FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *r.Genuine OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Just wondering,

Do you prefer to make all your verifications public or do you keep them private?

Also if they are private, does this give off the impression you are hiding something?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I don't show mine because they are no ones business. I do show my summery for anyone who has any queries as to if I'm genuine or not.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I don't show mine because they are no ones business. I do show my summery for anyone who has any queries as to if I'm genuine or not.

That's what I may start doing, just show the summary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show some of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep them private. Because I'm hiding something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id prefer to hide mine but find if i do i get the you must be hiding sumfin comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show mine as I prefer to remain private but I dont read other peoples either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

private. i'll show a new one for a few days though.

i don't really care if someone hides everything, i know drama happens on here or people are just shady as fuck and i avoid those people coz they've either made bad choices or are shady as fuck and to be avoided.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Id prefer to hide mine but find if i do i get the you must be hiding sumfin comments

That's what I've been worrying about haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show some of mine and don't show the summary as how many people I have met is no one's business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering,

Do you prefer to make all your verifications public or do you keep them private?

Also if they are private, does this give off the impression you are hiding something? "

I put mine up the only ones I hide are repetitive ones from people I've met often. Or I went to a social once and got about 20 veris of people I said about 10 words too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some of mine are hidden but the summary isn't. Yes, I am hiding something: namely, some verifications. It doesn't matter to me what people think or assume as its bound to be negative and I don't need negative people to be in contact with me.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Some of mine are hidden but the summary isn't. Yes, I am hiding something: namely, some verifications. It doesn't matter to me what people think or assume as its bound to be negative and I don't need negative people to be in contact with me. "

Great perspective on things mate

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

We show ours I really don't understand the notion of privacy on a site where you meet people to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private but I'd show them if asked. My summary is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering,

Do you prefer to make all your verifications public or do you keep them private?

Also if they are private, does this give off the impression you are hiding something? "

Never considered people would think I was hiding anything.

I just put a few up that sum me up without describing my, ahem, skills too graphically.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"We show ours I really don't understand the notion of privacy on a site where you meet people to fuck.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"We show ours I really don't understand the notion of privacy on a site where you meet people to fuck.

Each to their own I suppose, can't knock it either way just personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show a selection of mine but not all

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"We show ours I really don't understand the notion of privacy on a site where you meet people to fuck.

It's a question of discretion: I've had people hassle people I've had sex with with whinging messages along the lines of 'you met Steve why not me?' Etc etc.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"We show ours I really don't understand the notion of privacy on a site where you meet people to fuck.

It's a question of discretion: I've had people hassle people I've had sex with with whinging messages along the lines of 'you met Steve why not me?' Etc etc."

Great point mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show my veris xxx

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I used to show my veris until someone mailed them all wanting to know more intimate details. Now I show new ones for a couple of days and then they become private. If that means that people think I'm hiding something nasty then that's up to them.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I just show one I don't need to show anymore, the one I do show I happen to have met the man a few times so know him more than I did the others anyway.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I used to show my veris until someone mailed them all wanting to know more intimate details. Now I show new ones for a couple of days and then they become private. If that means that people think I'm hiding something nasty then that's up to them."

Exactly

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Hiding nothing just selective in the ones I show

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I like to see a few good ones on a profile, and I just like to show a few, wouldn't want anyone to think I was a swinger or something!

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

I show mine, i've got nothing to hide x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, I kinda mix them up depending on what we are looking for at any given moment.

When we first joined we figured that verifications were important to other people, but now we just like them for us - its nice having that memory of meeting someone. Its why I prefer the personal or funny ones.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I show some and some i don't x

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Never show mine;

I didn't ask for them; I have no interest in them, but can't be bothered to ask admin to remove them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we show some-rarely the latest ones - we have had weird people follow who we meet

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

There's some really strange people about

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I show some and some i don't x"

You have a lovely selection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering,

Do you prefer to make all your verifications public or do you keep them private?

Also if they are private, does this give off the impression you are hiding something? "

If I don't show a verification it's usually because I am hiding something

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I like to vary them slightly, though I've not been through them for a while now.

The ones I keep hidden are the ones full of evil secrets about me

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Never read so many veris in my life

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I display all mine but lost 1 because a lady left the site. I think they are very important for single males on here. Helped me get more meets anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hide them,none of anyone's business who we have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer people not to verify me; and so far people have been kind enough not to want me to verify them; so I don't have any..... it should help to avoid drama

but thats not always possible......can't help a good drama once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show some of mine ...not all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All mine from before are hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are times the person giving the verification wants it kept private and it is only right to respect their privacy.

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