FabSwingers.com forum: Do any ladies find it hard to meet on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all know a good fraction of us guys find it hard to get meet of here any of you ladies find the same? If there is maybe we could get a group together for a little social coffee or summat just an idea to get my and others veri's up a tad to prove we're genuine

may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - I choose not to meet often though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the phrase "I have a cunning plan"....inspire this thread,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet very often but when I do I have no trouble finding someone

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, i get what i want from the site.

But you could organize a manchester social or look to see if ones hapening, manchester is a big place so im sure lots of socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant cunning plan by the OP! More cunning than a fox who was professor of cunning at .....

I salute you sir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet very often but when I do I have no trouble finding someone

Same here, I only meet once every few months but thats through choice, I don't want meets on a weekly basis, I have other things to fill my spare time too

But when I do want a meet I always manage to find somebody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. I was drowning in cock when I was meeting. I quite literally had my pick of the bunch, it's amazing being a single female on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. I was drowning in cock when I was meeting. I quite literally had my pick of the bunch, it's amazing being a single female on here. "

that's true

I think if I wanted I could have a meet a day every day and never run out of men

Some proper fit guys too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have huge problems meeting. My brain gets in the way. It's very annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. I was drowning in cock when I was meeting. I quite literally had my pick of the bunch, it's amazing being a single female on here.

that's true

I think if I wanted I could have a meet a day every day and never run out of men

Some proper fit guys too

I know, not only are you inundated but a large percentage are very attractive. It's really very good for women attracted to men here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope just very fussy hwre xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all know a good fraction of us guys find it hard to get meet of here any of you ladies find the same? If there is maybe we could get a group together for a little social coffee or summat just an idea to get my and others veri's up a tad to prove we're genuine

may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose

people are always arranging 'coffee meet socials where they are going out for a coffee anyway and are happy to meet up with a fellow fabber to verify them...

try looking in the meets section, or if no joy there, try posting your own? you never know ...it might just work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have huge problems meeting. My brain gets in the way. It's very annoying."

I share this same sentiment... I love wit and very good banter to get me going.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose

people are always arranging 'coffee meet socials where they are going out for a coffee anyway and are happy to meet up with a fellow fabber to verify them...

try looking in the meets section, or if no joy there, try posting your own? you never know ...it might just work

Have done that a few times never works but if anyone is free friday, Saturday or Sunday I'm available to meet up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this serious? Lol women have got it on tap on here men with hard on are there own worst enemy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this serious? Lol women have got it on tap on here men with hard on are there own worst enemy

Thats what I thought but I see many posts that state otherwise just wondered whether it was a few it happens to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen. "

Yep. This exactly. I've pretty much retired because i don't think what I'm looking for exists except in my head

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen.

Yep. This exactly. I've pretty much retired because i don't think what I'm looking for exists except in my head

"Yes I have huge problems meeting. My brain gets in the way. It's very annoying."

"I share this same sentiment... I love wit and very good banter to get me going."

All of these plus I find that some of the single men I would like to meet would prefer an attached woman to ensure it remains completely NSA. A friend suggested I should change my profile to say I'm married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have huge problems meeting. My brain gets in the way. It's very annoying."

Brain? Where?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to find a meet last weekend to no avail. I probably came to the wrong generalisation that lots of guys must be attached and were busy or have their kids at the weekend. So oddly, weekends seem difficult to find meets.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen. "

I rarely find people who want to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet infrequently. By choice.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I tried to find a meet last weekend to no avail. I probably came to the wrong generalisation that lots of guys must be attached and were busy or have their kids at the weekend. So oddly, weekends seem difficult to find meets. "

Aren't they just! I have time at the weekend but rarely find a meet for the weekend.

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire

It would be easier if I wasn't fussy, but as I am, I rarely meet these days. Would prefer to feel like I was meeting a friend rather than a stranger, so that's always going to make things more difficult.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I seem to be attracting the lying knobheads recently....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're having a laugh mate!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I find being really proactive works. Messaging guys being prepared to do some of the leg work and not expecting it.all to be handed to you on a plate helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're having a laugh mate!!

Well I cant be read the comments lmao

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's hard to meet people I am attracted to, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fussy, rarely free, and don't court attention...yet I'm still turning down hot guys all the time. Never fail to find a meet when I want one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose

Wish you luck, great idea and tried it myself in sunny scunny but alas no takers.

Recent thread about how many "hits" and surprise surprise ladies have significant more and no problems finding meets. Not really misogynist but we are animals and female of the species do the "displaying" and men do the chasing....suppose it's the way of the world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...

A friend suggested I should change my profile to say I'm married. "

Good plan. I'll try this.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose

Wish you luck, great idea and tried it myself in sunny scunny but alas no takers.

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i also know guys that have no problem getting meets and they.arnt meceasarily young toned.20 something year olds. But they do.all have one thing in common. There proactive

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen. "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen.

Same here. "

same for me as well.

most guys say they want what i want but there's nothing on their profile to reflect that, or worse they are after NSA and i'm clear i am not after this.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I don't meet very often but when I do I have no trouble finding someone

Not so for me. I don't meet very often, when I am in the mood to meet no one is interested.

But then I am VERY picky

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I have massive problems finding meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't they just! I have time at the weekend but rarely find a meet for the weekend."

That's probably because they are with their wives and partners on a wkend

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Men are like flies around honey on here.....

That said, I have met people for socials for no other reason than to help verify them as genuine - I have however had disasters there and can see why some struggled to meet - seriously hard work!

I remember one in particular that was like a Little Britain sketch and I could see someone I know in the pub bar chuckling at me and my uncomfortableness!!

That said, I've also met some little goldmines who were gems in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are like flies around honey on here.....

That said, I have met people for socials for no other reason than to help verify them as genuine - I have however had disasters there and can see why some struggled to meet - seriously hard work!

I remember one in particular that was like a Little Britain sketch and I could see someone I know in the pub bar chuckling at me and my uncomfortableness!!

That said, I've also met some little goldmines who were gems in person

This is why I find it amusing when some women think they are "All that" on here posting that they are knee deep in cock etc.

Truth is even Susan Boyle would be knee deep in offers of sex too in places like this.

The inflated egos some have because of it is laughable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I rarely meet these days. Would prefer to feel like I was meeting a friend rather than a stranger, so that's always going to make things more difficult."

Agree with this sentiment , and to pick up a point from a post earlier , having my kids alternative weekends limits my availability too. Though some assume that I'm married and that I'm playing away from home

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Men are like flies around honey on here.....

That said, I have met people for socials for no other reason than to help verify them as genuine - I have however had disasters there and can see why some struggled to meet - seriously hard work!

I remember one in particular that was like a Little Britain sketch and I could see someone I know in the pub bar chuckling at me and my uncomfortableness!!

That said, I've also met some little goldmines who were gems in person

This is why I find it amusing when some women think they are "All that" on here posting that they are knee deep in cock etc.

Truth is even Susan Boyle would be knee deep in offers of sex too in places like this.

The inflated egos some have because of it is laughable.

Suppose it depends on how hard some find it to pull in 'real life' if they aren't used to it then I suppose it would be easy to feel like a pig in shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i had a single account years ago never had a problem - but i was a bit niave back then and would be a lot more wary of things now - and possibly a lot more fussy and a certain people have set a standard for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are like flies around honey on here.....

That said, I have met people for socials for no other reason than to help verify them as genuine - I have however had disasters there and can see why some struggled to meet - seriously hard work!

I remember one in particular that was like a Little Britain sketch and I could see someone I know in the pub bar chuckling at me and my uncomfortableness!!

That said, I've also met some little goldmines who were gems in person

This is why I find it amusing when some women think they are "All that" on here posting that they are knee deep in cock etc.

Truth is even Susan Boyle would be knee deep in offers of sex too in places like this.

The inflated egos some have because of it is laughable.

Suppose it depends on how hard some find it to pull in 'real life' if they aren't used to it then I suppose it would be easy to feel like a pig in shit?"

Lol I like you choice of words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose

Wish you luck, great idea and tried it myself in sunny scunny but alas no takers.

i also know guys that have no problem getting meets and they.arnt meceasarily young toned.20 something year olds. But they do.all have one thing in common. There proactive"

Me too always sending good messages with face pic and still finding it difficult just gotta hope I catch the attention of a lady soon lol

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Mrs here. I do find it hard for play meets. Maybe I'm too choosy.

I meet male solo,female solo or with hubby. And I only had 2 play mates in the 4 months we've been on fab.

Although I will be making up for it tomorrow

MrsSB

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen.

Same here.

same for me as well.

most guys say they want what i want but there's nothing on their profile to reflect that, or worse they are after NSA and i'm clear i am not after this."

Yes! It's the subs that message me and I tell them I am not looking for a sub so they say of uncanny be dom. No, no you can't. There's no mention of this and you can't just 'be dom'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd be up for this so long as guys understand that it is a social and they aren't guaranteed a fuck or get pushy on the meet.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose

There are already two main Manchester Socials per year, advertised in the Forums. Put "Manchester social" in the search bar, and you will find that there was one on 26th March, and one on 26th September. There is no date for the next one yet, but I guess it will be a Saturday, around 26th September. Just enter your name on the Forum thread (do it early, as these socials are very popular) and the site organisers will let you know venue etc nearer the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but I chose wisely and much prefer someone regular. That's the hard part

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