FabSwingers.com forum: Not ugly!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you women get so many messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly lol

I'm in Kent if anyone wants to chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No picture wont be helping things for you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't get many messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always send my pic in with message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you women get so many messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly lol

I'm in Kent if anyone wants to chat x"

Yes I personally get too many to reply to all. I always look at the profile before I open a message. Your profile has no pics and nothing about you on it so unless the message was very good I doubt I would respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get many messages."

Neither do we.. its preference i guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got no pictures and say nothing about yourself. Why would they want to answer you?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I am ugly and I get loads

Sadly then I wake up but hey its nice while it lasts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Suppose yeah, I will have to update it

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"I don't get many messages."

Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would

MrsSB

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"Do you women get so many messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly lol

I'm in Kent if anyone wants to chat x

Same....no public pics then I delete

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

There's nothing of interest to us on your profile .... I would suspect people presume you don't make the effort, OP

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I don't get many messages.

Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would

MrsSB

Tart

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"I am ugly and I get loads

Sadly then I wake up but hey its nice while it lasts

That's mean .I message you all the time

Sad MrsSB

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"I don't get many messages.

Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would

MrsSB

Tart

Stating the obvious blady.

Btw I'm a strawberry tart. Thank you

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What should I write in my profile? I have to discreet that's why I don't have a pic

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I am ugly and I get loads

Sadly then I wake up but hey its nice while it lasts

That's mean .I message you all the time

Sad MrsSB

True. I take back the waking up bit I'm a stud

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't get many messages.

Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would

MrsSB

Well, I suspect one message more than usual.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I put in the same level of effort they do nowadays.

If their message is one or two words long and nothing on their profile /no pics then i will probably just delete.

If they make a short but polite message but I am not attracted to them then i send a short polite no thankyou.

If they put a lot of effort into writing to me and I still don't feel attracted to them or that they are what I seek... then I will put effort into a slighter longer message thanking them but with my apologies etc...

If someone writes to me and has obviously not read my profile because they are the total opposite of my stated preferences then i just delete with no reply.

Any stupidity /rudeness is blocked.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"I don't get many messages.

Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would

MrsSB

Well, I suspect one message more than usual.

I bet more than one

MrsSB

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By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

We get loads so at a quick glance we wouldn't respond to you, many others make so much more effort.

Princess xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't get many messages.

Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would

MrsSB

Well, I suspect one message more than usual.

I bet more than one

MrsSB

Most couples are hard work, and I'm not bi so seems pointless to me. I do have some couples on my friendslist though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I say ugly, I don't mean rough looking

I mean Arrrgghhh

the stranglers

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"What should I write in my profile? I have to discreet that's why I don't have a pic"

Why do you have to be discreet? Yes no pics, we would just pass you by too. You should write in your profile what you have to offer to your meets and what you would like from a meet.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Suppose yeah, I will have to update it"

Additionally your status says you are bored.

You have no pics

2 very brief lines on your profile that say nothing really.

Your status says you are bored.

I don't mean to be harsh...but truthfully. ...you come across as lazy......and bored = boring! Sorry!

Even those of us with photos and lengthy profiles struggle sometimes. There are a LOT of women on here and a fair number of men! You have no chance with a profile like that. Sorry but you want the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always send my pic in with message "

Send me a typical message that you send.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"We get loads so at a quick glance we wouldn't respond to you, many others make so much more effort.

Princess xx"

Case proved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am ugly and I get loads

Sadly then I wake up but hey its nice while it lasts

You're not ugly!!

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"I don't get many messages.

Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would

MrsSB

Well, I suspect one message more than usual.

I bet more than one

MrsSB

Most couples are hard work, and I'm not bi so seems pointless to me. I do have some couples on my friendslist though."

Not need to explain. I'm just daft.

You are a witty stunning lady. Strong minded and with wicked sense of humour.

I know you are straight but I hit on all the hot ladies

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies, I will try and jazz it up abit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies, I will try and jazz it up abit x"

You're hot.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I don't get many messages.

Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would

MrsSB

Well, I suspect one message more than usual.

I bet more than one

MrsSB

Most couples are hard work, and I'm not bi so seems pointless to me. I do have some couples on my friendslist though.

Not need to explain. I'm just daft.

You are a witty stunning lady. Strong minded and with wicked sense of humour.

I know you are straight but I hit on all the hot ladies

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, maybe I will put up my pic lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I am ugly and I get loads

Sadly then I wake up but hey its nice while it lasts

You're not ugly!!

Awww thank you

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Thanks, maybe I will put up my pic lol"

That's a turn around ... thought you had to be secretive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do, I'm talking about body pics and cock pic?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I do, I'm talking about body pics and cock pic?"

Body pic would be fine. No need for face pic in public, if that's a problem to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have any public pics, that's a filter in its own right.

Make your profile an honest reflection of you, of what you like / looking for as well as what you can offer another person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok many thanks ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies, I will try and jazz it up abit x

You're hot.

I wanna see I wanna see

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Yeah I hear you fella, although I have the opposite problem , I'm too good looking..

It's true ask my mum..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha! My mum says I'm gorgeous too

ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always send my pic in with message

Send me a typical message that you send. "

Good thinking bat woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies, I will try and jazz it up abit x

You're hot.

I wanna see I wanna see

Nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahhhh thanks, maybe I should advertise on here, I get more replies ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to see the OP now too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sent lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP the forums are a great was to get chatting and have a laugh.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I will use them more, thanks gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhhh thanks, maybe I should advertise on here, I get more replies ha ha "

Why do you think we come in here?

Apart from to pass the time and have a laugh?

Are you trying to be a dark horse OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you are definitely not ugly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else want to see ha ha, inbox me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else want to see ha ha, inbox me

Yeah I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Inbox me then

Your profile is hidden x

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

"Do you women get so many messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly lol

I'm in Kent if anyone wants to chat x"
No profile pic, no public pics..you're only 4weeks old here lol,I hardly get lots of mail which doesn't really bother me coz I always feel lucky when I party,that's where I make connection,this place is a platform for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah maybe I will have to get to a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you use the reply+quote button people will know who you are responding to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP if you use the reply+quote button people will know who you are responding to

Wow you learn something new everyday x

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

"Yeah maybe I will have to get to a party"
id definitely encourage you to party,I met two women who in person were far older than their profile age and nothing like the pics displayed it was a waste of both our time after endless chatting...I quit all that its why I opt for making that connection at parties....it works for me

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I am in two minds about the party scene. To be honest .... its can get very incestuous, small number of the same people who know of everyone else ... but I would also recommend it overall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP if you use the reply+quote button people will know who you are responding to

Wow you learn something new everyday x"

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Am curious as to why you need to be discreet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am curious as to why you need to be discreet. "

Job really, and just out of privacy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inbox me then

Your profile is hidden x"

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP if you use the reply+quote button people will know who you are responding to

Wow you learn something new everyday x"

Top tip- if there's something on here that you don't know what it is- DON'T GOOGLE IT!! Or at least don't look at the pics.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"OP if you use the reply+quote button people will know who you are responding to

Wow you learn something new everyday x

Top tip- if there's something on here that you don't know what it is- DON'T GOOGLE IT!! Or at least don't look at the pics.

Belive me you'll never hear better advice on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you women get so many messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly lol

I'm in Kent if anyone wants to chat x

When's our wedding?

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Uggly is reletive, wiggles says im not ugly and a few women agree with her, but others and myself say I am.

Dark rooms balance it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Uggly is reletive, wiggles says im not ugly and a few women agree with her, but others and myself say I am.

Dark rooms balance it

You're not ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Uggly is reletive, wiggles says im not ugly and a few women agree with her, but others and myself say I am.

Dark rooms balance it

I think men on this site need to stop putting themselves down so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Uggly is reletive, wiggles says im not ugly and a few women agree with her, but others and myself say I am.

Dark rooms balance it

I think men on this site need to stop putting themselves down so much.

I'm not saying I'm ugly, just that everyone has there own opinions and I'm not everyone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I filter only to manage mail.

I am sure OP you are not ugly just the ratio of ladies to gents on fab, means gents prob end up having to put more effort in.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I filter only to manage mail.

I am sure OP you are not ugly just the ratio of ladies to gents on fab, means gents prob end up having to put more effort in.

Good luck

Thanks

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

"I filter only to manage mail.

I am sure OP you are not ugly just the ratio of ladies to gents on fab, means gents prob end up having to put more effort in.

Good luck

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100% right,it's why I encourage single fellas to focus on partying other than relying on this site for a meet there are many good parties out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inbox me then

Your profile is hidden x

Good point

You're a nice looking guy, just need to funk up your profile & get out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what the OP means. I put my face as profile pic, sent nice messages which get deleted. You see lots of blokes on here getting frustrated at it but its sheer numbers. Must be 200:1 ratio men to women! I just lurk and browse now.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get many msgs by default, cos of the huge male ratio lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Inbox me then

Your profile is hidden x

Good point

You're a nice looking guy, just need to funk up your profile & get out there

And how do I funk it up??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get excited if someone just looks at my profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know what the OP means. I put my face as profile pic, sent nice messages which get deleted. You see lots of blokes on here getting frustrated at it but its sheer numbers. Must be 200:1 ratio men to women! I just lurk and browse now....."

200:1 is way way over estimated...however, women will always check a profile before opening a message...if theres nothing there,then theres no point them bothering to read the message..the numbers game is a very tired excuse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I was exaggerating, like when I say I'm 5" ;P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I was exaggerating, like when I say I'm 5" ;P"

still, the fact remains that if people dont bother to have much of a profile, their messages are unlikely to be read,let alone replied to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very true x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Inbox me then

Your profile is hidden x

Good point

You're a nice looking guy, just need to funk up your profile & get out there

And how do I funk it up??"

There are countless threads in the archives offering generic profile advice, we don't know you well enough to tell you that.

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By *hoco DMan
over a year ago

Clapham

This seems to be so ture especially in London given up on get meets unless I'm out of London as im black has its advantages if I'm somewhere where black is niche...

my advice is stick to parties where will judge to for you and not if you can create a seen from 50 shades and make your contacts from there.

I been where you are and come on the forum for advice and people very helpful at tell you what you are doing wrong but not so much went it comes to how to put it right.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"...messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly"

Speak for yourself, I'm ugly and I get plenty.

Admittedly, most are from S-J and Mark, but it's better than nowt, surely?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else want to see ha ha, inbox me

Nope.

No offence OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Uggly is reletive, wiggles says im not ugly and a few women agree with her, but others and myself say I am.

Dark rooms balance it

I think men on this site need to stop putting themselves down so much.

We're just honest.

My recent status said "I look nothing like my profile picture, I'm a one eyed horse botherer with an electric part".

For some reason my honesty didn't help me get a shah.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I've had more views today than any other day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I've had more views today than any other day lol"

Dont forget the

(people who view you in stealth mode)

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By *northernsoulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Post a pic or two - people tend to 'look' rather than 'read' as I've discovered!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah read the thread mate, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Post a pic or two - people tend to 'look' rather than 'read' as I've discovered!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Post a pic or two - people tend to 'look' rather than 'read' as I've discovered!!

Morning!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Still not many responses

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Still not many responses

Shame you're not closer :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get hundreds of messages .They often delete the lot cos most of us cant read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get many messages unless I post a pic, which is ok with me. When I first joined the site I found the amount of messages very overwhelming.

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