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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually but not always x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Usually but not always x"
never used to be but getting better

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

Absolutely terrible…

So terrible, my friend bought me a book bcos 85% of communication is unconscious & non-verbal.

If anyone wants to know the secrets therein, feel free to PM me…but be warned…will only give tell the ladies…you men are far too good at it already!!

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Signals ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x"

In real life I'm absolutely brilliant at it.

On here? Shite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x

In real life I'm absolutely brilliant at it.

On here? Shite "

I'm shite at both!

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Not any more. Self doubt in the major sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x

In real life I'm absolutely brilliant at it.

On here? Shite

I'm shite at both! "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely terrible at it.

Almost always make a fool of my self.

What are these secrets that you speak of?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy "

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy "
i find it harder on here until i get chatting, every bloody guy says they are interested. Interrsted in what a shag or getting to know me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positively useless at it.

I have a tendency to not believe someone is interested in me until they are in bed with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible at reading signals!

It would have to be extremely obvious for me to act on them.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh"

"

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them. "

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am jolly poo at reading the signals on here and also in real life lol,

So bad at signals dont ever let me drive a train

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not any more. Self doubt in the major sense "

You are beautiful and a lovely person. You shouldn't doubt yourself.

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get the hint when her tongue is in my mouth

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If it's someone I have not met before then I am coy if I have met them then it's easiar

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Absolutely unless

Dicks much better than me.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen "

You're a man…I rest my case...

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

only when I meet someone from here I have in the past thought they don't realy fancy me or have thought they did a bit, or it might of also been the other way round as well. when you have sex with someone just because they are there.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm used to being every girls friend and talk to loads but God I'm completely unaware when somebody really likes me rather than just likes me if you get me. Normally my 1st clue is after them waiting for me to make a move they get sick of waiting and just jump on me. Which can be quite nice if I'm honest till it dawns on me just how long I've been missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x"

Is this a "real life" question, or a messages "received on fab" question?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I can read people like a book until it comes to attraction. Then I really don't have a scooby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm terrible at it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x

Is this a "real life" question, or a messages "received on fab" question?"

Both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life I have no idea when someone likes me. I've never been good at it and never had many boyfriends because of it.

On fab, when I get a fancy a fuck message I think I can work out the mechanics of the situation. On the forum I just figure everything is flirty nonsense unless I actually get asked to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read signals at all, better off throwing a brick at me, with a piece of paper wrapped around it, held on by an elastic band say I fancy you on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen

You're a man…I rest my case..."
Was there a case to be rested? You are a woman and maybe see things through rose coloured spectacles?

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By *illo0069Man
over a year ago

litherland


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x"

Im amazing at it and i can tell the way you wrote this post your deff into me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real life it doesn't really happen. On fab. There's a few ladies who message me. They may well be interested in a sexual liaison, but distance prevents me from even asking the question. A local TS does for sure. But it's not my bag baby.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Yes to a certain degree my poker skills come in handy when reading body language and I'm right most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In real life I have no idea when someone likes me. I've never been good at it and never had many boyfriends because of it.

On fab, when I get a fancy a fuck message I think I can work out the mechanics of the situation. On the forum I just figure everything is flirty nonsense unless I actually get asked to meet someone. "
Real Life? Are you somehow suggesting that FAB is not real and represents the society in which we live?

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen

You're a man…I rest my case... Was there a case to be rested? You are a woman and maybe see things through rose coloured spectacles?"

Well, I say I'm a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes to a certain degree my poker skills come in handy when reading body language and I'm right most of the time."
Then you must be a billionaire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen

You're a man…I rest my case... Was there a case to be rested? You are a woman and maybe see things through rose coloured spectacles?

Well, I say I'm a woman "
Ok lets say that and to counterbalance I am a man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen "

Say again which radio station is that?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Yes to a certain degree my poker skills come in handy when reading body language and I'm right most of the time.Then you must be a billionaire?"
no I wish just successful with the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen

Say again which radio station is that?"
FAB UR N0t the 1

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x

In real life I'm absolutely brilliant at it.

On here? Shite

I'm shite at both! "

I think you can probably assume that everyone fancies you Bold. I know I would if I looked even half as hot as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes to a certain degree my poker skills come in handy when reading body language and I'm right most of the time.Then you must be a billionaire? no I wish just successful with the ladies "
Then would it be best to stick with the ladies?

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen

You're a man…I rest my case... Was there a case to be rested? You are a woman and maybe see things through rose coloured spectacles?

Well, I say I'm a woman Ok lets say that and to counterbalance I am a man?"

I'll go with that…you certainly are rude & abusive enough to be male. Not all women have rose coloured spectacles…personally I think I have a very bleak outlook on life. After joining this site, I've been put off sex forever…as an example...

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen

Say again which radio station is that?"

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Not any more. Self doubt in the major sense

You are beautiful and a lovely person. You shouldn't doubt yourself.

Sarah x "

Awwwwww thank you Sarah, very kind words x Bank transfer or cheque?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh" o-

~Women are biologically pre-disposed to think this-our existence as a race kind of depends on this. Men, however, are biologically disposed to think everyone is interested in them.

Utter nonsense.

The "signals" maybe overt in which case the recipient is brain dead. If the signals are covert then if you are tuned and in the groove you will pick them up!

On FAB its all overt size of knob, age and propensity to ejaculate more than a bucket of semen

You're a man…I rest my case... Was there a case to be rested? You are a woman and maybe see things through rose coloured spectacles?

Well, I say I'm a woman Ok lets say that and to counterbalance I am a man?

I'll go with that…you certainly are rude & abusive enough to be male. Not all women have rose coloured spectacles…personally I think I have a very bleak outlook on life. After joining this site, I've been put off sex forever…as an example..."
In what way have I been abusive? In what way have I been rude? You made a statement and I have made a counter statement.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Bg just to be clear I fancy the fucking arse off you

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"Yes to a certain degree my poker skills come in handy when reading body language and I'm right most of the time.Then you must be a billionaire? no I wish just successful with the ladies "

Mr Blonde-if you teach me how to read body language, I'm yours anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Yes to a certain degree my poker skills come in handy when reading body language and I'm right most of the time.Then you must be a billionaire? no I wish just successful with the ladies Then would it be best to stick with the ladies?"
that's all I do! Women are harder to read than men though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes to a certain degree my poker skills come in handy when reading body language and I'm right most of the time.Then you must be a billionaire? no I wish just successful with the ladies

Mr Blonde-if you teach me how to read body language, I'm yours anytime "
I did smile..............I really did giggle!!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Yes to a certain degree my poker skills come in handy when reading body language and I'm right most of the time.Then you must be a billionaire? no I wish just successful with the ladies

Mr Blonde-if you teach me how to read body language, I'm yours anytime "
haha that could be arranged

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy i find it harder on here until i get chatting, every bloody guy says they are interested. Interrsted in what a shag or getting to know me."

I think you can probably assume on this site that their initial interest is going to be a shag but that doesn't mean that they won't get to know you, if you want, and even get to really like you. I know I consider all the people I've actually met from here, and especially the ones I've played with, as quite good or even very good friends. One or two even more than that.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

Officer drivel…oops dibble-

A counter balance & a counter statement are too different things.

I find your comments to be rude & abusive to others. That is my statement, which you are of course entitled to comment upon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Officer drivel…oops dibble-

A counter balance & a counter statement are too different things.

I find your comments to be rude & abusive to others. That is my statement, which you are of course entitled to comment upon. "

Just to say its two not too but that is just house keeping!

So your signals to Mr Blonde are overt are they not? If so then my counter statement is in fact correct is it not?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"In real life I have no idea when someone likes me. I've never been good at it and never had many boyfriends because of it.

On fab, when I get a fancy a fuck message I think I can work out the mechanics of the situation. On the forum I just figure everything is flirty nonsense unless I actually get asked to meet someone. "

Say what!!? I think you're definitely another one of the few on here who can assume, if a guy says he fancies you, he means it. The only reason I've never tried it on with you is because I'm well outside your age limits. And the comments you make in the forum (excluding this thread) are always so well thought through and intelligently put. Your definitely one of best on this site IMHO. I can't believe you don't realise that. is it actually Courtney commenting today. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x

Im amazing at it and i can tell the way you wrote this post your deff into me "

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x"

Oh yes. It's easy... Like the East Asian muscle mary who gave me the eye and smiled as I walked past in Kennington Park... Could have had him, if was in the mood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x

Im amazing at it and i can tell the way you wrote this post your deff into me "

This made me

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hopeless & always have been! People need to be much more obvious, as do we!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy i find it harder on here until i get chatting, every bloody guy says they are interested. Interrsted in what a shag or getting to know me.

I think you can probably assume on this site that their initial interest is going to be a shag but that doesn't mean that they won't get to know you, if you want, and even get to really like you. I know I consider all the people I've actually met from here, and especially the ones I've played with, as quite good or even very good friends. One or two even more than that. "
what i mean is if someone said they.where interested they could of.sent 100 messages that day saying the.exact same thing id need further messages

In real life its much easier to tell from the off and if they dont communicate.the signs well enough then they obviously wasnt that interested in a shag or getting to know you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes to a certain degree my poker skills come in handy when reading body language and I'm right most of the time."

Couldn't read that without thinking of Gareth from The Office.

Nothing personal, poster. Raised a smile.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I just assume that everyone one likes me unless or until they tell me otherwise.

When it comes to women fancying me I work on a similar bases. Quite a few more women tell me they don't fancy me than people telling me they don't like me but so what. If you don't try you won't get and there's always another day to try again.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I'm normally quite good at reading people.

But some I think I'm there and oops nope, I'm all confused again.

As for knowing If they like me, no, I'm not at all good at that but I believe that is self doubt 'how or why would they'

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy i find it harder on here until i get chatting, every bloody guy says they are interested. Interrsted in what a shag or getting to know me.

I think you can probably assume on this site that their initial interest is going to be a shag but that doesn't mean that they won't get to know you, if you want, and even get to really like you. I know I consider all the people I've actually met from here, and especially the ones I've played with, as quite good or even very good friends. One or two even more than that. what i mean is if someone said they.where interested they could of.sent 100 messages that day saying the.exact same thing id need further messages

In real life its much easier to tell from the off and if they dont communicate.the signs well enough then they obviously wasnt that interested in a shag or getting to know you"

I think you're over thinking it. So what if they also fancy 1, 2 or 100 others. It's only an initial contract. You can slap it down or see where it goes. You'd soon find out who just fancies anyone and who actually quite fancies you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at it, legendarily so. With others I can spot it a mile away, subtle signs, eye movements and body language but with me? I need a flashing neon sign

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me as a charming flirt - people just think being charming when I am being subtle And I struggle to say I want to meet for sex

Sounds easy it's not lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy i find it harder on here until i get chatting, every bloody guy says they are interested. Interrsted in what a shag or getting to know me.

I think you can probably assume on this site that their initial interest is going to be a shag but that doesn't mean that they won't get to know you, if you want, and even get to really like you. I know I consider all the people I've actually met from here, and especially the ones I've played with, as quite good or even very good friends. One or two even more than that. what i mean is if someone said they.where interested they could of.sent 100 messages that day saying the.exact same thing id need further messages

In real life its much easier to tell from the off and if they dont communicate.the signs well enough then they obviously wasnt that interested in a shag or getting to know you

I think you're over thinking it. So what if they also fancy 1, 2 or 100 others. It's only an initial contract. You can slap it down or see where it goes. You'd soon find out who just fancies anyone and who actually quite fancies you."
no, the question was can you read the signs, someone said yes it was easy on here and i said i couldnt tell just by.saying im interested id need more to go on. Someone just saying hi im interested wouldnt get a response.

Someone saying they like cats tells me they are interested enough in me to have fully read my profile

Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy

Even when someone says they're interested, I'm my head I'm still thinking "nahhhh"

"

Me too(mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely rubbish at it!

Unless it's made plainly obvious I struggle to tell the difference between a lass just being nice/friendly and genuinely interested flirting.

Doh!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Sometimes I am not sure if people being nice or flirtingb

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

That was meant to say 'contact' in my last comment, not 'contract'

I think it's all about confidence, belief and not getting overly put off or upset with rejection.

I don't believe that every woman I fancy is going to fancy me and I know that I don't fancy every woman who fancies me. I also know that, amongst all the women I'll ever meet, there will be more than enough woman who I both fancy and also fancy me to keep me happy enough. So, generally, while seldom actually saying I fancy a woman directly to her, I normally make it clear one way or another that I do. Quite a few make it clear that they don't fancy me, about the same number leave me guessing but enough to keep me happy make it known that they do.

In short, there's plenty of fish in the sea. It doesn't matter if you can't catch most of then, you only have to catch enough to eat.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm crap at it I usually get it wrong and make a prat of myself

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I'm crap at it I usually get it wrong and make a prat of myself "

Awwwww come here were show you the ropes lol

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"On here, it's usually obvious. They tend to message saying they're interested.

In real life, they are much more coy i find it harder on here until i get chatting, every bloody guy says they are interested. Interrsted in what a shag or getting to know me.

I think you can probably assume on this site that their initial interest is going to be a shag but that doesn't mean that they won't get to know you, if you want, and even get to really like you. I know I consider all the people I've actually met from here, and especially the ones I've played with, as quite good or even very good friends. One or two even more than that. what i mean is if someone said they.where interested they could of.sent 100 messages that day saying the.exact same thing id need further messages

In real life its much easier to tell from the off and if they dont communicate.the signs well enough then they obviously wasnt that interested in a shag or getting to know you

I think you're over thinking it. So what if they also fancy 1, 2 or 100 others. It's only an initial contract. You can slap it down or see where it goes. You'd soon find out who just fancies anyone and who actually quite fancies you.no, the question was can you read the signs, someone said yes it was easy on here and i said i couldnt tell just by.saying im interested id need more to go on. Someone just saying hi im interested wouldnt get a response.

Someone saying they like cats tells me they are interested enough in me to have fully read my profile

Does that make sense?"

It does, and I do. LOL

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over a year ago


"I'm crap at it I usually get it wrong and make a prat of myself "

Me too, always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually but recently I've screwed up a few.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Unless it is in 40' high skywriting, it goes over my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?"

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I'm crap at it I usually get it wrong and make a prat of myself

Me too, always "

I really don't get it. If you fancy a person and she/he doesn't fancy you, so what if they think your a prat, they don't fancy you anyway, but if they do fancy you then it probably doesn't matter what you do, they won't think your a prat regardless. Why worry about it?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

What I find akward is the half play or people tyt will suck you wNk you off but not fuck you, and I am like ummmm what's the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you fancy someone, their prat like behaviour can be quite endearing

We all make tits of ourselves at some point. Just gotta find the ones worth making yourself look like a tit...for.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I'm empathic xxx

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose "

You're getting way too cynical these days Cheeky.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"If you fancy someone, their prat like behaviour can be quite endearing

We all make tits of ourselves at some point. Just gotta find the ones worth making yourself look like a tit...for.

Well put, I think I was trying to say that but in way too many words. LOL

"

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I'm empathic xxx"

I'm pathetic, is that similar?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It varies - and I'm wary of having my own vested interests and desires masking the reality. Other times it can be as clear as daylight.

Some people are a little too subtle in showing their interest. And not believing in the psychic talents out there, I'd prefer people to be as clear as they can be.

I'm generally friendly with people that I like, which doesn't necessarily need to be sexual interest: so it can be misconstrued and has been a few times.

Sometimes if you're in doubt, it's better to sharpen your communication, so that you're less subtle than they MAY be playing. OK, they may run, or they may feel relieved that they don't need to play it too carefully.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

You're getting way too cynical these days Cheeky. "

It's my age

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I'm totally useless at reading any signals, self doubts are not easy to overcome.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"If you fancy someone, their prat like behaviour can be quite endearing

We all make tits of ourselves at some point. Just gotta find the ones worth making yourself look like a tit...for.

I heart this

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt."

The same - clueless and unbelieving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very good at reading the signs

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

You're getting way too cynical these days Cheeky.

It's my age "

You still look great in purple heels to me.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"It varies - and I'm wary of having my own vested interests and desires masking the reality. Other times it can be as clear as daylight.

Some people are a little too subtle in showing their interest. And not believing in the psychic talents out there, I'd prefer people to be as clear as they can be.

I'm generally friendly with people that I like, which doesn't necessarily need to be sexual interest: so it can be misconstrued and has been a few times.

Sometimes if you're in doubt, it's better to sharpen your communication, so that you're less subtle than they MAY be playing. OK, they may run, or they may feel relieved that they don't need to play it too carefully."

this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm totally useless at reading any signals, self doubts are not easy to overcome. "

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose "

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I'm very good at reading the signs "

I can find my way from Liverpool to Manchester reading only signs but I still use the SatNav just in case.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I'm totally useless at reading any signals, self doubts are not easy to overcome.

So true "

I give up!! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am rubbish with people flirting with me. Don't know it's happening. I am stupid at picking up on this unless I've had a couple of whiskies. Unless someone says to me directly 'I want to fuck you' I am oblivious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very good at reading the signs

I can find my way from Liverpool to Manchester reading only signs but I still use the SatNav just in case. "

It's the sexy voice that does it for me

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing."

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately "

Lier

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately "

Quit moaning woman

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately "

Lier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x"

Same, I assume no one is really interested even after I've met them and even when I've met them multiple times. I need the actual words 'I like you and like to fuck you' before I even half believe

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just think they're doing it for a bet.... "

yep, or they just can't get anyone better.

Self doubt is a biatch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible. "

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman "

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I just think they're doing it for a bet....

yep, or they just can't get anyone better.

Self doubt is a biatch! "

You know for a very intelligent woman your really not to bright are you

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Lier"

I am the same I am just waiting for someone to message me to say I want to meet you and fuck you - someone new doubt it tho lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! "

You lot really are baffling me. Your winding us up right

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately "

Gob Smacked!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Gob Smacked!!"

X2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! "

There's so much more to fab than the forums. I've never met anyone from the forum and i view that as a good thing.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012!

There's so much more to fab than the forums. I've never met anyone from the forum and i view that as a good thing.

"

We don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! "

Your profile says you have very little time for 121 meets...If i read that I wouldn't stop because I'd immediately think...This isn't going to happen. Maybe you should remove that...you still may not have the time...but you may get more options for your little time....just saying x

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess."

I have had meets directly from the forums, just not many. However I have also got meets indirectly from the forums. It's not impossible but, especially after being on the site for a while, it's easier to get meets elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012!

There's so much more to fab than the forums. I've never met anyone from the forum and i view that as a good thing.

"

In what way- I use them as a filter- to get a sense of someone's personality- sense of humour kind of thing?

And perve their pics- attraction is important still, obviously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012!

Your profile says you have very little time for 121 meets...If i read that I wouldn't stop because I'd immediately think...This isn't going to happen. Maybe you should remove that...you still may not have the time...but you may get more options for your little time....just saying x"

I hope I didn't offend...It was meant as a constructive comment.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012!

There's so much more to fab than the forums. I've never met anyone from the forum and i view that as a good thing.

In what way- I use them as a filter- to get a sense of someone's personality- sense of humour kind of thing?

And perve their pics- attraction is important still, obviously! "

Ha ha ha. So true but, at the end of the day, you can never really get to know someone just through chat and photos. You need to actually see then in the flesh. Unfortunately, on here, that's often seen as a lot more. I find it best to make friends in here and then get to know the person better at a club or social. That way there's little pressure whilst plenty of opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012!

Your profile says you have very little time for 121 meets...If i read that I wouldn't stop because I'd immediately think...This isn't going to happen. Maybe you should remove that...you still may not have the time...but you may get more options for your little time....just saying x

I hope I didn't offend...It was meant as a constructive comment. "

Not in the least I appreciate constructive criticism and have ammended it x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm terrible at reading signals directed to me but I can read them really clearly between others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible at it,if I'm honest. Major self doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012!

There's so much more to fab than the forums. I've never met anyone from the forum and i view that as a good thing.

In what way- I use them as a filter- to get a sense of someone's personality- sense of humour kind of thing?

And perve their pics- attraction is important still, obviously! "

I prefer doing that via messaging. I'm good at sussing people out that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite good at Reading people in person .Body language shows alot .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm excellent...nobody likes me, I never get it wrong lol

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over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012!

Your profile says you have very little time for 121 meets...If i read that I wouldn't stop because I'd immediately think...This isn't going to happen. Maybe you should remove that...you still may not have the time...but you may get more options for your little time....just saying x

I hope I didn't offend...It was meant as a constructive comment.

Not in the least I appreciate constructive criticism and have ammended it x"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've been told a few times I'm unapproachable but I think I'm approachable I must of got that wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same, I assume no one is really interested even after I've met them and even when I've met them multiple times. I need the actual words 'I like you and like to fuck you' before I even half believe "

This rings so true and is rather reassuring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x"

I usually need it to be pretty obvious before I realise someone fancies me.

Like if she strokes my cock or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm absolutely useless at it wouldn't even realise if they were making it totally obvious. I just assume it's people being friendly,why on earth would there be any other reason for their attention ect..

Jane x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess."
ive met a few from the forums but as.a % of the amount i meet its about 1% most dont even know the forums exist

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I'm absolutely useless at it wouldn't even realise if they were making it totally obvious. I just assume it's people being friendly,why on earth would there be any other reason for their attention ect..

Jane x"

I could give you loads Jane but I'm pretty sure I've fabbed most of them already. LOL

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! "
im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess.ive met a few from the forums but as.a % of the amount i meet its about 1% most dont even know the forums exist"

I'd put it somewhat higher for me but then I probably don't meet as many in total as you

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over a year ago


"I'm absolutely useless at it wouldn't even realise if they were making it totally obvious. I just assume it's people being friendly,why on earth would there be any other reason for their attention ect..

Jane x

I could give you loads Jane but I'm pretty sure I've fabbed most of them already. LOL"

Your just too kind x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess.ive met a few from the forums but as.a % of the amount i meet its about 1% most dont even know the forums exist

I'd put it somewhat higher for me but then I probably don't meet as many in total as you"
to be honest ive never actively looked to meet from the forums i have no idea who meets my criteria and i theres.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess.ive met a few from the forums but as.a % of the amount i meet its about 1% most dont even know the forums exist

I'd put it somewhat higher for me but then I probably don't meet as many in total as youto be honest ive never actively looked to meet from the forums i have no idea who meets my criteria and i theres."

Didn't we meet at JD's or something? Some time ago I think.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess.ive met a few from the forums but as.a % of the amount i meet its about 1% most dont even know the forums exist

I'd put it somewhat higher for me but then I probably don't meet as many in total as you"
according to my memory unless ive forgotten anyone ive had six shag meets in nine years from the.forums

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

What signals dam did I miss something

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess.ive met a few from the forums but as.a % of the amount i meet its about 1% most dont even know the forums exist

I'd put it somewhat higher for me but then I probably don't meet as many in total as youto be honest ive never actively looked to meet from the forums i have no idea who meets my criteria and i theres.

Didn't we meet at JD's or something? Some time ago I think."
no ive met loads but not shagged then

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess.ive met a few from the forums but as.a % of the amount i meet its about 1% most dont even know the forums exist

I'd put it somewhat higher for me but then I probably don't meet as many in total as youaccording to my memory unless ive forgotten anyone ive had six shag meets in nine years from the.forums"

I've had 3 shag meets in 2 years ( was on for a year before that but wasn't really active ) directly from forums and 5 meets in total from Forum. Indirectly from being on the forum but not meeting directly from it (so and so introduces you to so and so sort of thing). 2 shag meets. I can't really remember how many other meets I've had but that doesn't mean it's stupidly high amount. LOL

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Seems to me to be getting harder on here.....anyone else finding that?

I wouldn't say harder just sorting the wheat from the chaff I suppose

Very small pool here...and infrequent refreshing.

I agree, getting friends from the forumites is actually quite easy but getting meets is definitely harder than anywhere else on the site but definitely not impossible.

I agree...never had any interest other than fabs or complements from the formites....but then apparently we only represent about 2% of the members. I could never understand the thinking of those who suggested the forums to get meets. Guess it works for a few for those to say that...mostly women I'd guess.ive met a few from the forums but as.a % of the amount i meet its about 1% most dont even know the forums exist

I'd put it somewhat higher for me but then I probably don't meet as many in total as youto be honest ive never actively looked to meet from the forums i have no idea who meets my criteria and i theres.

Didn't we meet at JD's or something? Some time ago I think.

No ive met loads but not shagged then"

I wasn't saying we'd shagged at JDs just that I'm sure we met there some time ago. You look very familiar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time"

You are mistaken.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x"

Would not have a clue. Can't read people at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're talking about the forums then I'm not that good at reading signals unless they're bloody obvious ones, have been messaged more than once to be told that I'm aloof & unapproachable

Aside of the forums & in reality then yes I think I'm a pretty good at reading people.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time

You are mistaken."
oh i apologise. I know it was a regular

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

Historically, I am not that great at reading signals. I am bi-racial, and I grew up in an area where no girl was interested in a guy who was half black. Even though that was decades ago, those years stuck with me.

-JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think im getting better especially on here - or maybe im just getting braver and diving in sooner

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time

You are mistaken."
i was right. 18 weeks ago meets like buses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm absolutely rubbish at reading signs. Mainly because I think people are just being nice to me...and they might be.

What sort of signs shall I be looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time

You are mistaken.i was right. 18 weeks ago meets like buses"

Yes but as my post said earlier- 4 in a year- they were socials.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time

You are mistaken.i was right. 18 weeks ago meets like buses

Yes but as my post said earlier- 4 in a year- they were socials."
thats ok, i was just asking about the threàd i thought you had put up you could of just clarified without telling me i was mistaken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time

You are mistaken.i was right. 18 weeks ago meets like buses

Yes but as my post said earlier- 4 in a year- they were socials."

I would like to Have sex with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time

You are mistaken.i was right. 18 weeks ago meets like buses

Yes but as my post said earlier- 4 in a year- they were socials.

I would like to Have sex with you."

Result!

(But you are gonna leave the guide dog out of the room right? Just to clarify!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time

You are mistaken.i was right. 18 weeks ago meets like buses

Yes but as my post said earlier- 4 in a year- they were socials.

I would like to Have sex with you.

Result!

(But you are gonna leave the guide dog out of the room right? Just to clarify!) "

I'm not a Fucking guide dog!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol!

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I'm clueless.

I have to be clubbed over the head and dragged back to her cave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm clueless.

I have to be clubbed over the head and dragged back to her cave "

I had a game like that on my old zx spectrum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is interested in me lately

Quit moaning woman

Ok I will rephrase- I flirt on the forums and then when it goes to pm- I don't seem to be able to translate it to meets.

Apart from Lee, 4 in a year and 2 of those I knew back in 2012! im sure ive seen you put up a thread about how many meets you had lined up in a short space of time

You are mistaken.i was right. 18 weeks ago meets like buses

Yes but as my post said earlier- 4 in a year- they were socials.

I would like to Have sex with you.

Result!

(But you are gonna leave the guide dog out of the room right? Just to clarify!)

I'm not a Fucking guide dog!!! "

No you aren't your a fucking comedienne!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm clueless.

I have to be clubbed over the head and dragged back to her cave "

Or whipped with a bullwhip as I recall?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's "you're".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's "you're". "

You are correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no good at it, I just assume they're not interested and move on lol

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury


"I'm clueless.

I have to be clubbed over the head and dragged back to her cave

Or whipped with a bullwhip as I recall? "

You must have knocked me out I don't remember the cave bit. Dammit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very good at picking up on signals and body language. I can read it very well. I can tell from the way people write on here, in message and on the forum what kind of person they are.

I can read expressions in the face really well. I've usually got the measure of someone. I remember things people have said too. I'm very good at hiding that I know this though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a general question, forumites.

Are you good at reading signals if someone is interested in you?

Personally, I'm shite and full of self doubt.

Over to you.

BG x"

Im the same, ive often missed signs of someones interest. Not from lack of attention, but more a lack of assumption.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

In person I'm dreadful

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