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Do you worry about how you're perceived here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just say what I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It keeps me up at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I don't really give a shit tbh.

Mrs

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Not very well from the absence of messages or meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tee heee.....er nope!...but i probably would if i was looking to meet people from the forum.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"It keeps me up at night "

Gives you the willies then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here. nobody gives a shit really.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No not really. It much the same as anywhere on the real some will like you some won't no big deal

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I say what I think but I can be a pleasant person at times .... in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not any more. Meeting people in the flesh helps me realise they're just people. Like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give two shits what any of you idiots think about anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just say what I think. "

I still don't always say exactly what i think....I'm not that heartless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I wouldn't deliberately set out to offend but "real" life is my priority. Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do......

Furthermore the very instant I start to feel any affection towards me.... I'll be out of here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do......

Furthermore the very instant I start to feel any affection towards me.... I'll be out of here... "

People asked about you when you hadn't posted in a few days

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By *uicyJay1Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally others opinions don't matter to me.. I'll take a complement any day though haha, just have to be mind full not to hurt others feelings I think.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Nope, never have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day i do is the day i will leave. Not a chance in hell

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. I care what the people i care about think thats it. We are all percieved differently by different people anyway.

Sometimes i might be a bit surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it depends on my anxiety xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really I think I'm a pretty laid-back level headed guy so don't really need to worry about being a twat

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yes I do......

Furthermore the very instant I start to feel any affection towards me.... I'll be out of here...

People asked about you when you hadn't posted in a few days "

Ffs don't tell him that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont care what people think, so I'll deliberately start a thread to try and shape peoples opinion of me, yay logic!"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope, I don't think anyone gives a shit about me on here or would notice if I left...... Never mind not posted for a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do......

Furthermore the very instant I start to feel any affection towards me.... I'll be out of here...

People asked about you when you hadn't posted in a few days "

I suspect they were just overcome with relief and keen to share news of their new found happiness .......

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

In the beginning when I was new I thought I didn't and wouldnt. But over the years the more I get to know people, I find that I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I keep myself to myself, that way everybody's happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we do , sometimes we don't .

It's human nature to be somewhat put out if people take digs at you .

But the feeling soon subsides these days .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest. I keep Fab and the real world very separate.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

...neither on here or anywhere else to be honest.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nah the only people that I'm concerned about are the people I care about in my everyday life. I try and treat people how I would like to be treated myself but if I took every dig that was made about me on here personally I would be a mess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't give two shits what any of you idiots think about anything."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I don't think anyone gives a shit about me on here or would notice if I left...... Never mind not posted for a few days "

I noticed you've been quiet lately.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Nope, I don't think anyone gives a shit about me on here or would notice if I left...... Never mind not posted for a few days

I noticed you've been quiet lately. "

Yeah Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Some people will like me and others won't and I'm okay with that.

I do care about how I treat people on here and would feel awful if I upset someone, but thats who am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I couldn't give a toss!.....

Well- maybe a toss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just say what I think. "

No idea what the special sign is, as asked for in your profile...... Unable to go outside and ask any one due to all this blimmin sun, took my shoes off and thought I must be one as my socks are now steaming in the sun...... Then I realised I had a washing machine to solve that little problem, and a bathroom as well complete with hot water and soap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a right egotistical bitch and I don't care if you all hate me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Not in the slightest - authenticity is important to me, I hate pretense, so I am what I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the people I like - yes.

To most, hell no.

I also think that the people who repeatedly state they don't care what others think in threads care the most too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just say what I think.

I still don't always say exactly what i think....I'm not that heartless "

I probably would be drier in my humour face to face but can't always here as it might get a ban.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not here, not anywhere. No.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope. Some people like me, some can't stand me (and have blocked me) and the vast majority couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So thus far , one can ascertain that swingers ( at least those using the forums ) don't give a shit how they are perceived ?

Nice

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"So thus far , one can ascertain that swingers ( at least those using the forums ) don't give a shit how they are perceived ?

Nice "

They lie like cheap watches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So thus far , one can ascertain that swingers ( at least those using the forums ) don't give a shit how they are perceived ?"

And I don't believe a word of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So thus far , one can ascertain that swingers ( at least those using the forums ) don't give a shit how they are perceived ?

And I don't believe a word of it.

"

hey,,,, I mean c'mon seriously , I wouldn't even like me..

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I care about some peoples view of me on here and others a couldnt give a fuck.. Maybe that's why they don't like me.. I wouldn't fuck them!

Some ppl on the forums ate only here to cause disharmony so why should I give a toss what they think of me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd actually like to be more of a cunt than i already am but i'm not popular enough for that yet.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Guns N' Roses - Don't Damn Me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5I8kTvgHLfQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So thus far , one can ascertain that swingers ( at least those using the forums ) don't give a shit how they are perceived ?

Nice "

I never really answered.

I do care how I treat people in general, and in a sense I care how anyone perceives me. That is generally, not on here specifically. I think people like to be perceived as not caring how they are perceived, but I think that if anyone found out that everyone didn't like them, it might bother them a tad.

So yeah, I care about how the people I care about perceive me. But I also won't change my opinions based in that perception.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"So thus far , one can ascertain that swingers ( at least those using the forums ) don't give a shit how they are perceived ?

Nice "

Hey your only a little scery to me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other people's opinions of you are none of your business. You can however improve the likelihood of their opinion being good, by not being a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd actually like to be more of a cunt than i already am but i'm not popular enough for that yet."

Oh I think you are.

Cunt away to your hearts content.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I couldn't give two shits what any of you idiots think about anything."

Oi, it's Mr Idiot to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd actually like to be more of a cunt than i already am but i'm not popular enough for that yet.

Oh I think you are.

Cunt away to your hearts content. "

lol, am thinking to do that tbh. here i go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope you either like us or you don't Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd actually like to be more of a cunt than i already am but i'm not popular enough for that yet.

Oh I think you are.

Cunt away to your hearts content.

lol, am thinking to do that tbh. here i go..."

Stand by for a cunting folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably like Marmite.

Some people will like me, most won't.

But truth be told I don't lose any sleep wondering what people think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care what others in the forum think of me

I care what my kids, husband and a few close friends think of me as i try to be nice and kind and a good person in real life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be ."

By saying I say what I think though. I meant I don't make comments to follow the crowd. I am myself. Which isn't being unpleasant. Thats person dependant surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as once they read profile their mind already made up if they want to chat I'll chat if not it the normal for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd actually like to be more of a cunt than i already am but i'm not popular enough for that yet.

Oh I think you are.

Cunt away to your hearts content.

lol, am thinking to do that tbh. here i go...

Stand by for a cunting folks "

it will only amuse for a little while and then i will get bored and go back to being 'nice'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm probably like Marmite.

Some people will like me, most won't.

But truth be told I don't lose any sleep wondering what people think."

That's realistic and we are much the same .

We certainly won't lose any sleep over it , but when people make it clear they don't like us , or are judgemental we do get a bit pissed off about it .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be ."

I used to care when I first joined and took some comments to heart I will admit, but now? I've been here for nearly 7 years so if you like me you like me and if you don't you don't, nothing I can do to change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a flying fig how I'm perceived on here - not for one Nano second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen anyone in my area on the forums so it doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I don't care what people think, I wouldn't go around deliberately upsetting folk either.

I'm blasé but polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to

I seem to upset a lot of people on here, never intentionally I think it's just hard to get your personality over online

I don't care anymore, if people want to block me because they have taken offence to something they have read online I'm not sure I'd want to meet anybody that sensitive anyway

I prefer thick skinned people who can have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd actually like to be more of a cunt than i already am but i'm not popular enough for that yet.

Oh I think you are.

Cunt away to your hearts content.

lol, am thinking to do that tbh. here i go...

Stand by for a cunting folks

it will only amuse for a little while and then i will get bored and go back to being 'nice'.

"

Depends on the effort you put in. Lol.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be ."

If I really did care, what could I do about it? Nothing. I'm not wasting energy on things I can't change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm probably like Marmite.

Some people will like me, most won't.

But truth be told I don't lose any sleep wondering what people think.

That's realistic and we are much the same .

We certainly won't lose any sleep over it , but when people make it clear they don't like us , or are judgemental we do get a bit pissed off about it ."

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It only slightly irritates when people don't take the time to scratch beneath the surface before passing judgment. Though even then I carry on regardless as it's not worth wasting my time trying to change someone's mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*irritates me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd actually like to be more of a cunt than i already am but i'm not popular enough for that yet.

Oh I think you are.

Cunt away to your hearts content.

lol, am thinking to do that tbh. here i go...

Stand by for a cunting folks

it will only amuse for a little while and then i will get bored and go back to being 'nice'.

Depends on the effort you put in. Lol.

"

i got scared and didn't do it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be ."
why because you dont care mean your going to be unpleasant. As far as im concerned why would i care. Why would i care if im most favoueite person or not. Its nice to be liked but i really dont care if some random person likes me or not

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Well I don't want to be thought of badly and I hope I come across fairly nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely by responding to this thread we clearly do care how we are perceived.... in fact by posting our feeling on the matter we are taking an oppertunity to reinforce how we care.....

Perhaps its only people that don't respond who truly don't care how they are perceived...

So stick that in your collective teacup and stir it to the left,,,..

Yeah you heard me.... to the left...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I don't want to be thought of badly and I hope I come across fairly nicely"

This is what I mean. If someone hopes they aren't though of badly it doesn't mean they want to be everyone's favorite. And I don't just mean that about the forums, it's true, for me at least, in life I general.

I've gotten nasty messages, and in a way they did bother me for a day or so. Does that mean I want universal praise? No. But I'd rather not be the object of scorn, either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what you think of me and I need you to know that I don't care...

So there.... rasssssp...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Hands up who likes me?

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I think my profile probably comes off as a little aggressive and a lot of the time my messages probably come across a bit 'short' but the fact is you can't perceive tone in text, and my verifications speak for themselves regarding my actual personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't worry, but I do care. I'd like to think I represent myself properly before clicking 'Post'.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think to say I 'don't care' sounds a bit crass. Of course we like to be perceived well, and will present the best of ourselves, but I don't worry about it, nor am I going to change myself or pretend to be anything to court opinion, just stay authentic. I am very fussy about who I befriend and meet and only want to connect with people who will appreciate the real me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not very well from the absence of messages or meets "

Not true!! I think you're ace x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Hands up who likes me? "

*puts left fist in the air*

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

On the whole, no.

But sometimes I won't say what I actually think cos after I have typed it out it does sound like I'm being a bit of a cunt.

Now I don't mind people thinking of me as a cunt but only if I mean to be one

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Hands up who likes me?

*puts left fist in the air*"

* REEF - Place Your Hands

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYP-NxkfjkE

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Hands up who likes me? "
i dont

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Hands up who likes me? i dont"

Meanie :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be ."

Not at all but to put it bluntly most people on here will not leave any lasting mark on my life so why worry? If people like me they thats nice amd if they dont i have to say who are they to me? Chances are i wouldnt even remember their username let alone what they may have said.

Not caring doesnt mean being mean thats not who i am. Its being who i am and saying what i think regardless of how i think it will be perceived. Or whether someone will like me for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a flying fuck

I did have a regular poster block me after meeting me,I'm assuming so people couldn't see the verification he left (he hid the one he asked me to give him). I think my verbal crap on the forums embarrassed him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone had better tell me how I am perceived. I can then decided whether to start worrying or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be .why because you dont care mean your going to be unpleasant. As far as im concerned why would i care. Why would i care if im most favoueite person or not. Its nice to be liked but i really dont care if some random person likes me or not"

If no one cares what anyone thinks about them then little or no respect for other people's feelings will be given .

This is often seen on here and is one of the main reasons so few frequent the forums .

So we have less diversity and a forum full of people who don't give a shit .

That may suit most of the forumites , or maybe they don't care , but it may be nice to be nice sometimes and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt many care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading up a few posts (I didn't read any before answering) I feel I should reiterate that I really don't give a flying fuck. I don't say everything on my mind because it gets me banned,everything else is what is in my mind and wants to come out. Most of my posts are ignored anyway

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hands up who likes me? i dont"
why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone had better tell me how I am perceived. I can then decided whether to start worrying or not. "

Welcome to the forum! Just muck in a bit, and we'll soon work you out

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hands up who likes me?

*puts left fist in the air*"

Thanks matey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading up a few posts (I didn't read any before answering) I feel I should reiterate that I really don't give a flying fuck. I don't say everything on my mind because it gets me banned,everything else is what is in my mind and wants to come out. Most of my posts are ignored anyway "

Just try not to personally attack any the xxxxx on here and you should be ok. I do try not to

Which is probably why I'm being accused of it more and more often....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be .why because you dont care mean your going to be unpleasant. As far as im concerned why would i care. Why would i care if im most favoueite person or not. Its nice to be liked but i really dont care if some random person likes me or not

If no one cares what anyone thinks about them then little or no respect for other people's feelings will be given .

This is often seen on here and is one of the main reasons so few frequent the forums .

So we have less diversity and a forum full of people who don't give a shit .

That may suit most of the forumites , or maybe they don't care , but it may be nice to be nice sometimes and see what happens

"

Nope,can't agree with you there. I don't come here to hurt anyone's feelings. I'm not that kind of person. I don't have to stop myself from saying anything nasty because of how people will judge me; I only do it because it may get me a ban. It's not often I feel like being horrible to someone anyway.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't worry. I am a people pleaser so I am momentarily discombobulated when I appear to have upset someone forum wise but other than that I don't really mind. Plus I waffle a lot so people tend to skip past without perceiving me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading up a few posts (I didn't read any before answering) I feel I should reiterate that I really don't give a flying fuck. I don't say everything on my mind because it gets me banned,everything else is what is in my mind and wants to come out. Most of my posts are ignored anyway

Just try not to personally attack any the xxxxx on here and you should be ok. I do try not to

Which is probably why I'm being accused of it more and more often.... "

I already have a list of the untouchables and how I'm going to bring them down

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't worry. I am a people pleaser so I am momentarily discombobulated when I appear to have upset someone forum wise but other than that I don't really mind. Plus I waffle a lot so people tend to skip past without perceiving me anyway."

I always notice your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading up a few posts (I didn't read any before answering) I feel I should reiterate that I really don't give a flying fuck. I don't say everything on my mind because it gets me banned,everything else is what is in my mind and wants to come out. Most of my posts are ignored anyway "

I'm struggling to see what you are trying to get across here ...you don't give a fuck , but hold back a bit as you would get banned , and no one takes any notice of you anyway .

I guess that's your mission accomplished then ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be .why because you dont care mean your going to be unpleasant. As far as im concerned why would i care. Why would i care if im most favoueite person or not. Its nice to be liked but i really dont care if some random person likes me or not

If no one cares what anyone thinks about them then little or no respect for other people's feelings will be given .

This is often seen on here and is one of the main reasons so few frequent the forums .

So we have less diversity and a forum full of people who don't give a shit .

That may suit most of the forumites , or maybe they don't care , but it may be nice to be nice sometimes and see what happens

"
i disagree of.the.people who.have posted they dont care on this.thread not one of.them is an unpleasant person

I dont see it as a negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I dont care what people think, so I'll deliberately start a thread to try and shape peoples opinion of me, yay logic!""

Morbid curiosity?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Hands up who likes me? i dont why not? "
just because i can

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hands up who likes me? i dont why not? just because i can"
eat Spinich.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading up a few posts (I didn't read any before answering) I feel I should reiterate that I really don't give a flying fuck. I don't say everything on my mind because it gets me banned,everything else is what is in my mind and wants to come out. Most of my posts are ignored anyway

I'm struggling to see what you are trying to get across here ...you don't give a fuck , but hold back a bit as you would get banned , and no one takes any notice of you anyway .

I guess that's your mission accomplished then ?"

Ok,let me try to elucidate,a bit if I can. I'm not bothered if no one here likes me or doesn't like me. I have seen lots of my comments on threads go ignored; it doesn't bother me,I flit around a lot anyway. Occasionally someone comes here and has a dig at someone and instead of saying oi,don't be a cunt! I word myself so I don't get reported and banned,no one wants a ban right? Have I covered everything?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Sometimes I think Yes

Other times I think no

Not that I'm sitting on the fence.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Why would you?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Hands up who likes me? i dont why not? just because i can eat Spinich. "
because my cats need.therapy after.seeing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't cry at night if no one on the forums liked me or never spoke to me. I'm here for the sex and I get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone adores me so it never enters my head

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hands up who likes me? i dont why not? just because i can eat Spinich. because my cats need.therapy after.seeing you"
so it's nothing to do with cushions then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't cry at night if no one on the forums liked me or never spoke to me. I'm here for the sex and I get it. "

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Nah rather tell it like it is than piss in peoples pockets. If that makes people point there fingers an say I'm a bad guy so what.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Couldn't care less what strangers think about me, people who I have met know what I am like,and that is all that matters.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Hands up who likes me? i dont why not? just because i can eat Spinich. because my cats need.therapy after.seeing you so it's nothing to do with cushions then? "
or your fat.arse

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Ffs let's all just have a shag it's what we do best after all.

Runs for the hills before I'm lynched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't care less what strangers think about me, people who I have met know what I am like,and that is all that matters. "

Couldn't have put it better myself... So I'll say this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I think Yes

Other times I think no

Not that I'm sitting on the fence.

"

Mind your arse for splinters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't .

As this is not reality.

I think Some people find it hard to separate cyber life from reality.

I like to think it's a bit of fun and I take most of it with a huge pinch of salt and a chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look at the answers given before our post , all like lemmings saying they don't care as they see others saying they don't .

Who wants to admit they do ?

No one , as it shows weakness I guess .

Well as a few said after our post , I don't believe most answers either .

Or at least I hope that's not the case as the forums will rapidly become a very unpleasant place to be .why because you dont care mean your going to be unpleasant. As far as im concerned why would i care. Why would i care if im most favoueite person or not. Its nice to be liked but i really dont care if some random person likes me or not

If no one cares what anyone thinks about them then little or no respect for other people's feelings will be given .

This is often seen on here and is one of the main reasons so few frequent the forums .

So we have less diversity and a forum full of people who don't give a shit .

That may suit most of the forumites , or maybe they don't care , but it may be nice to be nice sometimes and see what happens

"

I think theres a difference in caring about how things you say affect others and not caring about the words they use that could affect you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't cry at night if no one on the forums liked me or never spoke to me. I'm here for the sex and I get it. "

Show off!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"No I don't .

As this is not reality.

I think Some people find it hard to separate cyber life from reality.

I like to think it's a bit of fun and I take most of it with a huge pinch of salt and a chuckle.

"

Not reality? Are we all a figment of your imagination?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't .

As this is not reality.

I think Some people find it hard to separate cyber life from reality.

I like to think it's a bit of fun and I take most of it with a huge pinch of salt and a chuckle.

Not reality? Are we all a figment of your imagination? "

Correct. It's the Matrix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even like myself so why would others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't cry at night if no one on the forums liked me or never spoke to me. I'm here for the sex and I get it.

Show off! "

I'm only jealous because i don't get it....i don't count Clem before you ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always best to be honest but you can be nice with it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to deliberately antagonise, but no, I don't care what people think of me really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are your own person only

You can change yourself that's if you want to )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry massively, I crave adulation and acceptance of the forum clique.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I worry massively, I crave adulation and acceptance of the forum clique. "

Shhhhh don't mention that word

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wonder how people perceive me but I'm not particularly worried about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how people perceive me but I'm not particularly worried about it "

To most on here.... Holy grail

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'd hope people don't dislike me and I do try my best not to come across as a total bell end where possible, but I can't say I worry too much about how I'm perceived. You can never please everybody. Long past caring about it all really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Not out to intentionally cause butthurt but I'll never pull a punch.

Those who know me away from here (yes you you weirdos) accept that they'll always know exactly where they stand with me.

Usually next to me with their enemies cowering behind something

M is even more dangerous as you never see it coming

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Not at all

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I worry massively, I crave adulation and acceptance of the forum clique. "

*kowtow*

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I worry massively, I crave adulation and acceptance of the forum clique. "

What are you talking about? You ARE the clique!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd hope people don't dislike me and I do try my best not to come across as a total bell end where possible, but I can't say I worry too much about how I'm perceived. You can never please everybody. Long past caring about it all really."

You come across as a cool dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same here and in real life. I tend to open my mouth and talk without thinking.

If I started worrying what people thought of me I'd probably hyperventilate and then shoot myself.

So I try not to think about that, in a "la la la I'm not thinking about it" kinda way.

It could explain why I have no friends in real life though.

Oh shit.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Never given it much thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,if people don't like me then there's always a block button. I've bigger things to lose sleep over than people's opinion of me be it on here or in my personal life off this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how people perceive me but I'm not particularly worried about it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lose any sleep over it

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just the same as real life. Bound to make mistakes but I've a heart of gold, albeit a little tarnished.

I'll never please all of the people, all of the time but I'll be understood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope "

Had to smile great picture a tad different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't cry at night if no one on the forums liked me or never spoke to me. I'm here for the sex and I get it.

Show off!

I'm only jealous because i don't get it....i don't count Clem before you ask "

I wouldn't count him either

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Nope, I think I come across better in person, but I'm the same as on here, and we make friends easily enough, so the way I'm perceived on here doesn't bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am true to who I am here. Do I care what others think no not now .. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not any more. Meeting people in the flesh helps me realise they're just people. Like me."

Absolutely! Spot on??

There are those who may want to remember we are all people - maybe different from them, but people just the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am not particularly bothered how i come across on here i think i come across much nicer on twitter .... because they know where i live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are who we are ................

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn!....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn!.... "

Best

Username

Ever

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

No could not care at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course as i am allways out of messages lol .... i am a chatterbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope

Had to smile great picture a tad different "

Bloody cold, and someone said I had photoshopped it! I have chilblains!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years a go I would care about all sorts and some very silly .......... now I am who I am and I have to be true to myself.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Do you worry about how you're perceived here? "

On the contrary, I am who I am. If that means some people don't want to meet us because they don't think we're compatible, then we've both saved some time.

I do worry when I upset people unintentionally though.

Mr ddc

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