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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

For the purpose of this thread i mean relationship as in romantic relationship. If someone asked you how many relationships have you been in do you have a criteria you base it on or do you class just being with someone as a relationship

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No I've seen people but not been in a fully committed relationship, I've been in 4 committed relationships

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"No I've seen people but not been in a fully committed relationship, I've been in 4 committed relationships "
so what criteria would it have to meet for you to class it as committed relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 fully committed relationships

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

being with someone a long time.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"No I've seen people but not been in a fully committed relationship, I've been in 4 committed relationships so what criteria would it have to meet for you to class it as committed relationship"

Someone that you plan a future I guess I've seen people (had dates) and stuff but it hasn't turned into anything and fizzled out.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've seen people but not been in what I call a relationship in 4 years now I think it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say both marriages were sort of committed and anyone id seen for more than a month, of which there were 4 others. I don't count one offs, viewed by cam or winks

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"3 fully committed relationships "
but what would you class as comitted

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I guess being emotionally involved with someone would be my baseline, but that would normally mean in-love and exclusive to me.

I would say have been in 6 significant relationships, and committed to them all for the duration, but only fully committed myself 'forever' once, to my husband.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'd say both marriages were sort of committed and anyone id seen for more than a month, of which there were 4 others. I don't count one offs, viewed by cam or winks "
thats interesting as part of the criteria id use is a time span but i use a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should have been committed after one of my relationships

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I should have been committed after one of my relationships "

God I get that

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

So being in love for you

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

A relationship to me is someone I have an emotional attachment to. As an emotionally backward person, I have been lucky to have met 3 people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably only one.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Probably only one."
what criteria are you using to class it as a relationship

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Three long term ones.

They all get wise to me in the end

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Three long term ones.

They all get wise to me in the end "
but what are you basing your criteria on for what you class as a relationship on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say just the one.

My criteria is that we perceive ourselves as being in a committed relationship. We were serious about building a future together. And there was a mutual understanding of our relationship status (linked to my first criterion).

Although I've only gone out with two other guys ever, one for a single date and one for two dates, so there isn't much to compare my one "relationship" with anyway.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'd say just the one.

My criteria is that we perceive ourselves as being in a committed relationship. We were serious about building a future together. And there was a mutual understanding of our relationship status (linked to my first criterion).

Although I've only gone out with two other guys ever, one for a single date and one for two dates, so there isn't much to compare my one "relationship" with anyway."
thats courtney for explaining yours so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I introduce somebody as my partner or girlfriend then I view it as a relationship. If I introduce them as someone I'm seeing it isn't

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 . And I class them as long term things . So over a year really .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 fully committed relationships recently parted from my second one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen people... but only 1 committed relationship with my husband now.. been together 10 years I was 15 when we started dating x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class a relationship as being with someone and imagining growing old with them, and that being the plan, best laid plans though eh!

By this criteria, I've been in 4 relationships, I was more into it than she was on each occasion, I was married to someone for 13 years and one day she told me that she was very sorry but she never loved me, she just wanted to be with someone so she could change her living situation, where as I thought that it was the greatest love story ever told.

I've always been Mr punch bag, emotionally anyway, oh except for wife no 2 who did actually like to assault me.

If I do get into a relationship again (I might now that I know that I'm a saviour of lost souls) it will be with someone who has her shit together, and has reduced her emotional baggage to one small carry on, any more than that and I will use the exits, here, here, and here.

I guess the criteria for kinky butlers significant other is someone who wont rely on me so much, that she has to stay with me just for her life to work or have any meaning, I want to be the fudge sundae of her life not the whole meal, strong independent women only for me, no more emotional cripples.

Wow, that all came out easy lol

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

2 for me, my ex husband and another guy who died a while ago. Recently I have thought I could be serious about someone again. I am a bit too independent, but will try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If om with someone for a period of time ie 6 months + and in that time we have seen alot of each other in our available spare time and always look forward to being together again then I'd class that as a strong relationship.

If I'm seeing someone as and when we feel like it and don't really miss them being with me then that to me is just something casual.

Both are equally enjoyable but just on different levels for me personally.

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