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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it frowned upon on here even when the guy is only doing it because his wife changed as soon as the ring was on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Yes it is frowned upon. However, you dress it up, cheating is cheating.

However, some people will meet married men, so all is not lost for you.

Reading your profile though, for most people, this is not a sex site. It is a swingers site. Both very different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying. "

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like red Angel said cheating is cheating whoever it is !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isn't it cheating to get married under false pretences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it cheating to get married under false pretences? "

So be a man and do something about it !!!! Marriage isn't just about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it cheating to get married under false pretences?

So be a man and do something about it !!!! Marriage isn't just about sex "

I thought people got married because they didn't like using condoms..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't. "

See the double standard and it's bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't.

See the double standard and it's bollocks."

Women have all pussy and all the power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something "

You really are an horrid person aren't you!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something "

Try romance... You know massages, nice dinner, compliments, some champagne maybe flowers.

I heard that works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol in films it might do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just don't want to change and expect it all their way but bitch when you you demand they pull their weight. My last relationship was like that and she admitted over reflection that she fucked it up.

It's all about compromise, if ones refuses then do what you wish. If they bitch, their fault.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Gee, and people question why I chose to stay single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao the poor women that ever get involved with you two

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think you are though by the way. How very judgemental from someone on a sex hookup site I'm truly flabagasted! Im really happy for you that you have a healthy sex drive but not everybody does and they literally pretend to for years then they get that ring on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something "

Try talking to your wife about your sex life, if that is the part that is lacking. Be spontaneous, surprise her, treat her, help her feel more relaxed. I don't know either of you personally but your wife may feel there are unobtainable expectations and this may be hindering any hope of romance in the bedroom. Above all show some compassion and a little sensitivity when broaching the subject with your wife.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

But you aren't on a sex hook up site. You are on a swingers site.

Ever thought that she wasn't pretending for years to get that ring, that maybe at some point you fucked up and put her off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you are though by the way. How very judgemental from someone on a sex hookup site I'm truly flabagasted! Im really happy for you that you have a healthy sex drive but not everybody does and they literally pretend to for years then they get that ring on..."
and I think you haven't a clue what this site is and what swinging is about !!! That's probably why no one wants to meet you good luck you will need it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I here that mate. Really really do. I know why don't I may leave her and mess my kids right up? That's the way to do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's about fucking love. Fabswingers got invaded years ago get used to it sweetheart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao yes by cheating losers like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I've never fucked it up we get along just fine she's just gone off the eld ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True ?? and I'm not a loser cocker sorry to disappoint you ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say my opinion and I don't care what you say. But please continue to give out the shaming language.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"It's about fucking love. Fabswingers got invaded years ago get used to it sweetheart "

I assume you are replying to me (see how I used the quote feature, so you know I'm replying to you), I don't agree. I use this as a swinging site, and so do most of the people I know. I've been swinging for many years. Swinging, not getting a quick fuck because I can't be arsed to make an effort with my significant other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lmao yes by cheating losers like you "

I've been cheated on, what does that make me? Cheated on as I refused to get her pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True ?? and I'm not a loser cocker sorry to disappoint you ??"
you cleary are your here to cheat on your wife because you can't get your end away that's not a nice bloke is it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something

Try talking to your wife about your sex life, if that is the part that is lacking. Be spontaneous, surprise her, treat her, help her feel more relaxed. I don't know either of you personally but your wife may feel there are unobtainable expectations and this may be hindering any hope of romance in the bedroom. Above all show some compassion and a little sensitivity when broaching the subject with your wife. "
tried all that for 4 years, had enough now. Just don't want to upset the kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't sympathise or empathise with you. You've asked for people's opinions and the general view on here, yet insult anybody who disagrees with your logic. You blame it all on your wife and fail to recognise that the problem may not be with your wife, but with yourself.

Yummy and Redangel are right, your moral compass is questionable and you should reflect upon your own actions before blaming your wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lmao yes by cheating losers like you

I've been cheated on, what does that make me? Cheated on as I refused to get her pregnant "

And you know how it feels so why would you make people feel that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it frowned upon on here even when the guy is only doing it because his wife changed as soon as the ring was on? "

most brides will change into an evening dress its hardly a reason to cheat on her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"True ?? and I'm not a loser cocker sorry to disappoint you ?? you cleary are your here to cheat on your wife because you can't get your end away that's not a nice bloke is it "
how would you know? All you can do is assume based on a forum post, hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True ?? and I'm not a loser cocker sorry to disappoint you ?? you cleary are your here to cheat on your wife because you can't get your end away that's not a nice bloke is it how would you know? All you can do is assume based on a forum post, hmmmmm "
or your profits which you write you want to cheat on !!! Not too clever are we

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't sympathise or empathise with you. You've asked for people's opinions and the general view on here, yet insult anybody who disagrees with your logic. You blame it all on your wife and fail to recognise that the problem may not be with your wife, but with yourself.

Yummy and Redangel are right, your moral compass is questionable and you should reflect upon your own actions before blaming your wife. "
who have I insulted on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I signed up for fab. This forum is internet gold

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"True ?? and I'm not a loser cocker sorry to disappoint you ?? you cleary are your here to cheat on your wife because you can't get your end away that's not a nice bloke is it how would you know? All you can do is assume based on a forum post, hmmmmm or your profits which you write you want to cheat on !!! Not too???? clever are we "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is why I signed up for fab. This forum is internet gold "
lmfao same here im bored on my break in work and is past 45 minutes ????

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something

Try talking to your wife about your sex life, if that is the part that is lacking. Be spontaneous, surprise her, treat her, help her feel more relaxed. I don't know either of you personally but your wife may feel there are unobtainable expectations and this may be hindering any hope of romance in the bedroom. Above all show some compassion and a little sensitivity when broaching the subject with your wife. tried all that for 4 years, had enough now. Just don't want to upset the kids "

Staying together for the sake of the children doesn't work. It does more damage in the long run!

Why is it men always blame a lack of females sex drive as a 'reason' to cheat? Ever thought there is a reason she doesn't want sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't sympathise or empathise with you. You've asked for people's opinions and the general view on here, yet insult anybody who disagrees with your logic. You blame it all on your wife and fail to recognise that the problem may not be with your wife, but with yourself.

Yummy and Redangel are right, your moral compass is questionable and you should reflect upon your own actions before blaming your wife. who have I insulted on here? "

It appears from your earlier posts, prior to the quotes, that you were calling yummy a horrid, judgemental person based on her opinion on the matter and her opinion of you as a person. And the condescending tone of the post regarding "it's about fucking love. Fabswingers was invaded long ago get used to it sweetheart" Yes I assume you mean it in that manner, I may be mistaken. I am also assuming that, as you've been on here for over a year, that your efforts and attention may have been diverted elsewhere, a shift that is noticed by your significant partner if it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something

Try talking to your wife about your sex life, if that is the part that is lacking. Be spontaneous, surprise her, treat her, help her feel more relaxed. I don't know either of you personally but your wife may feel there are unobtainable expectations and this may be hindering any hope of romance in the bedroom. Above all show some compassion and a little sensitivity when broaching the subject with your wife. tried all that for 4 years, had enough now. Just don't want to upset the kids

Staying together for the sake of the children doesn't work. It does more damage in the long run!

Why is it men always blame a lack of females sex drive as a 'reason' to cheat? Ever thought there is a reason she doesn't want sex...

"

Don't ask him things like that he hasn't an answer for that it's all his poor wife's fault he's blameless the poor little fellow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something

Try talking to your wife about your sex life, if that is the part that is lacking. Be spontaneous, surprise her, treat her, help her feel more relaxed. I don't know either of you personally but your wife may feel there are unobtainable expectations and this may be hindering any hope of romance in the bedroom. Above all show some compassion and a little sensitivity when broaching the subject with your wife. tried all that for 4 years, had enough now. Just don't want to upset the kids

Staying together for the sake of the children doesn't work. It does more damage in the long run!

Why is it men always blame a lack of females sex drive as a 'reason' to cheat? Ever thought there is a reason she doesn't want sex...

Don't ask him things like that he hasn't an answer for that it's all his poor wife's fault he's blameless the poor little fellow "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Stop it everyone you're all mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Stop it everyone you're all mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah cause I'm fit she wanted me but wasn't that into sex and so she pretended just to "get me" in get words. When she got our baby she admitted it was mission accomplished. She just wanted a good looking kid and with me that was guaranteed

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Wow. Have you ever been tested for narcissism?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Yeah cause I'm fit she wanted me but wasn't that into sex and so she pretended just to "get me" in get words. When she got our baby she admitted it was mission accomplished. She just wanted a good looking kid and with me that was guaranteed "

Ffs your 39 stop acting like a stroppy teenager and take some responsibility. If your marriage is that bad do something about it.

Don't come on a swinging site and play the look at me my wife give me no sex, then write a thread on how poor done by it you are.

It's not an attractive quality.

A swinging site is more than likely not the site for you, try a dating one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lmfao night night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread

I can feel great use of the and the icons if this continues when the OP gets up

I'll pop back in later for an update

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marriage counseling?

It might help, it might not.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless it is an open relationship where both parties have agreed it is ok to do then it is fine.

If your gf/wife suddenly changes it is a bit of a dick thing to do to go looking elswhere.

I have had a similar thing happen where an ex told me she didnt like sex anymore. I stayed by her, although I didnt come across as supporting her decision at first ( I only asked the questions any one would of done) I came to accept it .

Rather than focus on elsewhere, work on making her feel the way she used to be.

Im prob talking shite as usual but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience when women you're in a r ship with suddenly don't want sex it usually means they are fucking someone else maybe you should check that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love the forums

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By *p for anything coupleCouple
over a year ago

preston

Hahahaha this has made my morning.

Nothing like a massively self inflated ego to start the day ha.

A&A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah cause I'm fit she wanted me but wasn't that into sex and so she pretended just to "get me" in get words. When she got our baby she admitted it was mission accomplished. She just wanted a good looking kid and with me that was guaranteed "

So much bitterness from a man who earlier in the thread said other than sexually his relationship was "brilliant"

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Yeah cause I'm fit she wanted me but wasn't that into sex and so she pretended just to "get me" in get words. When she got our baby she admitted it was mission accomplished. She just wanted a good looking kid and with me that was guaranteed "

Thankyou for giving me something to giggle at

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

Ditch her and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it is frowned upon. However, you dress it up, cheating is cheating.

However, some people will meet married men, so all is not lost for you.

Reading your profile though, for most people, this is not a sex site. It is a swingers site. Both very different things. "

Really? Help a brother out: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/511963 I get slated for trying to make the same point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I signed up for fab. This forum is internet gold "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't.

See the double standard and it's bollocks.

Women have all pussy and all the power "

Should have married an Asian bro

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is it frowned upon on here even when the guy is only doing it because his wife changed as soon as the ring was on? "

If only married people would just get on with it and not justify their actions by proportioning blame to their spouses!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married or not doesn't really bother me . I want sex not a relationship. I keep an open mind about things ad there's always a story to tell as to why people are her. After all I have my own story too

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something "

Good grief!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

Really? Help a brother out: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/511963 I get slated for trying to make the same point! "

Yeah, but those Swinger forums are a much tougher crowd

.

OP: You have it on your profile, that's all you need. For some people it will rule you out, for others it won't - just like all preferences.

Oh, and learn to NEVER mention it on the forums again

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something

Try talking to your wife about your sex life, if that is the part that is lacking. Be spontaneous, surprise her, treat her, help her feel more relaxed. I don't know either of you personally but your wife may feel there are unobtainable expectations and this may be hindering any hope of romance in the bedroom. Above all show some compassion and a little sensitivity when broaching the subject with your wife. tried all that for 4 years, had enough now. Just don't want to upset the kids

Staying together for the sake of the children doesn't work. It does more damage in the long run!

Why is it men always blame a lack of females sex drive as a 'reason' to cheat? Ever thought there is a reason she doesn't want sex...

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab thread delivers once again!

Woman gets married to a knob just so she can have a good looking baby?

Just brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Really? Help a brother out: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/511963 I get slated for trying to make the same point!

Yeah, but those Swinger forums are a much tougher crowd

.

OP: You have it on your profile, that's all you need. For some people it will rule you out, for others it won't - just like all preferences.

Oh, and learn to NEVER mention it on the forums again

Mr ddc"

Whatever your point is, it'll be better received if you have tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience when women you're in a r ship with suddenly don't want sex it usually means they are fucking someone else maybe you should check that"

In all your 30 yrs experience eh? Women stop having sex for a number of reasons and not a lot are to do with having an affair

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By *ackwithabang2000Couple
over a year ago

Stoke


"I am doing something about it. The only part of my life that isn't brilliant is my sex life and that's why I'm here. I don't want to go out getting pissed and meet some in a bar I just want to meet somebody in a similar position. I've tried for over 4 years to get things right at home and it ain't happening she needs female viagra or something

You really are an horrid person aren't you!!!! "
totally agree!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst the 'good looking baby' comment was quite funny, I'm not exactly sure why the OP was getting slated long before that? He did say he'd been trying to fix things for 4 years and all the semi-constructive advice was basically 'try more'.

It's not so unreasonable for a husband to want poontang and since his wife is well aware that he ain't getting it from her then she really should consider where else his carnal needs might be satisfied.

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By *illo0069Man
over a year ago

litherland

Some men cheat and some women cheat,

They get a buzz or fulfillment from it, is it right or wrong? well thats open to all opinions. Some ppl say what the head doesnt know the heart doesnt grieve im not justifying either side behaviour but its human behaviour in some and not others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men cheat and some women cheat,

They get a buzz or fulfillment from it, is it right or wrong? well thats open to all opinions. Some ppl say what the head doesnt know the heart doesnt grieve im not justifying either side behaviour but its human behaviour in some and not others "

It's done by 60-70% of spouses at some point in the marriage if you believe the stats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst the 'good looking baby' comment was quite funny, I'm not exactly sure why the OP was getting slated long before that? He did say he'd been trying to fix things for 4 years and all the semi-constructive advice was basically 'try more'.

It's not so unreasonable for a husband to want poontang and since his wife is well aware that he ain't getting it from her then she really should consider where else his carnal needs might be satisfied. "

What would everyone else do in the same position.

Stay put...find some fun on the side...or leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i have married and the relationship is exclusive no matter what happened i would not go elsewhere. Why commit to someone if you do not plan on taking on the hard times aswell. Op needs to re-evaluate his own head imo. If the rest of the relationship is fine and you dun wanna leave then grow up and deal with that...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying. "

Not true - I've been lambasted for it more than once.

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By *illo0069Man
over a year ago

litherland


"Whilst the 'good looking baby' comment was quite funny, I'm not exactly sure why the OP was getting slated long before that? He did say he'd been trying to fix things for 4 years and all the semi-constructive advice was basically 'try more'.

It's not so unreasonable for a husband to want poontang and since his wife is well aware that he ain't getting it from her then she really should consider where else his carnal needs might be satisfied.

What would everyone else do in the same position.

Stay put...find some fun on the side...or leave."

Sounds like a title for a new thread

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Ooh this is a funny thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying. "

There isn't enough single women on here to be holding cheating against them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst the 'good looking baby' comment was quite funny, I'm not exactly sure why the OP was getting slated long before that? He did say he'd been trying to fix things for 4 years and all the semi-constructive advice was basically 'try more'.

It's not so unreasonable for a husband to want poontang and since his wife is well aware that he ain't getting it from her then she really should consider where else his carnal needs might be satisfied.

What would everyone else do in the same position.

Stay put...find some fun on the side...or leave."

If it was me I'd suggest to my partner that we had an open marriage where we could both meet other people as I still needed sex and you never know it could be that your partner has just gone off sex with you rather than off sex although, if they didn't agree to that I would leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't.

See the double standard and it's bollocks.

Women have all pussy and all the power

Should have married an Asian bro"

I almost did.... But she ask me to sign a prenup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't.

See the double standard and it's bollocks.

Women have all pussy and all the power

Should have married an Asian bro

I almost did.... But she ask me to sign a prenup "

Is that a bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying. "
That is right, the majority of times, it is more acceptable that a woman cheat here as she will get all praises and understanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, you've been on fab at least seven years, going by your pics. I'm sure you already have an idea about how some feel about this subject.

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying. "

Same in the real world. If a woman cheats it's because her man is a bastard and she needs attention, if a man cheats he's a selfish bastard an should be honest to his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is a thread of two halves...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Op, you've been on fab at least seven years, going by your pics. I'm sure you already have an idea about how some feel about this subject. "

7 years and no verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

Same in the real world. If a woman cheats it's because her man is a bastard and she needs attention, if a man cheats he's a selfish bastard an should be honest to his wife."

So there you have it,all men are bastards,so all you women go to a lesbian site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab thread delivers once again!

Woman gets married to a knob just so she can have a good looking baby?

Just brilliant. "
I know and I said that without a hint of irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't.

See the double standard and it's bollocks.

Women have all pussy and all the power

Should have married an Asian bro

I almost did.... But she ask me to sign a prenup

Is that a bad thing? "

Yes, her family was loaded and she was a only child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst the 'good looking baby' comment was quite funny, I'm not exactly sure why the OP was getting slated long before that? He did say he'd been trying to fix things for 4 years and all the semi-constructive advice was basically 'try more'.

It's not so unreasonable for a husband to want poontang and since his wife is well aware that he ain't getting it from her then she really should consider where else his carnal needs might be satisfied.

What would everyone else do in the same position.

Stay put...find some fun on the side...or leave.

If it was me I'd suggest to my partner that we had an open marriage where we could both meet other people as I still needed sex and you never know it could be that your partner has just gone off sex with you rather than off sex although, if they didn't agree to that I would leave "

That's exactly what I did xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't.

See the double standard and it's bollocks.

Women have all pussy and all the power

Should have married an Asian bro

I almost did.... But she ask me to sign a prenup

Is that a bad thing?

Yes, her family was loaded and she was a only child

"

OK and this was a problem because you actually wanted to kill them and live a singleton life of luxury on a Cuban beach?

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

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Dude you really threw yourself out to slaughter with this thread! Please keep digging it's hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here, there is more acceptability for the woman to cheat but not on the man. The double standard is annoying.

I won't meet anyone cheating, regardless of their gender.

However, I think there is more acceptability because you don't get many women trying to publicly justify why they are cheating compared to men. The OP a case in point.

Also it probably comes down to a numbers game too, there isn't many women about, so they will be excused behaviours that men won't.

See the double standard and it's bollocks.

Women have all pussy and all the power

Should have married an Asian bro

I almost did.... But she ask me to sign a prenup

Is that a bad thing?

Yes, her family was loaded and she was a only child

OK and this was a problem because you actually wanted to kill them and live a singleton life of luxury on a Cuban beach? "

I like you guys

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