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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering people's views on this as I've had a few 'single women' that have messaged me and asked to meet after admitting that they're on here behind their husbands/boyfriends backs and are wanting discreet fun..

Personally I couldn't do it but I imagine there are plenty of men who'd be happy to partake in a game of hide the sausage regardless of someone being single or not.

Am I being a prude?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Your life your choice their life their choice. Quite simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your life your choice their life their choice. Quite simple really. "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering people's views on this as I've had a few 'single women' that have messaged me and asked to meet after admitting that they're on here behind their husbands/boyfriends backs and are wanting discreet fun..

Personally I couldn't do it but I imagine there are plenty of men who'd be happy to partake in a game of hide the sausage regardless of someone being single or not.

Am I being a prude? "

No nothing prudish about that. I'd say these women are greedy. I struggle to get one boyfriend once I had one I wouldn't then try and get extra no matter what the circumstances were. If the sex was shit or non existent I wouldn't enter into a relationship with them in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is coming from my bitter long time single side!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your life your choice their life their choice. Quite simple really. "

Well that turned out a lot simpler than I imagined! Go you, you should explain the offside rule to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think morals apply on fab

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not a prude op,some prefer to meet attached and for some its a deal breaker .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering people's views on this as I've had a few 'single women' that have messaged me and asked to meet after admitting that they're on here behind their husbands/boyfriends backs and are wanting discreet fun..

Personally I couldn't do it but I imagine there are plenty of men who'd be happy to partake in a game of hide the sausage regardless of someone being single or not.

Am I being a prude?

No nothing prudish about that. I'd say these women are greedy. I struggle to get one boyfriend once I had one I wouldn't then try and get extra no matter what the circumstances were. If the sex was shit or non existent I wouldn't enter into a relationship with them in the first place. "

That was my sort of thinking. Either be happy with what you've got or be single like your profile says you are. Needless to say I got a backlash from one or two when I explained my view of it all when turning them down. The usual "you don't know me" thing like on Jeremy Kyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have no problem cheating on their partners. Some people don't mind meeting them. Some people wouldn't cheat and some people wouldn't agree to meet someone that's cheating...that's how it is. .each to their own xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"dont think morals apply on fab"

I did wonder that with some people

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Am I being a prude? "

Maybe, or maybe you're just expressing your preference, or maybe you've come up with a clever 'look at me' post. Who knows?

Only you.

Damned unluckly to have so many fit women chasing you only to find you have to turn them all down though, welcome to my world.

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Sorry, did I say 'world'? I meant 'fantasy'. Damn auto-cucumber

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont think morals apply on fab"

I think they do , but each persons set of morals is different .

No one is right or wrong , and that's the beauty of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering people's views on this as I've had a few 'single women' that have messaged me and asked to meet after admitting that they're on here behind their husbands/boyfriends backs and are wanting discreet fun..

Personally I couldn't do it but I imagine there are plenty of men who'd be happy to partake in a game of hide the sausage regardless of someone being single or not.

Am I being a prude? "

Yes you are

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Just wondering people's views on this as I've had a few 'single women' that have messaged me and asked to meet after admitting that they're on here behind their husbands/boyfriends backs and are wanting discreet fun..

Personally I couldn't do it but I imagine there are plenty of men who'd be happy to partake in a game of hide the sausage regardless of someone being single or not.

Am I being a prude?

No nothing prudish about that. I'd say these women are greedy. I struggle to get one boyfriend once I had one I wouldn't then try and get extra no matter what the circumstances were. If the sex was shit or non existent I wouldn't enter into a relationship with them in the first place.

That was my sort of thinking. Either be happy with what you've got or be single like your profile says you are. Needless to say I got a backlash from one or two when I explained my view of it all when turning them down. The usual "you don't know me" thing like on Jeremy Kyle "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally won't play with attached guys. Simply because I'd hate to be cheated on I don't judge them. Just personally don't play with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I being a prude?

Maybe, or maybe you're just expressing your preference, or maybe you've come up with a clever 'look at me' post. Who knows?

Only you.

Damned unluckly to have so many fit women chasing you only to find you have to turn them all down though, welcome to my world.

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Sorry, did I say 'world'? I meant 'fantasy'. Damn auto-cucumber

Mr ddc"

Believe me they weren't 'fit'. And like I said it was a couple, not a hareem of women like something out of Gladiator lol. I'm not that lucky!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering people's views on this as I've had a few 'single women' that have messaged me and asked to meet after admitting that they're on here behind their husbands/boyfriends backs and are wanting discreet fun..

Personally I couldn't do it but I imagine there are plenty of men who'd be happy to partake in a game of hide the sausage regardless of someone being single or not.

Am I being a prude?

Yes you are "

Haha god damn it!

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don't mind meeting attached guys, people are on here for their own reasons.

But I do like to know before meeting. So I can make an informed choice to meet them or not.

I don't like Facebook to tell me of their relationship, in the "people you may know" section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were attracted to them and they were very fit you may find you're not as prudish as you think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting attached guys, people are on here for their own reasons.

But I do like to know before meeting. So I can make an informed choice to meet them or not.

I don't like Facebook to tell me of their relationship, in the "people you may know" section "

Hahahahaaa! Brilliant

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Your life your choice their life their choice. Quite simple really.

Well that turned out a lot simpler than I imagined! Go you, you should explain the offside rule to people "

Wrong shaped balls for me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting attached guys, people are on here for their own reasons.

But I do like to know before meeting. So I can make an informed choice to meet them or not.

I don't like Facebook to tell me of their relationship, in the "people you may know" section "

That happened to me after I had met him. I messaged him to let him know that other women may not be happy and contact his girlfriend on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you were attracted to them and they were very fit you may find you're not as prudish as you think. "

I would be, knowing my luck their fellas would be steroid using cage fighters and they'd find out and probably cut my widger off. I'd rather keep it than have 2 minutes and 6 seconds of sex with a super hottie

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

People have the right to live their lives the way they want to and it's not our place to judge. If someone wants to cheat on their partner the in our view it is their business, and their business alone.

However, whilst we won't condone or condemn, we won't facilitate. So we won't meet with someone if we are aware they are in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were attracted to them and they were very fit you may find you're not as prudish as you think.

I would be, knowing my luck their fellas would be steroid using cage fighters and they'd find out and probably cut my widger off. I'd rather keep it than have 2 minutes and 6 seconds of sex with a super hottie "

What if you knew you couldn't get caught?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People have the right to live their lives the way they want to and it's not our place to judge. If someone wants to cheat on their partner the in our view it is their business, and their business alone.

However, whilst we won't condone or condemn, we won't facilitate. So we won't meet with someone if we are aware they are in a relationship.

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I'm not judging or slating anyone, even when I replied after them telling me I wasn't judgemental, I just said it wasn't for me. I was just asking for other people's opinions on it and seeing what they do when someone's in a relationship but still wanting to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you were attracted to them and they were very fit you may find you're not as prudish as you think.

I would be, knowing my luck their fellas would be steroid using cage fighters and they'd find out and probably cut my widger off. I'd rather keep it than have 2 minutes and 6 seconds of sex with a super hottie

What if you knew you couldn't get caught? "

I feel guilty about killing a spider for hours afterwards so I'd probably top myself if I knew I'd done that to somebody lol. Unless it was Pink, she's worth the beating of a lifetime for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its a big no no, knowing the damage cheating can do to someone its just not worth it if you care about the person as much as you should do to be in a relationship.

But if people want to do it then thats their choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me its a big no no, knowing the damage cheating can do to someone its just not worth it if you care about the person as much as you should do to be in a relationship.

But if people want to do it then thats their choice."

High five! The prudes are building up nicely

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"dont think morals apply on fab"

strange perception..

surely one lives by one's own 'morals', regardless of the various aspects of our own personal tastes..?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Your life your choice their life their choice. Quite simple really. "

In a nutshell!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think the answer depends on how hot they are

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just wondering people's views on this as I've had a few 'single women' that have messaged me and asked to meet after admitting that they're on here behind their husbands/boyfriends backs and are wanting discreet fun..

Personally I couldn't do it but I imagine there are plenty of men who'd be happy to partake in a game of hide the sausage regardless of someone being single or not.

Am I being a prude? "

Of course not.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

As long as they are happy with it I can't see the problem I've meat a few who are. It's there choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own........ It's a free world, free choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were attracted to them and they were very fit you may find you're not as prudish as you think.

I would be, knowing my luck their fellas would be steroid using cage fighters and they'd find out and probably cut my widger off. I'd rather keep it than have 2 minutes and 6 seconds of sex with a super hottie

What if you knew you couldn't get caught?

I feel guilty about killing a spider for hours afterwards so I'd probably top myself if I knew I'd done that to somebody lol. Unless it was Pink, she's worth the beating of a lifetime for "

Everyone has their price

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your life your choice their life their choice. Quite simple really.

Spot on "

simples X

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