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By *rnortholt OP   Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

"Being pregnant and alone isthe worst moment in my life"

As statuses go - that has to be the most gut wrenching one I've ever read in here.

Now I may be a disreputable low-life, but I felt I had to mail to say however dark life may be - people will care. Not people here, though of course many will, but people who can offer practical help, be they family, workmates or even the old lady who lives two doors down.

So I wrote what I could, just to show a bit of humanity and pressed send to message the person who seconds before had been showing online.

Back came the message "user no longer on site."

So at two in the morning, I'm here...just hoping this now ex-member of fab does get the help they need and that maybe someone who knows who they really are - maybe after a met or social - digs their number out of their "play phone" memory and does what I couldn't and offers them a bit of support.

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

Nice one mate...good to know there is still compassion in this shitty world .fair play

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

You tried and that's all you could do many would of just passed on by

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Fair play mate ... let's hope she's less along than she made out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes in the night things feel worse, hopefully she has someone to talk to. Not many people are really truly alone in this world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I might be totally heartless, when I see statuses like that on here I just think drama and attention seeking

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I would have probably sent her a message too, even if you don't know someone, any support is welcome. It was a nice thing to do

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill


""Being pregnant and alone isthe worst moment in my life"

As statuses go - that has to be the most gut wrenching one I've ever read in here.

Now I may be a disreputable low-life, but I felt I had to mail to say however dark life may be - people will care. Not people here, though of course many will, but people who can offer practical help, be they family, workmates or even the old lady who lives two doors down.

So I wrote what I could, just to show a bit of humanity and pressed send to message the person who seconds before had been showing online.

Back came the message "user no longer on site."

So at two in the morning, I'm here...just hoping this now ex-member of fab does get the help they need and that maybe someone who knows who they really are - maybe after a met or social - digs their number out of their "play phone" memory and does what I couldn't and offers them a bit of support."

At least you tried, which is more than a lot of people would have done.

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Good on you , all you can do is try , I've allways said fab has still got a few good people left on it , sadly too few

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish


""Being pregnant and alone isthe worst moment in my life"

As statuses go - that has to be the most gut wrenching one I've ever read in here.

Now I may be a disreputable low-life, but I felt I had to mail to say however dark life may be - people will care. Not people here, though of course many will, but people who can offer practical help, be they family, workmates or even the old lady who lives two doors down.

So I wrote what I could, just to show a bit of humanity and pressed send to message the person who seconds before had been showing online.

Back came the message "user no longer on site."

So at two in the morning, I'm here...just hoping this now ex-member of fab does get the help they need and that maybe someone who knows who they really are - maybe after a met or social - digs their number out of their "play phone" memory and does what I couldn't and offers them a bit of support."

Oh ur lovely, will u marry me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not Facebook.

Or a public launderette.

Whilst the situation is sad,its probably best.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

My thought was, if you feel bad when you are alone and pregnant, how are you going to feel when you have the baby? Let's hope there are some support networks in place and the 'cry for help' was hormonal, as they do play havoc in pregnancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I might be totally heartless, when I see statuses like that on here I just think drama and attention seeking "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I might be totally heartless, when I see statuses like that on here I just think drama and attention seeking

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All statuses are attention seeking, that's their point essentially. And I'd say whilst I agree on your points, they probably do need some support too. A swinging site is still probably not the best forum to get proper help though.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think I might be totally heartless, when I see statuses like that on here I just think drama and attention seeking "

You're not alone in that.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I think I might be totally heartless, when I see statuses like that on here I just think drama and attention seeking

All statuses are attention seeking, that's their point essentially. And I'd say whilst I agree on your points, they probably do need some support too. A swinging site is still probably not the best forum to get proper help though."

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

The woman just needed to put down how she felt where that was probably didn't matter,she already knew she would get no real help from anyone here especially from the heartless one's. We don't need need to know someone to show a little compassion which you have op so well done for that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Compassion is in mighty short supply nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully she'll feel more positive today, after a bit of sleep.

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