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"Not having much luck " Ther are mature people who like younger we have met some much younger guys but you live too far away | |||
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"Well purely for research .....I'd be willing to road-test a spunky youth with a cock like a tent-pole .... But I think its only fair to point out the test could end prematurely .... " Haha..cute | |||
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"Well purely for research .....I'd be willing to road-test a spunky youth with a cock like a tent-pole .... But I think its only fair to point out the test could end prematurely .... " Form an orderly queue behind Soxy!! | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi" What's "young"? I'm 26 and I've never viewed the site as an "easy fuck"... actually I've always viewed the site as a way to chat to and socialise with other like-minded people, and if sexual attraction and a meet comes out of it, that's a bonus. I'm not slating you, just offering you the opposing opinion from someone who's younger & who doesn't fit your little stereotype. | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do." Yes, I feel that too. I would never in a million years have come on a place like this in my 20's! | |||
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"Not having much luck " I'm guessing they must just be saying it then | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi" A different opnion might be that its better they come here and be upfront about what they want. Ie sex and not relationship. Im in the camp of live while your young and settle down when you have experienced as much of life as possible. Plus people in their 20s live in a different world now.. xx | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi" I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism. Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here? On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40? Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene? You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic. People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do. Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate. Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself. | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism. Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here? On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40? Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene? You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic. People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do. Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate. Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself." whooooaaaa. ..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly .... | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism. Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here? On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40? Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene? You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic. People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do. Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate. Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself. whooooaaaa. ..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly ...." Thanks. Ànd I wish I hadn't been a child during the heady, sexual liberation of the 60's and 70's... It sounded like fun | |||
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"It's ridiculous to say "young people are only here for easy sex" as if no one else is. Everyone wants to fuck with the least aggro possible. You old people need some perspective. " SOME old people .... ...not me | |||
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"..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly" The question was indeed posted in an open forum. Everyone is indeed entitled to their opinion. However, neither of those facts imply that a poster should consider their opinion to be sacrosanct. Implying that 'young people' have no business being members of the swinging scene; that only couples are 'proper' swingers; or that people of a certain age are just looking for 'an easy fuck;' are precisely the kind of views that serve to drive new members away from the community. I attended my first swinging event when I was 25 and single. At no point did anyone tell me that I should 'be out enjoying life with my mates;' or that I should 'come back in 20 years.' By contrast, they welcomed the fact that people my age were exploring swinging, and were more than forthcoming in sharing advice on how to navigate the scene as a 'newcomer.' As I said in my original post, if you don't feel comfortable meeting someone my age, fair enough; however, don't assume that your personal preferences give you the right to dictate who 'deserves' to be here. | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism. Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here? On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40? Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene? You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic. People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do. Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate. Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself. whooooaaaa. ..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly ...." I stopped meeting older men because the attitudes of a lot of them towards women who have had multiple sexual partners stank. They too only wanted sex but their archaic notions of women and sex pisses me off. I'm sticking to younger men thank you (with the occasional older men with the right attitude). Being old doesn't mean you're a "proper" swinger,it just means you're old. | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism. Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here? On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40? Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene? You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic. People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do. Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate. Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself. whooooaaaa. ..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly .... I stopped meeting older men because the attitudes of a lot of them towards women who have had multiple sexual partners stank. They too only wanted sex but their archaic notions of women and sex pisses me off. I'm sticking to younger men thank you (with the occasional older men with the right attitude). Being old doesn't mean you're a "proper" swinger,it just means you're old. " Amen.. Enough said in reply to that comment ! (28 yo here) | |||
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"It's ridiculous to say "young people are only here for easy sex" as if no one else is. Everyone wants to fuck with the least aggro possible. You old people need some perspective. " I agree though less of the old I'm only here for sex and if these sites were around when I was in my 20 I'd be here having a ball | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi" Looooooooooooooool Yeah let's go get pissed up in a nightclub where most fuckers are d up looking for a fight. We'll take a swingers club any night of the week. | |||
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"Not having much luck " Hi | |||
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"Not having much luck " i go for 20+ as sometimes you find yourself pleasantly surprised as to maturity of some younger guys | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. " Aawwwww.... let Suzi make you a cup of tea. Not promising it will taste nice I'm crap at tea making. Only got Earl Grey though. Will that suffice xxxx | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. " You must be at that awkward age | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. Aawwwww.... let Suzi make you a cup of tea. Not promising it will taste nice I'm crap at tea making. Only got Earl Grey though. Will that suffice xxxx " That will be lovely, thank you xx | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. You must be at that awkward age " I think it's just that I'm awkward. | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. You must be at that awkward age I think it's just that I'm awkward." But awkward is the new black mi'dear! | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi" As a single 20 year old I don't consider myself a swinger, however I'm not here for an easy fuck as it takes a while for me to feel comfortable meeting on my own, the site got recommended to me by a friend as I wanted to experiment a bit (meeting women and couples, trying new things with a bit more adventurous men than your usual club pick up) and it has given me quite a bit of confidence and I've had amazing experiences. I'd rather experiment while I'm young and single than wait 20 years not knowing what I like and how much I'm missing (Not slating just my side of that comment) | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. You must be at that awkward age I think it's just that I'm awkward." I make an awesome cuppa speaking of i think ill make one now | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. You must be at that awkward age I think it's just that I'm awkward. But awkward is the new black mi'dear! " I can't wait to see the profiles with awkward guys only on them. | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. You must be at that awkward age I think it's just that I'm awkward. I make an awesome cuppa speaking of i think ill make one now " You make an awesome cuppa? Well.. hello there | |||
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"Who's got an opinion of an opinion Lol Me... My opinion is Yeah, I'm after a fuck but who aint? that's what I'm on here for. And it'll be nice if it comes knocking on my door or literally giftwraps itself to me but as you all know People's search criteria can sometimes make it difficult as I find most ppl that get me excited are after the opposite of me or live way to far for them to even bother to get back to ya It's frustrating but at the end of the day it is what it is I suppose My profile pics ain't exactly grabbing the headlines but I'm trying to be a descreet sort and that's another thing what won't do you any favours Ppl wanna see yr pics mostly If I could plaster em all over the web I would but that's not what I'm after, I can send the odd couple of privert pics but to verified accounts That's my only preference when searching... Makes it hard for newbies Anyway if anyone does just want a normal chat come say hi " How straight is 'straight' again? | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. You must be at that awkward age I think it's just that I'm awkward. But awkward is the new black mi'dear! I can't wait to see the profiles with awkward guys only on them." *skips off to change profile* | |||
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties. Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck. Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi" I'm 53 and don't consider myself a swinger. I don't think it's an age thing. | |||
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk. It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. You must be at that awkward age I think it's just that I'm awkward. I make an awesome cuppa speaking of i think ill make one now You make an awesome cuppa? Well.. hello there " for the record i never made my cuppa got distracted somehow | |||
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