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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!

Anyone have any other pet hates?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Personally my pet hate is repeat messages cause you ignored or just haven't read the first one yet!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!

Anyone have any other pet hates?"

Being called babe , hun, sweetie, darling etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being called stunning. What's wrong with you, woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha! Literally just received a "stunning babes!" message

It's just people who don't read profiles that bother me. If you can put in 3 minutes of effort reading about someone I think it speaks volumes about the effort you'd make between the sheets haha

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It doesn't annoy me. It's quite useful as a language tool since it tells me that they haven't even bothered to look at my pics since I have no face pic on display (let alone read my profile), which then leads me to think it's a scattergun copy and paste message and can be ignored with impunity.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley


"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back."

I get them too. Sometimes I ask how they manage to tell from just a nipple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally my pet hate is repeat messages cause you ignored or just haven't read the first one yet! "

Oh yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most messages that used to bother me don't anymore. I just stopped caring in general.

Although the ones saying how gorgeous I am when they've never seen my face do make me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back.

I get them too. Sometimes I ask how they manage to tell from just a nipple!"

You'd be surprised at what you can discern from a nipple.

It's a gift that very few men possess.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back.

I get them too. Sometimes I ask how they manage to tell from just a nipple!

You'd be surprised at what you can discern from a nipple.

It's a gift that very few men possess. "

Is it like reading braille?!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I think some of the women on here are suffering a serious case of compliment overload.

You don't need to see a woman's face to think she looks attractive. A good body pic, nice arse or great chest can all be enough. Ok the face can be the topping on the cake (or not sometimes) but a guy can still be stunned by the others.

As for the OP, having looked at your 2 pics I think you do look pretty dam attractive, if I ever get to see your face that may make me think you're even more beautiful or possibly not. But what I can see does look pretty stunning to me. Whether others are bullshiting or not, doing a scatter gun copy & paste, I don't know and don't really care. Not every compliment is said by every guy just to get a girls nickers off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back.

I get them too. Sometimes I ask how they manage to tell from just a nipple!

You'd be surprised at what you can discern from a nipple.

It's a gift that very few men possess.

Is it like reading braille?! "

More like palm reading once we have read them we can tell a ladies future.....well her immediate future. It involves a man and sex.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Personally not keen on being addressed as hun or babe and quite frankly neither is the good lady..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've been here too long as it really doesn't bother me anymore what people say I'm opening line.

I like the word stunning if it's used in the right context, can make me feel like a million dollars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez I can't type!!

* in an opening line not I'm!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally my pet hate is repeat messages cause you ignored or just haven't read the first one yet! "

.... One guy mailed me the same message three time yday & another msg twice today. Wish he wld take the bloody hint I am not interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate is a message that simply says Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm and nothing else

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton


"Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!

Anyone have any other pet hates?"

So as one of those foolish men who sometimes outs the word stunning in a message. How would you describe yourself if you were me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez I can't type!!

* in an opening line not I'm!!

"

You're just out of practice

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton


"My pet hate is a message that simply says Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm and nothing else "

Ohhhhhhh mmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello all you stunning ladies lol

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Personally my pet hate is repeat messages cause you ignored or just haven't read the first one yet!

.... One guy mailed me the same message three time yday & another msg twice today. Wish he wld take the bloody hint I am not interested x"

They're the ones that get blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saving me the hassle of individually messaging you one by one, please consider this post as a personal message to each and every one of the ladies on this thread.

Mmmmmmmmm

babes You are stunningly awesome and well hot.

It's like you is one of a kind hun.

Gorgeously stunning photos darling

Fancy a fuck bae?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saving me the hassle of individually messaging you one by one, please consider this post as a personal message to each and every one of the ladies on this thread.

Mmmmmmmmm

babes You are stunningly awesome and well hot.

It's like you is one of a kind hun.

Gorgeously stunning photos darling

Fancy a fuck bae?"

Oh, I just came

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it when a guy practically begs even after you've said no enough times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate it when a guy practically begs even after you've said no enough times "

Then adds how he will "pay". Getting that a lot lately

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey


"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back."
no offence and you seem like a nice person . But if you don't mind me poitely asking , why only the one photo from the back ? Your posts are usually self deprecating about fabs or messages , yet only the one back view seems to be on view . Genuinely enquiring and not having a pop .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saving me the hassle of individually messaging you one by one, please consider this post as a personal message to each and every one of the ladies on this thread.

Mmmmmmmmm

babes You are stunningly awesome and well hot.

It's like you is one of a kind hun.

Gorgeously stunning photos darling

Fancy a fuck bae?

Oh, I just came "

I was worried the message might be to much to handle. I'll reward and tone it down in the future. What pushed you over the edge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of the women on here are suffering a serious case of compliment overload.

You don't need to see a woman's face to think she looks attractive. A good body pic, nice arse or great chest can all be enough. Ok the face can be the topping on the cake (or not sometimes) but a guy can still be stunned by the others.

As for the OP, having looked at your 2 pics I think you do look pretty dam attractive, if I ever get to see your face that may make me think you're even more beautiful or possibly not. But what I can see does look pretty stunning to me. Whether others are bullshiting or not, doing a scatter gun copy & paste, I don't know and don't really care. Not every compliment is said by every guy just to get a girls nickers off."

What about a foot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate it when a guy practically begs even after you've said no enough times

Then adds how he will "pay". Getting that a lot lately "

Lol - the one tonight didn't offer a payment (although have had that before) just kept asking and I kept saying no then said meet me for a drink and let me show you

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Hi, how are you, mmmmmm, stunning, love to lick you, how are you find the site? meet now? and the like used to bother me.

Now it's a great filter

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 13/06/16 02:22:38]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, how are you, mmmmmm, stunning, love to lick you, how are you find the site? meet now? "

That's pretty much my opening mail to most ladies on here, can't see the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back."

Oh and here was me thinking they were just saying that to me!!

I'm gorgeous, sexy, well hot, fit as...... Which is flattering considering I've a face like a slapped arse lol

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

In defence of men, stunning doesn't solely apply to a woman's face. Her body can be stunning too. I tend to use beautiful if I see a face I like but I'd use stunning if she has a body I'd like to explore.

Cut us some slack, all compliments are good aren't they?

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

I don't mind word stunning as alway get told how stunning I look in pic.but other words babes hun don't like much.take stunning as compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally my pet hate is repeat messages cause you ignored or just haven't read the first one yet! "

Yep this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you get WOW in an opening message- really !!!??? especially when they say it about both of us when he isnt on show -

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back. no offence and you seem like a nice person . But if you don't mind me poitely asking , why only the one photo from the back ? Your posts are usually self deprecating about fabs or messages , yet only the one back view seems to be on view . Genuinely enquiring and not having a pop . "

Because thats the picture I want on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!

Anyone have any other pet hates?

Being called babe , hun, sweetie, darling etc "

Agree with this especially as we are a couple

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By *albec26Man
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Stunning is fine in my book but its those opening messages that are more like an essay or a copy and paste jobbie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh I like that word Will never get bored with it

Yet when they say 'You're best looking girl on here' I'm like 'wtf?! Just on here?! Not in the whole world Piss off '

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Somebody send me 1 and I'll let you know...... no I don't mean a sodding bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being called stunning. What's wrong with you, woman? "

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Ohhh I like that word Will never get bored with it

Yet when they say 'You're best looking girl on here' I'm like 'wtf?! Just on here?! Not in the whole world Piss off '

"

But they told me that too!

**goes for quiet cry in the corner**!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh I like that word Will never get bored with it

Yet when they say 'You're best looking girl on here' I'm like 'wtf?! Just on here?! Not in the whole world Piss off '

But they told me that too!

**goes for quiet cry in the corner**!

"

But men don't lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saving me the hassle of individually messaging you one by one, please consider this post as a personal message to each and every one of the ladies on this thread.

Mmmmmmmmm

babes You are stunningly awesome and well hot.

It's like you is one of a kind hun.

Gorgeously stunning photos darling

Fancy a fuck bae?

Oh, I just came

I was worried the message might be to much to handle. I'll reward and tone it down in the future. What pushed you over the edge?"

It was the "babes you are stunningly awesome" bit. Just poetic.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Ohhh I like that word Will never get bored with it

Yet when they say 'You're best looking girl on here' I'm like 'wtf?! Just on here?! Not in the whole world Piss off '

But they told me that too!

**goes for quiet cry in the corner**!

But men don't lie "

They have rulers and measuring tapes that do though.....

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By *orksfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!

Anyone have any other pet hates?"

Stunning boobs tho xxx lol

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

The Hi Babe" one that's bloody annoying..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have rulers and measuring tapes that do though..... "

I knew it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Job interview messages.... cheer up its FUN!!!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

The 'have you ever modeled?' Seriously get a grip....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I don't mind what men put in their opening message as long as there's at least one word with more than one syllable so I can see they have a functioning brain!

Any woman who's been on the site more than a week should be immune to the bullshit compliments by now!

As long as the message isn't terrible, it's the face and torso pics along with the profile that will decide my interest/lack of! Pet names don't bother me either - I use them a lot myself!

I think we're hard on single guys on this site though - I'm sure most spent ages reading profiles and composing original messages at first - only to have 99% ignored or deleted unread! Perhaps we should empathise rather than criticise? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

Also comments like "we seem to be well matched". Eh? How can you tell!, or one "are you into Funboy three!". I mean who the hell are they meant to be!!!! Ha ha!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"To be honest I don't mind what men put in their opening message as long as there's at least one word with more than one syllable so I can see they have a functioning brain!

Any woman who's been on the site more than a week should be immune to the bullshit compliments by now!

As long as the message isn't terrible, it's the face and torso pics along with the profile that will decide my interest/lack of! Pet names don't bother me either - I use them a lot myself!

I think we're hard on single guys on this site though - I'm sure most spent ages reading profiles and composing original messages at first - only to have 99% ignored or deleted unread! Perhaps we should empathise rather than criticise? Xx"

a balanced and well thought out post..

the web and dating and this aspect has brought new aspects to how we communicate, suppose with time it will be the norm...

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I think some of the women on here are suffering a serious case of compliment overload.

You don't need to see a woman's face to think she looks attractive. A good body pic, nice arse or great chest can all be enough. Ok the face can be the topping on the cake (or not sometimes) but a guy can still be stunned by the others.

As for the OP, having looked at your 2 pics I think you do look pretty dam attractive, if I ever get to see your face that may make me think you're even more beautiful or possibly not. But what I can see does look pretty stunning to me. Whether others are bullshiting or not, doing a scatter gun copy & paste, I don't know and don't really care. Not every compliment is said by every guy just to get a girls nickers off.

What about a foot? "

For me especially, that can work to. However your food shot is a little too glaring with the bright light hiding most of the detail, so difficult to tell how sexy, stunning or hot those feet actually are. But you do look pretty nice in the office pic.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"In defence of men, stunning doesn't solely apply to a woman's face. Her body can be stunning too. I tend to use beautiful if I see a face I like but I'd use stunning if she has a body I'd like to explore.

Cut us some slack, all compliments are good aren't they? "

Nice to find I can agree with you on something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It amazes me when people say can we meet without seeing your fAces. Personally we have to see faces have to be attracted by this not just by bodies. Maybe we are too fussy

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest


"I love being called stunning. What's wrong with you, woman? "

You are stunning x

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest


"To be honest I don't mind what men put in their opening message as long as there's at least one word with more than one syllable so I can see they have a functioning brain!

Any woman who's been on the site more than a week should be immune to the bullshit compliments by now!

Well said x

As long as the message isn't terrible, it's the face and torso pics along with the profile that will decide my interest/lack of! Pet names don't bother me either - I use them a lot myself!

I think we're hard on single guys on this site though - I'm sure most spent ages reading profiles and composing original messages at first - only to have 99% ignored or deleted unread! Perhaps we should empathise rather than criticise? Xx"

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Ohhh I like that word Will never get bored with it

Yet when they say 'You're best looking girl on here' I'm like 'wtf?! Just on here?! Not in the whole world Piss off '

But they told me that too!

**goes for quiet cry in the corner**!

But men don't lie

They have rulers and measuring tapes that do though..... "

And mini-sized sky remotes.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I think some of the women on here are suffering a serious case of compliment overload.

You don't need to see a woman's face to think she looks attractive. A good body pic, nice arse or great chest can all be enough. Ok the face can be the topping on the cake (or not sometimes) but a guy can still be stunned by the others.

As for the OP, having looked at your 2 pics I think you do look pretty dam attractive, if I ever get to see your face that may make me think you're even more beautiful or possibly not. But what I can see does look pretty stunning to me. Whether others are bullshiting or not, doing a scatter gun copy & paste, I don't know and don't really care. Not every compliment is said by every guy just to get a girls nickers off.

What about a foot?

"

For me especially, that can work to. However your food shot is a little too glaring with the bright light hiding most of the detail, so difficult to tell how sexy, stunning or hot those feet actually are. But you do look pretty nice in the other pic.

Office grrr

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