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Is it luck or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not)

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not) "

No you just need boobs, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not) "

I use a magic 8 ball if that helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not)

No you just need boobs, sorry! "

That's probably true XXX

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

I don't think luck has anything to do with it, good profile, respectful messages and not being a dick are the most important things i think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not)

No you just need boobs, sorry! "
what a way to kill my hopes eh haha

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not)

No you just need boobs, sorry! what a way to kill my hopes eh haha "

There's a million threads on 'How to improve your profile' - check some of them out, you've a snowballs chance with one line and a cock shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think luck has anything to do with it, good profile, respectful messages and not being a dick are the most important things i think."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not) "

It's not just luck its photos profile and messaging....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not) "

Luck? yes..

Does your face fit? Yes..

Sheer hard work and dogged determination? Yes...

Definitely all of the above and then some!!

Don't forget you are in the minority so you really have to sell yourself...

So with all that in mind... Good luck

You're gonna need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously dude, magic eight ball, mine has 20 answers, I give it a good shake (f'nar) prior to any discourse on the site, works for me...

1. It is certain

2. It is decidedly so

3. Without a doubt

4. Yes, definitely

5. You may rely on it

6. As I see it, yes

7. Most likely

8. Outlook good

9. Yes

10. Signs point to yes

11. Reply hazy try again

12. Ask again later

13. Better not tell you now

14. Cannot predict now

15. Concentrate and ask again

16. Don't count on it

17. My reply is no

18. My sources say no

19. Outlook not so good

20. Very doubtful

I seem to get a lot of 11's but meh.... I see that as a "Yes" in waiting.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I wish it was luck. I have to work hard to get a bloke interested.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

some men on here seem to have good luck on here not sure what their secret is though, maybe they know how to say all the right things to impress the ladies.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It generally thought to be unlucky to have just a cock pic

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Chat in the forums to people who actually interest you, rather than those you think might shag you!

The mutual attraction of interests may then lead further and if it doesn't, don't worry!

Boobs do help, as mentioned previously

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

I'm not sure if a single line profile and a cock shot is helping either

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

1. If you obsess about it, you get desperate.

2. If this is the only place you go to to get laid, then you need to be prepared to wait

3. Not luck

4. Just participate . Be sane ( well slightly on the sane side of crazy at least )

5. You might find they come to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not)

Luck? yes..

Does your face fit? Yes..

Sheer hard work and dogged determination? Yes...

Definitely all of the above and then some!!

Don't forget you are in the minority so you really have to sell yourself...

So with all that in mind... Good luck

You're gonna need it "

I can't put face pictures on due to work, but have got some private for anyone who requests, i will put the effort in and see if the outcome produces

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not)

No you just need boobs, sorry! "

I'm not into manboobs though

MrsSB

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not)

No you just need boobs, sorry! "

Hahaha

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

Definitely add more to your profile. In my mind a lazy profile could indicate a lazy lover. All you need to do is take like five minutes to write a bit about what you look for in meets.

Also pictures don't have to be just your face or your cock. Take a quick look at some of the gents who tend to post in the forums as many of them have a great selection of pics.

I have a big imagination so I love to see pictures and read profiles so I can fantasise about possible meets

Oh and get one a webcam or something. A lot of people look for verifications.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not) "

Depends what you term as luck ??.

You'll need to have the other person(s) find you attractive,

You'll need social skills

You'll need to be able to accept rejection

If you've none of these no amount of luck will help.

Have fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone finds the answer will they please let me know haha

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

You probably need a certain level of luck to get anywhere in life, but I think if you knuckle down and put in the effort you will be rewarded. If nothing else, I've come to realise you really have to raise your game around here if you're to succeed. It's not exactly a level playing field on here like it is in every day life. It just tends to take time that's all. Plus a lot depends on what you actually want from the site. Everyone's looking for different things.

The bottomline is if you don't have a vagina to hand and/or you're not into shagging blokes, the going will be sloooowww. You're going to need the patience of a saint. Remember none of us are perfect. Work on improving yourself. Spend your time being the best you that you can be. I wouldn't get too hung-up on it all. After all it's only a website.

All the things that women like to see in a man in real life they like to see on Fab...

Be respectful.

Don't act like a penis on legs.

Be funny and witty.

Be pleasant and charming.

Don't come across as a total desperado.

Be true to yourself.

Be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, men have to be lucky, whilst women can select who they want lol.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Yes, men have to be lucky, whilst women can select who they want lol."

Then we're lucky if they turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not)

Luck? yes..

Does your face fit? Yes..

Sheer hard work and dogged determination? Yes...

Definitely all of the above and then some!!

Don't forget you are in the minority so you really have to sell yourself...

So with all that in mind... Good luck

You're gonna need it

I can't put face pictures on due to work, but have got some private for anyone who requests, i will put the effort in and see if the outcome produces "

No one is asking you to post your face pic... However 1 cock pic never worked very well for anyone...

That's not what we mean by standing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, men have to be lucky, whilst women can select who they want lol.

Then we're lucky if they turn up!"
That is right, but then women might have 5 others in the queue, so they have better chance one of them to turn up.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"do you have to have a certain level of luck to get somewhere on this site lol. Or is it just me (hope not) "

Of course there's a certain amount of luck. There needs to be someone who's preferences are compatible with yourself who's not too far away and is free when you are. Then you've got to make contact at just the right time when they're in the mood, and they're not wading through 100s of other messages... and they've got to like your choice of opening line.

And this is just to get a reply.

This is the same for everyone though. We all have the same challenges, just to different degrees.

Cal

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