FabSwingers.com forum: The biggest mistake of your life

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What was yours ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds a bit of a cliche but I don't think I have any, as even when things went wrong, something else came from that experience. So I don't think of any of my life thus far as a mistake.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What was yours ?"

You go first

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mine was not buying houses from 2002 to 2006

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting involved with a certain arsehole of a guy .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

supporting newcastle united

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham

"It sounds a bit of a cliche but I don't think I have any, as even when things went wrong, something else came from that experience. So I don't think of any of my life thus far as a mistake.

Sarah "

I do agree with this but I made a poor judgment once and lost an awful amount of money and tbf it provided me with a bit of life experience

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Getting involved with a certain arsehole of a guy ....."

me too but common sense stopped me ruining my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads of things. still don't regret them, just regret the way i handled them or that i didn't sort them out sooner.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Finding Fab forums. The amount of time I've wasted on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After the convo I've just had with my ex fuckin marrying him!!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"It sounds a bit of a cliche but I don't think I have any, as even when things went wrong, something else came from that experience. So I don't think of any of my life thus far as a mistake.

Sarah

I do agree with this but I made a poor judgment once and lost an awful amount of money and tbf it provided me with a bit of life experience "

Poor judgement more than a mistake.. Saying with my husband at the time for the sake of the children. This put me in danger and not good for the children.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Getting involved with a certain arsehole of a guy ....."

xxx

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Getting married.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting involved with a certain arsehole of a guy .....

me too but common sense stopped me ruining my life"

Yeah me too..so glad he's not in my life anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marrying the first wife.

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By *ay BrowerMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Mine was not starting to buy houses earlier in life.

I got offered a house for £20,000 many years ago and it basically needed cleaning and decorating.

It sold for £180k last year.

I got offered another for £14k around the same time which needed re-wiring and new windows and that's just gone for £158k

I have 2 houses now but if I had started buying in my teens/early twenties I could have been retired and well off by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was something far too emotive to share on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting with my ex who shafted me money wise for a lot!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting involved with a certain arsehole of a guy ....."

And haven't we all been there? Or something similar...I once got involved with a guy (seriously rich by my standards)..My mistake was not being the scheming gold digger that I was accused of being. Once I realised it was not his looks or fascinating conversation that I wanted, I just said bye bye....silly me.huh?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Far too many to mention but as others have said have tried to learn from them and move on, although some of them I'm going to have to live with till I shuffle off this mortal coil regardless.

Mr G

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Interesting. Ive.fucked up more times than i care to remember but.each was a learning curve.

There isnt one thing thats left a devastating impact on my life

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh there is one thing i will never forgive myself for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh there is one thing i will never forgive myself for"

What is that ?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

One but that's in the past I don't dwell on it what's the point

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Oh there is one thing i will never forgive myself for

What is that ?"
i dont want to.say

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By *exybabyMan
over a year ago

Canterbury....ish

"What was yours ?"

Moving.....wish i had stayed put. Never thought i would but i really miss my old house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was not starting to buy houses earlier in life.

I got offered a house for £20,000 many years ago and it basically needed cleaning and decorating.

It sold for £180k last year.

I got offered another for £14k around the same time which needed re-wiring and new windows and that's just gone for £158k

I have 2 houses now but if I had started buying in my teens/early twenties I could have been retired and well off by now

Alas hindsight has got 20/20 vision.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

struggling to narrow it down to just one tbh....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh there is one thing i will never forgive myself for

What is that ?i dont want to.say"

Ive just realised that you have blocked me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's just one. Happened a v long time ago. Unfortunately don't think I'll ever forget it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Oh there is one thing i will never forgive myself for

What is that ?i dont want to.say

Ive just realised that you have blocked me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in 1999, having an arguement with my then girlfriend on the phone while two nurses walked past me and told me they are bored and going home to lick each other out, and if I want to join them...I carried on arguing on the phone!!!!

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By *ittle missnaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Falling in love with a guy off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets plenty of mistakes but it's a learning curve. There is things I wish I did do more of such as traveling before settling down and having kids, etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Falling in love with a guy off here

Sounds sad ....aw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only regret things I didn't do, eventhing else is part of the journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now, have a circumcision last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to law school. I loved it, and it was an amazing learning experience, but it isn't what I will probably end up doing with my life and so a waste of time and money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

getting married...I should have just lived with him instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret never having children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Letting my ex buy me out of my beautiful house because he was manipulative and I naive at the time

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Not a mistake but a regret - listening to my aunt (through marriage) "because she was a nurse" that we should take it in shifts to stay with my grandad. Went home, made a brew got a phone call so rushed back to hospital. It was too late. By not even 2 minutes.

She suggested we did the same with my nan & I told her to piss off

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

There's a list but the top one is convincing myself I was bi not gay and getting married to a girl.....

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Marrying my soon to be ex husband. For 28 whole days. Divorce through in a fortnight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Marrying my soon to be ex husband. For 28 whole days. Divorce through in a fortnight.

H."

Wow

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

"Marrying my soon to be ex husband. For 28 whole days. Divorce through in a fortnight.

Wow

Yes. It's amazing the life shattering secrets that people can hide when they want to, isn't it?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Back in 1999, having an arguement with my then girlfriend on the phone while two nurses walked past me and told me they are bored and going home to lick each other out, and if I want to join them...I carried on arguing on the phone!!!!

Schoolboy !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't made it yet!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Not a mistake but a regret - listening to my aunt (through marriage) "because she was a nurse" that we should take it in shifts to stay with my grandad. Went home, made a brew got a phone call so rushed back to hospital. It was too late. By not even 2 minutes.

She suggested we did the same with my nan & I told her to piss off "

I hear ya sister

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

There's no way on God's clean lovely earth I would ever divulge that. Probably not to anyone.

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marrying my ex except for my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today? Trusting my mate that she was up for going out tonight. I should've texted her yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuckin the hottest gal of my life and having to much so I couldn't cum ......... Wounded !! Hahahaha

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Fuckin the hottest gal of my life and having to much so I couldn't cum ......... Wounded !! Hahahaha"

Not to bright dude

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Not staying in touch with people better.

Not travelling more.

Caring too much about what others thought, when I was younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I regret never having children "

Me too

everyone tells me I would've made a great mother....

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Staying with my former partner three years longer than I should have.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Loads of big mistakes.

Trying to be liked in school instead of getting good grades, years of shit jobs.

Buying the air pistol, that ultimately wrecked any chance of a decent career. A mate shot me with it, failed the forces medical to be an officer.

Not going to Australia when I had the chance, my uncle wouldn't sponsor me to work for him.

giving up on things, when the fun went out of them.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Mine was not buying houses from 2002 to 2006"

Not buying houses in 1970.. could have really made a killing.. My cousins house was 3500 pound.. Our first house was 11,700 pounds in 1973 goodness me if only we had known.

Actually probably no regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not Walking away from a nightclub fight back in the 90's

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Getting married at 16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not coming out in my teens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I squim when I think of mine, I know i'm going to hell to burn for all eternity. Someone should start a Sunday confessional thread! I'd be first in the queue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not really a mistake but being such a good girl for so fkn long - if i knew then what i do now i would have had done so much more earlier in my life - instead of thinking about others all the time and put myself first more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret not travelling Australia when I was 25 as I thought I was too old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mistake wasn't mine. It was my mothers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets. Every decision and each outcome has lead to where I am today. May not have been easy at times but can't complain. Life is sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Schoolboy !!!!"

Tell me about it mate. Fucking stupid schoolboy error!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Silly daily ones but nothing major. It's been an interesting journey so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting out of bed to early today as I'm a bit sleepy now...

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"What was yours ?"

My chosen career.

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By *argaryen starkCouple
over a year ago

pinxton

I don't think I should have married my first wife when we were both so young BUT for every action there is an equal but opposite reaction and here I am with a wonderful second wife with a pretty damn good life.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Letting an ex of mine put her name on the deeds to the house that my dad built and left to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way back in the late 80s I dated a truly lovely girl. She was both beautiful and kind. Always smiling a real gem of a girl. I ended the relationship when I went away with the army. My excuse was that we were to young. In reality I didn't want to settle down and wanted the single squaddie life. She cried her eyes out when I told her and I just walked away. Even now I regret what I did. I know that she is very happy now and has a wonderful husband and children but I still beat myself up at how we split up. I should have shown more compassion. I acted terribly.

It will always be my one regret.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Je ne regret rien

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Not buying the house I was living in for thee grand in the sixties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeting my daughters father..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

je ne regrette rien

In a jolly cod French accent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets really but if I had to say one...getting married x

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