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By *rincesscaracouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your post is a load of bollocks

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Shit, I post on the forums all the time and have never had a social. Unless you count grabbing a quick coffee with someone I regularly fuck as one. Does this mean I should stop posting? Or fucking?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm... I find all my meets through the forums.

Is this a "if you don't have lots of sex with lots of people off Fab then you're not a real swinger" bashing thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a crock of crap!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit, I post on the forums all the time and have never had a social. Unless you count grabbing a quick coffee with someone I regularly fuck as one. Does this mean I should stop posting? Or fucking?! "

Such a fake!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

You obviously haven't read my verifications! I meet for socials and more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

Talking on the forums has got me a LOT more than a social

In fact it's my preferred way of meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is just a look at us thread!!!!

lots of people of the forums have met and had sex I know I'm one of them.

Just because I prefer a social first to make sure 1. I'm going to be safe and 2. There is a connection doesn't mean I use the forum as Facebook.

I've actually learnt from some of the forum users

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Am I being a bit thick here.

' regulars' ppl that post on the forums.

Social ppl meet for socials

Fucking ppl fuck

We have met forum users at socials yes.

Not yet fucked a forum user but there is still time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the OP's have posted in 35 threads within 4 days.. that could be seen as 'regular'..

you guys fake also?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Talking on the forums has got me a LOT more than a social

In fact it's my preferred way of meeting people "

Me too, the forums are a great way of meeting people. But then according to the OP I'm not a swinger and neither is anybody else as they've ring fenced the term to make it more exclusive for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the definition of swinger means fucks anything??

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

Whether I am a regular or not, I cannot say, but nor do I say I am a swinger. I use the site for how I want to use it. If that means meeting socially before jumping into bed with someone then so be it, at least I am making an informed choice with regards to who appeals to me, and vice versa if I dont appeal to others. I prefer it that way, knowing there is attraction and chemistry to make sex better, rather than using this place as insta-shag just to get my leg over and achieve the 'bona-fide swinger' tag

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

Aren't you full of sunshine.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Does the definition of swinger means fucks anything??"

I reckon for some it does.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

An alternative to what ?

( That was to the O.P.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the forums quite a bit. I also don't have problems getting meets. I don't host parties or gangbangs to get them,or ask for payment to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

Have you seen the "Fuck Off" thread?

Off you trot....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on the forums quite a bit. I also don't have problems getting meets. I don't host parties or gangbangs to get them,or ask for payment to meet me.

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Sorry,forgot to say,I'm not a real swinger,unless you count the one mmf I had from here.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Have you seen the "Fuck Off" thread?

Off you trot...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm... I find all my meets through the forums.

Is this a "if you don't have lots of sex with lots of people off Fab then you're not a real swinger" bashing thread?"

I believe that's exactly what it is...the OP thinks most of us are here to chat and have socials

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"I think this is just a look at us thread!!!!

lots of people of the forums have met and had sex I know I'm one of them.

Just because I prefer a social first to make sure 1. I'm going to be safe and 2. There is a connection doesn't mean I use the forum as Facebook.

I've actually learnt from some of the forum users"

Thats a point BumbleBea!!!!

Lets have sex!!

That'll show the op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This forum is called "the lounge" I see it as general natter. I think there is a swinging forum..I don't post on it because, true, I'm not a real swinger (if you use the proper definition) and I only have one verification!! Ouch! But I like it here... It makes me smile

No harm done on those forums though and I've chatted to some people who I quite like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Talking on the forums has got me a LOT more than a social

In fact it's my preferred way of meeting people

Me too, the forums are a great way of meeting people. But then according to the OP I'm not a swinger and neither is anybody else as they've ring fenced the term to make it more exclusive for them. "

They are more than welcome to it.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

I feel the site is just for entertainment...

Peruse the forums, converse, check out a few sexy pics, someone may catch you eye...

But it's just a pass time... What is a "real" "swinger"???

*I have thoughts on this from a place I used to live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm... I find all my meets through the forums.

Is this a "if you don't have lots of sex with lots of people off Fab then you're not a real swinger" bashing thread?

I believe that's exactly what it is...the OP thinks most of us are here to chat and have socials "

I think I'm a swinger I just wanted to be a slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh shit!

We didn't realise the forums were supposed to be just adverts for sex!

Someone fuck us puurllease!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Oh shit!

We didn't realise the forums were supposed to be just adverts for sex!

Someone fuck us puurllease! "

I can't. Your'e not a real swinger. Imagine the shame. I'll be accussed of not living up to others expectations.

I'll pretend I have if you like.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Talking on the forums has got me a LOT more than a social

In fact it's my preferred way of meeting people

Me too, the forums are a great way of meeting people. But then according to the OP I'm not a swinger and neither is anybody else as they've ring fenced the term to make it more exclusive for them. "

fab labels..its the 21st century..get over it...SwingleUnicornFetishists for the revolution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He he he. Dance puppets dance!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Talking on the forums has got me a LOT more than a social

In fact it's my preferred way of meeting people

Me too, the forums are a great way of meeting people. But then according to the OP I'm not a swinger and neither is anybody else as they've ring fenced the term to make it more exclusive for them. "

I'm a swinger, especially when in my hammock

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By *rincesscaracouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"I think this is just a look at us thread!!!!

lots of people of the forums have met and had sex I know I'm one of them.

Just because I prefer a social first to make sure 1. I'm going to be safe and 2. There is a connection doesn't mean I use the forum as Facebook.

I've actually learnt from some of the forum users"

A look at us thread?? We do not need you to look at us as the initial post says. Attacked for having an opinion again? True to form here.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I like cute likkle bunnies

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i was having gangbangs before the female of the op was born and guess what i like coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh shit!

We didn't realise the forums were supposed to be just adverts for sex!

Someone fuck us puurllease! "

It's ok, I'll step up... It's a hard job

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

Thank you op for enlightened us all. We hope one day to be just like you. Because only your way is the right way.

Thank you

Thank you so much for sharing the only truth, the only right way to swing. Might one day us all be as awesome as you

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

The forums do tend to be dominated by the same, small group of people and yes, it is very tedious. Even my calling out threads to try and get more of the site involved in the forums to make them interesting, exciting and sexually intriguing fell flat, as once more, they simply became dominated by the regulars once more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is just a look at us thread!!!!

lots of people of the forums have met and had sex I know I'm one of them.

Just because I prefer a social first to make sure 1. I'm going to be safe and 2. There is a connection doesn't mean I use the forum as Facebook.

I've actually learnt from some of the forum users

A look at us thread?? We do not need you to look at us as the initial post says. Attacked for having an opinion again? True to form here."

Taking the moral high ground now? No your not being attacked for having an opinion, you being vilified for looking down and denigrating all of the people on the forums. You can't make comments as you did and then hide behind the 'just expressing an opinion' argument. Sadly if you're going to be abusive then you will get abused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh golly gosh , chums this is the lounge . Its a place to have a giggle and laugh.

Over the years we have gotten to know one another . This forum is for a chuckle .

I have met forumites and had a spiffing time. I hope to meet more of you all .

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."
well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is just a look at us thread!!!!

lots of people of the forums have met and had sex I know I'm one of them.

Just because I prefer a social first to make sure 1. I'm going to be safe and 2. There is a connection doesn't mean I use the forum as Facebook.

I've actually learnt from some of the forum users

A look at us thread?? We do not need you to look at us as the initial post says. Attacked for having an opinion again? True to form here."

What you on about no one attacked you seriously get over yourself only people that have been attacked are those like myself who are not real swingers because we use the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have sex with people from the forums.... it's why I don't need verifications

Only a few more to go

Hey OP; it's all good; your opinion is yours to own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use fab for meets as I get that from another site I am on. I just use fab for the forum, it is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

Maybe they met at a social but played after or on another date

Not everybody on here wants the whole site to know who they have fucked, how good their blow job is or how many times they have cum, a lot of people will hide such verification, they still have them just choose not to show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not sure what sort of response this thread hoped to inspire but it made me chuckle...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I meet. Lots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet. Lots. "

I need phonographic evidence or I don't believe you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet. Lots.

I need phonographic evidence or I don't believe you "

Audio recordings ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Shock horror, people meet people from all different situations, just because I don't like a fuck and go session doesn't make my way wrong.

If you enjoy fuck and go, then good for you, doesn't put me neither up nor down , doesn't make your way superior though or 'real swingers' whatever that is meant to mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet. Lots.

I need phonographic evidence or I don't believe you

Audio recordings ? "

Or paint by numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet. Lots.

I need phonographic evidence or I don't believe you

Audio recordings ? "

Crackly ones at that! Kinky Fuckers!!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I think this is just a look at us thread!!!!

lots of people of the forums have met and had sex I know I'm one of them.

Just because I prefer a social first to make sure 1. I'm going to be safe and 2. There is a connection doesn't mean I use the forum as Facebook.

I've actually learnt from some of the forum users

A look at us thread?? We do not need you to look at us as the initial post says. Attacked for having an opinion again? True to form here."

And again... What's wrong with a "look at me" thread?

I need people to look at me!

"I'm so pretty!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a load of twaddle - we meet - i chat on here - we message - we get meets mostly through messages but have met people through forums too - im not sure what point the op is making

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet. Lots.

I need phonographic evidence or I don't believe you "

I read that as pornographic evidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a reverse psychology way of getting more people to go to your parties? As they aren't paid, but apparently you're saying many are. It's a good advert, very positive and welcoming to all swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet. Lots.

I need phonographic evidence or I don't believe you

I read that as pornographic evidence "

That'll do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a reverse psychology way of getting more people to go to your parties? As they aren't paid, but apparently you're saying many are. It's a good advert, very positive and welcoming to all swingers. "

I though paying was against site rules??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a reverse psychology way of getting more people to go to your parties? As they aren't paid, but apparently you're saying many are. It's a good advert, very positive and welcoming to all swingers.

I though paying was against site rules??"

Depends how much they charge, if it's a small amount to cover costs that's ok, if it's a 20 man gang bang at £50 a head that's iffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I trust we aren't being tarred with that brush by the op !!!!!

We have been guilty of similar types of post in our time on fab ..... So we hang our heads in shame for that .

We have learned that there are all sorts that make the swinging community what it is . And yes , the wannabes and timewasters can be irksome .

But we choose to swing with real people , like ourselves , and come on the forums for the entertainment value . We've only met a couple of forumites , and do hope to meet some more in the future ( not for bloody socials though )

We also post on the forums to offer an alternative insight to the social side . We are all about the real meets , the fantasy fulfilment , the fun , filth and sheer lust that swinging can offer .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a reverse psychology way of getting more people to go to your parties? As they aren't paid, but apparently you're saying many are. It's a good advert, very positive and welcoming to all swingers.

I though paying was against site rules??"

I believe so but that's what the OP first post says about the forum users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

Good for you. Personally I don't think your version of swinging is the type wed like, but I seem to be fine with that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

58 verifications we have - i think about ten of them were social - the rest all play meets at homes/ hotels or club meets - and possibly half of those just social are myself meeting ladies at fem events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

The forums do tend to be dominated by the same, small group of people and yes, it is very tedious. Even my calling out threads to try and get more of the site involved in the forums to make them interesting, exciting and sexually intriguing fell flat, as once more, they simply became dominated by the regulars once more."

Do you honestly think that people will come out of hiding just because you asked them to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet. Lots. "

She does you know. And does mean nachos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet regular because I choose not to, I maybe meet once ever 2 or 3 months, this isn't my life and I have no intentions of it taking over, I work two jobs and I'm a single mum so my time is limited if that makes me less genuine that people who meet several times a week, so be it, I'm glad they have nothing better to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from."

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet regular because I choose not to, I maybe meet once ever 2 or 3 months, this isn't my life and I have no intentions of it taking over, I work two jobs and I'm a single mum so my time is limited if that makes me less genuine that people who meet several times a week, so be it, I'm glad they have nothing better to do "

Take no notice, no one needs to justify themselves to anyone. The OP just started a thread to get reactions, no other intention. Oh apart from digs about other parties and how great the gangbangs they organise are, that's how it comes across to me.

Everyone has the right to be here and comment, even if they don't shag for 70 years.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Yeah, nobody meets from the forums, ever.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I love the way that people think swingers are so bloody liberated, until it comes down to 'swinging is my way or the highway'

Get a grip and realise everyone is different and do things the way that suits them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm back again a second time after some very enjoyable meets in the past. I've been to swinger clubs with a swinger friend...I personally still like a connection of some kind and don't just want to jump straight into it. I've made quite a few friends who are couples and singles. I think swinging is different for each of us on what we want and how we find it. We Could all go out clubbing and bring back a stranger if that's what we want..but I find swinging different to that..it's social and there's a great deal of respect for the other person or people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a completely different tangent

Pooch and I are off for a jolly walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is anyone reacting to this thread and justifying whether they are a true swinger or not?

OP You play your way... good on you, judging others and "calling them out"....seriously?

You are right; it's like Facebook..... it's an "online community made up of people with a common interest"; the fact that many forum users are not so one dimensional that they can talk about more than just sex is a good thing, no?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. "

well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think."

Silence the no-shags!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is anyone reacting to this thread and justifying whether they are a true swinger or not?

OP You play your way... good on you, judging others and "calling them out"....seriously?

You are right; it's like Facebook..... it's an "online community made up of people with a common interest"; the fact that many forum users are not so one dimensional that they can talk about more than just sex is a good thing, no? "

I nearly wrote on Facebook something I was commenting on here. Now that would have been a moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think."

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a completely different tangent

Pooch and I are off for a jolly walk "

I'm off for a lady wank, I might give myself a forum user veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second."

You can borrow one of mine

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Have you seen the "Fuck Off" thread?

Off you trot...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second.

You can borrow one of mine "

S'okay I don't need a verification to prove anything.... partly because I don't give a fig roll what anyone thinks. But cheers; the community in action x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second."

I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none."

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think."

One is a lady friend,one is someone I met 6 years ago and had sex with once. They are looking at verifications as evidence of people meeting,which is ridiculous because not everyone verifies. It didn't say single men so I assumed they were talking to everyone.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none."

"Suspicious".....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

"Suspicious".....

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I am sticking with auspicious; sounds better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none."

Not really, I have met many guys who have not been verified

Not being verified does not always mean they aren't genuine sometimes it just means they have never been given a chance

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored "

Some people believe that and to others it is a myth conjured up by those that believe it, I've been here for 7 years and I still get ignored, does it upset me? Not one iota

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

One is a lady friend,one is someone I met 6 years ago and had sex with once. They are looking at verifications as evidence of people meeting,which is ridiculous because not everyone verifies. It didn't say single men so I assumed they were talking to everyone."

I would say that approximately 50% of my meets can be arsed with the whole verification process. I think possibly if it was just a "tick box" affair then they might be more appealing, but as it is you are expected to trot out a plethora of lazy cliches and there is only so many times that you can do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored "

nah

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good "

whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"Why is anyone reacting to this thread and justifying whether they are a true swinger or not?

OP You play your way... good on you, judging others and "calling them out"....seriously?

You are right; it's like Facebook..... it's an "online community made up of people with a common interest"; the fact that many forum users are not so one dimensional that they can talk about more than just sex is a good thing, no? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored "

Most of the regulars on here have me blocked

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

The forums do tend to be dominated by the same, small group of people and yes, it is very tedious. Even my calling out threads to try and get more of the site involved in the forums to make them interesting, exciting and sexually intriguing fell flat, as once more, they simply became dominated by the regulars once more."

If they're not on the forums how're they going to see your 'calling out threads'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all."

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

One is a lady friend,one is someone I met 6 years ago and had sex with once. They are looking at verifications as evidence of people meeting,which is ridiculous because not everyone verifies. It didn't say single men so I assumed they were talking to everyone."

they didn't say single men but that is my hunch and a few others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is anyone reacting to this thread and justifying whether they are a true swinger or not?

OP You play your way... good on you, judging others and "calling them out"....seriously?

You are right; it's like Facebook..... it's an "online community made up of people with a common interest"; the fact that many forum users are not so one dimensional that they can talk about more than just sex is a good thing, no? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

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What a load of balderdash!!

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Have you seen the "Fuck Off" thread?

Off you trot...."

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay "

that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

One is a lady friend,one is someone I met 6 years ago and had sex with once. They are looking at verifications as evidence of people meeting,which is ridiculous because not everyone verifies. It didn't say single men so I assumed they were talking to everyone.

I would say that approximately 50% of my meets can be arsed with the whole verification process. I think possibly if it was just a "tick box" affair then they might be more appealing, but as it is you are expected to trot out a plethora of lazy cliches and there is only so many times that you can do that. "

I don't verify often and ask never to be verified...

I hate it... What can I say... I'm above judgement...

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

To be fair I don't know about anyone else I find verifications quite vulgar. I don't want to read another 'this is one you don't want to miss ladies' or 'cums like a train'

We're all adults and take a chance meeting people. If they don't turn out to be who they say you can pootle off home.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post"

he.does when some of tbe others.know some of the people hes met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post"

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I meet. Lots.

I need phonographic evidence or I don't believe you

I read that as pornographic evidence "

I could go for that.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's posthe.does when some of tbe others.know some of the people hes met"

yes but people out of the loop aren't aware of that are they so will just assume. Surely you are not that naive

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Who's the private dick that's a sex machine for all the chicks?

Can you dig it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sod orf lmao

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored "

The whole forum? Awesome.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... "

well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Have you seen the "Fuck Off" thread?

Off you trot...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I don't know about anyone else I find verifications quite vulgar. I don't want to read another 'this is one you don't want to miss ladies' or 'cums like a train'

We're all adults and take a chance meeting people. If they don't turn out to be who they say you can pootle off home. "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all."

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I don't know about anyone else I find verifications quite vulgar. I don't want to read another 'this is one you don't want to miss ladies' or 'cums like a train'

We're all adults and take a chance meeting people. If they don't turn out to be who they say you can pootle off home. "

We like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all."

What do you think of me?

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"To be fair I don't know about anyone else I find verifications quite vulgar. I don't want to read another 'this is one you don't want to miss ladies' or 'cums like a train'

We're all adults and take a chance meeting people. If they don't turn out to be who they say you can pootle off home.

We like them "

Which is also fair enough :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all."

Do you honestly think I care what someone else's opinion of me is? If they don't want to meet me because I don't have verifications that's cool (it even says so in my profile!) The OP is the one that feels the need to complain about the quality of other people's swinging activities... if I am judged, so be it... I truly couldn't care. But you will never find me posting a thread complaining I can't get a meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all."

In all honesty what has it got to do with you him having veris or not?

I would happily meet him seeing the way he has conducted himself whilst returning to comment on your posts.

Veris mean nothing to some and clearly a lot to others personally I don't show mine as its nothing to do with anyone who I meet so keep things private others like to shout it from the roof tops and show every veri pretty much like yourself. Doesn't mean he's a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah!"

I promise soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried not posting on the forum and nothing happened. You should see my couple's profile. It's a ghost town....

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah!"

it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah! it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying."

Yes, but you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious - that the opening post is bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know who I'd rather meet from this thread and it has nothing to do with their verifications or lack of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can use the site how they like and good luck to them. What makes you think they 'wannabe' like you anyway

Couples are no better than singles. No one is better than anyone.

If people want to come here to just chat then what harm are they doing? Are they taking the place of a 'real swinger', probably not its hardly limited places on here.

As for the forum clique. It seems that expression is used as a joke by the regulars. So your ignored big whoop, it takes time to get noticed and people to get chatting. Theres no secret group deciding whther your liked or not.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What i want to know is if the op has met a forum regular was it offer coffee or a paid party

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah!

it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying."

I don't know what the OP is saying to be honest. Somehow I get the feeling that what they are saying is people who are on the forums only meet socially and therefore cannot be considered true swingers, which is blatantly wrong.

Why the hell people cannot use the site the way they want and leave others to use it the way they want is beyond me. Judge not, lest ye be judged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay.... I am going to be honest now... I didn't want to do this but I hit upon a funny idea when I made this profile... about verifications. You see what I wanted was 100 in one day... the only way I can do this is by "saving up" the meets that I have and then asking them to verify me all on the same day...

At current rate I estimate August (unless some members leave, which has unfortunately set me back).... I thought it would be "funny" but then I am not a serious swinger, just a tart.

Of course that could all be bullshit

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah! it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying.

Yes, but you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious - that the opening post is bollocks. "

yes I am aware some of it is because everybody interprets swinging in a different way on here but seeing people who you may believe to not have a valid opinion commenting on things obviously is frustrating the op.

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over a year ago


"I think this is just a look at us thread!!!!

lots of people of the forums have met and had sex I know I'm one of them.

Just because I prefer a social first to make sure 1. I'm going to be safe and 2. There is a connection doesn't mean I use the forum as Facebook.

I've actually learnt from some of the forum users

A look at us thread?? We do not need you to look at us as the initial post says. Attacked for having an opinion again? True to form here."

But you didn't post it as an opinion.....

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah! it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying.

Yes, but you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious - that the opening post is bollocks. yes I am aware some of it is because everybody interprets swinging in a different way on here but seeing people who you may believe to not have a valid opinion commenting on things obviously is frustrating the op."

If the OP is finding peopole commenting on things they suspect that they don't have any expreience of frustrating, they are clearly very new to the internet.

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over a year ago


"I think this is just a look at us thread!!!!

lots of people of the forums have met and had sex I know I'm one of them.

Just because I prefer a social first to make sure 1. I'm going to be safe and 2. There is a connection doesn't mean I use the forum as Facebook.

I've actually learnt from some of the forum users

A look at us thread?? We do not need you to look at us as the initial post says. Attacked for having an opinion again? True to form here.

Taking the moral high ground now? No your not being attacked for having an opinion, you being vilified for looking down and denigrating all of the people on the forums. You can't make comments as you did and then hide behind the 'just expressing an opinion' argument. Sadly if you're going to be abusive then you will get abused"

Heat. Kitchen. Out. Keep. Like. Don't.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah! it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying.

Yes, but you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious - that the opening post is bollocks. yes I am aware some of it is because everybody interprets swinging in a different way on here but seeing people who you may believe to not have a valid opinion commenting on things obviously is frustrating the op."

Why are you fighting their side for them when they aren't even here commenting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Quack quack quack

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Whether I am a regular or not, I cannot say, but nor do I say I am a swinger. I use the site for how I want to use it. If that means meeting socially before jumping into bed with someone then so be it, at least I am making an informed choice with regards to who appeals to me, and vice versa if I dont appeal to others. I prefer it that way, knowing there is attraction and chemistry to make sex better, rather than using this place as insta-shag just to get my leg over and achieve the 'bona-fide swinger' tag "

Thank God I'm not the only one to have feel attracted or have chemistry with someone to want to play. As sometimes it's feels like I'm the only one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored "

That's bollocking.

Thus disproving your theory.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah! it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying.

Yes, but you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious - that the opening post is bollocks. yes I am aware some of it is because everybody interprets swinging in a different way on here but seeing people who you may believe to not have a valid opinion commenting on things obviously is frustrating the op.

Why are you fighting their side for them when they aren't even here commenting. "

just showing a different perspective i find it interesting playing devils advocate. I'm not interested in the op either not my type and i don't think she likes me anyway from another thread. It's not white knighting just seeing a bigger picture being open to opinions from all angles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here mainly socially, I enjoy the forums and have the odd no strings meet. Now I feel like such a fraud!

How many people do I have to fuck in order to be welcomed here? I'll clear my diary.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah! it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying.

Yes, but you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious - that the opening post is bollocks. yes I am aware some of it is because everybody interprets swinging in a different way on here but seeing people who you may believe to not have a valid opinion commenting on things obviously is frustrating the op.

Why are you fighting their side for them when they aren't even here commenting. just showing a different perspective i find it interesting playing devils advocate. I'm not interested in the op either not my type and i don't think she likes me anyway from another thread. It's not white knighting just seeing a bigger picture being open to opinions from all angles."

What different angle? You agreed with them and use the verification system to judge how people are using the site,the same as they are. What's your different angle,in case I've missed your comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah! it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying.

Yes, but you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious - that the opening post is bollocks. yes I am aware some of it is because everybody interprets swinging in a different way on here but seeing people who you may believe to not have a valid opinion commenting on things obviously is frustrating the op.

Why are you fighting their side for them when they aren't even here commenting. just showing a different perspective i find it interesting playing devils advocate. I'm not interested in the op either not my type and i don't think she likes me anyway from another thread. It's not white knighting just seeing a bigger picture being open to opinions from all angles."

and you have a right to your opinion; playing devils advocate however is not what you are doing; you are concurring with the OP; whether they would actually meet you is irrelevant.

Look some people set great store by verifications; that's fine; we all use different ways to decide who we will meet. For me and the people i meet, they don't matter.

Saying it could all be bullshit is antagonistic; as is saying I am a fraud. Why would I lie? I am 40 years old, very happy and meet fantastic "swingers"... do I need to lie, to what end? So I can meet the 3 other regular forum users from Devon? Now that is judgemental and at no point in our conversation have I judged you; made reference to your profile or the legitimacy of your posts or profile.

I play my way, I don't feel the need to judge the way others play.... it's a forum... for open discussion, do I need a "green badge" to post in it?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes. well I certainly don't fit this category, but looking at some users on here, I do agree with the OP to a certain extent an can see where they are coming from.

How many people have I met from here? You don't know because I don't have verifications from them. well it says 3 on your profile, it's normally the single men on here that post an don't even have 1 veri but can answer everything to do with swinging the op doesn't feel these people should be commenting on threads presuming lack of experience I think.

So as I don't have ANY verifications I shouldn't post anywhere....

This thread gets funnier by the second. I don't understand why you haven't ever just got 1 veri then hide them if you don't like them, does look suspicious to me and others probly that you have none.

I have been on this site for 5 years... 5 sodding years. Anyone in Devon that swings and uses this site will know a swinger of a swinger...... that knows me. Not a brag; it's just the way it is.

I am sorry you find me auspicious; but I don't meet single guys so I would say it's all good whatever man I'm just telling it like is, playing devils advocate aswell, I don't meet single guys either but I know couples and single ladies that wouldn't entertain a message or consider meeting single men who are un-verified by meets that's all.

Thank you for your advice the minute I can no longer get meets because I am unverified by a person... I will consider calling in those previous liaisons, till then I will be okay that's my point though you have no proof of ANY meets. Could all be bullshit personally I don't care about your sex life though only my own. Just offering another insight to the OP's post

Could all be bullshit... so could everyone's verifications. See the thing is; apart from in this thread I am not exactly shouting it from the rooftops....

Still I guess only those with verifications have a right to speak... well I think that's what the op is hinting at, look no offence intended but you are definitely 1 of the demographic the op is referring to in my opinion that's all.

But you don't meet men. Make a point of making it clear in fact. So how does the fact that Pauly90 doesn't have any verifications affect you in any way?

I want to meet him, even without verifications. But the naughty tease refuses to travel up here. Bah! it doesn't affect me at all, I am merely offering a different perspective an he has just happened to get caught in the crossfire because he seems to fit the bill about what the op saying.

Yes, but you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious - that the opening post is bollocks. yes I am aware some of it is because everybody interprets swinging in a different way on here but seeing people who you may believe to not have a valid opinion commenting on things obviously is frustrating the op.

Why are you fighting their side for them when they aren't even here commenting. just showing a different perspective i find it interesting playing devils advocate. I'm not interested in the op either not my type and i don't think she likes me anyway from another thread. It's not white knighting just seeing a bigger picture being open to opinions from all angles.

What different angle? You agreed with them and use the verification system to judge how people are using the site,the same as they are. What's your different angle,in case I've missed your comment?"

I said to a certain extent, I would take a chance meeting an unverified lady or couple. So I don't judge everything on verifications you are just assuming now.

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By *rincesscaracouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

What is a 'real swinger'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

That's bollocking.

Thus disproving your theory. "

Tongue on cheek comment, hence the emoticon t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

That's bollocking.

Thus disproving your theory.

Tongue on cheek comment, hence the emoticon t "

Oops typos, I blame the wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

How does what people post on the forums or how the use the site in general effect, in a negative way, your experience of the site and the meets that you have? I am confused but genuinely interested in finding out.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

If you're real swingers I'd rather be vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here mainly socially, I enjoy the forums and have the odd no strings meet. Now I feel like such a fraud!

How many people do I have to fuck in order to be welcomed here? I'll clear my diary....."

Ooooh, start with me.

*waves.....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers.

What is a 'real swinger'?"

I've already asked, no answer was forth given as usual

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."
noones.spoilt anything for me

Five.minutes youve.been "swinging" and.think your better than anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

That's bollocking.

Thus disproving your theory.

Tongue on cheek comment, hence the emoticon t

Oops typos, I blame the wine "

Thanks for not commenting on my typo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

But how are you real swingers??? Charging single guys for a gangbang isn't swinging in my eyes it's silly idiots paying for a fuck because they are hard up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

How am I spoiling anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers.

What is a 'real swinger'?"

Them obvs. Not the rest of us.

I thought they'd made it quite clear.

Sanctimonious.com

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

You do know swinging is a lifestyle choice don't you? With social as well as sexual elements? Or are you some of those people who get bitter and angry when things on here don't go your way?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been told not to duck the issue

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

Most of the regulars on here have me blocked "

i have everyone blocked

im too busy as a fully paid up member of the unicorns and fantasy accessory platinum pampas gr-ass and pussy eating clique, who hang out nocturnally and dont pay to go to parties, association... ROFL xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers.

What is a 'real swinger'?

I've already asked, no answer was forth given as usual "

I need to know because I want to make sure I'm not one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

God, all I ever see on every thread you post on is you moaning and whinging. If that's what being a real swinger is like, thank fuck I'm not one

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

Its not s proper troll if you have to come back and stir the pot, you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

See i do kind of view the forum as a social thing and i don't see what's wrong with that? I've never met anyone who regularly uses the forum....they chat and like the sound of their own voices too much!

....I use the rest of the site for organising my sexy time and i don't think I'm the only one, so I disagree that it's all wannabes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

Most of the regulars on here have me blocked

i have everyone blocked

im too busy as a fully paid up member of the unicorns and fantasy accessory platinum pampas gr-ass and pussy eating clique, who hang out nocturnally and dont pay to go to parties, association... ROFL xx"

You need to issue a report to admin, your filters are bust...

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

So , being a bloke who has had a social with a couple of ladies on here and not having had an orgy or gang bang with 20 people means I'm not supposed to be on here....HELLO!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

Is anyone personally bothering YOU by using Fab the way they want? No.

Are you adults? Yes.

Do you need to grow up? Probably!

What's the opposite of slut shaming....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope no socials here and I certainly haven't picked out 5 i wanna play with...... xxx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

Most of the regulars on here have me blocked

i have everyone blocked

im too busy as a fully paid up member of the unicorns and fantasy accessory platinum pampas gr-ass and pussy eating clique, who hang out nocturnally and dont pay to go to parties, association... ROFL xx

You need to issue a report to admin, your filters are bust... "

those in my inbox can message, new people cant..its another clique in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers.

Is anyone personally bothering YOU by using Fab the way they want? No.

Are you adults? Yes.

Do you need to grow up? Probably!

What's the opposite of slut shaming....?"

Wannabe-slut shaming??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes.

Talking on the forums has got me a LOT more than a social

In fact it's my preferred way of meeting people "

I'm hoping to see your ducky soon. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here just watching everyone prove our point, kik, whatsapp, facebook, get yourself off and play with the vanilla people. Social media is so called for a reason, fab is called a swinger site for free (as said by the site owners, click the link at the bottom) for a reason. The social media people here spoil it for the real swingers."

no bugger is spoiling it for us - we cant shag 24/7 so an hour or so each day i will spend in the forums - does that mean we arent swingers -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

Most of the regulars on here have me blocked

i have everyone blocked

im too busy as a fully paid up member of the unicorns and fantasy accessory platinum pampas gr-ass and pussy eating clique, who hang out nocturnally and dont pay to go to parties, association... ROFL xx

You need to issue a report to admin, your filters are bust... those in my inbox can message, new people cant..its another clique in there "

I clique within a clique..... thats fucking

A

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I am posting that on fabswingers twitter account

https://twitter.com/fabswingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

That's bollocking.

Thus disproving your theory.

Tongue on cheek comment, hence the emoticon t

Oops typos, I blame the wine

Thanks for not commenting on my typo. "

Have to admit i didn't notice until my partner pointed it out I blame the wine

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I haven't really read much of this,but I get a tincy wincy feeling it's not a feel good thread

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I haven't really read much of this,but I get a tincy wincy feeling it's not a feel good thread "

It's the ones like this that liven the place up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And done. Cheer op i think you need a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

waiting for wasp to come and put in her words of wisdom

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The forum is one big clique, if you're not part of it you get ignored

Most of the regulars on here have me blocked

i have everyone blocked

im too busy as a fully paid up member of the unicorns and fantasy accessory platinum pampas gr-ass and pussy eating clique, who hang out nocturnally and dont pay to go to parties, association... ROFL xx

You need to issue a report to admin, your filters are bust... those in my inbox can message, new people cant..its another clique in there

I clique within a clique..... thats fucking

A

W

E

S

O

M

E

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I am posting that on fabswingers twitter account

https://twitter.com/fabswingers"

hahhahaha

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I haven't really read much of this,but I get a tincy wincy feeling it's not a feel good thread

Heavens some people don't go out of their way to be liked do they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a problem getting meets. We host very successful parties and gangbangs that are very well attended. Talking on the forums will only get you an invite to a social at best and at worst a paid party. Do not believe the "regulars" here they are here for facebook like kicks. They enjoy the thought of swinging. Go through the threads and then individual verifications, how many say met at a social. Not real swingers. Wannabes."

My fella and I met via the forums and we have no problem getting meets and turn many a free party invite down due to family constraints. He's a popular forum poster, I'm not so popular and I have never been to a social in my life. All our verifications but one are play meets, the one that isnt is from a fabster we met at one of the many swingers club we frequent, so in summary, you are talking absolute rubbish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I should have the last word; as I am after all, one of the fakey, non swingery, buggeries, that use this site as a pervy facebook and don't own a green badge and therefore shouldn't comment.

OP, I don't truly understand what your issue is; if you are having successful meets; then "crack on" and enjoy, brilliant.

Just because people CAN talk about other things and don't post every single meet they have, doesn't mean they aren't meeting, just means maybe they're a bit discrete, the more you know the less you show and all that.

I hope that you can see that people use this site how they wish to; that's the premise of it. Some people meet every weekend, some every 6 months, but they enjoy the uninhibited banter, without moralistic reproach... thats why they are here, to talk freely about anything and everything; including sex, without fear of judgement.

I hope you can find it within yourselves to accept that it takes many kinds of people to make a world; reducing the number of non-true swingers (whatever your definition of that is), will not change the site for you or anyone else, the site doesn't have a limited amount of space; therefore they aren't keeping "true swingers" off. If you are implying that true swingers would be put off by the forum banter and number of fakes, then I am afraid, again you are mistaken; there have always been dreamers, and nevermeets, its part of the lifestyle, going right back to the contact magazine days.

I genuinely hope that you can live and let live and continue to enjoy using the site.

Regards

Paul (the one without the green badge)

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