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By *asokitty OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

A friend received a really distasteful message from someone today. Paedophilic incest was the theme from an elderly 'gentleman'

He stated in his profile that he had received messages from 15 year olds on here too.

He has been reported yet is still active on here. I'm kinda concerned a) that he's still.active b) that it seemed so much more than fantasy and c) his profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report it again and again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy wanting to dominate our whole family....kids the lot....thought he was joking till he started going into details. ...some sick people out there...hope he gets help x

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By *asokitty OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"We had a guy wanting to dominate our whole family....kids the lot....thought he was joking till he started going into details. ...some sick people out there...hope he gets help x"

Ffs. I know they're out there. But to approach people in this manner. What to they achieve. Unless they also enjoy the feeling a invoked in others too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoot them. Or send me their address and I will.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Do you know the fab name for this guy? Someone to watch out for.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If it was today it can take a couple of days for admin to sort it out.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Do you know the fab name for this guy? Someone to watch out for."

If she did and she said on a forum post then she could end up banned herself.

Best just report it to admin and if he's still here after a day or two report him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was today it can take a couple of days for admin to sort it out. "

Unless you say something in the forum that they don't like.. then they are all over your arse! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wants his fucking head cutting off !!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If it was today it can take a couple of days for admin to sort it out.

Unless you say something in the forum that they don't like.. then they are all over your arse! Lol"

its the mods that sort out the forum not admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a guy wanting to dominate our whole family....kids the lot....thought he was joking till he started going into details. ...some sick people out there...hope he gets help x

Ffs. I know they're out there. But to approach people in this manner. What to they achieve. Unless they also enjoy the feeling a invoked in others too. "

Just creepy bastards getting off on it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send them to me for attonement

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

He will be someone who is sick.

Im sure if he had those tendancies he wouldnt be flounting it on here.

Also how many 15 year olds do you think are on here that just "happen" to pm someone like him.

I have no idea why people get off on this kind of shock thing but they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shoot them. Or send me their address and I will."

Can I get half of site adress and send to you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish o knew who he was and I'd arrange to meet him then proceed to do things I'm sure he wouldn't get off on.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

To all those so quick to suggest they want to dish out some retribution on the person mentioned perhaps bear this in mind.

It's just as likely that the OP has made this up as it that they haven't.

Now I'm sure the OP didn't and that they are honest and decent and will be horrified that I might suggest they would do so and people will want to shout me down for suggesting that any decent person would make up such a thing but the fact is, People do.

In reality, there are a lot more bull shitters in the world than peadophiles so unless you know it to be an absolute fact your on some very dodgy ground when you start suggesting you would meet out on vengeance based entirely on what someone on a forum tells you!!!

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all those so quick to suggest they want to dish out some retribution on the person mentioned perhaps bear this in mind.

It's just as likely that the OP has made this up as it that they haven't.

Now I'm sure the OP didn't and that they are honest and decent and will be horrified that I might suggest they would do so and people will want to shout me down for suggesting that any decent person would make up such a thing but the fact is, People do.

In reality, there are a lot more bull shitters in the world than peadophiles so unless you know it to be an absolute fact your on some very dodgy ground when you start suggesting you would meet out on vengeance based entirely on what someone on a forum tells you!!!

Just a thought. "

Spoilsport!!!...I like to look out with those that turn up with the "off with their head!" type comments (quite literally in this case) ....

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Alert Cincinnati Zoo, they shoot things that hurt children....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"A friend received a really distasteful message from someone today. Paedophilic incest was the theme from an elderly 'gentleman'

He stated in his profile that he had received messages from 15 year olds on here too.

He has been reported yet is still active on here. I'm kinda concerned a) that he's still.active b) that it seemed so much more than fantasy and c) his profile text. "

If your friend has reported and you've reported his profile I'm sure it will be dealt with eventually. In the meantime most people will be as disgusted as you are and won't respond. I also think it likely that if he has received messages from 15 year olds they aren't really 15 year olds at all.

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By *asokitty OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"To all those so quick to suggest they want to dish out some retribution on the person mentioned perhaps bear this in mind.

It's just as likely that the OP has made this up as it that they haven't.

Now I'm sure the OP didn't and that they are honest and decent and will be horrified that I might suggest they would do so and people will want to shout me down for suggesting that any decent person would make up such a thing but the fact is, People do.

]In reality, there are a lot more bull shitters in the world than peadophiles so unless you know it to be an absolute fact your on some very dodgy ground when you start suggesting you would meet out on vengeance based entirely on what someone on a forum tells you!!!

Just a thought. "

I can assure you I haven't made it up. I have no reason to. If I were giving out his name and allowing people to go say all kinds to him then I would see a point to me doing so. A spurred person I assume assume is what you're getting at or someone with a grudge. However I am not doing so. There are clearly people who are happy to say this kind of stuff on here as there is anywhere else on the Web.

I am not going to shout you down for suggesting it as it's a perfectly valid point and has been done by people in the past elsewhere. But my concerns remain which was the reason for posting.

My friend is not alone in receiving this kind of message as another poster has said. It is often said that forum users make up a minority of people on this site so it makes you wonder how many people do get this kind of message and we do not know if it. I know she does not use them. Hence my reason for bringing it here.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Please apreciate that I'm sure you haven't made it up, as referee to in post.

My comment is not so much toward yourself as I can fully apreciate your angst and desire to communicate it.

It's intended as a "reality check" for the pitchfork brigade who, if not here yet, will be along very shortly.

I remember the story a few years ago of a Doctor beaten almost to death after a rumour went round the local council estate that a Pediatrician had moved in to the area!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moderators and the "report" button are here for a reason

why not use them

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By *asokitty OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Moderators and the "report" button are here for a reason

why not use them"

I have. Your point?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"To all those so quick to suggest they want to dish out some retribution on the person mentioned perhaps bear this in mind.

It's just as likely that the OP has made this up as it that they haven't.

Now I'm sure the OP didn't and that they are honest and decent and will be horrified that I might suggest they would do so and people will want to shout me down for suggesting that any decent person would make up such a thing but the fact is, People do.

In reality, there are a lot more bull shitters in the world than peadophiles so unless you know it to be an absolute fact your on some very dodgy ground when you start suggesting you would meet out on vengeance based entirely on what someone on a forum tells you!!!

Just a thought. "

Very brave!

Perhaps a little harsh on the OP

But I tend to agree.

There is also nothing more distasteful than a bunch of self-righteous people on some sort of vigilante hunt to meet out rough justice on unproven comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send them to me for attonement "

We'll do a better job.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be glad to show him my modest collection of knives..

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Shoot them. Or send me their address and I will."

Can't you just turn them into pillars of salt?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"Shoot them. Or send me their address and I will."

Now, now, you can't do that. The sick and twisted people have rights, if we shot everyone we didn't like we would be in America.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

One of our first times swinging, a guy told wiggles she looked awesome and had the body of a 15yr old... it rather put her off at time.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

Is there really any need for this here? Keep it private and report to admin over and over or if you feel that strongly screenshot it and report to the police. Do other members need this dumped on the forums?

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By *asokitty OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Is there really any need for this here? Keep it private and report to admin over and over or if you feel that strongly screenshot it and report to the police. Do other members need this dumped on the forums? "

There's plenty here I don't want to read/see. I just move along and don't comment. Simple really.

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