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Joining new sites/forums novelty wears off ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know how it is...

You join a new site/forum that your interested in like FAB POF and Tinder etc.

Everything is fresh and new

All new faces/people and all with new opinions thoughts ideas and pics to perv at etc.

It's exciting and fun getting to know the people and you may get a bit of an ego boost from the attention you get as a "Newbie".

Then as your time their passes you find the shine is fading and it's not longer exciting like it was when you first joined?

What do you do if you personally start feeling like that?

Give it a break?

Leave?

Join another new site/forum?

Or just hang in there?

What you think peeps?

I'm not saying I'm at that stage here yet. But just wondered if any of you have felt tired bored and jaded of some sites/forums and if so how did you deal with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left another site after 6/7 years to come here ....so much better and glad i am here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Step back or leave. I have been a member of quite a few forums and they almost always self destruct and regrow from ground zero sometimes I leave at that stage and others I stay because it's fresh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a forum ban, suprising how many posts you want to reply to when you cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom is a self inflicted condition ...

I don't allow myself to become bored....

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"You know how it is...

You join a new site/forum that your interested in like FAB POF and Tinder etc.

Everything is fresh and new

All new faces/people and all with new opinions thoughts ideas and pics to perv at etc.

It's exciting and fun getting to know the people and you may get a bit of an ego boost from the attention you get as a "Newbie".

Then as your time their passes you find the shine is fading and it's not longer exciting like it was when you first joined?

What do you do if you personally start feeling like that?

Give it a break?

Leave?

Join another new site/forum?

Or just hang in there?

What you think peeps?

I'm not saying I'm at that stage here yet. But just wondered if any of you have felt tired bored and jaded of some sites/forums and if so how did you deal with it?"

I come and go on the forums, depending on work and life ... must admit threads go in waves and the real meaty ones recently have all been about relationship dramas ... no 'big issues' which I like to get my teeth into (green arrow away) ... but I don't use the site to meet anymore

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Get a forum ban, suprising how many posts you want to reply to when you cant "

When that happens I just stay away .... I do find there are some people who are waiting in the wings to whoop you .... or is it just me that seems to happen to?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I leave and go to another site when its run its course. Been on sites for 18 years when one loses my interest i go to another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Boredom is a self inflicted condition ...

I don't allow myself to become bored.... "

This for me too. Also I don't get a thrill from being someone new,I don't make a grand entrance and court attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if youre fed up with anything inlife - move on

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A few weeka ago i decided to leave fab. First time ever, although ive often his my profile. I never told anyone but one person. The only reason my account wasnt deleted was because i wqnted them to read my message and i think your message now geta deleted when you go.

While i was waiting i came on the forums and it was a particularly good night everyone waa on form so i didnt leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums get dull and tedious ....

The meeting up and having sex doesn't

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