FabSwingers.com forum: Do woman ever message guys first

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The above !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I have been known to,but generally no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup all the time

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the only way I get meets; and I can confirm that they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon a woman must have done a first message once.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup all the time"

You strumpet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hardly ever happens maybe it's me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...of course they do.

Women who have "not looking for single guys" on their profile but do play with guys.

This is to stop idiots messaging them....but they can pick and choose who they message.

It's not rocket science

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Hardly ever happens maybe it's me! "

Well nobody is going to message you with a hidden profile are they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. ...all the time

But not from a search and more likely to be from something on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it!!! Well that explains it hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly ever happens maybe it's me!

Well nobody is going to message you with a hidden profile are they!

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

If I come across someone that I'd like to know more about with a view to meeting then yes, I'll happily message them first

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Don't believe it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Problem solved ladies and gents!!! My profile was hidden lol!!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Thank god they do, it's the only way I ever get any meets

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Happened to me twice in 3 years. Both times I thought these women must be desperate if they're messaging this 53 yo hairy-arsed waster

Both turn out to be fantastic meets, still in touch. So you never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Problem solved ladies and gents!!! My profile was hidden lol!!! "

Your inbox will be flooded now lol

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Problem solved ladies and gents!!! My profile was hidden lol!!! "

Dopey mare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ...

No"

Well maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ...

Well maybe"

Changed my mind....no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly ever happens maybe it's me!

Well nobody is going to message you with a hidden profile are they!

That's the exact reason why I had to send 'the first message'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Problem solved ladies and gents!!! My profile was hidden lol!!!

Your inbox will be flooded now lol"
hope so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I have all men blocked so I can mail the ones I like myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. I have all men blocked so I can mail the ones I like myself "
very clever actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in a blue moon it happens, usually I have to mail them first lol.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Yes

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Yes occasionally get messages from women usually from the forums though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

occasionally I do, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Problem solved ladies and gents!!! My profile was hidden lol!!!

Dopey mare!"

That bloke's inbox will be like Paris.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

All the meets I've had via this site, bar one, are as a result of the woman making initial contact......So yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do but not nearly often enough.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Very rarely I do that.... In all honesty I tend to wink and let them contact me if there is something I like the look of on their profile - usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on here i don't. on other not sex based websites i will though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've had a few. Rare but yes x

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Yep but the ones I fancy don't respond

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would

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By *erfumedpornovampireWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

It's how I met my favourite fuck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do.... But it's never a fancy a fuck message

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

They do

But I prefer if they would respect who I am......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes.

Lovin you're avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes.

Lovin you're avatar"

Thank you kindly.

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By *ilthy LadyWoman
over a year ago

Wickford

Hidden profile...so probably never for you

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By *ilthy LadyWoman
over a year ago

Wickford

Yes we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes...of course they do.

Women who have "not looking for single guys" on their profile but do play with guys.

This is to stop idiots messaging them....but they can pick and choose who they message.

It's not rocket science"

I tend to block them so as not to come up in any searches...It says they're not looking for single guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's put something funny in the forums then yes, I might message. But generally I don't go surfing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but it's very rare someone sparks my interest enough to warrant a first message ... Most profiles are standard. I normally message those who have put some effort in and come across as somethings I may be looking for.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely and even better when they respond

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It happens not Offton enough but still it does happen thank God as I never mail 1st. Well never is a strong word but yet get my drilft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To other ladies, when I'm feeling uncharacteristically brave, yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The above ! "

All the time.

Fair few rejections under my belt too.

Shock, horror.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nice ones do

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have been known to if I like their pics or something they have written on the forum has tickled me

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yep, especially if they've winked and I like the look of them, then I will message and thank them for the wink

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Yes

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, had a few. Doesn't always lead to meets of course but nice all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked everyone and do the searching myself so yes, women do message men first but it has to be a very good informative profile with a good selection of pics. Sadly there aren't many male profiles like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get quite a few, although not had any since Wednesday so slow week

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have had a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the ladies have made the first move on a few occasions I'm pleased to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Decided to be more proactive.

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