you say "cool meet me at the club ".....Nada. zilch.

That's a valid point, maybe the pressure gets to some guys."

Yeah it's such a pressure being offered sex with beautiful women isn't it ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm....me thinks you need a change of tact, that's a lot of no shows!

I probably spend more time than most chatting on / off here before meeting, getting to know the person (I do the occasional spontaneous meet) and never have been stood up, yet

Have a think, see if you can do anything different.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It amazes me.

The amount of guys that post about not being able to meet anyone.

Then there's dicks that arrange meets with quite clearly beautiful ladies and they don't turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me Friday, first time in three years on fab. I made the mistake of arranging to meet someone unverified who's been here a year but his excuse sounded legit. Should have gone with my gut. Luckily it was a social and only cost an overpriced coffee at Costa and slight annoyance. Lesson learned, blocked and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

they were verified and I had been chatting a few weeks. One .. the one who blocked me had been chatting for a couple of months and he had been messaging saying how much he was looking forward to meeting me.

Yesterday evening he came on here, having unblocked me and got quite stroppy because I hadn't phoned him. I didn't phone because it might've got him into trouble..at the time, I didn't know what was going on with the block. One guy suffers from bi polar disorder (I have now discovered) and I caught him at down moments twice over. I have every sympathy for him but haven't got the time to manage his issues.

I do on the other hand have repeat meets with two or three lovely lovely guys. Maybe I shouldn't be greedy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they were verified and I had been chatting a few weeks. One .. the one who blocked me had been chatting for a couple of months and he had been messaging saying how much he was looking forward to meeting me.

Yesterday evening he came on here, having unblocked me and got quite stroppy because I hadn't phoned him. I didn't phone because it might've got him into trouble..at the time, I didn't know what was going on with the block. One guy suffers from bi polar disorder (I have now discovered) and I caught him at down moments twice over. I have every sympathy for him but haven't got the time to manage his issues.

I do on the other hand have repeat meets with two or three lovely lovely guys. Maybe I shouldn't be greedy ? "

You might want to cut down the time from initial contact to meeting in person.. That might help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's not always possible .. I am running a waiting list as my time is so limited It's not me being a Diva .. I genuinely only get two afternoon slots per week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not always possible .. I am running a waiting list as my time is so limited It's not me being a Diva .. I genuinely only get two afternoon slots per week.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"they were verified and I had been chatting a few weeks. One .. the one who blocked me had been chatting for a couple of months and he had been messaging saying how much he was looking forward to meeting me.

Yesterday evening he came on here, having unblocked me and got quite stroppy because I hadn't phoned him. I didn't phone because it might've got him into trouble..at the time, I didn't know what was going on with the block. One guy suffers from bi polar disorder (I have now discovered) and I caught him at down moments twice over. I have every sympathy for him but haven't got the time to manage his issues.

I do on the other hand have repeat meets with two or three lovely lovely guys. Maybe I shouldn't be greedy ?

You might want to cut down the time from initial contact to meeting in person.. That might help "

I concur.

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