FabSwingers.com forum: why is it hard for a single man to get a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how come its hard for a single man to find a meet on this site been on here for a bit now and not had a lot of offers

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

cos no one likes them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months and you've had a meet... you ain't doing so bad

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

it not! you just gota talk to people. connect with them. its not just about being good looking or having a big cock. communication is the best way to do anyhing here. and patience patient too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because were all gits

be patient and read profiles before messaging

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

volume of guys versus demand.

keep trying and stay positive.

good luck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

plus what Kev said..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have no facepic that cant help much

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"how come its hard for a single man to find a meet on this site been on here for a bit now and not had a lot of offers

okay...besides the point that it can take people months to get meets, let me ask you a question...

What have you done so far to help yourself get a meet???

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

what _iew and kev said lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get to know the person build a connection ,dnt send do u want a fuck or what i can do with ya girls dnt like it ....first starting place is a pic who you r its big helf we dnt like looking at blank walls .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe its because there are not enough couples who are looking for single males compared to how many single males there are,or perhaps your messaging technique is not up to scratch,not sure what you exspected when you joined up but just because we are swingers it doesnt mean we want to swing with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what _iew and kev said lol"

What he said pmsl!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

try being 50, bald and bi.. and a saggy scrotum that drags along the floor...

then you will know what tough is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been on here 5 weeks an i have only had a couple of adds already

i am always looking for meets

as every one says

be patience it happen soon enough

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

just have fun and relax. be respectful with peeps. not checked your profile so dont know if your a newbie or not. woman here want a cool down to earth guy i think as do the couples. people want to feel relaxed with you. so if your new then start posting in forums, its a great way to get to know people and for them to get to know you. thats how i got most of my friends. mind you my friends are all bloody mental!!!!!

*nurse.....nurse...i need my meds*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it not! you just gota talk to people. connect with them. its not just about being good looking or having a big cock. communication is the best way to do anyhing here. and patience patient too

NO ...... it's EVERYTHING to do with being good looking and having a huge cock.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"been on here 5 weeks an i have only had a couple of adds already

i am always looking for meets

as every one says

be patience it happen soon enough"

yes be patience some guys have it some dont i must have been lucky i had five meet in my first cpl of months but when your new cock in the sweet shop they all want to try but we all have our lean spells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it not! you just gota talk to people. connect with them. its not just about being good looking or having a big cock. communication is the best way to do anyhing here. and patience patient too

NO ...... it's EVERYTHING to do with being good looking and having a huge cock."
thats were u are wrong

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

"it not! you just gota talk to people. connect with them. its not just about being good looking or having a big cock. communication is the best way to do anyhing here. and patience patient too

NO ...... it's EVERYTHING to do with being good looking and having a huge cock."

lol granny they just your rules lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it not! you just gota talk to people. connect with them. its not just about being good looking or having a big cock. communication is the best way to do anyhing here. and patience patient too

NO ...... it's EVERYTHING to do with being good looking and having a huge cock.

lol granny they just your rules lol

and mine ........

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"it not! you just gota talk to people. connect with them. its not just about being good looking or having a big cock. communication is the best way to do anyhing here. and patience patient too

NO ...... it's EVERYTHING to do with being good looking and having a huge cock.

lol granny they just your rules lol

and mine ........

and mine

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and for the hung ones who aren't a looker...... I have a liam neeson mask for them to wear.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"and for the hung ones who aren't a looker...... I have a liam neeson mask for them to wear."

Can i borrow that god if had the looks i would be in heaven

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

lol _iew and imalady. sods

there is a new post there if ever i saw one lol. you two and granny straight there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it not! you just gota talk to people. connect with them. its not just about being good looking or having a big cock. communication is the best way to do anyhing here. and patience patient too

NO ...... it's EVERYTHING to do with being good looking and having a huge cock.thats were u are wrong"

nope shes RIGHT lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"and for the hung ones who aren't a looker...... I have a liam neeson mask for them to wear.

Can i borrow that god if had the looks i would be in heaven

good man, of course you can.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"lol _iew and imalady. sods

there is a new post there if ever i saw one lol. you two and granny straight there lol

if you have be up very early in the morning to beat me,

I mean... get there before me.

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

"lol _iew and imalady. sods

there is a new post there if ever i saw one lol. you two and granny straight there lol

if you have be up very early in the morning to beat me,

I mean... get there before me.

ha ha _iew you win on that one mate lol

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"and for the hung ones who aren't a looker...... I have a liam neeson mask for them to wear.

Can i borrow that god if had the looks i would be in heaven

good man, of course you can. "

Thanks or iam i being greedy at least i know were i stand on this site not like some guys they havnt got a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"try being 50, bald and bi.. and a saggy scrotum that drags along the floor...

then you will know what tough is.

Shame that you are not desparate, otherwise I would stand a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and for the hung ones who aren't a looker...... I have a liam neeson mask for them to wear.

Can i borrow that god if had the looks i would be in heaven

good man, of course you can.

Thanks or iam i being greedy at least i know were i stand on this site not like some guys they havnt got a clue

Is it red nose day already ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The optimism on this thread is so refreshing

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"try being 50, bald and bi.. and a saggy scrotum that drags along the floor...

then you will know what tough is.

Shame that you are not desparate, otherwise I would stand a chance!

you are in with a shout.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"try being 50, bald and bi.. and a saggy scrotum that drags along the floor...

then you will know what tough is.

Shame that you are not desparate, otherwise I would stand a chance!

you are in with a shout.

Shouting on top of my voice!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"try being 50, bald and bi.. and a saggy scrotum that drags along the floor...

then you will know what tough is.

Shame that you are not desparate, otherwise I would stand a chance!

you are in with a shout.

Shouting on top of my voice!

Deal done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"try being 50, bald and bi.. and a saggy scrotum that drags along the floor...

then you will know what tough is.

Shame that you are not desparate, otherwise I would stand a chance!

you are in with a shout.

Shouting on top of my voice!

Deal done "

You may live to regret this.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

In the big pond (via profiles and messages) things work pretty much the same as in day to day life… if you are the type of guy lots of women fawn over and flirt with… all you have to do is get your profile noticed via winks, chat etc and you’ll be in a damp crotch by sunset.

If you are the type of guy who gets some female interest but has to work at it a bit more, the same will apply in the big pond.

If you are the type of guy who hasn’t been able to even get a sniff of interest in real life for the last 6 months no matter how much you try… you have feck all hope in the big pond.

Then there are the small ponds (general chat and the forums) this obviously will work for the guys fighting women off with a stick, but also works better for the guys who have to work at it a bit to let their personality show through. This of course means a reasonable amount of sucking up and tongue biting is required, along with a good dose of patience. It does appear to pay off in the long run though. You have a smaller selection of females but once you convince one to meet you there will be a bit of a domino effect (some people just hate feeling like they are missing out on something)… how many dominoes will depend on your avatar and persona.

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