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The worst thing for guys on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your talking to an unbelievable gorgeous woman... And then mid way through conversation she doesn't reply even though she's online... So you start thinking maybe she's busy (phone rang) but like an hour has gone by and still no response and she's read you last message which you decided to attach a face pic! And then the thought crosses your mind - maybe she finds me ugly?? Lol paranoia kicks in violently!! Lol

Guy I have some advice... If she's not replying there's no point trying! Your worth more than that... Life is short lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Let it all out bro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might have gone to bed and left herself logged on here. I do that.

Never give up until you're told to do one. Patience, Padawan, patience.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Could be but this mail system is so poor messages can easily get buried - I would say always send a reminder, I'm always losing mail I meant to reply to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a universal truth, it doesn't just happen to single guys. It's happened to us before. Who cares, really? People could be more honest and direct but the end result is the same. Just shrug and move on. And don't check your sent messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the grand scheme of things,it's not that important is it. It's just sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong, my motto is give when recieved lol if there's nothing received ever... Then you know it's a dead horse!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Or she's logged on for the forums answered a few messages and wants to continue on the forums?

Or she's involved in several conversations.

Needy is not attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is a universal truth, it doesn't just happen to single guys. It's happened to us before. Who cares, really? People could be more honest and direct but the end result is the same. Just shrug and move on. And don't check your sent messages. "

Clearly they must have been blind

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Patience indeed...and be prepared to move on. Have a cupcake.

A cupcake solves everything.

And I digestive, obviously...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is a universal truth, it doesn't just happen to single guys. It's happened to us before. Who cares, really? People could be more honest and direct but the end result is the same. Just shrug and move on. And don't check your sent messages.

Clearly they must have been blind "

How would you know? Have you seen our faces? We could be hideous.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Why oh why did my spellcheck change cuppa to cupcake...

Damn tekkniillogee

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

No. That's not the worst for guys here.

It's if they don't have any cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why oh why did my spellcheck change cuppa to cupcake...

Damn tekkniillogee"

Personally I find cupcakes far more soothing than tea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll hold my hand up n say if a guy sends me a face pic n i don't fancy him then I won't reply. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is a universal truth, it doesn't just happen to single guys. It's happened to us before. Who cares, really? People could be more honest and direct but the end result is the same. Just shrug and move on. And don't check your sent messages.

Clearly they must have been blind

How would you know? Have you seen our faces? We could be hideous. "

I doubt that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll hold my hand up n say if a guy sends me a face pic n i don't fancy him then I won't reply. xxx"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me either, but still they message tryna change my mind,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume if she doesn't message after a face pic, then it's a done deal, time to skidattle. It would be nice to receive a little, "not interested, good luck X" but I'm an idealist and dreamer.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If we're not in the chatrooms together then don't expect immediate real time responses.

There's more to do on fab than just be here for mail - and more people to communicate with than just you.

When you're blocked then assume it will never happen. Until that time, in the absence of a reply, assume that you should be doing better things than thinking of the other party.

It's no strings sex and often not about immediate gratification. If your profile says you're chilled and relaxed, then be that person.

You need a thick skin, self-belief, willingness to work hard for what you may achieve and be an endurance athlete who does not give up.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Or she's logged on for the forums answered a few messages and wants to continue on the forums?

Or she's involved in several conversations.

Needy is not attractive. "

^ This, I'm sometimes chatting to 3 people on here simultaneously, as well as having a convo with ma text buddy

I can multitask, but I'm not a flamin' octopus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be but this mail system is so poor messages can easily get buried - I would say always send a reminder, I'm always losing mail I meant to reply to "

Ahhhhhhhh, that explains it.

Sending you my 42nd message shortly.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why to chaise them when you can replace them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your talking to an unbelievable gorgeous woman... And then mid way through conversation she doesn't reply even though she's online... So you start thinking maybe she's busy (phone rang) but like an hour has gone by and still no response and she's read you last message which you decided to attach a face pic! And then the thought crosses your mind - maybe she finds me ugly?? Lol paranoia kicks in violently!! Lol

Guy I have some advice... If she's not replying there's no point trying! Your worth more than that... Life is short lol"

Well thank you very much... But what do I do after I sent her a cock pic and no reply?

Should I send more from different angles?

Asking for a friend

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


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Well thank you very much... But what do I do after I sent her a cock pic and no reply?

Should I send more from different angles?

Asking for a friend "

Angles, no. But you could dress it up to look like your favourite film or tv character.

(Google "dressing up cocks")

If this doesn't work, she's probably a lesbian, so try sending a close-up of your 'butthole' (I think that's what you Americans call.it) and hope she thinks it's a pussy.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens both ways. It's the nature of here isn't it.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I reply when I have time - I am logged in all the time on phone but if I am at work and busy then I reply at lunch or after work

Same at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people have other things to do other than fab stuff

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If they leave the site after you send face pictures does that mean they think you're so gorgeous they couldn't compete? This "might" have happened to us

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"If they leave the site after you send face pictures does that mean they think you're so gorgeous they couldn't compete? This "might" have happened to us "

I usually find people leave the site after sending theirs and not getting a response quick enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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