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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Do you think it is easy to distinguish between the two?

What do you personally think are the differences between them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose lust is just a physical attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust is wanting to have something so bad it hurts. Love is putting with stuff so bad it hurts. I suppose theres an upside aswell though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult,

I love my FWB, but for him it's just lust/sex.

XXX

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

Lust is easier to overcome when it's gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally you will have both, if you are really lucky, like me, with the same person.

Lust is the explosion of flame, gone in an instant, Love I'd the glowing embers that will ignight the next explosion.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Men love through lust. Women lust through love. Simple really

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Ideally you will have both, if you are really lucky, like me, with the same person.

Lust is the explosion of flame, gone in an instant, Love I'd the glowing embers that will ignight the next explosion. "

I'm not usually a soppy person but I like that

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland


"Ideally you will have both, if you are really lucky, like me, with the same person.

Lust is the explosion of flame, gone in an instant, Love I'd the glowing embers that will ignight the next explosion.

I'm not usually a soppy person but I like that "

Me too, and from a man it sounds even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been in love, yet.

Lust is a physical thing, I think.

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I find the concept of love confusing. I've known people who have got together and within 2 weeks they are saying they are in love. But how can you know enough about the person in that time to feel certain enough to declare that?

I think my heart is made of steel

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think its much harder when your younger. Obviously you can love and lust the same person. For me its simple to tell the difference

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I think its much harder when your younger. Obviously you can love and lust the same person. For me its simple to tell the difference"

Can you explain it? I mean obviously I know when what I have is pure lust for someone but there must be a point for everyone where the lines are blurred if there is a connection?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I find the concept of love confusing. I've known people who have got together and within 2 weeks they are saying they are in love. But how can you know enough about the person in that time to feel certain enough to declare that?"

I love very freely and steadfastly, but there are different levels of love anyway- from a gentle affection to a grand, all-consuming passion.

Lust is simply the strong desire for something, physical in this case. It can exist on it's own, with some short-lived infatuation, or with real love, which lasts.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

love is when you care about someone and worry about them. lust is when you fancy someone but you don't care if you meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men love through lust. Women lust through love. Simple really"

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Lust is wanting to go to bed with someone.

Love is wanting to spend the rest of your life with them.

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(Despite the snoring )

Mr ddc

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Lust is wanting to go to bed with someone.

Love is wanting to spend the rest of your life with them.

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(Despite the snoring )

Mr ddc"

Maybe there's hope for me to find love then despite my terrible snoring

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think its much harder when your younger. Obviously you can love and lust the same person. For me its simple to tell the difference

Can you explain it? I mean obviously I know when what I have is pure lust for someone but there must be a point for everyone where the lines are blurred if there is a connection?"
lust is a sexual desire i couldnt love based on one thing as i said you can love and lust but i couldnt base my whole love for someone based on lust i can lust after a lot of people but i dont fall in love with them

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Find someone else who snores and have a snore off?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Men love through lust. Women lust through love. Simple really "

Wow somebody gets it

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Lust is wanting to go to bed with someone.

Love is wanting to spend the rest of your life with them.

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(Despite the snoring )

Mr ddc

Maybe there's hope for me to find love then despite my terrible snoring "

Pardon? You'll have to speak up, my hearing aid needs new batteries...

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Lust is wanting to go to bed with someone.

Love is wanting to spend the rest of your life with them.

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(Despite the snoring )

Mr ddc

Maybe there's hope for me to find love then despite my terrible snoring

Pardon? You'll have to speak up, my hearing aid needs new batteries...

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I used to go out with someone who was partially deaf, great when he switched his hearing aid off at night and I could snore as loud as I wanted

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By *dam123321Man
over a year ago

London

Love is something cant necessarily be explained or assess in a physical manner, as to why you love the person, and the reasons behind love differ to Lust itself, lust is more stimulated by physical attraction for another person but also emotinally stimulating, if it comes down to soley pleasure id say its lust, either or, dont think love has happened to me yet i am rather young.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Lust is wanting to go to bed with someone.

Love is wanting to spend the rest of your life with them.

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.

.

(Despite the snoring )

Mr ddc

Maybe there's hope for me to find love then despite my terrible snoring

Pardon? You'll have to speak up, my hearing aid needs new batteries...

I used to go out with someone who was partially deaf, great when he switched his hearing aid off at night and I could snore as loud as I wanted "

We got one of those super-king sized beds, so it's no longer right in my ear but, if we both stretch out our arms, we can still hold hands

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"Do you think it is easy to distinguish between the two?

What do you personally think are the differences between them?"

I would take a bullet to protect the people I love or I am in love with….. for those I simply lust after, I would duck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is an action, where you meet the needs of the other. Lust is a physical feeling based on your own desires.

No resemblance whatsover.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When my son started having sex and each new girl would get constantly talked about how wonderful, how amazing. I always said tell me again in three months. They never lasted tbe three months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally you will have both, if you are really lucky, like me, with the same person.

Lust is the explosion of flame, gone in an instant, Love I'd the glowing embers that will ignight the next explosion.

I'm not usually a soppy person but I like that

Me too, and from a man it sounds even better"

I know, I am a soppy sod, but lucky enough to have loved two women, who loved me equally. Even luckier that it was sequential not parallel

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