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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hello to all you fine ladies on fab, i think i speak for the majority of younger guys, looking to connect with older women, my question to you ladies is do you ever get the urge to have sex with someone younger than you, I feel like them porn videos you see of the 'milfs' who prey on the plumber fixing the leaky pipes has given me a false sense of hope and reality. Dont get me wrong i know porn is fake, was just wondering if there are some cougars who look for younger 'toyboys' as the term would go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do, some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will, some won't.

Some might feel uneasy meeting you as they might have children close to your age. Some might not be bothered.

Some might like being referred by the term "cougar" and some won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure crave is the right word but I've met a couple of guys around the 25 age mark a few times. I think it was a fantasy fulfilled both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always social first and as I live rurally often see people I know. The gossip would be rife if I was seen having a drink with a 20 something I like men 40 something

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Not sure crave is the right word but I've met a couple of guys around the 25 age mark a few times. I think it was a fantasy fulfilled both ways. "

Agreed now that i see it maybe crave was the right word in my head at the time, nice to know, now its time to find these women in my life

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Been there and done that ... was good for a while but not for me on a longer term basis .... just my POV

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I always social first and as I live rurally often see people I know. The gossip would be rife if I was seen having a drink with a 20 something I like men 40 something "

That's understandable, i think it would go the same way as a 20 something with a 40 something woman, however i cant help but admit some of you older women sure are something to look at

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Been there and done that ... was good for a while but not for me on a longer term basis .... just my POV"

Thats good to know, time for me to get on the short term, was thinking the same, highly doubt it could be long term, but worth a try nonetheless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some who do. Personally not my thing.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level"

World of Warcraft. Wet Dreams. Tits. How nerve racking exams are. Cheek of his mum asking for housekeeping.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Plus 20 year olds look about.10 to me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S. No I don't.

I don't crave anything except my freedom at times.

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level"

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They crave red wine, chocolate and miserable TV dramas as far as I can work out!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No urge here, but good luck!

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Hello to all you fine ladies on fab, i think i speak for the majority of younger guys, looking to connect with older women, my question to you ladies is do you ever get the urge to have sex with someone younger than you, I feel like them porn videos you see of the 'milfs' who prey on the plumber fixing the leaky pipes has given me a false sense of hope and reality. Dont get me wrong i know porn is fake, was just wondering if there are some cougars who look for younger 'toyboys' as the term would go. "

Yep.

Can't stand the terms MILF or cougar though.

I just prefer men younger than me. Preferably mid twenties. Not just for sex, I just find them good company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello to all you fine ladies on fab, i think i speak for the majority of younger guys, looking to connect with older women, my question to you ladies is do you ever get the urge to have sex with someone younger than you, I feel like them porn videos you see of the 'milfs' who prey on the plumber fixing the leaky pipes has given me a false sense of hope and reality. Dont get me wrong i know porn is fake, was just wondering if there are some cougars who look for younger 'toyboys' as the term would go. "

Funnily enough, it is about the person.

Putting general preferences aside, I am not going to meet just anyone.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"They crave red wine, chocolate and miserable TV dramas as far as I can work out! "

Get lost. Give me Nordic Noir every time.

No it's not a chocolate bar.

Pfffffffft !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello to all you fine ladies on fab, i think i speak for the majority of younger guys, looking to connect with older women, my question to you ladies is do you ever get the urge to have sex with someone younger than you, I feel like them porn videos you see of the 'milfs' who prey on the plumber fixing the leaky pipes has given me a false sense of hope and reality. Dont get me wrong i know porn is fake, was just wondering if there are some cougars who look for younger 'toyboys' as the term would go. "

Not me

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

World of Warcraft. Wet Dreams. Tits. How nerve racking exams are. Cheek of his mum asking for housekeeping. "

Haha, that made me giggle, bit stereotypical but does hold some truth, personally im not into all that, the housekeeping thing maybe, we've all got to listen to our parents they did bring us in this world to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I crave for a young fit guy, I'm thinking early thirties. Not sure there's any advantage in going much younger than that.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

What about me who 35 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus 20 year olds look about.10 to me"

I totally agree! I'm only 26 but I feel the same way.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"They crave red wine, chocolate and miserable TV dramas as far as I can work out! "

Don't drink, chocolate gives me a migraine and much prefer to watch the footie .... maybe I am not what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus 20 year olds look about.10 to me"
I don't

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

World of Warcraft. Wet Dreams. Tits. How nerve racking exams are. Cheek of his mum asking for housekeeping.

Haha, that made me giggle, bit stereotypical but does hold some truth, personally im not into all that, the housekeeping thing maybe, we've all got to listen to our parents they did bring us in this world to be fair "

Sense of humour always appreciated x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. "

so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Hello to all you fine ladies on fab, i think i speak for the majority of younger guys, looking to connect with older women, my question to you ladies is do you ever get the urge to have sex with someone younger than you, I feel like them porn videos you see of the 'milfs' who prey on the plumber fixing the leaky pipes has given me a false sense of hope and reality. Dont get me wrong i know porn is fake, was just wondering if there are some cougars who look for younger 'toyboys' as the term would go.

Yep.

Can't stand the terms MILF or cougar though.

I just prefer men younger than me. Preferably mid twenties. Not just for sex, I just find them good company. "

Agreed, on the terms, but these days that the label we all know, but its good to know you do, i think also the difference in experience and things to talk about, younger ladies are either boyfriend obsessed, or into all these pop culture of the kardashians n what not, not all younger ladies before i get skewed for saying that, every one individual are different to the rest

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?"

If she'd get the round in cos he owes his mum some housekeeping.

Tit size.

Blow jobs with false teeth out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do but not for me. It would feel weird to me to fuck someone younger than my kids.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I tend to avoid guys in that age bracket, they tend to think with their cocks way to much and.....yes most of them look about 10!!!

Ps I know most guys think like that but the older ones don't seem to be so obvious

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

and the Kardashians

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?"

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Some do but not for me. It would feel weird to me to fuck someone younger than my kids."

Would you say that if you were 65 and he was 45 ?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I tend to avoid guys in that age bracket, they tend to think with their cocks way to much and.....yes most of them look about 10!!!

Ps I know most guys think like that but the older ones don't seem to be so obvious "

We are

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam. "

Christ..... What was life like before electricity ? Haaaa haaa

I'd go on a date just for the laughs.

Tell me about the blackout Granny and what it was like down the mines.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

If she'd get the round in cos he owes his mum some housekeeping.

Tit size.

Blow jobs with false teeth out."

judging by this thread the op sounds a nice lad but im not convinced he wouldnt make me feel old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam.

Christ..... What was life like before electricity ? Haaaa haaa

I'd go on a date just for the laughs.

Tell me about the blackout Granny and what it was like down the mines. "

Got any good WW2 stories? My grandparents can talk about it for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met with guys in their twenties before, but have found of late that mid thirties is perfect for me. I don't crave them, just enjoy their company more than guys my own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

World of Warcraft. Wet Dreams. Tits. How nerve racking exams are. Cheek of his mum asking for housekeeping.

Haha, that made me giggle, bit stereotypical but does hold some truth, personally im not into all that, the housekeeping thing maybe, we've all got to listen to our parents they did bring us in this world to be fair

Sense of humour always appreciated x "

Can't recall conforming to that stereotype myself (apart from the tits bit)...then again, I was always a case of 'old head, young shoulders.'

Put it this way: when my classmates were raving about Boyzone and Britney Spears, I was crooning along to Frank Sinatra, Louis Armstrong and Bobby Darin.

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam.

Christ..... What was life like before electricity ? Haaaa haaa

I'd go on a date just for the laughs.

Tell me about the blackout Granny and what it was like down the mines. "

Hahaha, wouldnt that be an interesting conversation, see already a different sense of humour, however i think i was talking more about older women having sex with younger men, but theres always a social aspect to it i understand that.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam.

Christ..... What was life like before electricity ? Haaaa haaa

I'd go on a date just for the laughs.

Tell me about the blackout Granny and what it was like down the mines. Got any good WW2 stories? My grandparents can talk about it for hours "

Cheeky Bleeder. I could do terrible things to your doodle bug !

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam. "

right id enjoy talking about that but not with someone i want to shag. It would just make me realize how bloody old i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this funny reading as a younger guy i am very mature in my mannerisms and that's why I tend to prefer an older lady. Due to the conversation they can old and the fact the can walk in heels better then people my age!

That's just me tho x

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam. right id enjoy talking about that but not with someone i want to shag. It would just make me realize how bloody old i am.

"

Hahaa, i disagree, you can own the age and experience factor, n show the younger guys, something these young ladies wouldnt know, plus age is only s number

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I find this funny reading as a younger guy i am very mature in my mannerisms and that's why I tend to prefer an older lady. Due to the conversation they can old and the fact the can walk in heels better then people my age!

That's just me tho x"

My thoughts exactly sir

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam. right id enjoy talking about that but not with someone i want to shag. It would just make me realize how bloody old i am.

Hahaa, i disagree, you can own the age and experience factor, n show the younger guys, something these young ladies wouldnt know, plus age is only s number "

i do i flaming love my age but i dont want to be talking about life down the pit as a prereqisite to sex

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The archives has loads of threads asking the same question...

I think I must have been a bit weird or its porn driven. as a guy in my twenties I didn't want to be with a lady twenty years plus older than me..

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam. right id enjoy talking about that but not with someone i want to shag. It would just make me realize how bloody old i am.

Hahaa, i disagree, you can own the age and experience factor, n show the younger guys, something these young ladies wouldnt know, plus age is only s number i do i flaming love my age but i dont want to be talking about life down the pit as a prereqisite to sex"

Guess we'll dump the small talk for after sex then

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"The archives has loads of threads asking the same question...

I think I must have been a bit weird or its porn driven. as a guy in my twenties I didn't want to be with a lady twenty years plus older than me.. "

Has to be one for the experience and i know most people dont say it but the personal bucket list too

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

As i replied earlier the word crave sounded better in my head, so apologies for the use of that word, okay i was being modest by saying 20, cause i was a different person when i was 20 and now being 22(23 in a few weeks) its safe to say i feel im more mature, but thats true, theres always things to talk about but obviously being of a different age gap, i think for me thats what makes it more interesting and exciting talking from two diffrrent levels of communication. so if you where meeting for a social with someone what sort of things would you chat about?

I think the main one, would be the differences in the social world, of when they was of similar age to me compared to what it is like now, in the sense of how they grew up and was like when they was my age compared to how it is nowadays, put me on the spot there madam. right id enjoy talking about that but not with someone i want to shag. It would just make me realize how bloody old i am.

Hahaa, i disagree, you can own the age and experience factor, n show the younger guys, something these young ladies wouldnt know, plus age is only s number i do i flaming love my age but i dont want to be talking about life down the pit as a prereqisite to sex

Guess we'll dump the small talk for after sex then "

but i always meet for a social first so no you havent convinced me to meet someone under 25

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"The archives has loads of threads asking the same question...

I think I must have been a bit weird or its porn driven. as a guy in my twenties I didn't want to be with a lady twenty years plus older than me..

Has to be one for the experience and i know most people dont say it but the personal bucket list too "

Not sure what experience you're referring to, a lady in her forties might have only had one partner and have been very vanilla while a lady in her twenties might have been very liberated..

Good luck with your bucket list fella...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some do, some don't "

This one don't

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"The archives has loads of threads asking the same question...

I think I must have been a bit weird or its porn driven. as a guy in my twenties I didn't want to be with a lady twenty years plus older than me..

Has to be one for the experience and i know most people dont say it but the personal bucket list too

Not sure what experience you're referring to, a lady in her forties might have only had one partner and have been very vanilla while a lady in her twenties might have been very liberated..

Good luck with your bucket list fella... "

Considering some of the women in their 40+ on this site, theyre not all vanilla to say the least, dont get me wrong im all about women of my age, i just posted the thread as a topic of discussion, but thank you i shall try

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Some do, some don't

This one don't "

Duly noted. What a shame youre gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crave? Lol

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Crave? Lol"

Once again as stated earlier it sounded better in my head, give a guy a break haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crave? Lol

Once again as stated earlier it sounded better in my head, give a guy a break haha "

We know what you mean

Personally I find I have nothing in common with guys that young

For me sex is so much more than physical

For me sex start with the first meet, the chatting, the flirting, the engaging my brain

If I'm mentally turn on by somebody the physical side is so much better

At 41 what would I possabily have in common with a 20 ish year old? What would we have to talk about with a common interest

I come out the house to get away from the ramblings of people that age

Plus I'd look a total sad bastard going through a mid life crisis sat in a pub flirting with a lad young enough to be my son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crave? Lol

Once again as stated earlier it sounded better in my head, give a guy a break haha

We know what you mean

Personally I find I have nothing in common with guys that young

For me sex is so much more than physical

For me sex start with the first meet, the chatting, the flirting, the engaging my brain

If I'm mentally turn on by somebody the physical side is so much better

At 41 what would I possabily have in common with a 20 ish year old? What would we have to talk about with a common interest

I come out the house to get away from the ramblings of people that age

Plus I'd look a total sad bastard going through a mid life crisis sat in a pub flirting with a lad young enough to be my son "

This , I just couldn't be arsed typing it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My theory is that women that have been in long, drawn out, boring relationships/marriages tend to go for younger guys because it helps them relieve the years that they feel they've missed out on. Kind of like making up for lost time. There is a genuine attraction there aswell don't get me wrong, but it's also a lot more fun and refreshing from the person they have been with for so long, especially if the the partner was older aswell.

As for men liking older women...the way in which they know what they want is just very sexy, the thought of being with someone who may have 15-20 years more experience is a big turn on, and a lot of you woman ooze so much sex appeal.

But that's just my opinion

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"My theory is that women that have been in long, drawn out, boring relationships/marriages tend to go for younger guys because it helps them relieve the years that they feel they've missed out on. Kind of like making up for lost time. There is a genuine attraction there aswell don't get me wrong, but it's also a lot more fun and refreshing from the person they have been with for so long, especially if the the partner was older aswell.

As for men liking older women...the way in which they know what they want is just very sexy, the thought of being with someone who may have 15-20 years more experience is a big turn on, and a lot of you woman ooze so much sex appeal.

But that's just my opinion "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not, otherwise that ship has sailed right passed me... Shit in getting old aren't i?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another NO here.

Nothing personal,just my preference is older.

That doesnt mean to say theres no exceptions and there has been younger guys...but it wasnt a case of actually looking for younger it just happend they were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

But I do crave chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

But I do crave chocolate "

me too

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I don't crave really young ones as they so immature..........to be honest I wouldn't say I craved anyone

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Been there and done that ... "

Exactly, had a sweet shop phase after no sex for years but never craved them - it takes someone special to tempt me very young now, I normally go for over 40's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't crave younger men...but I do prefer them...my limit on here is 35...but mostly cause I don't really wanna play with guys that look old enough to be my Dad...even if they are my age... I may have a warped sense of how old I look maybe..and feel like I am in my 20s too so....why not!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Been there and done that ...

Exactly, had a sweet shop phase after no sex for years but never craved them - it takes someone special to tempt me very young now, I normally go for over 40's. "

Actually I met over 25's anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20/25 year old guys

gawd no there younger then my sons

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I love men in their 40's....a much younger guy is not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 41 what would I possabily have in common with a 20 ish year old? What would we have to talk about with a common interest...Plus I'd look a total sad bastard going through a mid life crisis sat in a pub flirting with a lad young enough to be my son "

Christ on a bike, there are some right cynical people in this thread.

I'm 27, yet I seem to have no problem finding common interests with people in their 40s, 50s, and 60s.

I must be some kind of freak - time to phone up Phineas T. Barnum...

As for the 'flirting in the pub' bit, why the hell should people think you a 'sad bastard'? My girlfriend and I have had people stop us in the street specifically to say how cute we look as a couple, and she's 14 years my senior...

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Me personally, no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously, I don't mind if people tell me that they think I'm too young for them...it's an occupational hazard, given that I have always felt more comfortable around people older than myself (regardless of their gender.)

I just think that it's unfair to assume that, due to your respective ages, you'll have nothing in common, or nothing to talk about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im now wondering how old is older here - last week older was someone in their 30s - and no i dont crave it but if it happened that way so be it -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is a number old or young is a number ...

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By *dam123321 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Age is a number old or young is a number ... "

Can i just say, the lady in the photos looks stunning i agree age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting views, good read. Totally agree with some points while object to others .

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

Some do.

I on the other hand, don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some do.

I on the other hand, don't."

What do you like then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age has been a downfall for me so many times. After chatting and sometimes drinking with a woman who is 40+ so many times, it has been going well until they find out my age. Bare in mind I have only just turned 25.

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By *illo0069Man
over a year ago

litherland


"I dont "crave" meeting anyone. I meet younger guys. Ive set my prefences to 25-45.

Would i meet a 20 year old then no. I cant imagine in a million years i could find to talk to a 20 year old about on a level

World of Warcraft. Wet Dreams. Tits. How nerve racking exams are. Cheek of his mum asking for housekeeping. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do see one younger guy but it's not something I go looking for.

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