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"You look too innocent to be on here..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's something a lot of younger females get. I used to get told it all the time.

Some men like the thought of defiling an innocent young girl, I guess.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

"

If you are on here, you are not innocent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I look all sweet and innocent but have naughty eyes lol xx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Could also be a chat up line!!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

"

Gosh, I just posted on another thread that don't remember anything anyone posts, but I do remember you posting this not so long ago. I think all women get told this line ... don't know how many fall for it though?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'd rather someone thought that of me than say you look like a right slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could also be a chat up line!! "

I guess it's the opposite of saying "you look like you've been round the block".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny thing is , we don't get told this at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

"

i hope not or I'm sadly lacking in the depravity dept

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I'd rather someone thought that of me than say you look like a right slut

"

Watch out TSH will be on his way... OP i wouldnt say innocent more cute x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather someone thought that of me than say you look like a right slut

"

This on the other hand ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had that a few times too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

If you are on here, you are not innocent. "

Hahaha that reply cracked me up very true!!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

You can either take it as a compliment, or a dare to prove otherwise, I guess.

Mr ddc

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I think it's something a lot of younger females get. I used to get told it all the time.

Some men like the thought of defiling an innocent young girl, I guess. "

I got told this when I joined scene years ago

For me I would fancy younger women but I would find it alrehnsive

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I get that a lot

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Funny thing is , we don't get told this at all "

People know you wont fall for it?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

People say what they want to draw you in! Some people are gullible enough to fall for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a tart as no one says that to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get told that I look innocent. xxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I must be a tart as no one says that to me. "

Me neither!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm now sad that I've never been told this!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

If you are on here, you are not innocent. "

But I am My name proves it

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I never get told that I look innocent. xxx"

But you do!!

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

"

I'm deprived

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Think I'm 1 that's told you that and it's not ment anything like bad in fact quite the opposite. You have a very inercant look but your obviously not. I sent it ever bloke dream to have an angel on the street and a freak in the sheet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get told that I look innocent. xxx

But you do!! "

Ohhhh you big smoothie.....you have looked at my pro n pics yeah? xxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

If you are on here, you are not innocent.

But I am My name proves it "

Ah but you are the exception!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I never get told that I look innocent. xxx

But you do!!

Ohhhh you big smoothie.....you have looked at my pro n pics yeah? xxx"

Of course!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


" I'm now sad that I've never been told this!!!!! "

I can't see you so can't help

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Innocent but guilty?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


" I'm now sad that I've never been told this!!!!!

I can't see you so can't help "

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Innocent but guilty? "

Guilty of what, though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You should here the shit i get told, innoxent, nice, to classy, likened to a sunday school teacher (on more than one occasion) and they all get the same answer and that is that they must have a low opinion of women who have recreational aex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get told that I look innocent. xxx

But you do!!

Ohhhh you big smoothie.....you have looked at my pro n pics yeah? xxx

Of course!! "

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told often that "I'm too sweet or nice" to be on here.

Damn it I'm trying to be sexy and sassy Meh

**note to self must try hard more porn less disney**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

"

It's probably a cut and paste message they send to everyone.

A bit like the ones telling the women how gorgeous they are etc.

It's just bullshit talk as you I'm sure your aware.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I get told often that "I'm too sweet or nice" to be on here.

Damn it I'm trying to be sexy and sassy Meh

**note to self must try hard more porn less disney**"

Like I said, they tell you what they think you want to hear!! Obviously don't realize we have heard it all before!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think it's something a lot of younger females get. I used to get told it all the time.

Some men like the thought of defiling an innocent young girl, I guess. "
rubbish im 51 and still get it its just a typical line that gets used

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

It's probably a cut and paste message they send to everyone.

A bit like the ones telling the women how gorgeous they are etc.

It's just bullshit talk as you I'm sure your aware.

"

Yes, don't you just love those? How can you really tell how gorgeous someone is by the shot of their ankle (I put that up sometimes), well, apparently you can .... if the ankle is truly gorgeous ... or you like feet ... every needy woman is here because she needs a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a line chancers use. Even I've been told it

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I get told often that "I'm too sweet or nice" to be on here.

Damn it I'm trying to be sexy and sassy Meh

**note to self must try hard more porn less disney**"

Your nailing it but have a inaccant look to win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always told I have a naughty look in my eye, think it's only my Dad that thinks I'm sweet and innocent now

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I think a jar of Peanut Butter and a few striking poses would shatter any illusions of innocence that you might portray OP

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

It's probably a cut and paste message they send to everyone.

A bit like the ones telling the women how gorgeous they are etc.

It's just bullshit talk as you I'm sure your aware.

"

Quite true, most if it is bill shit, but works for some people!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

"

Its passive aggressive shaming dressed up as a kack handed compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's something a lot of younger females get. I used to get told it all the time.

Some men like the thought of defiling an innocent young girl, I guess. rubbish im 51 and still get it its just a typical line that gets used"

You can be older, receive the same line and men can still like the thought of defiling an innocent young girl all at the same time.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

Its passive aggressive shaming dressed up as a kack handed compliment. "
exactly and shows what they really think of women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ide take the chat up lines on fab with a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get told I look all sweet and innocent but have naughty eyes lol xx"

That's what she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The looks of an angel and the eyes of the devil.... Is what I get told. ..never been told I look innocent. But none of us on here are. Are we?? Lol

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I used to get called the blue eyed devil by my ex husband's friends .... we weren't even swingers. I think it had a different meaning then ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This chat up line malarky turns me right off tbh.

I prefer people to just be themselves and just relax and chat shit together. No pretence no flannel no bullshit.

Just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think my opening gambit with anyone on here would contain the word innocent.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"The looks of an angel and the eyes of the devil.... Is what I get told. ..never been told I look innocent. But none of us on here are. Are we?? Lol"

No we're not, that would be boring!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say you look innocent, from what I can tell you only have one eye, Polythemus was a cyclops and he tried to eat Odysseus and his crew, plus lots of pirates had only one eye and they weren't very innocent either...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"This chat up line malarky turns me right off tbh.

I prefer people to just be themselves and just relax and chat shit together. No pretence no flannel no bullshit.

Just be yourself "
i love compliments but even if its bullshit make it sound genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get told this an awful lot... is it a good thing or a bad thing?

And does that mean that swingers are meant to look filthy and deprived on the outside?

"

I was told this yesterday and it's not the first time. Usually I get "you don't look very bold"

It's good to fool them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This chat up line malarky turns me right off tbh.

I prefer people to just be themselves and just relax and chat shit together. No pretence no flannel no bullshit.

Just be yourself i love compliments but even if its bullshit make it sound genuine "

I'll try harder for you next time

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Judging by the comments I'm obviously full of shit haha good to know

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've had it a lot but I give off something of my dark side too, I'm sure.

Sometimes innocence increases as we age too, especially with a little forgetting going on.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

I get told I look sweet and innocent then I point out my halo slipped further off than my knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont - in fact a girl at work said she could imagine me at sexy club ( her phrase) - oh i blagged my way out of that

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Judging by the comments I'm obviously full of shit haha good to know "

That's because people know you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get told I look sweet and innocent then I point out my halo slipped further off than my knickers "

I found it earlier, it walked up to me and said 'I'm looking for someone', to which I replied

'Halo, is it me you're looking for?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I'm too good to be on here, obviously gone past the innocent stage...

I remember on a similar thread though someone saying it says more about what they think of other women than you, which I thought was a good point.

Unless you act all sweet & innocent then I guess it's a line (like many others) that's dolled out.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Does anyone play 'sweet and innocent' because that's what they think a man wants? It becomes a self perpetuating cycle then ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just me that doesnt have the innocent look then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone play 'sweet and innocent' because that's what they think a man wants? It becomes a self perpetuating cycle then ...."

I'm sure some women do, whether they'll admit it on here is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone play 'sweet and innocent' because that's what they think a man wants? It becomes a self perpetuating cycle then ...."

Of course they do....just like they play the "oh I'm so unattractive I'm surprised anyone is interested" card......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone play 'sweet and innocent' because that's what they think a man wants? It becomes a self perpetuating cycle then ....

I'm sure some women do, whether they'll admit it on here is another matter.

I get told I'm definitely not innocent, but that's just because of my user name

"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Does anyone play 'sweet and innocent' because that's what they think a man wants? It becomes a self perpetuating cycle then ...."

I prefer a woman to be herself, airs & graces are easily seen through and do little to impress me I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I'm too good to be on here. Never really know how to take that. Do good girls not enjoy sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone play 'sweet and innocent' because that's what they think a man wants? It becomes a self perpetuating cycle then ....

I prefer a woman to be herself, airs & graces are easily seen through and do little to impress me I'm afraid "

quite agree- if you dont like me for me than you can do one - plus id never keep up the act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always getting told I'm to perfect to be on here. An accusation impossible to deny.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Does anyone play 'sweet and innocent' because that's what they think a man wants? It becomes a self perpetuating cycle then ....

I prefer a woman to be herself, airs & graces are easily seen through and do little to impress me I'm afraid

quite agree- if you dont like me for me than you can do one - plus id never keep up the act "

I pretend to be a complete arse and horrible on here, but when people meet me, they can't believe how sweet and innocent I really am

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