FabSwingers.com forum: Fat shaming

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so as a Male on here who carries a few extra pounds just wondering what people's views are on fat shaming. As anyone been a victim of it or been the person that fat shamed somebody else..

Also is there any females and couples out there that are into meeting lads who are overweight ? It seems extremely hard to find anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your overweight fuck knows what I am lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont look that overweight op xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think any type of body shaming is bad to be honest. For lads it can be quite difficult as it's the done thing to laugh it off as "banter"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also carry a bit of extra, I have a bigger from bodybuilding which I don't know if it helps or hinders how I look. Work in progress still though. Would be interesting to see more responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer overweight myself, I am overweight myself also but that's not the reason, I just fancy overweight and not skinny XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your overweight fuck knows what I am lol

Gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had sex with a couple of quite large men. It's more difficult for me because of body pain and hips not wanting to spread too far,and the stamina was poor,but we had a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it lots on here. People disguise it as oh not my type.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I love a flat stomach on a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the usual abuse when I've turned people down..you're too fat to fuck,I was only asking as I felt sorry for you etc. That I ignore as idiots throwing their toys out the pram.

I struggle to find women and couples who prefer fat women,definitely seems more men prefer the BBW than women.

As for fat shaming in the vanilla world I have got to a point in my life where I accept I'm fat so calling me it is as much an insult to me as saying I'm blue eyed. Not going to let some small minded imbeciles opinion on what is "normal" or beautiful stop me enjoying my life.

And for the record I like me men chunky,6 packs do nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had it lots on here. People disguise it as oh not my type. "

You're not fat

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By *red438Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

"If your overweight fuck knows what I am lol

Gorgeous

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I call myself a fat bastard all the time, it helps me get off my arse and goto gym.

Fat shaming dosnt bother me, I call it what it is.. simples

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I'm built for comfort not speed

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

We don't care either way, thin or curvy, as long as you have a smile, smell good, your own teeth and trim your pubes, and a great way about you it's all good by us.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Sometime there's to many assumptions made

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Just read our last post and we sound like a right pair of sluts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat or thin isnt really an issue as long as the person is friendly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fat or thin isnt really an issue as long as the person is friendly

I would like to think that is true but from

Experience I know that is not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had it lots on here. People disguise it as oh not my type.

You're not fat"

Oh ya but I am. Your magnificent

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My Mum fat shames me every time I go to see her. I'm pretty much used to it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't care either way, thin or curvy, as long as you have a smile, smell good, your own teeth and trim your pubes, and a great way about you it's all good by us."

Bi man here loving your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat and never struggle to meet people if I get called fat I just laugh and say o well I'll not be the one carrying the box

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"so as a Male on here who carries a few extra pounds just wondering what people's views are on fat shaming. As anyone been a victim of it or been the person that fat shamed somebody else..

Also is there any females and couples out there that are into meeting lads who are overweight ? It seems extremely hard to find anyone"

Fat shamers are wankers as are skinny shamers or anyone else who thinks it's OK to judge anyone else by their standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so as a Male on here who carries a few extra pounds just wondering what people's views are on fat shaming. As anyone been a victim of it or been the person that fat shamed somebody else..

Also is there any females and couples out there that are into meeting lads who are overweight ? It seems extremely hard to find anyone

Fat shamers are wankers as are skinny shamers or anyone else who thinks it's OK to judge anyone else by their standards. "

I prefer larger to skinny, I am not saying there's anything wrong with being skinny though. XXX

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been called anorexic before on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man messaged me after I posted a semi clad pic of me not long after I joined. He told me that my belly was bigger than my boobs and added a few hahahaha's on the end of his message. I think I was supposed to be upset. That's the only negativity I've had on here, that and the "cunr" message last night.

Just block and move on.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"I prefer larger to skinny, I am not saying there's anything wrong with being skinny though. XXX"

Fab a mixed bag of goody's something for everyone just got find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bit chubby but having facial hair is huge taboo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you ashamed to be fat OP ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you ashamed to be fat OP ?"

No but doesn't stop people judging me without knowing me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you ashamed to be fat OP ?

No but doesn't stop people judging me without knowing me "

But if they didn't judge you for your weight it would be something else

Plus it depends what you mean by judge, not being attracted to somebody for whatever reason isnt judging them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a larger lass and state that categorically in my profile. So it's rather laughable that I have had messages asking to meet then further messages after I have turned them down calling me all sorts of names! I just block them and try not to take it to heart.

And yes there are plenty women on here who will like a bigger guy- in fact my profile states it as a preference! So hang in there OP we do exist

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a larger lass and state that categorically in my profile. So it's rather laughable that I have had messages asking to meet then further messages after I have turned them down calling me all sorts of names! I just block them and try not to take it to heart.

And yes there are plenty women on here who will like a bigger guy- in fact my profile states it as a preference! So hang in there OP we do exist

Thanks for your support

. Don't listen to them

Lads you are beautiful

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Are you ashamed to be fat OP ?

No but doesn't stop people judging me without knowing me "

This.

If you are happy being overweight, then carry on.

If you are unhappy being ovwrweight, diet some off. It isn't hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the hot pics for men

Most Fabs this month

Most Fabs last month

What are the common denominators ?

Athletic / toned men

Mid 20's to early 30's

Or Big cocks

That, for the majority, is the ideal

That's not shaming anyone for being fat, but a hard statement that if you are fat you will find it harder here as a guy.

Personality and sense of humour only works with certain people

Looks matter for the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only got a little cock but I've got 17 stone to hammer it in with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've only got a little cock but I've got 17 stone to hammer it in with

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

"Look at the hot pics for men

Most Fabs this month

Most Fabs last month

What are the common denominators ?

Athletic / toned men

Mid 20's to early 30's

Or Big cocks

That, for the majority, is the ideal

That's not shaming anyone for being fat, but a hard statement that if you are fat you will find it harder here as a guy.

Personality and sense of humour only works with certain people

Looks matter for the majority "

Aren't they being fabbed by gay men though?...I prefer a bit of meat on my men, and i'm more likely to fab a hairy chest or a nice bum than a six pack x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

i had to grow into my skin lol never had a problem getting men

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By *helsea 22Woman
over a year ago

barnsley

"We don't care either way, thin or curvy, as long as you have a smile, smell good, your own teeth and trim your pubes, and a great way about you it's all good by us."

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By *ootlecplxCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm plus size and it the only thing holding me back on this site is my confidence xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at the hot pics for men

Most Fabs this month

Most Fabs last month

What are the common denominators ?

Athletic / toned men

Mid 20's to early 30's

Or Big cocks

That, for the majority, is the ideal

That's not shaming anyone for being fat, but a hard statement that if you are fat you will find it harder here as a guy.

Personality and sense of humour only works with certain people

Looks matter for the majority

Aren't they being fabbed by gay men though?...I prefer a bit of meat on my men, and i'm more likely to fab a hairy chest or a nice bum than a six pack x

I don't know.

You can't see who Fabs them (as far as I know)

As I said, there will be exceptions, but I do believe that for most (but not all), a guy with an athletic / muscled build will be more attractive than one with a podge

As for me ? I like all sorts of builds. I don't have a type, but given the choice of two, I'd go for the swimmers build over the darts player.

Somewhere in between the two is best tho (for me at least)

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Having been overweight in the past I'm acutely aware of people making remarks about it and my response has always been, "I can always lose weight whereas you will always be a wanker."

There's no comeback from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having been overweight in the past I'm acutely aware of people making remarks about it and my response has always been, "I can always lose weight whereas you will always be a wanker."

There's no comeback from that.

My favourite was to say I'm fat but you're ugly,I can lose weight..you'lol always be screwed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at the hot pics for men

Most Fabs this month

Most Fabs last month

What are the common denominators ?

Athletic / toned men

Mid 20's to early 30's

Or Big cocks

That, for the majority, is the ideal

That's not shaming anyone for being fat, but a hard statement that if you are fat you will find it harder here as a guy.

Personality and sense of humour only works with certain people

Looks matter for the majority "

Spot on. It's basically the same when you look at the hot pictures for women. The stereotypical beauties fill those pages.

It's no barometer on how good the sex will be though. Anybody with a bit of experience knows that body shape tells you little or nothing about how satisfied you're going to be after sex.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Having been overweight in the past I'm acutely aware of people making remarks about it and my response has always been, "I can always lose weight whereas you will always be a wanker."

There's no comeback from that.

My favourite was to say I'm fat but you're ugly,I can lose weight..you'lol always be screwed lol

My favourite was always to say "yep, I'm a right porker. But at least I have potential".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been fat shamed on a social. Upset me at the time, especially when I hadn't hidden my size. Maybe it made him feel better, I left here for a long time after that.

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

I feel no shame about my appearance/size, so I can't be "shamed".

I grew up being told by my own mother that I was fat, that my bum was big etc as did my sister and as a result we were miserably thin. I find all the "shaming" totally horrifying having experienced the damage it can cause. I prefer to help others love who they are

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

"Having been overweight in the past I'm acutely aware of people making remarks about it and my response has always been, "I can always lose weight whereas you will always be a wanker."

There's no comeback from that.

My favourite was to say I'm fat but you're ugly,I can lose weight..you'lol always be screwed lol

They soon shut up don't they.

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