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whats your first experience at a swinging club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm new to the scene and found out there is a club very local to me, but nervous about going so what was your first experience like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to be 21 to attend one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some clubs have a 21 policy, ring before going to double check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think your very brave to go to a club alone at 18, not many people your age would have the balls

the first time i went to a club i stood outside in the car park for an hour talking myself into it before turning round and going home so good on you

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Ours was awesome, met some great people and woke up next day exhausted but smiling like hell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh i didn't know that, doesn't say anything on the website but I will ring up and make sure, Thankyou!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I was lucky to go with a couple that I met thru here so I guess it was maybe a little less daunting. Still though there was nothing really to be concerned about, I found people there to be friendly (especially the staff) and going to a club was definitely an experience I'm glad to have had.

Just go with the right attitude and make sure you make the effort to instigate conversations, you will be fine on your own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I would prefer find someone to go with first time, I'm a bit shy at first haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't impressed tbh...

Underwhelmed I would say

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I was scared shitless. I had no idea that sort of thing went on.

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By *evon DelightCouple
over a year ago

A town in Devon

We went to Amsterdam. De Showboat.

What am amazing experience. It was the springboard we needed.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Ours can only be described as "rabbits in headlights" and several visits more since we're slowly (but surely) moving on from that

Just go with no expectations of anything happening, be prepared to chat, and show respect, to people and take no to mean no and you'll be fine. Although as others have said, check age restrictions first.

Mr G

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I went with a few lovlies off here and had a great time. I'm sure I would of gone eventually on my own but I didn't know such places existed when I was your age

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"I think I would prefer find someone to go with first time, I'm a bit shy at first haha"

In that case maybe check out the club ads page if the forum and find an event that you want to attend. Some organisers publish the guest lists so you could message and get chatting to a few people so you'll know someone to chat to beforehand.

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

I have had some amazing experiences in swinging clubs. Go for it and enjoy yourself. You'll never look back.

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Hi man and I know it sounds hard but I would say go on your own I did it and it's so much better it forces you to get to know others and talk rather then sitting with some one just talking. One thing I beg of you your young yes and that's fine just please don't be like most 18 year olds(I have seen) who go in the act like children or as if it's a whore house or put on the swag and ten men walk and talk. Anyway that's enough of me bitching best of luck to you

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