FabSwingers.com forum: Best friends.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long have you known yours?

Was over seeing mine last night and it hit us, its our 25th anniversary this year.

We met in our 1st week at high school.

We have been together through kids(hers), divorce (mine), losing close family members, the 10 year stint that I lived away, im godmother to her oldest, teenage crushs, 1st hangover, in fact I dont think there isnt anything about me that she doesnt no and vice versa.

I love her to bits.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

have known my best friend for 36years, we started primary school together xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

88 years, me mam. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known my best friend for three week tomorrow.

yay for best friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have known my best friend for 36years, we started primary school together xx"

shut your legs please theres a terrible draft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"88 years, me mam. x"

aw, you're profile lies, it doesn't state either of you are 88, fibber

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Don't have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't have one

no mam, awwww hugs ((x))

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Don't have one

no mam, awwww hugs ((x))"

thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't have one

no mam, awwww hugs ((x))

thank you x"

can i be your best friend cos i havnt got one either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

68 yrs my mam,21 yrs my daughter ha ha ,best m8 44yrs neevr be with outt hem all there my rock can tell them every think

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Don't have one

no mam, awwww hugs ((x))

thank you x

can i be your best friend cos i havnt got one either

of course you may xx. we are going to have a lifetime of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"88 years, me mam. x

aw, you're profile lies, it doesn't state either of you are 88, fibber

cor blimey you are right! lol never was much good at maths.

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester

"Don't have one

no mam, awwww hugs ((x))

thank you x

can i be your best friend cos i havnt got one either

can I have you as a best friend please

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

Have had my best friend for 37 years, she lives 250 miles away from me and I rarely see her.....but am having dinner with her on Monday night while I am staying in London.

Cannot wait to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have one either.

Lots of friends, just not a best one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my best friend fifteen years ago when I moved in next door to her, I may have moved house but still go see her most days.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Met mine almost 30 years ago in the first week of secondary school. Have seen each other through hangovers/ boyfriends/ rape/ infidelity/ broken engagements/ weddings/ children/ a court case for shoplifting/ death of parents/ abortions/ pregnancy scares/ pregnancy problems/ a hysterectomy/ family sexual abuse - loads of good and bad stuff!

(obviously not all of the above has happened to both of us on an individual basis!!

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There is only one thing about me that she does not know - swinging

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

met mine in June 1975 hardly been seprated since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One best friend who's been a diamond known each other since we was 17 at college.

She's beautiful witty and a treasure. She helped me to come to terms with who I am. Love her to bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had known my best friend for 18 years, until recently when she met a new man who changed her compleatly for the worse within 5 weeks of them being together, she broke of our friendship

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Been best mates with my friend now for 42yrs luv her to bits and shes been my rock manys a time xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friends are identical twins and I met them on the first day of school. We were 4 years old and the three of us were crying for our mums, inconsolably so. Our teacher stood us by her desk and put her arms around us telling us that our mums would be back in a few hours and she let the 3 of us have the table near to her desk. By first playtime we were swapping coats and shoes.

We have been friends for 39 years (god thats amazing) and we are still swapping shoes and coats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thank god they dont dress the same now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

known mine since i was at Rainbows (pre brownies) so about 18years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't have one

no mam, awwww hugs ((x))

thank you x

can i be your best friend cos i havnt got one either

of course you may xx. we are going to have a lifetime of fun

i am gonna get on that plane one day and scare the life outta you !!!

hi _iew its me imalady im at the airport come get me !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost the longest friend i had last year to heart failure.

Known each other for over 40 years since kids.

Mind you we did a lot of argueing and fighting in those years but if one of us was in trouble, we still went running to help

I do miss her and still cant believe she not around anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lost the longest friend i had last year to heart failure.

Known each other for over 40 years since kids.

Mind you we did a lot of argueing and fighting in those years but if one of us was in trouble, we still went running to help

I do miss her and still cant believe she not around anymore

Big (((hugs))) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww thanks .

I will take that lovely hug ta.

My other BEST friend was my beautiful sister, who i also lost year .

Wasnt a good year .

So the hug is welcome

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

26 years this year. Been through everything together, i was there at the birth of my goddaughter. I see her every week and speak about 2/3 times a week on the phone. I also have 4 more friends that are almost as equal and ive known them same amount of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive know my best mate for 26 years now she knows more about me than anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have known mine since 1992 through work. We managed to keep in touch even after changing jobs and relocation etc., and we get together about once a year.

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

I've known my best friend for 9 years now. Things are a bit strained right now sadly - hopefully we'll pull through it....

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you can sort it satisfactorly , i wish i could have made my peace with mine before she died

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

ive known my best friend for over 10yrs now and it is my husband,he is my rock and we have been through so much together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known my best pal for 25 years. He was my best man at my first wedding and I gave his bride to him at his (her father had passed away suddenly shortly before the wedding) - he's never forgiven me for giving his wife to him

We've never fallen out, or even had a disagreement and although our lives have gone in totally different directions we still keep in touch with a phone call every couple of weeks and he and his new partner will be up here next saturday for Siren's 40th birthday celebrations. (she'll never forgive me for blurting that out!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

apart from my mum and Mr Sticky i wouldnt say i have a best friend. There is a lovley lady in Fab that i would say is a very close friend, but i don't really do best friends, since many years ago my 'so called' best friend cheated on me with my boyfriend. Needless to say both got dumped!

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I have not really got a best friend these days, I know loads of nice people that I have met through my jobs and the classic car scene.

I did have a very good friend from school days who at one time lived with my family, but he drowned along with another good mate on a fishing boat that sank off Cherbourg France, in mysterious circumstances, about eight years ago now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known my best friend for over 25 years now and we don't see enough of each other. Needless to say, when we do, it's as if we've never been apart.

Right, I'm off to make a phone call cause dammit, I miss him sometimes!

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I have my three musketeers - all older than me, loyal and wonderful friends, who know nothing about this part of my life.

Which might beg a question about friendship and trust, but that's the world I live in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have one either. I had a best friend in school but then we went our separate ways, ive not seen her for 30 yrs and only exchange xmas cards, wouldnt count her as my best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i love the adage that todays strangers are tomorrows friends we have yet to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive known my best friend for over 10yrs now and it is my husband,he is my rock and we have been through so much together"

Same here

We have many good friends but hubby is my best friend as we know and love everything about each other. I can't imagine a much closer bond than the one we have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known 3 of mine for 36 years (since primary school) and the lady of the couple who introduced me to swinging for 27 years. Despite marriages and break-ups (in my case), through illnesses and tragedies we've always been there for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my best friend first day of secondary school back in 1972. I didn't see her for a few years whilst she was studying at York university, but she was matron of honour at my wedding in 1981, fate would have it she moved in five doors away from me, she held me when my son died in 1990, she came to share my joy when my daughter was born in 1991, the followind day she gave birth to her son in the same ward.

Sadly we lost touch when she became a Jehovah's Witness a few years ago. She had changed, the person I'd known for 35 years wasn't there any more. It was like a bereavement in a way.

Since then I don't hold people that close. The person who I see as my best friend is my sister Angie and she lives in Italy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years. Don't see much of each other as we.both moved away. God mother to each others children. Found out this morning her youngest is in hospital seriously ill, wish i was closer but she knows Im thinking of them. Get well soon Ben aunt Kat is thinking of you, love you loads x x x x x x x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"23 years. Don't see much of each other as we.both moved away. God mother to each others children. Found out this morning her youngest is in hospital seriously ill, wish i was closer but she knows Im thinking of them. Get well soon Ben aunt Kat is thinking of you, love you loads x x x x x x x"

best wishes to you, your friend and her son xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best wishes to you, your friend and her son xx"

Same here Kat xxxx

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