FabSwingers.com forum: I need a decent meet with an unselfish man, any ideas...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her.....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Chose more wisely

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

Hi,

having couple of social meets with someone before the sex meet and then hopefully you might get a better quality person x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

As it's been said maybe take a little more time finding out what you both enjoy? If not go all Domme and make him do as you want lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should try me. Ill let u finish first everytime

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling all white knights.....

We have a fair maiden in need.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ever tried communication with these guys???

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Calling all white knights.....

We have a fair maiden in need.

White Knights assemble.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Buy a wand and then become more choosy who you pick

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like somebody has just had a shit shag anyway

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

You certainly would get pleasures first by me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I always have a social first and you have to 'kiss' a lot of 'frogs' before you find a prince!!!!

Good luck

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question and answer session over wine first.

Set out clearly what you like.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is going to hell in a hand basket.

20 posts in and

I have not seen this posted

" it's guys like this that ruin it for us genuine single males to get meets "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

So funny

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

Your problem is you are meeting men. The answer is meet women. We don't have cock,so we won't shove it anywhere.

Go bi or go home.

Mrs SB

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all deep down, genetically, bastards is what I'd say

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her.....

Your problem is you are meeting men. The answer is meet women. We don't have cock,so we won't shove it anywhere.

Go bi or go home.

Mrs SB

I'll eat muff to the cows come home. I love doing it. I don't mind receiving some oral at the same time mind you but let me lick away and bring your toys too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over wine and discuss what you are into as someone said. It's a nice anticipatory way of building up, foreplay of the mind!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

One of the reasons is your age range, experience tells us older men tend to put more thought into pleasing their partner than younger men.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Make sure they make you come before they begin poking around or you go down on them.

Very hard to filter these guys out. Even during a conversation with my FWB she said the guy she last met was all mouth no action, he promises this and that and shot his wad after a couple of mins of penetration.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much time do you spend getting to know someone? Perhaps take a little more time in selecting someone, have a social meet first and see if there's a good connection.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Refuse to suck anything until they have given you what you want. You can talk for days with someone and hear all about how they love pleasuring a woman,that they are not selfish etc but when it comes down to it it's all bollocks,they talk a good game but that's all. Tell them your legs only open for a tongue and then if you're satisfied he can put his cock in.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always have a social first and you have to 'kiss' a lot of 'frogs' before you find a prince!!!!

Good luck "

God woman how true!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Refuse to suck anything until they have given you what you want. You can talk for days with someone and hear all about how they love pleasuring a woman,that they are not selfish etc but when it comes down to it it's all bollocks,they talk a good game but that's all. Tell them your legs only open for a tongue and then if you're satisfied he can put his cock in. "

This. And then don't let them cum on the first meet. Make them wait. If they disobey there will be a punishment.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place is going to hell in a hand basket.

20 posts in and

I have not seen this posted

" it's guys like this that ruin it for us genuine single males to get meets "

All men are the same.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Don't pick me, I'm a lazy shag at the best of times.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That doesn't sound like how id expect a meet to go. Really surprising that men can be so derisory

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Don't pick me, I'm a lazy shag at the best of times. "

Same here at times lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

Change your minimum height to 5'10"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe lay off the blow jobs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her.....

Your problem is you are meeting men. The answer is meet women. We don't have cock,so we won't shove it anywhere.

Go bi or go home.

Mrs SB

I'll eat muff to the cows come home. I love doing it. I don't mind receiving some oral at the same time mind you but let me lick away and bring your toys too"

Muff!? What a word!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

When I meet someone they should already know that I want to be kissed and touched and fondled, oral both ways and have a thorough fucking, I wouldn`t expect antyhing less, these things should be sorted out before you meet someone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"Hi,

having couple of social meets with someone before the sex meet and then hopefully you might get a better quality person x"

This

If a guy is willing to spend time meeting you socially, then the odds are he's willing to spend time pleasuring you!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

having couple of social meets with someone before the sex meet and then hopefully you might get a better quality person x

This

If a guy is willing to spend time meeting you socially, then the odds are he's willing to spend time pleasuring you!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

OP you'll always get the ones promising this, that n the other.... HOURS of pleasure that actually is more about them doing panda moves. Sadly it's hard to pick them out til it's actually playtime - some are what they say and some just don't care.

I cum pretty easily and some make me cum once and expect me to be happy, they think if they manage it twice that they're a love god - they've no clue I really do expect to have no idea how many times I've cum before I leave?!

People have different levels of expectation, so make sure you lay yours out clearly

Good luck with the next one x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you'll always get the ones promising this, that n the other.... HOURS of pleasure that actually is more about them doing panda moves. Sadly it's hard to pick them out til it's actually playtime - some are what they say and some just don't care.

People have different levels of expectation, so make sure you lay yours out clearly

Good luck with the next one x"

A lot of 'I' and 'me' in your post. You only seem interested in what you're getting from the meet. Apparently no interest in what your partner is getting out of it. Do you think if a man ejaculates he is fully satisfied with the meet? We can all just plop one out into a bucket, and yes some men just want a receptacle to cum in. Lot of men want more from a meet and if you bothered to find out instead of focusing on yourself you might have a more positive experience.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

People have different levels of expectation, so make sure you lay yours out clearly

Good luck with the next one x

Hahaha! Mr Defensive! If you knew me you'd also know it's me chasing round 2 for us both, it's me playing and teasing..... I'm very unselfish, but as OP was talking about it from the ladies pleasure perspective - I was too.

I virtually always social before a meet and what we BOTH want us discussed or made known....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

Turn Lesbian

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Shame your not bi. Lots of foreplay in a mff meet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assist you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me."
no me me me :o))

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

"This place is going to hell in a hand basket.

20 posts in and

I have not seen this posted

" it's guys like this that ruin it for us genuine single males to get meets "

All men are the same. "

Not all men

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hahaha! Mr Defensive! If you knew me you'd also know it's me chasing round 2 for us both, it's me playing and teasing..... I'm very unselfish, but as OP was talking about it from the ladies pleasure perspective - I was too.

I virtually always social before a meet and what we BOTH want us discussed or made known...."

Not being defensive, just trying to point out something I thought might help you have a better time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."
Say all this on your profile let them know from the start what your looking for and what your not looking for here. If they wish to meet make it a rule they know.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

What noise does a lady make when she first experiences an orgasm..?.

*gulp*..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

When the guy tries to "shove it in" what do you do?

If the forums and half the profiles I read are any indication most of the men here are only on here to please women with little thought for their own satisfaction, are you telling me this isn't true?

. Seriously fab is massively skewed women appear to hold all the cards therefore men will say what they think we want to hear resulting in disappointment for both parties in some cases. My advice is chat to a prospective meet and take equal control over what happens once things get underway.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her.....

Turn Lesbian

Trust me there are selfish bi and lesbian ladies out there too!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I virtually always social before a meet and what we BOTH want us discussed or made known....

Not being defensive, just trying to point out something I thought might help you have a better time

Never worry about me - I'm having a great time!

Although admittedly some of my meets have a better time it seems - hence my earlier response

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

Aounds like your picking the totally wrong kind of men.

Yiu should look for a more considerate Gentleman like myself.

I prefer to give oral than recieve.

I love using toys and providing multiple orgasms.. when i can.

Thats mainly how i get my sexual pleasure

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rand Central CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well that is what some men and some women want sometimes.. so you have to make clear what you want..

Also you'll find more mature / experienced men are more likely to share your approach than young men...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Stay well clear of ppl that say there gonna do this and that. The real deal ppl prefer to do it with action not words

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rand Central CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

Your issue may be your user name... also see my post above.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

please your woman and she will please you. Simples!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"please your woman and she will please you. Simples!!"

I think we should all take responsibility for our own pleasure not rely on someone else knowing what we want. Plenty of women will happily lay immobile while the man does all the work.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Pity you are so far away and I am out of your age range

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/06/16 10:53:15]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being honest and tell them it's doing nothing for you...build up with some fantasy talk so they know what you expect...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how I haven't seen any posts from guys who admit they are only in it for their own enjoyment???

Strange that ain't it ??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

Maybe try discussing what you want to get out of the meet in future? Common interests and things you both enjoy doing usually ensures for a successful play meet...,

And maybe try and steer clear of the fcuk and go merchants

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Right im feeling generous so i will tell you what i do.

If a man starts chatting sex straight away. No meet

If a guy starta giving me the patter. No meet.

If he tells me how im going to react. (Can make me gush etc) no meet.

When the sex talk takes a natural progession and they talk in a naturally confident and honest way they are the guys im intersted in.

If someone is good they dont need to tell me i can work out for myself if where going to get on.

In nine years on here ive never had a crap shag or anyone who is selfish.

Now i dont know what they think of me but ive always had a good time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go camping instead.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Funny how I haven't seen any posts from guys who admit they are only in it for their own enjoyment???

Strange that ain't it ??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

why not try a tranny !..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"please your woman and she will please you. Simples!!

I think we should all take responsibility for our own pleasure not rely on someone else knowing what we want. Plenty of women will happily lay immobile while the man does all the work."

And vice versa.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tick list and don't let them leave until it's completed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Calling all white knights.....

We have a fair maiden in need.

Ensuring I don't get trampled in the stampede...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."
Maybe add on your profile the importance of foreplay . In addition you can always walk away if you believe that a man is not fulfilling your requirements , eapecially if you have listed them on your profile in detail.

In addition you may also find that those with short profiles are lazy in bed .

If a man cannot be bothered to write a decent profile , is he likely to be any good at other things .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always have a social first and you have to 'kiss' a lot of 'frogs' before you find a prince!!!!

Good luck

God woman how true!!"

that works both ways..

giving and receiving pleasure is a two-way street..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Calling all white knights.....

We have a fair maiden in need.

White Knights assemble."

Give me a minute to get the 3in1, my suit of armour is a tad tarnished...

OP: Take a minute to consider what all your previous meets have had in common. For example, were they all short, bald, married, ginger and with dodgy teeth, and always going around with their wife in tow?

No? Well, try one of them then

Sorted.

Mr ddc

(PS. Everyone: when slagging off ALL your previous meets, please hide your veris

)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

I,d suggest a meet with my FWB if you weren't so far away, he pays a lot of attention to pleasing a lady. He might travel that far though. Probably you have just been unlucky with the men you have met XXX

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong."

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXX

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Hi ho Silver. Away!!!!!

Can ya hear those hooves, can ya, can ya?

I hope you find a way to out the self entitled OP and get what you want.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"please your woman and she will please you. Simples!!

I think we should all take responsibility for our own pleasure not rely on someone else knowing what we want. Plenty of women will happily lay immobile while the man does all the work.

And vice versa."

Yep, apparently that's what this thread is all about.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials first op but don't discount those men cos sometimes a quick meet like that can be amazing. Xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXX"
really?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Has the answer been found?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXXreally?"

I think the argument it's not you it's them is bollocks, I thought this for a while looked at MY actions and ways and thought fucking hell its not them it's me and changed a few things...still on the changing path but so far it's working

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Has the answer been found?

Yes. Men are in it for what they can get with minimum effort and women let them get away with it...apparently.

oh and nobody contributing to this thread or the forums in general is like that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXXreally?

"
people need to take responsibilty and not just blame others

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXXreally?

people need to take responsibilty and not just blame others"

Yes! All day long. Communication, communication, communication. If something isn't going right for you speak up, say " I would like a bit longer before we get to full sex" or something like that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has the answer been found?

Yes. Men are in it for what they can get with minimum effort and women let them get away with it...apparently.

oh and nobody contributing to this thread or the forums in general is like that."

Great Summary!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXX"

yeah, its all the men are wrong.lol never look at oneself, see how one might improve things..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXXreally?

people need to take responsibilty and not just blame others

Yes! All day long. Communication, communication, communication. If something isn't going right for you speak up, say " I would like a bit longer before we get to full sex" or something like that."
the op hasnt asked for profile critique but i can see straight away why the op attracts that kind of guy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXXreally?

people need to take responsibilty and not just blame others

Yes! All day long. Communication, communication, communication. If something isn't going right for you speak up, say " I would like a bit longer before we get to full sex" or something like that. the op hasnt asked for profile critique but i can see straight away why the op attracts that kind of guy"

We will never know

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXXreally?"

That's what the original question implies, that the men are selfish and just shoving it in.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXXreally?

That's what the original question implies, that the men are selfish and just shoving it in.

"
and she.shouldnt take some responsability for why she meets those guys

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her.....

Turn Lesbian

Trust me there are selfish bi and lesbian ladies out there too!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has the answer been found?

Single men.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Calling all white knights.....

We have a fair maiden in need.

White Knights assemble."

We should have a medieval-style sports day with flags-a-flying and jousting and mead.

The Knight triumphant shall win the lady!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Has the answer been found?

Yes. Men are in it for what they can get with minimum effort and women let them get away with it...apparently.

oh and nobody contributing to this thread or the forums in general is like that."

In a nutshell

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Has the answer been found?

Yes. Men are in it for what they can get with minimum effort and women let them get away with it...apparently.

oh and nobody contributing to this thread or the forums in general is like that."

Phew I can go and do my food shop now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Not all my meets have been bad it's just recently im doing something wrong.

It's the men who are doing something wrong not you XXXreally?

people need to take responsibilty and not just blame others

Yes! All day long. Communication, communication, communication. If something isn't going right for you speak up, say " I would like a bit longer before we get to full sex" or something like that. the op hasnt asked for profile critique but i can see straight away why the op attracts that kind of guy"

Me too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Any help where I'm going wrong wrong as to why i keep meeting men who just want a blowjob then try and shove it in without once thinking mmm maybe I should play with her....."

Communicate, find out what you both like. I personally look at veris sometimes to see if it mentions: orgasms, oral, female pleasure.

And reading a profile helps. Usually a guy who wants to please a woman or wants mutual pleasure mentions it in their profile.

I was once met a guy at a club and he was fairly charming, then a friend of mine came up to us and said " he's a lovely guy Mae, but he doesn't give"

Lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've skipped the thread so if I repeat I'm sorry.

It's about your selection, you need to spend longer chosing your partners and try having socials. That usually s out the 'fuck and go's' because they can't be bothered with the effort (see a theme there?!)

Chat to the guys for a while, get a bit of a rapport going... It should be about you both enjoying it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Chose more wisely"

Absolutely this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chose more wisely

Absolutely this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose better meets.

Simple.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread