FabSwingers.com forum: What is a "Real" man?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A quick glance on the mirror this morning to check the progress of my 6 pack (about 3.5!) made me wonder what people considered to be a "Real" man?

Is it the buff toned muscle man who spends all his time in the gym?

The misogynist who treats women as if they are dirt and to be used?

The hard working family man who slaves to provide for his family?

The man capable of admitting his fears of redundancy or his desires to share his wife?

Are any of these, or indeed ALL of these "Real" men?

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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago

sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it obvious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone with a pulse

someone who is all of those things.. due to a current situation id say a real man is someone who steps up to responsibilities.. eg, any man can be a sperm doner, takes a 'real' man to be a dad

Actions have consiquences

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

No ties, 6ft plus, huge Tool! Job Done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it the buff toned muscle man who spends all his time in the gym?"
Vein.

"The misogynist who treats women as if they are dirt and to be used?"
Bastard.

"The hard working family man who slaves to provide for his family?"
Slave/Man.

"The man capable of admitting his fears of redundancy or his desires to share his wife?"
Man.

....my own honest opinion!

Signed, Mrs Frock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"someone with a pulse

someone who is all of those things.. due to a current situation id say a real man is someone who steps up to responsibilities.. eg, any man can be a sperm doner, takes a 'real' man to be a dad

Actions have consiquences "

well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Advertising Baz?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And it's welcomed Mrs Frock x

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

"Advertising Baz?"

No unfortunately not, I am only 5ft 9!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

To me... a real man is someone who's not afraid of his feelings, behaves like an adult and doesn't take himself too seriously.

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

"To me... a real man is someone who's not afraid of his feelings, behaves like an adult and doesn't take himself too seriously.

waves lol x

arent real men them guys in catalogues lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opposite a me lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The opposite a me lol xx

Bingo! We have the perfect answer.

*rolls over laughing*

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"To me... a real man is someone who's not afraid of his feelings, behaves like an adult and doesn't take himself too seriously.

waves lol x

arent real men them guys in catalogues lol "

No idea... I like mine scruffy so not really one for catalogue models.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Arnt all real men on fab apart from _unky monkey whos been left by aliens

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Arnt all real men on fab apart from _unky monkey whos been left by aliens

I resemble that!

A real man to me is a guy that finds beauty in everything he sees, has a vast collection of Fez's and would kill a Frenchman without missing a heart beat.

A real man to me is a guy who knows how to high five, a guy that lives every day to be AWESOME, a guy that knows the 'bro code' off by heart.

But most of all a real man to me is a man who can braid his back hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some with weird ideas here. Can't you be a man without fathering a child? Sounds like bollocks to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mum says Im a real Man and not to take any notice of what my ex Girlfriends all say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some with weird ideas here. Can't you be a man without fathering a child? Sounds like bollocks to me.

course you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok the updated version

A real man to me is someone who is independent, self sufficient, not afraid to ask for help or express his feelings & emotions, someone who can provide if necessary. Someone who can accept liability and responsibilities.

He would be trustworthy, opinionated (but not narrow minded), ambitious and intelligent.

Im sure theres lot's ive missed out too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok the updated version

He would be trustworthy, opinionated (but not narrow minded), ambitious and intelligent.

Im sure theres lot's ive missed out too "

Bugger

ya dunna want much then lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok the updated version

He would be trustworthy, opinionated (but not narrow minded), ambitious and intelligent.

Im sure theres lot's ive missed out too

Bugger

ya dunna want much then lol xx

If i was looking for a man to date/eventually settle down with.. id guess this would be a description to some degree of what id want in an ideal world. If people just settled for the first person to come along and weren't truly happy we'd be constantly on the look out for someone 'better' to come along.

Oh he'd have to be loving and caring too :D - and faithful :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"........any man can be a sperm doner, ............ "

That was on the menu at out local kebab shop recently. Very popular with the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"........any man can be a sperm doner, ............

That was on the menu at out local kebab shop recently. Very popular with the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SOAPY", now theres a real man, as I wouldn`t tackle "a certain woman", she fwitens the shite outta me.

HAIL SOAPY

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By *hocotreacleWoman
over a year ago

lost in the city of Atlantis

A real man is whatever you want him to be, or better yet whatever he wants to be.

He can be a thoughtless SOB who does nothing all day and eats nits from his pubes to make himself better cause he can't get it up, doesn't make him less of a man.

So many labels...tut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A quick glance on the mirror this morning to check the progress of my 6 pack (about 3.5!) made me wonder what people considered to be a "Real" man?

Is it the buff toned muscle man who spends all his time in the gym?

The misogynist who treats women as if they are dirt and to be used?

The hard working family man who slaves to provide for his family?

The man capable of admitting his fears of redundancy or his desires to share his wife?

Are any of these, or indeed ALL of these "Real" men?"

Hmmmmmm

What is a real man ?

Not to sure but if ya find one, let me know

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I tell what real man is guy who would take on another mans family bring them up and be there for them and when they have kids be a good grandparent thats real man not run off and leave your kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell what real man is guy who would take on another mans family bring them up and be there for them and when they have kids be a good grandparent thats real man not run off and leave your kids

i like this answer

must take a hell of a lot for another man to take on someone elses child as his own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell what real man is guy who would take on another mans family bring them up and be there for them and when they have kids be a good grandparent thats real man not run off and leave your kids

i like this answer

must take a hell of a lot for another man to take on someone elses child as his own "
I don't like the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell what real man is guy who would take on another mans family bring them up and be there for them and when they have kids be a good grandparent thats real man not run off and leave your kids

i like this answer

must take a hell of a lot for another man to take on someone elses child as his own I don't like the answer

why dont you like it?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"SOAPY", now theres a real man, as I wouldn`t tackle "a certain woman", she fwitens the shite outta me.

HAHAHAHAHA, feckin wuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know you're a real man when the only button you understand on the washing machine is "quick start".

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

"I tell what real man is guy who would take on another mans family bring them up and be there for them and when they have kids be a good grandparent thats real man not run off and leave your kids

If you love the kids its easy.

As for a real man would that be a growed up pinochio?

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I tell what real man is guy who would take on another mans family bring them up and be there for them and when they have kids be a good grandparent thats real man not run off and leave your kids

i like this answer

must take a hell of a lot for another man to take on someone elses child as his own "

hows about 3 and they all have kids themselves now so thats were the grandparent comes in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real men don't abandon their kids!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real men don't abandon their kids!!!!"

agree with this also xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A real man is someone that can make you feel like a million dollars all day every day. Can share his hopes and fears and is one hundred percent happy and contented being with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A quick glance on the mirror this morning to check the progress of my 6 pack (about 3.5!) made me wonder what people considered to be a "Real" man?

Is it the buff toned muscle man who spends all his time in the gym?

The misogynist who treats women as if they are dirt and to be used?

The hard working family man who slaves to provide for his family?

The man capable of admitting his fears of redundancy or his desires to share his wife?

Are any of these, or indeed ALL of these "Real" men?"

Only measure for me is if he has to shave his face at least once daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real man wouldn't need to ask, or be told - he simply 'is'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real men eat pussy, dead or alive, with or without the fur on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any man who pulls on a uniform and is willing to lay his life down for his mates , when the shit hits the fan on a tour , simply cos they are his mates and he knows they would do the same for him

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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago

sea

Real men shave their armpits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The opposite a me lol xx

awww your lovely bubbly

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"The opposite a me lol xx

awww your lovely bubbly"

your medication is definitely being altered tomorrow madam!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a real man - some one you can touch and can touch you in every way.

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