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so, what is .....regular?.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Ideally, I'd like at least once a week with the occasional extra from two or three regulars.

I can't even manage to find once a week with three or four different people on rotation though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every morning,before I leave for work.

I'm pretty regular like that

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Ideally, I'd like at least once a week with the occasional extra from two or three regulars.

I can't even manage to find once a week with three or four different people on rotation though.

"

so what stops it from happening..is it their idea of what 'regular' is?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I had a FB who was perfect. Once or twice a month, and no questions asked. It gave both of us freedom to meet others.

I think any future FB would have to be similar as my mojo is not what it used to be.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Every morning,before I leave for work.

I'm pretty regular like that "
is that a 'regular' early morning visit you want, or someone there every morning to wake with you?...quite a difference in requirement, if not time between 'needs'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a FB who was perfect. Once or twice a month, and no questions asked. It gave both of us freedom to meet others.

I think any future FB would have to be similar as my mojo is not what it used to be."

I'd say this kind of time of a couple of times a month would be regular to me, I struggle to make / find time for more than that.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Hmmmm I was seeing a girl a few years back that was reg would go round to hers or a club every week or so

For me I go now regularly to a club (every couple of weeks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, regular is at least once a week.

I have that with someone at the moment

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"For me, regular is at least once a week.

I have that with someone at the moment "

Lucky so and som

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My idea of regular would be a regular irregular arrangement, so once / twice month with flirty banter inbetween.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Ideally, I'd like at least once a week with the occasional extra from two or three regulars.

I can't even manage to find once a week with three or four different people on rotation though.

so what stops it from happening..is it their idea of what 'regular' is?"

I'm a fussy bint and not that interesting. Good for a drive-thru fuck but not exciting enough to make the time unless you're in the area.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I'd be happy with once a week off someone good n local

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Once a week/fortnight?

That's the arrangement I have with my Copenhagen FWB and Beckenham FWB. All parties are aware.

Regular could mean every other day if the FWB were much closer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My idea of regular probably isn't the same as everyone else's as it isn't very regular at all. There's often months between seeing my regular guy. That's life for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of regular partners and another long term partner who I haven't seen for a year. Life and work dictates when we can meet. I see one of the regular partners sporadically; it can be one week after the other,once every 2 weeks or we can go a few weeks without meeting. The other I see every few months. I don't think I'd want someone I see weekly or more.

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Equally my Danish colleague's idea of regular is once a quarter

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

the differences are coming out already as to what are 'regular' meets for individuals.

do you think stating this in your preferences, on your profile would help you connect better, with suitable people? give you more of a chance of finding the elusive FB, a lot of people seem to be looking for?

just a thought.....

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

i had the perfect arrangement ........used to meet this girl every two weeks for two years......then she emigrated to Canada.....

We're still the best of friends.......she comes back once a year and we keep in contact by email...

so.....perfection is only temporary x

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

At least once a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the differences are coming out already as to what are 'regular' meets for individuals.

do you think stating this in your preferences, on your profile would help you connect better, with suitable people? give you more of a chance of finding the elusive FB, a lot of people seem to be looking for?

just a thought..... "

I think the biggest mistake is going out and looking for a FB. Some seem to try too hard and you regularly see the problems associated with that on the forum. I treat each meet as a one off. If it's great and we want to we'll meet again and see what happens. I think sometimes there's just too much pressure and people end up trying to make something from nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every morning,before I leave for work.

I'm pretty regular like that is that a 'regular' early morning visit you want, or someone there every morning to wake with you?...quite a difference in requirement, if not time between 'needs' "

Wasn't being entirely serious there...just going through the motions

Seriously though......once a week/fortnight would keep me happy....have a drink n a laugh together,overnight.

Company as well as hot sex and the intimacy of a relationship but without the strings/having to answer to someone other than yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My regularity ha never been tested by anyone on here ..........so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who what where. No point me stating any kind of preference as I don't have them really. I go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too sure actually.

For someone who hardly gets any, even once in a while would be considered regular for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My previous FB i met mon-thurs every second week as she had her child the alternative week. That was perfect.

However i no longer work away from home, so regular for me would be once per week, and if possible once every 2nd weekend.

Something like that.

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

[Removed by poster at 28/05/16 10:18:15]

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

What are you doing right now

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like to meet once or twice a week, two or three times if we co-ordinate

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"the differences are coming out already as to what are 'regular' meets for individuals.

do you think stating this in your preferences, on your profile would help you connect better, with suitable people? give you more of a chance of finding the elusive FB, a lot of people seem to be looking for?

just a thought.....

I think the biggest mistake is going out and looking for a FB. Some seem to try too hard and you regularly see the problems associated with that on the forum. I treat each meet as a one off. If it's great and we want to we'll meet again and see what happens. I think sometimes there's just too much pressure and people end up trying to make something from nothing. "
i appreciate what you are saying, however i also feel that denying what you want inside, often leads to other issues. people are different, they obviously are all here for different things, with the main pivotal point being a decent sex life, for them. some people are alot more emotionally self sufficient than others and everyone deals with the downs of this lifestyle in different ways..that however is a different thread x thank you for sharing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every morning,before I leave for work.

I'm pretty regular like that is that a 'regular' early morning visit you want, or someone there every morning to wake with you?...quite a difference in requirement, if not time between 'needs'

Wasn't being entirely serious there...just going through the motions

Seriously though......once a week/fortnight would keep me happy....have a drink n a laugh together,overnight.

Company as well as hot sex and the intimacy of a relationship but without the strings/having to answer to someone other than yourself."

Should clarify when I say intimacy I mean physical not emotional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ideal regular would be more about time spent than frequency. I'd consider a monthly spending a day and night together more regular than numerous pit-stops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally, I'd like at least once a week with the occasional extra from two or three regulars.

I can't even manage to find once a week with three or four different people on rotation though.

so what stops it from happening..is it their idea of what 'regular' is?

I'm a fussy bint and not that interesting. Good for a drive-thru fuck but not exciting enough to make the time unless you're in the area. "

Wow! Great sales pitch! Have you considered a career in marketing lovely?

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"What are you doing right now "
hehe..trying to point out that terminology is perceived differently by individuals and with the ole premise of communication, people can be more aware of themselves and actually ask for what they want, because so often in this world, if you dont know and dont ask, you dont get..

i am nurturing communication ( then im going out to be kitty )

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"the differences are coming out already as to what are 'regular' meets for individuals.

do you think stating this in your preferences, on your profile would help you connect better, with suitable people? give you more of a chance of finding the elusive FB, a lot of people seem to be looking for?

just a thought.....

I think the biggest mistake is going out and looking for a FB. Some seem to try too hard and you regularly see the problems associated with that on the forum. I treat each meet as a one off. If it's great and we want to we'll meet again and see what happens. I think sometimes there's just too much pressure and people end up trying to make something from nothing. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like a regular man, and an occasionaly regular woman. Who understands my "needs".

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Ideally, I'd like at least once a week with the occasional extra from two or three regulars.

I can't even manage to find once a week with three or four different people on rotation though.

so what stops it from happening..is it their idea of what 'regular' is?

I'm a fussy bint and not that interesting. Good for a drive-thru fuck but not exciting enough to make the time unless you're in the area.

Wow! Great sales pitch! Have you considered a career in marketing lovely? "

WYSIWYG I wouldn't want to be done under the Trades Description Act.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Regular for me is having a group of guys who are constants in my life some i might see once every six months some some once a month. I wouldnt want to see the same guy more than once a month.

I did have one i saw every monday for years until he moved away but i wouldnt do that again. Then the odd newbie in the mix who may or may not become a constant.

I did a proper stock check of the guys i know the other week

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever


"What are you doing right now hehe..trying to point out that terminology is perceived differently by individuals and with the ole premise of communication, people can be more aware of themselves and actually ask for what they want, because so often in this world, if you dont know and dont ask, you dont get..

i am nurturing communication ( then im going out to be kitty )"
i'm guessing fwb? So ideally what "I'd" like would be a weekend fling,

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"My ideal regular would be more about time spent than frequency. I'd consider a monthly spending a day and night together more regular than numerous pit-stops."

That sounds good. Quality over quantity.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"What are you doing right now hehe..trying to point out that terminology is perceived differently by individuals and with the ole premise of communication, people can be more aware of themselves and actually ask for what they want, because so often in this world, if you dont know and dont ask, you dont get..

i am nurturing communication ( then im going out to be kitty ) i'm guessing fwb? So ideally what "I'd" like would be a weekend fling, "
well see. first time out in public with him..always a mile stone x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Ideally, I'd like at least once a week with the occasional extra from two or three regulars.

I can't even manage to find once a week with three or four different people on rotation though.

"
sounds like you have blokes hanging on a whirly line

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow


"

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious... "

had the perfect arrangement ........used to meet this girl every two weeks for two years......then she emigrated to Canada.....

We're still the best of friends.......she comes back once a year and we keep in contact by email...

so.....perfection is only temporary x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a freak in the morning, a freak in the evening, just like that.

Hi Suzy and everyone..

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious...

had the perfect arrangement ........used to meet this girl every two weeks for two years......then she emigrated to Canada.....

We're still the best of friends.......she comes back once a year and we keep in contact by email...

so.....perfection is only temporary x"
so the ideal is another one..every two weeks?

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I need a freak in the morning, a freak in the evening, just like that.

Hi Suzy and everyone.."

chuckles hiya..are you in your 'destination' yet? x

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever


"What are you doing right now hehe..trying to point out that terminology is perceived differently by individuals and with the ole premise of communication, people can be more aware of themselves and actually ask for what they want, because so often in this world, if you dont know and dont ask, you dont get..

i am nurturing communication ( then im going out to be kitty ) i'm guessing fwb? So ideally what "I'd" like would be a weekend fling, well see. first time out in public with him..always a mile stone x"
to show their true face , walk the talk, but back to your thread, quality has a quanity all its own

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"the differences are coming out already as to what are 'regular' meets for individuals.

do you think stating this in your preferences, on your profile would help you connect better, with suitable people? give you more of a chance of finding the elusive FB, a lot of people seem to be looking for?

just a thought.....

I think the biggest mistake is going out and looking for a FB. Some seem to try too hard and you regularly see the problems associated with that on the forum. I treat each meet as a one off. If it's great and we want to we'll meet again and see what happens. I think sometimes there's just too much pressure and people end up trying to make something from nothing. "
abaolutly ive never gone out looking for a regular guy, there guys ive picked up over the years because weve got on and carried on seeing each other. I also dont like the word fb its like having a fb is some kind of status symbol

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm hoping to find a wife

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow


"

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious...

had the perfect arrangement ........used to meet this girl every two weeks for two years......then she emigrated to Canada.....

We're still the best of friends.......she comes back once a year and we keep in contact by email...

so.....perfection is only temporary xso the ideal is another one..every two weeks?"

if it's too often with the the one person it loses something......you have to have that anticipation.

xx

what"s ideal for you ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What are you doing right now hehe..trying to point out that terminology is perceived differently by individuals and with the ole premise of communication, people can be more aware of themselves and actually ask for what they want, because so often in this world, if you dont know and dont ask, you dont get..

i am nurturing communication ( then im going out to be kitty ) i'm guessing fwb? So ideally what "I'd" like would be a weekend fling, well see. first time out in public with him..always a mile stone x"
i dont understand that bit?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious... "

Sheldon is pretty regular from what I hear. I'll check his schedule for when he is next due to pay a visit.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"the differences are coming out already as to what are 'regular' meets for individuals.

do you think stating this in your preferences, on your profile would help you connect better, with suitable people? give you more of a chance of finding the elusive FB, a lot of people seem to be looking for?

just a thought.....

I think the biggest mistake is going out and looking for a FB. Some seem to try too hard and you regularly see the problems associated with that on the forum. I treat each meet as a one off. If it's great and we want to we'll meet again and see what happens. I think sometimes there's just too much pressure and people end up trying to make something from nothing. abaolutly ive never gone out looking for a regular guy, there guys ive picked up over the years because weve got on and carried on seeing each other. I also dont like the word fb its like having a fb is some kind of status symbol"
glad im not the only one who hates that term, whats wrong with the word 'lover'? is it a defence thing cos you cant use the word love in something, without people thinking you are after something else ? i feel a lot of that goes on here...labels to try to separate and compartmentalize things. i would say i have lovers..if anyone called me a FB they wouldnt be with me very long..i dont feel its a status symbol in a positive way, more like saying i have this 'dog'..but thats me...i appreciate im weird

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"the differences are coming out already as to what are 'regular' meets for individuals.

do you think stating this in your preferences, on your profile would help you connect better, with suitable people? give you more of a chance of finding the elusive FB, a lot of people seem to be looking for?

just a thought.....

I think the biggest mistake is going out and looking for a FB. Some seem to try too hard and you regularly see the problems associated with that on the forum. I treat each meet as a one off. If it's great and we want to we'll meet again and see what happens. I think sometimes there's just too much pressure and people end up trying to make something from nothing. "

My FB happened by accident. We met on AFF, and the first meet, although good, wasn't something I thought would be repeated. he got back in touch, I was available, so I went back. Over the years we developed as friends and lovers, and the arrangement worked well for us both. So a FB can develop from very inauspicious first meets.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Yeah I had some one like that who I used to play with over the years

She is getting married now and become nilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular for me is having a group of guys who are constants in my life some i might see once every six months some some once a month. I wouldnt want to see the same guy more than once a month.

I did have one i saw every monday for years until he moved away but i wouldnt do that again. Then the odd newbie in the mix who may or may not become a constant.

I did a proper stock check of the guys i know the other week "

This is me. Two guys I meet every few months due to circumstances and location - I know that when they're home and free I'm their first port of call. Two others I meet every month, again due to geography.

I've never actively sought a FWB, and don't consider my regular meets as such (even though all but one don't meet anyone other than me)

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious... "

For me once every blue moon would be great - anyone know when the first blue moon is due?

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

I'm older than dirt, i need the friends part, had the one night stands got my rocks off, alls good, but now i need the conversation that goes with sex , the laughs that you get from knowing one another , the teasing , playing,

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'm older than dirt, i need the friends part, had the one night stands got my rocks off, alls good, but now i need the conversation that goes with sex , the laughs that you get from knowing one another , the teasing , playing, "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious...

For me once every blue moon would be great - anyone know when the first blue moon is due?"

You missed one last weekend.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Yeah I had some one like that who I used to play with over the years

She is getting married now and become nilla

"

i cant imagine 'going back' 'nilla..but then i never have been really, even exclusive LTR's were not 'nilla ..maybe hers isnt either..who knows...

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious...

For me once every blue moon would be great - anyone know when the first blue moon is due?

You missed one last weekend."
awww thats just teasing the poor guy..go out and paint the moon blue flirty x

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Regular for me is having a group of guys who are constants in my life some i might see once every six months some some once a month. I wouldnt want to see the same guy more than once a month.

I did have one i saw every monday for years until he moved away but i wouldnt do that again. Then the odd newbie in the mix who may or may not become a constant.

I did a proper stock check of the guys i know the other week

This is me. Two guys I meet every few months due to circumstances and location - I know that when they're home and free I'm their first port of call. Two others I meet every month, again due to geography.

I've never actively sought a FWB, and don't consider my regular meets as such (even though all but one don't meet anyone other than me) "

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"the differences are coming out already as to what are 'regular' meets for individuals.

do you think stating this in your preferences, on your profile would help you connect better, with suitable people? give you more of a chance of finding the elusive FB, a lot of people seem to be looking for?

just a thought.....

I think the biggest mistake is going out and looking for a FB. Some seem to try too hard and you regularly see the problems associated with that on the forum. I treat each meet as a one off. If it's great and we want to we'll meet again and see what happens. I think sometimes there's just too much pressure and people end up trying to make something from nothing.

My FB happened by accident. We met on AFF, and the first meet, although good, wasn't something I thought would be repeated. he got back in touch, I was available, so I went back. Over the years we developed as friends and lovers, and the arrangement worked well for us both. So a FB can develop from very inauspicious first meets."
nice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There also comes problems with having a few regular partners. At one time I had 5 and occasionally some or all of them wanted to see me on the same day.

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow


"

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious... "

Suzy.....you enjoy your weekend.....it"s nice to see you on here xx

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"

lot of talk about one offs and regular meets, and how a lot seem to be wanting 'regular' partners...

but isnt that subjective down to numerous factors???

so, in the interests of finding an ideal regular partner, that happens to believe your kind of regular, is their kind of heaven..

post below, what you would ideally like...

im curious...

For me once every blue moon would be great - anyone know when the first blue moon is due?

You missed one last weekend.awww thats just teasing the poor guy..go out and paint the moon blue flirty x"

Getting step ladders, paint brush and paint right now - think I'll opt for Azure blue unless anyone has another shade of blue they'd like to see in the night sky - Dulux colour chart available on request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the differences are coming out already as to what are 'regular' meets for individuals.

do you think stating this in your preferences, on your profile would help you connect better, with suitable people? give you more of a chance of finding the elusive FB, a lot of people seem to be looking for?

just a thought.....

I think the biggest mistake is going out and looking for a FB. Some seem to try too hard and you regularly see the problems associated with that on the forum. I treat each meet as a one off. If it's great and we want to we'll meet again and see what happens. I think sometimes there's just too much pressure and people end up trying to make something from nothing.

My FB happened by accident. We met on AFF, and the first meet, although good, wasn't something I thought would be repeated. he got back in touch, I was available, so I went back. Over the years we developed as friends and lovers, and the arrangement worked well for us both. So a FB can develop from very inauspicious first meets."

That's what happened with my regular partners. I didn't meet them thinking anything more would come of it,in fact the one I have been seeing the longest and most often I didn't expect to see every again.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"There also comes problems with having a few regular partners. At one time I had 5 and occasionally some or all of them wanted to see me on the same day. "
ive had this on more than one occasion where ive had two regular lovers see me out, at a club..so i know what you mean xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to enter into some kind of contract where we both agree to be totally exclusive to each other during our time of shagging, I need this because I like to have sex without a condom and once we've both been given the all clear don't want to risk either of us getting anything by having sexual activity with other people. Now my idea of regular would be every Friday and Saturday night. Some nights can be missed if either of us have other plans.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"There also comes problems with having a few regular partners. At one time I had 5 and occasionally some or all of them wanted to see me on the same day. "
i dont have that problem, first come first served.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Regular? Someone who you can have fun with more than occasionally and look forward expectantly to the next time.

Occasional? Just get yer rocks off, it doesn't natter if you see them again does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need a freak in the morning, a freak in the evening, just like that.

Hi Suzy and everyone..

chuckles hiya..are you in your 'destination' yet? x"

Nearly darling..hope you had a good stomp on the dance floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm older than dirt, i need the friends part, had the one night stands got my rocks off, alls good, but now i need the conversation that goes with sex , the laughs that you get from knowing one another , the teasing , playing, "

Church..

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"My idea of regular probably isn't the same as everyone else's as it isn't very regular at all. There's often months between seeing my regular guy. That's life for you. "

Your idea is the same as mine. I have the regular squeeze who I see when I can around both our jobs and then a few regular FWBs I see as and when. I've also introduced some of them to each other where I knew they'd get on so sometimes they'll meet up as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at least once a week is regular for me but hardly achievable given most tgirl admirers are married men lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who are looking for a regular thing make me run for the hills...

I'm not even slightly interested in agreeing to any sort of commitment just to suit someone else's agenda .....

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

See ya'll later been up 24+ hours

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Guys who are looking for a regular thing make me run for the hills...

I'm not even slightly interested in agreeing to any sort of commitment just to suit someone else's agenda ..... "
you could say however, that, that is your agenda... both are cool x

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"See ya'll later been up 24+ hours "
sweet dreams x

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I need a freak in the morning, a freak in the evening, just like that.

Hi Suzy and everyone..

chuckles hiya..are you in your 'destination' yet? x

Nearly darling..hope you had a good stomp on the dance floor "
lolol..i dont go to that kind of club the boys show off their underpants above their trousers and they are so young..im afraid for their safety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least once a year"

Hehe....made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need a freak in the morning, a freak in the evening, just like that.

Hi Suzy and everyone..

chuckles hiya..are you in your 'destination' yet? x

Nearly darling..hope you had a good stomp on the dance floor lolol..i dont go to that kind of club the boys show off their underpants above their trousers and they are so young..im afraid for their safety "

I know

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"See ya'll later been up 24+ hours "

Laters Bill ya dirty Texan stop up

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Anything from once a week to once a month. With someone local would be idea for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice daily please

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

At least once a week

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

7 days a week please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a cheeky horny guy lol Reg deffo a winner in my books. 3times a week be great, but being realistic get to meet her jst once a week

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Anything more than once every couple of weeks or so then it gets too close for me. I am on here for NSA, not a pseudo-relationship because I already have a relationship, so don't need that. I have had guys bugging me, when I say I don't meet anyone more than once a fortnight, on the hour to the hour from the time of our last meet. For me, meeting scratches an itch and I don't want it to intrude in my real life ..... and anything more would do. Saying that, when I met the right person on here, it did develop into a relationship, but, that was never planned or intended by either of us. I don't think anyone should go into this with a straight jacket approach to meeting on time .... because everyone has a life outside of fabs that surely comes first.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I see my regulars maybe one a month, sometimes more.

Getting to the point where a partner who is cool with me still seeing some of them would be nice. But I'm quite niche in all aspects of my life, looking unlikely

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"There also comes problems with having a few regular partners. At one time I had 5 and occasionally some or all of them wanted to see me on the same day. "

Squelchy...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm older than dirt, i need the friends part, had the one night stands got my rocks off, alls good, but now i need the conversation that goes with sex , the laughs that you get from knowing one another , the teasing , playing, "

This is where I am currently. I'm seeing a vanilla guy, who knows nothing of my past exploits. I do feel a bit guilty not telling him, but it's all going well, really enjoying the intimacy. Don't want to ruin it, with tales of gang bangs etc.

But........In 6 months time? Will I be missing the wild parties???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice a week xx

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Once a week I recon..

Tho twice a month is still regular.

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Met my fb either once a week/fortnight till she met someone permantly. That suited us

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