FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

People not reading profiles!

Jump to newest
 

By *r.Genuine OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I understand everyone has their preferences etc, but on my profile it clearly states that I'm totally straight.. Yet I still get plenty of messages/winks from gay men.

Baffles me that people just don't read profiles!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then block men from messaging you...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand everyone has their preferences etc, but on my profile it clearly states that I'm totally straight.. Yet I still get plenty of messages/winks from gay men.

Baffles me that people just don't read profiles! "

Set message filters to disallow men from messaging you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r.Genuine OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thank you both, I didn't know I could do that haha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I understand everyone has their preferences etc, but on my profile it clearly states that I'm totally straight.. Yet I still get plenty of messages/winks from gay men.

Baffles me that people just don't read profiles!

Set message filters to disallow men from messaging you."
yes echoing above, people will assume you are 'fab straight' otherwise

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plenty straight guys message me for sex

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

they all do, i have had dozen of messages from straight guys wanting to meet. lots of men on here are actually bi not straight as they say

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r.Genuine OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Why not just be honest and say their bi or gay?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had been talking to a couple past few days arrange a meet for today then they messaged us a couple of hours before they were due and said they don't wanna meet us now because they didn't realise we smoked.... they messaged us 1st

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lex MooWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I get lots of messages from people with 'Wont Meet Smokers' even when I'm actually smoking in my profile picture!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have filters set and I still don't get messages or fabs from men. And I even look like a woman. There must be something wrong with me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need to set your filters then...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that for a wee while before I worked out how to use the filters.

One particularly keen 'straight' guy got around that by somehow tracking me down on kik a few days ago to offer me a long list of non reciprocal services.

Can't say it bothers me that much,you just have to take it as a compliment!

After I said thanks but no thanks I found his reply to be pretty funny...."I don't meet gays,only straight n bi guys!"

Classic!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have filters set and I still don't get messages or fabs from men. And I even look like a woman. There must be something wrong with me. "

never mind

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have filters set and I still don't get messages or fabs from men. And I even look like a woman. There must be something wrong with me.

never mind "

I know right. I'm gonna go cry into my cup of tea.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just be honest and say their bi or gay? "

maybe they are married...

or maybe they don't want to alienate single women/couples who wont meet bi/gay men

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I am straight too. But I am also an optimist. So I like people who are chancers and push their luck. Fair play to them I say. Nothing ventured nothing gained. If it's a huge problem to you then just block messages from single men.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I get them and I think every other bloke does to. What your forgetting is there's real straight and then there's fab straight. Like people have set if it bothers you set filters. Personally I won't because I talk to loads of people on here and couldn't give to short 1s what there deal is. If I get a msg like that I just warn them politely it's not my deal not interested. If they carry on which some do but not many it's strange off to blocksvill with them.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have filters set and I still don't get messages or fabs from men. And I even look like a woman. There must be something wrong with me. "

They're all coffee drinking heathens.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand everyone has their preferences etc, but on my profile it clearly states that I'm totally straight.. Yet I still get plenty of messages/winks from gay men.

Baffles me that people just don't read profiles! "

they prowl about looking for vulnerable innocent victims once they get their claws in before you know it youll be up the park sucking cock get them blocked while you still have a chance

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

There is a huge stigma around bi men and many couples and even single women won't meet them. Personally I have a huge thing for bi guys so I love finding out they are "fab straight" lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top