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Single men, what's your experience?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

Just joined this site a few weeks ago. Had some fairly alright chats, one phone sex/cam fun. No meets yet but I'm not in a mad rush.

However outside of the site in the same period of time, I've had quite a few opportunities come my way and some naughty nights (and some to come).

What's your experience? Do you tend to have better success outside of here or is here your primary place to look?

I'm curious my brothers! Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more success outside of fab. People are way too picky and choosy on here. Unfortunate but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have more success outside of fab. People are way too picky and choosy on here. Unfortunate but true. "

So you find you have more success when you are in an environment where people are not picky or choosy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its better for me out of here for meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you interact with people face to face, they see your personality and experience the chemistry.

On here, you're judged by a photo or how good or indeed bland your profile is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do alright in both...I guess I'm just lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have more fun chatting to Margi at tesco fish count then I do on here.

I think people don't see the real you until your face to face.

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

I'm here for the lifestyle with like minded people. I won't find that in the nilla world. Success is relative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you interact with people face to face, they see your personality and experience the chemistry.

On here, you're judged by a photo or how good or indeed bland your profile is. "

This.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Hi All,

Just joined this site a few weeks ago. Had some fairly alright chats, one phone sex/cam fun. No meets yet but I'm not in a mad rush.

However outside of the site in the same period of time, I've had quite a few opportunities come my way and some naughty nights (and some to come).

What's your experience? Do you tend to have better success outside of here or is here your primary place to look?

I'm curious my brothers! Thanks!"

Define success ... I don't base my success in either sphere as the amount of sex I have..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always done well off site until recently. I'm not too fussed as to wether I get meets off the site of not. I'm not what most people look for. But I also dont worry about it. If I get a meet i have fun. If I Don't, I get a quiet night win, win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were happy to meet with "solo guys" . . Pussy is truly greedy . . and we've made good friends.

BUT . . .

For the few that a couple will find that happily meld in with their needs that are hordes who are time-wasting tossers. To them most of what happens for real is a "wanking fantasy" . . and they will always let you down somehow.

Look how many "solo male" profiles come and go like annoying "pop-ups"? To save our time being wasted we're now adjusting our profile to exclude them. Sad . . the joys of a few spoilt by the attitude of the many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience on fab has been mostly positive, no meets or anything but I'm sure theyll happen when the time is right.

In real life I don't even bother looking for fun, in my head non fabbers are vanilla and I want my fantasies fulfilled!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Fab is just another tool in the box

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Only had one meet outside of fab in 4 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is just another tool in the box "

Can't beat having your tool in the box

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi All,

Just joined this site a few weeks ago. Had some fairly alright chats, one phone sex/cam fun. No meets yet but I'm not in a mad rush.

However outside of the site in the same period of time, I've had quite a few opportunities come my way and some naughty nights (and some to come).

What's your experience? Do you tend to have better success outside of here or is here your primary place to look?

I'm curious my brothers! Thanks!

Define success ... I don't base my success in either sphere as the amount of sex I have.. "

Haha... I hear you I can't define success for you but depends on what your purpose on here is for.

Personally outside of looking for meets, I've had some good chats with people and some interesting chats through the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met my dates in Asda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have many meets outside of fab, although on another site I am on. I mostly just use fab for the forum, it is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have many meets outside of fab, although on another site I am on. I mostly just use fab for the forum, it is comedy gold "

Good to see you posting again Shag, feels like it's been a while

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I have more success outside of fab.

For me, in person better and more qualities shine through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what you're trying to get out of fab, I find it works best as a way of keeping in contact with people you've met through clubs etc

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. MOORLANDS & BARMOUTH.


"It depends what you're trying to get out of fab, I find it works best as a way of keeping in contact with people you've met through clubs etc"

Didn't see you Saturday night. Where were you hiding lol xxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have many meets outside of fab, although on another site I am on. I mostly just use fab for the forum, it is comedy gold

Good to see you posting again Shag, feels like it's been a while "
Thank yes, its good to be back after moving place with no internet for 3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends what you're trying to get out of fab, I find it works best as a way of keeping in contact with people you've met through clubs etc

Didn't see you Saturday night. Where were you hiding lol xxxx Suzi"

Hiding? You can't miss me! I'm 6'4''!! Downstairs most of the night on the sofas then moved upstairs at about 1ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have more success outside of fab.

For me, in person better and more qualities shine through"

Definitely this.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"What's your experience? Do you tend to have better success outside of here or is here your primary place to look? "

Wide and varied. I have a network of contacts from beyond here but it's always good to meet new and interesting people

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I do better outside of fab but starting to do well on here and attracting the type of people I want. I've invested into the lifestyle though and if you do that you can get the rewards. It takes patience, socialising, networking, self improvement, attitude and more though.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I know a few people from club scene that don't use chat or forums but have profiles - use it to keep in touch

For me I prefer club scene though have had a few meets from fabs mainly from chatting to propel in forum and then taking it from there

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER


"When you interact with people face to face, they see your personality and experience the chemistry.

On here, you're judged by a photo or how good or indeed bland your profile is. "

I totally agree with that. Those I've met have enjoyed my personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I'm doing OK for a single guy on here. Going to socials and clubs does makes it a lot easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see Fab as being completely different to my life away from the scene. I cannot therefore really compare the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a bit like a pub if theres no action theres always another pub!

Half of fab are on pof pms

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