FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone in yr real world know you swing?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have one friend that knows as she's my safety back up when I'm meeting anyone new. She's fascinated by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, this is our private little world that we visit when we feel the urge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one friend that knows as she's my safety back up when I'm meeting anyone new. She's fascinated by it. "

None of my 'real life' meets my fab life - it's safer that way for me..... And makes it much more entertaining. Call me odd, but havin a truly filthy secret life does it a bit for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a naughty little secret and like it that way. Have chatted to lots of great people on here

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

No one in my 'real life' knows..not sure how they would take it but at the same time I like keeping some things private

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

A lot of my friends are ex swingers so yes

A few of my football mates do as was out outed by another single guy who happened to be on site

Other than that 3 others do

I try to keep it quiet if I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One female friend I have who knows all my secrets and I know hers. She knows.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

A few of my /familyfriends do, others just known that I have had a few "men friends" over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep most of my mates at work. It was hard to hide it when I seemed to be away every weekend

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Deffo not.only our friends at xtasis know and thats it.like to keep swinging private

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo this is my thing

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Quite a few people know I'm on here, I make no attempt to hide the fact. I have no shame

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Mum, youngest son and a couple of female friends xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few of our friends know.. It's funny really as the male friends hardly ever mention it, only the ladies...

I'm not really bothered who knows, there's just a select few that I would just die if they found out..

Harry x

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Quite a few - I told my parents because me ex is now on here & I would rather they heard from me. I did say I used it as a dating site though

and I've mentioned Frank quite a few times when asked what I'm doing at weekend.

Those that know are non-judgmental & a few have even said they're jealous

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

yes my friends know

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, some of my friends know and they all wish they could get me off here

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I had a couple of people from 'nilla world that were on here. They don't use the site much nowadays if at all

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

My daughter and a friend for back up.....kept it quiet from my daughter for 8 years.....she wasn't shocked though that was a relief!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum,shes on here too ... all my mates,my team .. no shame in hiding it Im pretty open about my sexlife and sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. This is my dirty little secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. My best friend knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup a few people in my life know, largely because we were outed by someone who found out from someone we were planning to meet who Facebook stalked us and realised we had a mutual friend and for some unknown reason decided to talk to them about our activities... needless to say we didn't meet them and now we are more cautious about giving our faces away. But nobody who found out really cared about our swinging activities more about the person shit stirring. and a couple are even in the scene now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Some of my friends know... They're all accepting of it... why deny who you are....

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

A few know bits but my best bitch knows everything - love that woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a fab friend who tells everyone who will listen but they don't believe him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a private thing for me and will remain so.

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Nope. And we love that we have a dirty little secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, but a couple from here are now also in our real life, have met the family and most of our friends too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah plenty know.

My fab friends have met my day to day friends and all that.

fab friends have become every day friends and every day friends have become fab friends.

People are just people. Doesn't matter one bit where you meet them.

i find it easier than hiding stuff

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No, this is our private little world that we visit when we feel the urge."

Same applies for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one knows..apart from two people I know on here 'not friends as such; they just recognised me'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much the same as Christos.

A lot of people know about my fablife. They think I'm crazy but know I keep myself safe.

One fab guy even met my bitches which was fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My manager at work knows, my ex knows and a few friends know.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yeah. Some of my friends know... They're all accepting of it... why deny who you are...."

Why assume there's shame/denying who you are in wanting to keep certain aspects of your private life...err "private!"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Its a private thing for me and will remain so."

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

Most people we know are aware we swing, friends and family. Why keep it a secret? If it embarrasses you for people to know maybe you shouldn't be doing it.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Yes we have a few friends who know. Most have suggested at least being a little bit interested in trying themselves.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm a single woman with two grown children and some of the stories I've heard about family finding out after accidents or other incidents, I decided to tell them. It wasn't that surprising to them, I've been single for 30 years so they know I get my sexual needs fulfilled one way or another.

They don't want to know the details but if an A&E nurse hands them my belongings in a bag, hundreds of miles away from my home and in a city I have no connection with, they won't be surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of my friends are from the swinging world . The ones who aren't don't know and would be gobsmacked as I'm a perfect princess

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

They know i have *friends" i meet from a social internet site.

None of them have asked for the name of the site except my son found out cause the site came up

They have absolutly no interest in my sex life.

They also know i go away and to parties. My mum has even met some of them

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I have one friend that knows as she's my safety back up when I'm meeting anyone new. She's fascinated by it. "
I keep my two lives entirely separate . What possible interest would it to be anyone what I got up to in private ?. I have things to talk about that are a lot more interesting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one vanila friend know! She trusted me her biggest secret so I trust her about fab. And she loves hear about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't come up in conversation and all those who actually know me, know my 'private' life is my real world. The public facade is different depending on what is needed to fill the role. I find being openly -if it comes up- poly is the bit that throws people more than swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. Some of my friends know... They're all accepting of it... why deny who you are....

Why assume there's shame/denying who you are in wanting to keep certain aspects of your private life...err "private!"

No-one knows what I do, not even people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone that knows me knows what i am like. Some are very intrigued aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fair few do - people who know me know I'm a pervert anyway

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Yes iam pretty open about it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word "yes"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Quite a few. Most know I'm bi. Many know I'm trans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. Some of my friends know... They're all accepting of it... why deny who you are....

Why assume there's shame/denying who you are in wanting to keep certain aspects of your private life...err "private!"

No-one knows what I do, not even people on here. "

I know what you do. You should be proud. You're very good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody knows I swing, its not anybody's business XXX

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I have one friend that knows as she's my safety back up when I'm meeting anyone new. She's fascinated by it. "

I have what I like to call a cross over friend. Started as your dynamic did and fascination turned to curiosity, and curiosity got the better of her and now she swings too. We've known each other since primary school and are really good at leading each over astray

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

I don't specifically hide what I do, but try to be discrete and not rub it anyone's faces

in 12 years only one of my meets has every crossed the border into my personal life.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Pretty everyone I know now knows. Even my Mum.

I'm lucky I don't have kids or care what others think but believe the more of us are 'out', the better.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Several, we even took few friends to clubs.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

No. My private life is my own and I don't want comments or judgements from all the small minded folk that I know.

I'm happier keeping it secret.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Most people we know are aware we swing, friends and family. Why keep it a secret? If it embarrasses you for people to know maybe you shouldn't be doing it. "

Again, why assume people are embarrassed because they don't feel it necessary to share all the minutiea of their lives with all and sundry?

How many times a day I take a dump, my bank balance, my pension package etc are things I'm not embarrassed about but as they're private and personal I don't share that information. Just as my sex life is private and personal.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I have one friend that knows as she's my safety back up when I'm meeting anyone new. She's fascinated by it. I keep my two lives entirely separate . What possible interest would it to be anyone what I got up to in private ?. I have things to talk about that are a lot more interesting ."

I was beginning to think I was odd!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes ppl at mine think I'm joking and far more upset that I'm bi.

Dicks work lads know and if they misbehave or make sexual comments about me usually get threatened with me and my stay on

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Suits us to do this discreetly and privately when we are able to or have the urge to. In my (Mr) earliest swinging days I had an issue when had confided in a friend about some club visits, he thought it hilarious to share this when d*unk with some other friends, what a lovely guy

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By *ingerbombCouple
over a year ago

Stockton

We have a few friends who know and our children know but their all grown up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't share this lifestyle with anyone in the vanilla world.... I don't want to have to go to business functions or dinner parties and have all my friends and colleagues thinking I want to fuck their wives... It's better to be safe than sorry.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"Most people we know are aware we swing, friends and family. Why keep it a secret? If it embarrasses you for people to know maybe you shouldn't be doing it.

Again, why assume people are embarrassed because they don't feel it necessary to share all the minutiea of their lives with all and sundry?

Hidden profile says it all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real life, what real life?

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I am not a " swinger", so it's irrelevant.

Most people know that I have several female " friends".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. Some of my friends know... They're all accepting of it... why deny who you are....

Why assume there's shame/denying who you are in wanting to keep certain aspects of your private life...err "private!"

No-one knows what I do, not even people on here.

I know what you do. You should be proud. You're very good at it

You must have me mistaken for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't share this lifestyle with anyone in the vanilla world.... I don't want to have to go to business functions or dinner parties and have all my friends and colleagues thinking I want to fuck their wives... It's better to be safe than sorry."

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By *ntense funCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes

Have met people on here who have become real life friends

Have real life friends who are also on here and real life friends know

I like to cover all bases lol

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Only my ex partner knows I'm on here, but he is too

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

lots of people know.

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

One female friend knows I'm bi and swing but she doesn't know I'm also a tgirl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. Some of my friends know... They're all accepting of it... why deny who you are....

Why assume there's shame/denying who you are in wanting to keep certain aspects of your private life...err "private!"

No-one knows what I do, not even people on here.

I know what you do. You should be proud. You're very good at it

You must have me mistaken for someone else.

Yep. That must be it

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nope.

My private life is just that. Private.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

no chance,

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By *imToPlease400Man
over a year ago

northwest

Only ones I can trust lol

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