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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I sometimes wonder if fabbers, especially ladies, read their own profiles because have recently come across ladies on forums who seem interested in meeting/swinging based on their threads. But upon reading their profiles some "talk" about not being interested in meets and even threats of blocking in you get in touch, what the....Thought the point of this site was for like minded people meeting, basically, for sex, I'm confused, anybody else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope no confusion my end .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is directed at me - judging by a comment on another thread directed at me - what's your issue? Have you messaged me & I didn't reply or some shit?

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By *ay BrowerMan
over a year ago

Oldham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can use Fab how you choose. Some don't want to meet anyone and that's their porogative, Don't worry about what everyone else is doing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I sometimes wonder if fabbers, especially ladies, read their own profiles because have recently come across ladies on forums who seem interested in meeting/swinging based on their threads. But upon reading their profiles some "talk" about not being interested in meets and even threats of blocking in you get in touch, what the....Thought the point of this site was for like minded people meeting, basically, for sex, I'm confused, anybody else?"

I think your confusion possibly arises from the fact that the point of the site for you isn't necessarily the point of the site for other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd love to meet off here for sex, or any site really. thing is i'm after something in particular and it doesn't seem to exist for me so i will fuck myself and date myself until what i want comes along and he isn't full of shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes wonder if fabbers, especially ladies, read their own profiles because have recently come across ladies on forums who seem interested in meeting/swinging based on their threads. But upon reading their profiles some "talk" about not being interested in meets and even threats of blocking in you get in touch, what the....Thought the point of this site was for like minded people meeting, basically, for sex, I'm confused, anybody else?"

Don't try and over think the whys and why not in here.

As people choose to run their profiles and what they wish to post in here the way they want to.

It may seem confusing to you but its not confusing to them.

Just move onto the profiles of people who seem to be a similar match to yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sometimes wonder if fabbers, especially ladies, read their own profiles because have recently come across ladies on forums who seem interested in meeting/swinging based on their threads. But upon reading their profiles some "talk" about not being interested in meets and even threats of blocking in you get in touch, what the....Thought the point of this site was for like minded people meeting, basically, for sex, I'm confused, anybody else?

I think your confusion possibly arises from the fact that the point of the site for you isn't necessarily the point of the site for other people."

Okay, but I wouldn't join a site for aircraft craft modeling if I wasn't interested in either planes or models, I must be missing something?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I sometimes wonder if fabbers, especially ladies, read their own profiles because have recently come across ladies on forums who seem interested in meeting/swinging based on their threads. But upon reading their profiles some "talk" about not being interested in meets and even threats of blocking in you get in touch, what the....Thought the point of this site was for like minded people meeting, basically, for sex, I'm confused, anybody else?

I think your confusion possibly arises from the fact that the point of the site for you isn't necessarily the point of the site for other people.

Okay, but I wouldn't join a site for aircraft craft modeling if I wasn't interested in either planes or models, I must be missing something?"

Possibly. You might join a site for aircraft modelling if you liked talking about them, enjoyed looking at pictures of them or wanted to discover more about them by talking to people who knew about them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes wonder if fabbers, especially ladies, read their own profiles because have recently come across ladies on forums who seem interested in meeting/swinging based on their threads. But upon reading their profiles some "talk" about not being interested in meets and even threats of blocking in you get in touch, what the....Thought the point of this site was for like minded people meeting, basically, for sex, I'm confused, anybody else?

I think your confusion possibly arises from the fact that the point of the site for you isn't necessarily the point of the site for other people.

Okay, but I wouldn't join a site for aircraft craft modeling if I wasn't interested in either planes or models, I must be missing something?"

Not even if you liked aircraft craft modelling, but weren't currently making a model. You know lots of other craft modellers, and may well go back to craft modelling but don't feel the need to meet new aircraft crafy modellers at present.

We are not all fucking eachother 24/7 you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes wonder if fabbers, especially ladies, read their own profiles because have recently come across ladies on forums who seem interested in meeting/swinging based on their threads. But upon reading their profiles some "talk" about not being interested in meets and even threats of blocking in you get in touch, what the....Thought the point of this site was for like minded people meeting, basically, for sex, I'm confused, anybody else?

I think your confusion possibly arises from the fact that the point of the site for you isn't necessarily the point of the site for other people.

Okay, but I wouldn't join a site for aircraft craft modeling if I wasn't interested in either planes or models, I must be missing something?

Possibly. You might join a site for aircraft modelling if you liked talking about them, enjoyed looking at pictures of them or wanted to discover more about them by talking to people who knew about them though."

you just might - i look at stuff and chat about things that i have no interest other than maybe a resident at work has a past involving whatever it is and id like to try an jig a memory or two for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of the term like-minded being used as an all encompassing statement .... in fact I'm not like minded with anyone who uses it that way.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of the term like-minded being used as an all encompassing statement .... in fact I'm not like minded with anyone who uses it that way.....

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Stay away from the forums on Like-Minded.com then. You're always hanging around there when you're not in the slightest bit like-minded. Tsk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

Anyone ever said you look a bit like John McCririck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of the term like-minded being used as an all encompassing statement .... in fact I'm not like minded with anyone who uses it that way.....

Stay away from the forums on Like-Minded.com then. You're always hanging around there when you're not in the slightest bit like-minded. Tsk."

Awwww tell you what,,,, you do your thing and I'll do mine...

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By *ifeloves2watchCouple
over a year ago

Flint

Yes I am to. Or I hate the woman puts single woman looking for some foe my boyfriend wtf

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Not confused at all thanks....we all get something different from being on here so as long as we are not misleading anyone, what does it matter that we do not arrange meets? This isn't a sex supermarket, though some behave as if it is

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By *dam123321Man
over a year ago

London


"i'd love to meet off here for sex, or any site really. thing is i'm after something in particular and it doesn't seem to exist for me so i will fuck myself and date myself until what i want comes along and he isn't full of shit."

An empty nappy bag doesnt seem to hard to find? but no, that sounds pretty disheartening, hope you find some happiness

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"thought the point of this site was for like minded people meeting, basically, for sex, I'm confused, anybody else?

Okay, but I wouldn't join a site for aircraft craft modeling if I wasn't interested in either planes or models, I must be missing something?"

I think you're missing the fact that it's not a sex site, it's a swingers site and just because women are on here it does not mean they have to make themselves available to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd love to meet off here for sex, or any site really. thing is i'm after something in particular and it doesn't seem to exist for me so i will fuck myself and date myself until what i want comes along and he isn't full of shit.

An empty nappy bag doesnt seem to hard to find? but no, that sounds pretty disheartening, hope you find some happiness "

i'm not too bothered tbh and realistic about finding what i want and realistic about people lying to get what they want so know/knew it will be hard work.

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By *dam123321Man
over a year ago

London


"i'd love to meet off here for sex, or any site really. thing is i'm after something in particular and it doesn't seem to exist for me so i will fuck myself and date myself until what i want comes along and he isn't full of shit.

An empty nappy bag doesnt seem to hard to find? but no, that sounds pretty disheartening, hope you find some happiness

i'm not too bothered tbh and realistic about finding what i want and realistic about people lying to get what they want so know/knew it will be hard work."

Life's a bitch right? Lets just hope in the end it turns out good for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd love to meet off here for sex, or any site really. thing is i'm after something in particular and it doesn't seem to exist for me so i will fuck myself and date myself until what i want comes along and he isn't full of shit.

An empty nappy bag doesnt seem to hard to find? but no, that sounds pretty disheartening, hope you find some happiness

i'm not too bothered tbh and realistic about finding what i want and realistic about people lying to get what they want so know/knew it will be hard work.

Life's a bitch right? Lets just hope in the end it turns out good for us "

my standards are just too high but i won't settle.

yeah, good luck for you as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP

Anyone ever said you look a bit like John McCririck ?

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Normally Sinbad out of brookside or that dopey fat bloke with a flat cap on heartbeat, mate of green grass I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women ?

Mixed messages ?

Who'd have thunk it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP

Anyone ever said you look a bit like John McCririck ?

Normally Sinbad out of brookside or that dopey fat bloke with a flat cap on heartbeat, mate of green grass I think "

Lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There is not one single 'point' to Fab, just as we're all looking and offering something different.

Whilst the op may expect 1 single thing, all he needs to do is to search for people that match him. Where he doesn't find it, you need to move on to the next. There isn't a shortage of people here, unless seeking something incredibly rare, in which case you could consider alternative options. Or to reconsider your position.

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By *ullen2013Couple
over a year ago

gillingham

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