FabSwingers.com forum: I just can't believe it....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet.

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

"I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet."

How very rude of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...no?

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We get quite a few non abusive, one might even say polite messages from men even when we've said "no thank you". I want to know what's wrong with us because I suspect we probably aren't proper swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you feeling neglected or just need some attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You little liar Tommy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you feeling neglected or just need some attention? "

Yes, tell me how wonderful I am. Tell me it's their loss, that I'm so great. I need your love and attention NOW

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I've had mainly decent replies when I've declined men from my single profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We get quite a few non abusive, one might even say polite messages from men even when we've said "no thank you". I want to know what's wrong with us because I suspect we probably aren't proper swingers

You know, I don't think we've made it on Fab until we get an abusive message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you feeling neglected or just need some attention?

Yes, tell me how wonderful I am. Tell me it's their loss, that I'm so great. I need your love and attention NOW

*sigh* you're wonderful,gorgeous,his loss blah blah...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We don't get any nasty replies when we say we aren't meeting at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you feeling neglected or just need some attention?

Yes, tell me how wonderful I am. Tell me it's their loss, that I'm so great. I need your love and attention NOW

*sigh* you're wonderful,gorgeous,his loss blah blah..."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't get any nasty replies when we say we aren't meeting at the moment. "

No, I don't either. And I don't get the drama that some on here to seem to get on a regular basis. Not you two I hasten to add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have t had any (as yet

) although M has had a few on her profile before now.

Oh and the "why" "what is it" "just...."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I get them all the while. Once i got such a nice message back i changed my mind and met him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get them all the while. Once i got such a nice message back i changed my mind and met him "

Please tell me that was Brightonsteve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have t had any (as yet

) although M has had a few on her profile before now.

Oh and the "why" "what is it" "just....""

Sorry

but just why?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You know, I don't think we've made it on Fab until we get an abusive message

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I get them all the while. Once i got such a nice message back i changed my mind and met him

Please tell me that was Brightonsteve

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ha ha no. But when he first messaged we didnt have any intention of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have t had any (as yet

) although M has had a few on her profile before now.

Oh and the "why" "what is it" "just...."

Sorry

but just why?"

Go back to sleep you.

It's past your bedtime!

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"I get them all the while. Once i got such a nice message back i changed my mind and met him

Please tell me that was Brightonsteve

ha ha no. But when he first messaged we didnt have any intention of meeting

What happened to the sheep outfit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have t had any (as yet

) although M has had a few on her profile before now.

Oh and the "why" "what is it" "just...."

Sorry

but just why?

Go back to sleep you.

It's past your bedtime!"

I know sorry

**hangs head in shame and leaves**

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I get them all the while. Once i got such a nice message back i changed my mind and met him

Please tell me that was Brightonsteve

ha ha no. But when he first messaged we didnt have any intention of meeting

What happened to the sheep outfit "
he deleted the photo and i.dont.have a.copy.might persuade him to do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet."

Block him...he's a disgrace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks for letting me know and i wish me good luck on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't get any nasty replies when we say we aren't meeting at the moment.

No, I don't either. And I don't get the drama that some on here to seem to get on a regular basis. Not you two I hasten to add

I don't get nasty replies from single men either, and the small amount of drama I've started getting here lately is from women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet.

Block him...he's a disgrace."

I'm not blocking you

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet."

It was yet another woman pretending to be a man

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The pedestrian stuff goes unremarked upon, so we hear a disproportionate amount upon the more dramatic.

We could have a Loveometer, where we add plus points where users are just a real pleasure to deal with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet."

LOL I know it's a shock but some of us single guys are actually quite decent blokes. Shhhh!don't tell everyone!

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By *ricksydemonMan
over a year ago

llandudno

"I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet."
don't get it? That seems nice enough and I've sent very similar messages, thanking people for the decency to reply and wishing them all the best or happy fabbing etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet.

LOL I know it's a shock but some of us single guys are actually quite decent blokes. Shhhh!don't tell everyone! "

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet."
thanks for letting us know... good luck on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahhhhhh he has manners - we do that if we are rejected - nice to be nice and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what i dont get is when we reject someone and have sent the 'sorry not for us' message - when they come back and ask what exactly is it about them we dont like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply politely if someone does reject me in writing. It is no problem, and I appreciate the message. Otherwise I might think my message had simply been missed in the deluge ladies seem to get!

In fact OP..was it me?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shocked and appauled...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message from a single guy but I wasn't interested so I told him so.

And guess what, I can't believe it.

He sent me a message saying thanks for letting him know and wishing me good luck on here.

I can't believe the cheek. I just had to start a thread to tell everyone about this.

I'm in shock. Please shower me with platitudes, I don't think I've been noticed enough on here yet."

Isnt that the normal reply, if someone isn't interested,

not sure what your point is?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I sent 3 of those messages though one of those not to the OP

I know I am not everyone's cup of tea but if you are polite, and say thats ok thanks - happy swinging !!!

That couple may know another couple that are looking for single guys and your name may come up

i know a few single women / females from couples that we're having a chat at a social and my name had come up!!!!! Let's just say from what I heard it Was such a compliment.

It wasn't about my prowess in bed, or size of my cock it was that as a single guy I just said ok thanks if I wasn't what they were looking for and I just looked for other sexually partners but treat them like I knew them in a pub with respect. No issues

Treat others how you what to be treated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss innocent.

It sounds very polite to me not everyone is here to massage your ego me thinks.

P.S Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the direct mail, it brightened my day

you know who xx

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