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By *ilmissplumpy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

As a single lady i'd love it if all the messages flowed like they do with Outlook when bandying messages back and forth. So much easier to back track & read all the conversations...

What would you improve or like to see changed?

LMN xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

If you are a site supporters they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple categories for males, so as we don't all have to all be lumped in with the losers.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

To be able to be invisible when I'm logged into Fab.

To have a 'guys you should meet' (tailored to my likes of course) list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the only reason I pay for site supporter because I tend to forget what I've said who to its easier getting a list of back messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like a heart next to the names of who I've hotlisted for when they message me so I don't have to check my list all the time. xxx

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Can open.....Worms......Everywhere....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter what you ask for - it won't get done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an arsehole list

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

A 'Thanks but no thanks' option, instead of just reply or delete.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Better search facilities

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

A 'who wants to fuck me' text message alert when I'm within 20 metres would be handy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be able to be invisible when I'm logged into Fab.

To have a 'guys you should meet' (tailored to my likes of course) list."

This

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"A 'Thanks but no thanks' option, instead of just reply or delete."

They'd probably bitch about that, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To have a 'guys you should meet' (tailored to my likes of course) list."

That's actually a really good idea, rather like Youtubes 'recommended for you' videos based upon what you've been watching - only in this case, it's based on the ones on your hotlist, and who you've been messaging

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

If I could just add to my earlier request.... not when I'm in a Turkish sauna. Ta.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"A 'Thanks but no thanks' option, instead of just reply or delete.

They'd probably bitch about that, too."

There used to be one, but apparently it just annoyed people.

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Greater search criteria. Perhaps an ability to search by ethnicity, sexual preferences, height?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 'Thanks but no thanks' option, instead of just reply or delete."

That would make so many guys, myself included, very happy

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Something that auto-routes any of the following forum posts to a single giant rolling thread (that can then be hidden if you want) for each category:

- Profile critique requests

- Posts bemoaning lack of meets

- Squirting threads that have drifted into the is it/isn't it pee debate

Am sure there are a few more that I've forgotten too - only problem would be there'd be barely any threads left!!

Mr G

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

I'd love an actual app, but it know that'd be costly and also end up useless because of content blocks but in a perfect world...otherwise, seems like it works well for us.

Sassy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 'Thanks but no thanks' option, instead of just reply or delete.

"

if they did this i would reply to all my mail

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Doesn't matter what you ask for - it won't get done. "

lots of improvements have happened over the years that i have been on here. they may not be the improvements you specifically wanted but admin do look at suggestions and work on ways to make things better.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'd love an actual app, but it know that'd be costly and also end up useless because of content blocks but in a perfect world...otherwise, seems like it works well for us.

Sassy"

i have never seen any real arguement as to why an app would be a good idea personally. the mobile site works well and you can get notifications when you get emails sent to your phone now. just set a shortcut on your phone and you essentially have an app.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 'Thanks but no thanks' option, instead of just reply or delete.

if they did this i would reply to all my mail "

I still wouldn't.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

A face/palm emoji

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"I'd love an actual app, but it know that'd be costly and also end up useless because of content blocks but in a perfect world...otherwise, seems like it works well for us.

Sassy

i have never seen any real arguement as to why an app would be a good idea personally. the mobile site works well and you can get notifications when you get emails sent to your phone now. just set a shortcut on your phone and you essentially have an app."

I do have the short cut, as well as making sure the emails come to my inbox rather than junk. It works fine, I think I may just be so used to the app/fbook culter that I want an app for everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it so single men can't message women first.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"I'd love an actual app, but it know that'd be costly and also end up useless because of content blocks but in a perfect world...otherwise, seems like it works well for us.

Sassy

i have never seen any real arguement as to why an app would be a good idea personally. the mobile site works well and you can get notifications when you get emails sent to your phone now. just set a shortcut on your phone and you essentially have an app.

I do have the short cut, as well as making sure the emails come to my inbox rather than junk. It works fine, I think I may just be so used to the app/fbook culter that I want an app for everything "

Culture even!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first. "

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'd love an actual app, but it know that'd be costly and also end up useless because of content blocks but in a perfect world...otherwise, seems like it works well for us.

Sassy

i have never seen any real arguement as to why an app would be a good idea personally. the mobile site works well and you can get notifications when you get emails sent to your phone now. just set a shortcut on your phone and you essentially have an app.

I do have the short cut, as well as making sure the emails come to my inbox rather than junk. It works fine, I think I may just be so used to the app/fbook culter that I want an app for everything "

you can set it up on most smart phones these days and the notifications are push notifications that show in your notification bar. also, you can tell your email app to put the emails from fab into your normal inbox not your junk.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Make it so single men can't message women first. "

Blimey, you mean I'd have to make an effort?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

sorry, read that as you dont have the shortcut.....ignore the first bit

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"A face/palm emoji "

A head/wall emoji.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature."

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

Blimey, you mean I'd have to make an effort? "

I'm afraid so.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

admin to buy a map

so the areas could be trimmed down to be a bit (lot) more realistic

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

To have a search option by county not some indiatinvt area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas."

But the world does revolve around mine sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abiluty ti mark a comtact as HIT which would mean any of their messages fo to the top of your message list no matter when they sent them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^excuse the typos ive been boozing all day.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

Blimey, you mean I'd have to make an effort?

I'm afraid so."

But that means more of my messages going deleted unread and then I'd have to start posting 'why won't people reply?' posts on the forum. Is it worth it? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Abiluty ti mark a comtact as HIT which would mean any of their messages fo to the top of your message list no matter when they sent them."

A translator to English button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas.

But the world does revolve around mine sweetie "

Only because of the gravity field your ass produces! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 'Thanks but no thanks' option, instead of just reply or delete.

if they did this i would reply to all my mail "

We wouldn't,why would we want to thank someone for messaging us who hasn't read our profile.

I would like to see more filters so people you are not looking for can't contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do women read all their messages?

I dont know im d*unk of real ale again

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"admin to buy a map

so the areas could be trimmed down to be a bit (lot) more realistic

"

Everybody knows that the East Midlands is only slightly smaller than Asia

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By *ilmissplumpy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"If you are a site supporters they do"

I am a site supporter and they don't

xx

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By *ilmissplumpy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas."

Believe me there is no world revolving around my vagina... That would be one big f*** off world...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"If you are a site supporters they do

I am a site supporter and they don't

xx"

i just checked....they do....when i open a message from someone i have been chatting to the conversation chain shows below that message.

If they then start another conversation chain then that doesnt show on the original one.

is that not what was meant?

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas."

Have had similar thoughts to this surely it would cut out most complaints from here if men could only message someone who messaged or winked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas.

Have had similar thoughts to this surely it would cut out most complaints from here if men could only message someone who messaged or winked them "

Of course it would, it's a no brainer.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

thought of one.....being told why your threads get deleted, especially if you cannot see that you broke any rules with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Accounts with no verifications after 2 months removed.

2. Forum posters must have visible profiles (nothing worse than a hidden keyboard warrior)

3. One club review per club per year per profile (may cut down on the repeat "best club ever" nonsense)

4. Swinging events in date order

5. Multiple profiles run by individuals & clubs removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if you save meassages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice when you look at new people profiles, only come up with local area

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Better mail system - all new messages under one header for each contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To refine what you are searching for a bit more. Like set different age restrictions for a gender. I'm happy to meet women 57 and younger, but men I prefer under 36. And also a way to red flag someone if you are suspiscious of them but have no proof to warrent a report

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By *litheroevoyeurMan
over a year ago

Clitheroe


"Doesn't matter what you ask for - it won't get done. "

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

It would be good when you do a browse of people when there is a list it also lists your private notes so you can see what you have put. We have in the past not blocked someone but not really interested in them. Then when we click the profile not remembering who they are they think we are interested because we looked at them. Also have more then one hotlist. We run events and it is nice to have a "I would like to be messaged at next event" as we try not to use forums too much as there are people who do troll some members of a list. Not fair to put people in the firing line if they join a forum by people saying "come to our event instead of theirs lol". It is sad but happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A who wants to meet now for spontaneous meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reading the forums id have thought the num one would be ... the ability to make everyone else re arrange and re design their profile to suit your own requirements

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"A who wants to meet now for spontaneous meets "

Mobile site already has that.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I'd like to see a split message inbox, one standard and one which prioritises messages from friends and hot lists so they don't get lost in the shuffle.

Also maybe you could get a notification if someone you have hotlisted puts you on their hot list.

Also I'd like the ability to set the order of pictures on profile manually rather than by upload date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get more single females to join lol.. slim pickings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A teleportation button

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Some kind of limit on the amount of times the same picture can be uploaded on the same profile in a day

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Get more single females to join lol.. slim pickings "

Or any of the blazing saddles cast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single lady i'd love it if all the messages flowed like they do with Outlook when bandying messages back and forth. So much easier to back track & read all the conversations...

What would you improve or like to see changed?

LMN xx"

To comment on statuses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a better mailbox; it's too hard to manage mail on this site, but that won't ever change....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas.

Have had similar thoughts to this surely it would cut out most complaints from here if men could only message someone who messaged or winked them

Of course it would, it's a no brainer."

But then it would be like POF (I was on that website a couple of years ago, I was amazed at just how many messages you get, when YOU are in the minority lol).

But seriously; unverified profiles (that includes me folks), should not be able to message first or be limited to the number of messages they can send (first) per day; a wink or message removes that restriction for the winking/messaging profile.

I can't imagine anyone would complain about restricting the amount of messages a that unverified people can send FIRST. I also think that you should have the number of messages restricted if you are not photo-verified too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Notifications on the mobile site when someone replies to your comment on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age restrictions applying to both parts of a couple

Being able to turn off the ability to receive winks

Able to close your inbox to all but those on your friend list

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By *ilmissplumpy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature."

As above x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"To have a search option by county not some indiatinvt area. "

Meh....to have a search option by COUNTY not random REGION!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being able to see all messages you sent and read and not have them drop off the end of the page - with maybe a link to messages on a profile direct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face/palm emoji

A head/wall emoji."

A handbags emoji?

I think the latest Platinum members upgrade that allows us to view all of the friends only and private pics is fantastic. So many people look nothing like I expected them to

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas.

Have had similar thoughts to this surely it would cut out most complaints from here if men could only message someone who messaged or winked them

Of course it would, it's a no brainer."

Oh men would have to work harder on their profiles and still moan because they had no-one contacting them

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

County search Reading is not in the south west

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas.

Have had similar thoughts to this surely it would cut out most complaints from here if men could only message someone who messaged or winked them "

Um doesn't this option already exists for any women not wanting men to message them? The 'no men' filter ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of fab just saying someone messaged six months ago, could it have that message?

Same with if they don't use reply but send a fresh message, link them so the conversation shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it so single men can't message women first.

That doesn't appeal to my lazy nature.

Exactly. It would make women be proactive, rather than them sitting back thinking how the world revolves around their vaginas.

Have had similar thoughts to this surely it would cut out most complaints from here if men could only message someone who messaged or winked them

Um doesn't this option already exists for any women not wanting men to message them? The 'no men' filter .. "

Yes...but many don't use it because then they would receive no messages and how would they get an ego boost then?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"A 'Thanks but no thanks' option, instead of just reply or delete."

I'd love this, including the option to block at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A who wants to meet now button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think a who wants /can meet now

Button would work on here so if you fancied a spur of the moment meet you coul see who wants available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Have a platinum membership, only platinum members will know what benefits they will get after getting the membership.

Have a comments box on profiles, you can put a comment about a particular picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo verification must be done within an hour of joining and new users do not have access to the site until this is done.

Better mail services, ie a 2nd inbox for friends or people you regularly talk to so that their messages do not get buried by messages from other people.

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age."

How would you propose that would be administered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality filter...

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?"

And what would it achieve ( bearing in mind that a site like this would NEVER get a copy of any identification document of mine.)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Theda Uluru

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?"

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a shallow one but body type filter

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall


"As a single lady i'd love it if all the messages flowed like they do with Outlook when bandying messages back and forth. So much easier to back track & read all the conversations...

What would you improve or like to see changed?

LMN xx"

Hi that is a fantastic idea xx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

More options than just a hotlist, maybe a watch list, nice pic list, waiting for profile change list, Avoid at all costs list then you could actually use the hotlist & maybe have the option to ping a member who is on it to see if you are on theirs.

I know peeps are against the public hotlist as it is, They use them for different things, but if there were more options to put profiles in maybe the hotlist would go back to being used for its intended purpose?

And yeah I know it'll never happen too

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

And what would it achieve ( bearing in mind that a site like this would NEVER get a copy of any identification document of mine.)"

See that woman that says she is 25 but is actually 16, or the one that says she is 30 but is actually 40? And how many men lower there age because some women have age filters?

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number"

Which is all that is required for identity theft .

No fucking way.

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By *ornyJ30Man
over a year ago

Bath

I know it isn't a fetish site but i would add foot fetish to the list of interests

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number"

What if you don't drive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number

Which is all that is required for identity theft .

No fucking way."

When only admin can see it?

There is not much you can do with that info other than verify someone's age.

A fake profile can steal your images and name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number

What if you don't drive? "

Then something else that has your dob? Credit card details? Other sites use that for age verification

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

an IQ test 70+ for the men to join

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

If I cood add sumthing it wood be a alto ....sorrey but no thanks tab.... on all in box messages. So everyone can stop complaining thay don't have time to arnssar all Thar messages and everyone can get a arnsar to Thar message.

Everyone wins with this

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number

What if you don't drive?

Then something else that has your dob? Credit card details? Other sites use that for age verification"

I don't have a credit card (being pedantic now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number

What if you don't drive?

Then something else that has your dob? Credit card details? Other sites use that for age verification

I don't have a credit card (being pedantic now)"

Neither do I haha.

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By *eemCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Would like to see message history linked to profile page as we can never remember what we have chatted about!

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By *ave needsWoman
over a year ago

Moseley

I would be happy to message men if i didn't have to reply to the 20 emails i get most days. just don't have time sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who meet would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Separate inboxes for friends and randoms and message filters.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"To be able to be invisible when I'm logged into Fab."

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number

Which is all that is required for identity theft .

No fucking way.

When only admin can see it?

There is not much you can do with that info other than verify someone's age.

A fake profile can steal your images and name."

How fucking stupid do you have to be?

Stealing my images; and my username is of no danger to me whatsoever;

Having my driver license number,linked to my real name, available to be hacked off this site ( with all due respect to " admin" on here but I don't trust them to be able to keep those details secure. )

With a real name and a driver number, my identity can be copied; it can be used to get a bank account in my name, my address can be found; it would be possible to get access to my NI number, and once that was obtained, a duplicate of my birth certificate. And then a passport.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"How fucking stupid do you have to be?

Stealing my images; and my username is of no danger to me whatsoever;

Having my driver license number,linked to my real name, available to be hacked off this site ( with all due respect to " admin" on here but I don't trust them to be able to keep those details secure. )

With a real name and a driver number, my identity can be copied; it can be used to get a bank account in my name, my address can be found; it would be possible to get access to my NI number, and once that was obtained, a duplicate of my birth certificate. And then a passport."

^ correct.

Hack that and there'd be an English Ashley Madison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you open a profile and you notice the envelope indicating they have mailed you or you have mailed them at some point in the past, it would be good to be able to click that envelope and be taken to the messages you have exchanged before.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Things I don't like:

* Verifications are easy to fake

* it would be nice to reject verifications

* Crap inbox system

* can't shuffle pics around on profile

* I think profiles that haven't been activated for 6 mths? should be deleted

* Message filters are shit

* and then there are some other things I'd like to change but I'm not even sure if I can post them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be able to use the site without showing as being online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number

Which is all that is required for identity theft .

No fucking way.

When only admin can see it?

There is not much you can do with that info other than verify someone's age.

A fake profile can steal your images and name.

How fucking stupid do you have to be?

Stealing my images; and my username is of no danger to me whatsoever;

Having my driver license number,linked to my real name, available to be hacked off this site ( with all due respect to " admin" on here but I don't trust them to be able to keep those details secure. )

With a real name and a driver number, my identity can be copied; it can be used to get a bank account in my name, my address can be found; it would be possible to get access to my NI number, and once that was obtained, a duplicate of my birth certificate. And then a passport."

Think you need a chill pill, specially if your calling me stupid!

You do know your licence number is your date of birth?

And what your saying would involve the hacking of numerous organisations ie dvla among others.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"

Age checks, same as photo verification but with your driving licence or other proof of age.

How would you propose that would be administered?

Photocopy your driving licence but only showing your name and licence number

Which is all that is required for identity theft .

No fucking way.

When only admin can see it?

There is not much you can do with that info other than verify someone's age.

A fake profile can steal your images and name.

How fucking stupid do you have to be?

Stealing my images; and my username is of no danger to me whatsoever;

Having my driver license number,linked to my real name, available to be hacked off this site ( with all due respect to " admin" on here but I don't trust them to be able to keep those details secure. )

With a real name and a driver number, my identity can be copied; it can be used to get a bank account in my name, my address can be found; it would be possible to get access to my NI number, and once that was obtained, a duplicate of my birth certificate. And then a passport.

Think you need a chill pill, specially if your calling me stupid!

You do know your licence number is your date of birth?

And what your saying would involve the hacking of numerous organisations ie dvla among others."

Of course I know that my number is my birth day. Or part of the number is my birthday. ( well not anymore; I don't have a UK license now; I have a different one.)

Duh

With a driver number and name; you can get a duplicate license with no hacking required;

With a duplicate license you can get a bank account

A driving license is one of the documents that you can use to " prove identity" to get your NI number if you have lost it.

Those two can be used ( with name info, which can then trace birthplace) to obtain a duplicate birth certificate.

You can now get a passport .

Amongst other things the place I worked was working on how to lock down these ways of obtaining indentity by theft .

Its remarkably easy . With any one of those bits of info you can easily become someone else .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A delete facility with optional taster shot for those messages that doesn't quite cover it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Scary stuff, Monsieur Fox.....I for one don't want my identify cloned.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Unfortunately people don't take it seriously; not realize how easy it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a bi females section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums that include counties, would make networking so much better, people seem to enjoy getting involved in the forums, so such a shame you get the banter going and no one is local....localised forums would help this

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Have a Billy goat Gruff emoji that could be rumba up or down as an explication of positive negative posts

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Have a Billy goat Gruff emoji that could be rumba up or down as an explication of positive negative posts"

Even thumbed, in a non sexual way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Of course I know that my number is my birth day. Or part of the number is my birthday. ( well not anymore; I don't have a UK license now; I have a different one.)

Duh

With a driver number and name; you can get a duplicate license with no hacking required;

With a duplicate license you can get a bank account

A driving license is one of the documents that you can use to " prove identity" to get your NI number if you have lost it.

Those two can be used ( with name info, which can then trace birthplace) to obtain a duplicate birth certificate.

You can now get a passport .

Amongst other things the place I worked was working on how to lock down these ways of obtaining indentity by theft .

Its remarkably easy . With any one of those bits of info you can easily become someone else ."

And how do you get the other info to prove who you are to get a new licence to start with and that the licence needs a photo and will be sent to the address of the real person?

Also when you hire a vehicle and they copy your driving licence, or your insurance company has your details, does that mean they can just start dishing out fake driving licences etc.

Anyway this thread was for suggestions on what would you improve, they were my thoughts on the subject. I don't care on how stupid you may think I am, trust me I'm thinking worse of you.

There are lots of places that ask for info like that and store that info, my idea would not store your info but be used to just verify your age and then be deleted, your smart phone will probably have more info on you than them.

Enjoy your evening.

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By *playfulcouple OzCouple
over a year ago

Perth

I'd like a travel alert facility.. I live in Dubai but travel with work to different countries..on another site I'm on it flags up to people in that area (which I have uploaded dates and info on) that I will be in that area.

It works well and means that you get alerts in advance if someone is travelling to your area - and visa Versa you can place one post to say you're travelling and see what comes of it.

Basically you get an email alert to notify who is coming to your area... I like this a lot!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What about asking whether someone is cheating, so that users could filter in or out. I realise not everyone is honest, so may not answer honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things I don't like:

* Verifications are easy to fake

* it would be nice to reject verifications

* Crap inbox system

* can't shuffle pics around on profile

* I think profiles that haven't been activated for 6 mths? should be deleted

* Message filters are shit

* and then there are some other things I'd like to change but I'm not even sure if I can post them "

Agree to all this. I'm intrigued about what you won't post.

To add to this:

*to be be able opt out of showing online.

*if you are are on some one's hotlist, and you hotlist them, they get a notification, and vice versa. As long as there's the option to opt out of this of course, similar to the look at me.

*Message filters for sexual orientation - 'this couple won't accept messages from bi men'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's the option to search for people by county rather than region that I would like plus the option to search and block by sexuality, with more sexuality options.

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