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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone said to you that their bedroom is their own personal space and don't like to have sexual meets in there.

Reason asking as I have a spare bedroom where all my meets take place. It's the guest bedroom. I know I sound silly but my bedroom is my personal space and I would only share my room and bed with a person I deeply cared about.

Been chatting to someone and I opened up and was honest as to why I am selfish over my personal space, and sadly this has now resulted in him not wanting to meet me.

He said that not sharing my bedroom/bed has now made him feel unwelcomed.

What are your thoughts

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I've had weirder requests.

So long as the room is clean and safe, who cares?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's your body and your rules of its your house. If people don't like it, they don't have to do it. I think a spare room is a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had weirder requests.

So long as the room is clean and safe, who cares?"

My thoughts to its just the spare guest room at the end of the day. Looks no different to any other bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you do what you are comfortable with. I don't meet at all at my home as that's my preference. If he had an issue, why didn't he invite you to his bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use the bedroom I sleep-in for meets..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely your home and space should be respected by anyone let alone a meet, your house your rules! Tell anyone who thinks otherwise to sex and travel!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you would have met him and if you both liked each other, you would have had sex in a bed in the spare bedroom?

And he decided that wasn't good enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many make it to my bedroom

I don't have a spare room but most seem happy to shag on the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even let people know the town I live in!! They ain't coming near my house. If they don't like it that's cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me at all, as long as the room being used was clean and tidy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bed is a bed...what's he gonna do if he tuners up at a meet where they put quilts cushions on the floor,like some do...walk out.

Jim was right..People are strange when your a stranger.

Or does he think he's the special one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personally think it was an excuse not to meet. He said that it was unwelcoming even though all my verifications say how welcoming and friendly I am. as people have said my house my rules. And as long as the room is clean and the bedding what else matters

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I've had weirder requests.

So long as the room is clean and safe, who cares?"

This

MrsSB

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