FabSwingers.com forum: Forum etiquette

By *exiliciousme OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Just wondering what everyone's thoughts are on messiging people from the forum, should a few messeges be passed on the forum first or is it best to go straight for it ?

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Depends if their first response is fuck off or not I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's exactly the same as fab etiquette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private.

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By *exiliciousme OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private."

Definitely got too play it a little smart then, have too make a judgement on the possible reaction

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

There is no etiquette just do what you want to do,believe it or not there are no rule's

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private."

but is that just when someone you don't really like messages,what if it was someone you fancy the pants off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum etiquette dictates that you should be aware of the little green arrow.

Repeating the same question is a bit weird

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By *exiliciousme OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private.

but is that just when someone you don't really like messages,what if it was someone you fancy the pants off?"

Well if you fancy the pants of someone guess there is absolutely no excuse not too messege them

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private."

They might have had a ban! Or not want to say what they've said on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if their first response is fuck off or not I suppose.

true fact lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How bizarre - someone asked this the other day too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no etiquette just do what you want to do,believe it or not there are no rule's "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private.

but is that just when someone you don't really like messages,what if it was someone you fancy the pants off?"

smart thinking girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private.

They might have had a ban! Or not want to say what they've said on the forum. "

But usually it's something like "I agree with that" when it was then who opened the thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private.

but is that just when someone you don't really like messages,what if it was someone you fancy the pants off?"

If it's someone I fancy the pants off they'll already be on my friends list.

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By *exiliciousme OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private.

but is that just when someone you don't really like messages,what if it was someone you fancy the pants off?

If it's someone I fancy the pants off they'll already be on my friends list.

Could you never find someone new you fancy the pants off lol

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private.

but is that just when someone you don't really like messages,what if it was someone you fancy the pants off?

If it's someone I fancy the pants off they'll already be on my friends list.

Oh that's just great. Rain on my parade why dontcha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how you wanna play it

Though a personal bug bear of mine is when somebody messages me with a comment that they could have easily posted on the forums but they do it just to try to start a conversation in private.

but is that just when someone you don't really like messages,what if it was someone you fancy the pants off?

If it's someone I fancy the pants off they'll already be on my friends list.

Could you never find someone new you fancy the pants off lol"

I could, as if I do fancy the pants off them based on their photos & what I see of them on the forums, I contact them first.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"How bizarre - someone asked this the other day too."

Sometimes you need to ask a question a few times before you get the answer you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if their first response is fuck off or not I suppose.

I had a forum user follow me around giving me hassle for no reason so I reported them numerous times - yet they kept doing it so I contacted them to ask them to stop giving me hassle for no reason and to let them know I had reported them over their poor behaviour and the psycho responded by telling me they were going to report me!

Some people are simply fucking nuts..

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Tell me about it.

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By *exiliciousme OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"How bizarre - someone asked this the other day too.

Sometimes you need to ask a question a few times before you get the answer you're looking for

Need too make a Personell judgement using other people's reactions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get plenty of messages triggered from my forum posts.

I really ought to vet my posts better. They trigger some very odd messages at times

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What do you mean a few messages on the forum.?

Do you mean just having a bit of banter or commenting on something they have said.

If you are interested in someone just message them

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Can't you work it out for yourself?

It's easy to guess when it might be right to message someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just message them whats the worst that could happen

Good luck

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Forum etiquette dictates that you should be aware of the little green arrow.

Repeating the same question is a bit weird

He probably doesn't believe those answers and was simply waiting for someone with more gravitas and prestige to answer

Don't worry OP, I'm here now. The correct answer is wot they said!

Mr ddc

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why the two threads in three days op. Are you hoping one particlar person sees them? And messages you rather than you just bloody message them

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