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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I genuinely don't understand it - is it just the girl on girl aspect that appeals or is there more to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the guys point of view I guess it could be nice having two ladies playing with you at the same time.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Personally while it's on my to do list for this year (done some of it already) - it's because I haven't done it in a while or at all in certain situations

I prefer a good mmf or mfmf

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I've always assumed it's more about the absence of another willy flapping about the place

Truth is it means different things to different couples. Some want it to be about the husband, some about the wife, some about the guest, some one big melé of writhing, naked bodies.

The trick for single women is to find compatibility with the right couple.

Imho

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely don't understand it - is it just the girl on girl aspect that appeals or is there more to it?"

not all ffms are girl on girl straight females have 3somes too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I genuinely don't understand it - is it just the girl on girl aspect that appeals or is there more to it?

not all ffms are girl on girl straight females have 3somes too "

I know that, but I've also noticed that the majority of couples who want a ffm on here are where the woman's bi and they're seeking another bi woman to join them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sliding straight out of one woman and into another while they are side by side on their knees....mmmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been done and its overhyped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I haven't tried being with another women yet but wouldnt never be in front of hubby unless it's something the other person wanted as well... it's more I suppose I want to see him with another women and get both at the same time... again never try ed that either

Mrs p x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sliding straight out of one woman and into another while they are side by side on their knees....mmmmmm. "

Its best to change condoms 1st mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely don't understand it - is it just the girl on girl aspect that appeals or is there more to it?

not all ffms are girl on girl straight females have 3somes too

I know that, but I've also noticed that the majority of couples who want a ffm on here are where the woman's bi and they're seeking another bi woman to join them."

I think that's got more to do with the couple not wanting a man to join in, doesn't leave a lot of choice if you don't want a guy.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

Done it and it isn't all that it is made out to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I haven't tried this and to be honest it isn't high on my list of things to do. I would love to watch two women have fun but I Fear I would just be in the way if I were to get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely don't understand it - is it just the girl on girl aspect that appeals or is there more to it?

not all ffms are girl on girl straight females have 3somes too

I know that, but I've also noticed that the majority of couples who want a ffm on here are where the woman's bi and they're seeking another bi woman to join them."

tbh from a guys point of view its probably more a boost to your ego your first is like loosing your virginity you want to get it over so you can tell your mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on the people doing it if it will be good,I've had some filthy threesomes and some average ones so all depends really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really hard to sort but if you can find three singles to do it, you all get the same attention then. It works well. I enjoy playing with another female and a guy paying us both attention. Equally I like sitting back and watching them both then joining in again. Having said that, a good mmf can do all that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my first MFF it was definitely about ego, but I was in my teens and most lads have been the same.

Nowadays, regardless of gender balance, threesomes aren't even thought about unless there's good chemistry between all parties.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its nice to spoil.a.guy. im not.a.catortionist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really seen the appeal, it seems like a lot of work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also having to pay two women, it just gets pricey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they're kind of overrated..... I prefer one on one (how terribly vanilla of me!)

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

It's our favourite play. I get to have sex with hubby and a woman,win win. We enjoy pleasing a lady together and the three of us having a great time.

The best thing of ffm is seeing and helping hubby fuck another woman.

Mrs SB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really seen the appeal, it seems like a lot of work."

You mean the guy gets worn out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you enjoy sex with woman youll enjoy sex with two its simple its better if females are having a bit of fun with each other my partner can have ff fun as part of a threesome but no interest in one on one she needs a cock ( her words ) and its less pressure on the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely don't understand it - is it just the girl on girl aspect that appeals or is there more to it?"

Strange as it sounds, the thought of MfM turns me on, being with a female who loves 2 guys at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the hottest meets I had was a ffm with ex fb and a mutual friend, watching him fuck her while she licked my pussy and watching her suck his cock while I licked her pussy, still up there with one of my best mornings lol!!! It's hard finding the right dynamics but if you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't speak for others but as a single F I enjoy the FF play, but like the guy to be involved too. Putting on a show for him doesn't interest me.

I have been in a FFM situ where we both played with the guy rather than together tho. He was thrilled haha

I prefer 1-1 FF play tho tbh. Although a MMF is on my to do list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely don't understand it - is it just the girl on girl aspect that appeals or is there more to it?

Strange as it sounds, the thought of MfM turns me on, being with a female who loves 2 guys at once"

Mmf is very hot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been done and its overhyped "

did they ignore you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really seen the appeal, it seems like a lot of work.

You mean the guy gets worn out? "

Yes, on the plus side isn't it nice for the women to have someone to talk to after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really seen the appeal, it seems like a lot of work.

You mean the guy gets worn out?

Yes, on the plus side isn't it nice for the women to have someone to talk to after?"

or during

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't speak for others but as a single F I enjoy the FF play, but like the guy to be involved too. Putting on a show for him doesn't interest me.

I have been in a FFM situ where we both played with the guy rather than together tho. He was thrilled haha

I prefer 1-1 FF play tho tbh. Although a MMF is on my to do list "

Must say I had a cheeky look at ya pics and your profile

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"some one big melé of writhing, naked bodies."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us its cause VS is bi. It means we get the best of both worlds

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"Been done and its overhyped

did they ignore you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely don't understand it - is it just the girl on girl aspect that appeals or is there more to it?"

No idea either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done ffm a couple of times (not from fab! ). I am straight but do enjoy playing with the lady too, for me though there's too many holes and not enough cock , I drfinatley prefer mmf but I reckon the boss would disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really seen the appeal, it seems like a lot of work.

You mean the guy gets worn out?

Yes, on the plus side isn't it nice for the women to have someone to talk to after?

or during "

Or before, in fact the man is a bit unnecessary. Fuck, I need to reevaluate some things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really seen the appeal, it seems like a lot of work.

You mean the guy gets worn out?

Yes, on the plus side isn't it nice for the women to have someone to talk to after?

or during "

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Also having to pay two women, it just gets pricey."

Can't you look for them when there's a BOGOF special running?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also having to pay two women, it just gets pricey.

Can't you look for them when there's a BOGOF special running?

"

I've tried shopping around but the special offers are limited sadly.

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"Also having to pay two women, it just gets pricey.

Can't you look for them when there's a BOGOF special running?

I've tried shopping around but the special offers are limited sadly."

You want a M&S type of deal rather than an Aldi one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it highly over rated

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

with some couples its awesome..with some its too much hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with some couples its awesome..with some its too much hassle. "

Absolutely right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the different dynamic, there is a touch of the 'classic Porn' about the fantasy but for me it's far more about 3 people playing together in a situation which is vastly different from mmf

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"For me it's the different dynamic, there is a touch of the 'classic Porn' about the fantasy but for me it's far more about 3 people playing together in a situation which is vastly different from mmf"
whats different about it?

the only difference i can perceive is that men who pursue a primary partner relationship with me, are quite happy for me to play with another woman, but not another man...err no..gender doesnt come into it...if we are going to have an open relationship, it will be both...

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"One of the hottest meets I had was an ffm, watching him fuck her while she licked my pussy and watching her suck his cock while I licked her pussy, still up there with one of my best mornings "

Perfectly described for a delicious scenario I'd love to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't speak for others but as a single F I enjoy the FF play, but like the guy to be involved too. Putting on a show for him doesn't interest me.

I have been in a FFM situ where we both played with the guy rather than together tho. He was thrilled haha

I prefer 1-1 FF play tho tbh. Although a MMF is on my to do list "

You just keep getting better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's the different dynamic, there is a touch of the 'classic Porn' about the fantasy but for me it's far more about 3 people playing together in a situation which is vastly different from mmfwhats different about it?

the only difference i can perceive is that men who pursue a primary partner relationship with me, are quite happy for me to play with another woman, but not another man...err no..gender doesnt come into it...if we are going to have an open relationship, it will be both... "

There is a very different dynamic at play between two guys and a lady and two ladies and a guy, or at least I'd expect so

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"For me it's the different dynamic, there is a touch of the 'classic Porn' about the fantasy but for me it's far more about 3 people playing together in a situation which is vastly different from mmfwhats different about it?

the only difference i can perceive is that men who pursue a primary partner relationship with me, are quite happy for me to play with another woman, but not another man...err no..gender doesnt come into it...if we are going to have an open relationship, it will be both...

There is a very different dynamic at play between two guys and a lady and two ladies and a guy, or at least I'd expect so"
not really if its an equal three way dynamic.everyone has wants, all satisfied and happy, outcome is the same..i havent had an mfm..only ffm's..to be rectified shortly, im trusting

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"For me it's the different dynamic, there is a touch of the 'classic Porn' about the fantasy but for me it's far more about 3 people playing together in a situation which is vastly different from mmfwhats different about it?

the only difference i can perceive is that men who pursue a primary partner relationship with me, are quite happy for me to play with another woman, but not another man...err no..gender doesnt come into it...if we are going to have an open relationship, it will be both... "

In that case I would say the man involved has a degree of insecurity, and swinging may be something he is only doing because he wants to be with you.

I wouldn't say mmf is vastly different, but it is simpler, especially in a club situation. Most men like similar things, and will 'go with the flow'. As I said above, we find ffm better with a lot of communication beforehand to establish we are all compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love ffm, as my husband is straight an mfm is good but I love the fact we can all touch and kiss whomever we wish with another lady as I'm bi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been done and its overhyped

did they ignore you? "

Far from it. Just didnt live up to my expectations.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had an ffm with 2 singles and a couple. The dynamics were very different in each case but both fantastic experiences

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"For me it's the different dynamic, there is a touch of the 'classic Porn' about the fantasy but for me it's far more about 3 people playing together in a situation which is vastly different from mmfwhats different about it?

the only difference i can perceive is that men who pursue a primary partner relationship with me, are quite happy for me to play with another woman, but not another man...err no..gender doesnt come into it...if we are going to have an open relationship, it will be both...

In that case I would say the man involved has a degree of insecurity, and swinging may be something he is only doing because he wants to be with you.

I wouldn't say mmf is vastly different, but it is simpler, especially in a club situation. Most men like similar things, and will 'go with the flow'. As I said above, we find ffm better with a lot of communication beforehand to establish we are all compatible."
totally..thats why they dont succeed. dont want an unwilling or an unhappy partner...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had an ffm........ It was pretty awesome, especially as it was not planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the hottest meets I had was an ffm, watching him fuck her while she licked my pussy and watching her suck his cock while I licked her pussy, still up there with one of my best mornings

Perfectly described for a delicious scenario I'd love to try "

Mmmmmmmmm

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