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By *exiliciousme OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Always wondered why it is that it is always the man who has too make the first move in here so rare a women messeges a guy. Anyone not agree

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don't agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you haven't worked it out yet... women trump men everytime and always will on here.... its that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's rare, they're just not interested in me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been contacted by women on here

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By *exiliciousme OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"If you haven't worked it out yet... women trump men everytime and always will on here.... its that simple"

Even so would it not be a pleasure too see some women taking the lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't worked it out yet... women trump men everytime and always will on here.... its that simple

Even so would it not be a pleasure too see some women taking the lead "

As some have said, they do.. but as a single guy you are drowning in a sea of other single guys... its a numbers game. Men out number women 1000s to 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude, if you thought this was going to be easy then you are very wrong indeed....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

For many of us it's a headache just venturing into the mail area. Sending more equals receiving more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously, who cares who messages who first anyway? If you like them then message them. This isn't elementary school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message the Men for her to meet and sometimes if someone catches her eye, she'll message them.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some men don't have much more than a cock pic. Others have none. Is that inviting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message those that i like the look of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I message those that i like the look of

If a profile has no pics then they have no chance at all of me responding to a message let alone sending a first message.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

My Female Fancy A Fuck threads gets women sending the FAF messages too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged guys first.

But their wives always find out and get arsey. Or they take out restraining orders. I'm beginning to think it's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged guys first.

But their wives always find out and get arsey. Or they take out restraining orders. I'm beginning to think it's me.

Lmao

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"If you haven't worked it out yet... women trump men everytime and always will on here.... its that simple

Even so would it not be a pleasure too see some women taking the lead "

Improve your profile and add some pics and it might happen...Would you message you after reading it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never find anyone I want to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don't have much more than a cock pic. Others have none. Is that inviting?"

this basically, and they have no profile either.

plus i'm wary of people and like to wise them up bit before chatting.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've been messaged a few times. By women and couples too. Always appreciated. In the main though it's obvious men will message first most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree. I get a ton of messages, no need for me to even do a search, I get maybe 60+ messages a day, so I skim through & I respond to the ones that catch my eye, but all too often they have no pictures or just another cock & a message like 'how are you', 'your profile caught my eye, fancy a phone fuck' or just 'what colour are your knickers'. Really, seriously boys, make more bloody effort

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By *upster23Man
over a year ago

London

Why can't women make the first move? It's nice for us to get msgs 1st...there is no rule saying men must msgs 1st!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Always wondered why it is that it is always the man who has too make the first move in here so rare a women messeges a guy. Anyone not agree "

Women message men all the time. They simply have a lot of choice and not enough time. So profiles without pictures, generic text asking people to request a photo versus profile with photos and original text?!!

Hmmmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by the amount of men who want to meet based on my foot pic I'm reluctant to message in case they think it's an automatic fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are the hunters, women are the pray.

Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often message men first.

xxx

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

There's more of it going on than you think, just women don't tend to make a big fuss when they get knocked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often message men first.

xxx"

That's wrong. You must cease this blasphemy!

It is our God given right to message first and m fools of ourselves.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Always wondered why it is that it is always the man who has too make the first move in here so rare a women messeges a guy. Anyone not agree "

I message blokes I like all the time

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Always wondered why it is that it is always the man who has too make the first move in here so rare a women messeges a guy. Anyone not agree "

Maybe they don't agree with your username?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Men are the hunters, women are the pray.

Simples!"

And some women pray certain men don't prey on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often message men first.

xxx

That's wrong. You must cease this blasphemy!

It is our God given right to message first and m fools of ourselves.

alright alright I'll answer your 100128th message.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often message men first.

xxx

That's wrong. You must cease this blasphemy!

It is our God given right to message first and m fools of ourselves.

alright alright I'll answer your 100128th message.

xxx"

Yes finally! I knew you would succumb to my charm at the end. See gents, persistence is key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's more of it going on than you think, just women don't tend to make a big fuss when they get knocked back "

I get ignored loads of times, do that count? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always wondered why it is that it is always the man who has too make the first move in here so rare a women messeges a guy. Anyone not agree "

It happens from time to time for me, usually if I've been in the forums. I don't expect it though, because my profile is pretty basic and my pics are set to friends only. I'm also going to mention it's to not too because I'm a dick.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"If you haven't worked it out yet... women trump men everytime and always will on here.... its that simple

Even so would it not be a pleasure too see some women taking the lead "

How do you know they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nearly as many messages from women as from men nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged guys first.

But their wives always find out and get arsey. Or they take out restraining orders. I'm beginning to think it's me.

That wouldn't be a problem with me but they may be a different kind of restraints involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's broader than the site, generally speaking men are expected to make the first move, men initiate - women respond. I don't have a problem with it, I prefer making the first move - it's my ideal scenario every time. However I won't turn down the right lady making advances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always wondered why it is that it is always the man who has too make the first move in here so rare a women messeges a guy. Anyone not agree "

You really want mail from women first...

Start a thread with Bareback , cheating , or no blacks or Asians in profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always wondered why it is that it is always the man who has too make the first move in here so rare a women messeges a guy. Anyone not agree

You really want mail from women first...

Start a thread with Bareback , cheating , or no blacks or Asians in profile.

Lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously, who cares who messages who first anyway? If you like them then message them. This isn't elementary school."

Now there's an idea, maybe we should all partner up with a 'Fab buddy' like at school who can head off to the buddy of the object of affection and do the old "my mate fancies your mate" thing if anyone is too shy to contact them directly?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Seriously, who cares who messages who first anyway? If you like them then message them. This isn't elementary school."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously, who cares who messages who first anyway? If you like them then message them. This isn't elementary school.

I've had someone do that as they wanted me to get round filters for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads do apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have messaged me and I think it makes for a better connection as they obviously like what they see and when a woman has made her mind up she really has made her mind up .

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

I do all the time to men and women.

Mrs SB

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"I message those that i like the look of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously, who cares who messages who first anyway? If you like them then message them. This isn't elementary school."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always wondered why it is that it is always the man who has too make the first move in here so rare a women messeges a guy. Anyone not agree

You really want mail from women first...

Start a thread with Bareback , cheating , or no blacks or Asians in profile.

Your wish is my command

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can never find anyone I want to message."

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can never find anyone I want to message.

This!!

Oi!

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"I can never find anyone I want to message.

This!!

I do

MrsSB

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Have you heard the way men talk about sexually confident women?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I have occasionally been contacted first by a woman on here. It's a lovely surprise when it happens.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If I'm travelling and looking for fun I nearly always send a message. I don't change my location so I wouldn't get any interest unless I made the first move.

The problem with generalising is that you almost always turn out to be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get messaged by men, women and couples.

Don't tend to make the first move though.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Always wondered why it is that it is always the man who has too make the first move in here so rare a women messeges a guy. Anyone not agree "

Your experiences make you believe it's the same for all men on here.

It isn't.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I disagree I've had women message me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the odd first contact by women in here

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