FabSwingers.com forum: People blocking then making up lies on a status

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All because you met them once and didn't want to see them again. People understand the lifestyle, so why not understand that some guys only want a one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block 'em back and move on.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Life's to short, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulate yourself on making the good decision not to meet them again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Block 'em back and move on.

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its hard when they somehow get your Facebook , message you threatening, accuse you of stalking, just because you didn't fall in love with them. I would report to police but she has kids so I don't want to bring misery on them. I pity her in a way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Report to fab and to Facebook at least and keep all evidence in case you do need to escalate to the police, then block on all social media.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block 'em back and move on.

its hard when they somehow get your Facebook , message you threatening, accuse you of stalking, just because you didn't fall in love with them. I would report to police but she has kids so I don't want to bring misery on them. I pity her in a way."

Live and learn, don't be so free with your personal details next time. Ignore her, stalkers feed on the response, but keep a record of everything in case you do have to take it further.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Report to fab and to Facebook at least and keep all evidence in case you do need to escalate to the police, then block on all social media."
I've blocked on Fab and Facebook. Blocked their number but now as she can't contact me she's posting crap on Fab. I'm not getting police involved as she has kids.

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By *uicyJay1Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Wish I were getting stalked by a sexy lady.. Kind off ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Report to fab and to Facebook at least and keep all evidence in case you do need to escalate to the police, then block on all social media. I've blocked on Fab and Facebook. Blocked their number but now as she can't contact me she's posting crap on Fab. I'm not getting police involved as she has kids. "

Just report to fab

It doesn't matter if she has kids or not just report her to the police her behaviour is unacceptable

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Ok, your call but it's not one call from you and straight to prison.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wish I were getting stalked by a sexy lady.. Kind off ha

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mate she's a really hot girl with a great body but believe me u don't want to be stalked haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wish I were getting stalked by a sexy lady.. Kind off ha

You really don't, stalking has nothing remotely amusing or desirable about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only hear one side of the story though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wish I were getting stalked by a sexy lady.. Kind off ha

mate she's a really hot girl with a great body but believe me u don't want to be stalked haha"

You know if she reads the forums you're giving her the attention she craves.

Also we don't know her side of this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

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no I met her once. Messaged her that day. Met her then said I didn't want to meet again.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

why give out all those details if you only wanted a one off, or, did you change your mind after the meet?

either way thats not the kind of details you give out if meeting for a one off meet..so i would suggest a review of what messages you are giving out..

takes two to tango, negotiate etc etc..

sounds like she would never have agreed to a one off meet in the first place, you have to take some responsibility for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why give out all those details if you only wanted a one off, or, did you change your mind after the meet?

either way thats not the kind of details you give out if meeting for a one off meet..so i would suggest a review of what messages you are giving out..

takes two to tango, negotiate etc etc..

sounds like she would never have agreed to a one off meet in the first place, you have to take some responsibility for that."
I told her my name, she found me on Facebook. Damien isn't a common name in my area. She agreed to a one off. I'm attentive in bed and tactile, that's how I am. I'm not sure what I could do differently. That's why I'm here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex? "
Exactly this. You hit the nail on head. Its a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex? "

We don't know the other persons side of the story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex?

We don't know the other persons side of the story. "
That's true but I'm also not naming them, bringing their name through the mud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex?

We don't know the other persons side of the story. "

I really can't see a scenario that justifies stalking or posting abusive messages, can you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex?

We don't know the other persons side of the story.

I really can't see a scenario that justifies stalking or posting abusive messages, can you?

No but I'm saying it's all hearsay. We don't know it's true. Do we?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex? Exactly this. You hit the nail on head. Its a sex site"

That's how you view it but not everyone does.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex?

We don't know the other persons side of the story. That's true but I'm also not naming them, bringing their name through the mud"

No you aren't but she will be able to read this and you might be exacerbating the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex?

We don't know the other persons side of the story.

I really can't see a scenario that justifies stalking or posting abusive messages, can you?

No but I'm saying it's all hearsay. We don't know it's true. Do we? "

No we don't, nor do we know it's a lie. The OP may be making the whole thing up, that doesn't change the fact that stalking is never ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All because you met them once and didn't want to see them again. People understand the lifestyle, so why not understand that some guys only want a one off"

Why create a drama by making a thread about it ?

Wouldn't it have been easier just to ignore and let it slide into oblivion instead of stoking it up even more ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a fine balance as to how much of your personal details and life you disclose. ...too little and you are accused of hiding something or too much and someone may end up doing something silly against you ....I tend to keep to the too little camp ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did u meet her offv the dating thread lol ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why give out all those details if you only wanted a one off, or, did you change your mind after the meet?

either way thats not the kind of details you give out if meeting for a one off meet..so i would suggest a review of what messages you are giving out..

takes two to tango, negotiate etc etc..

sounds like she would never have agreed to a one off meet in the first place, you have to take some responsibility for that. I told her my name, she found me on Facebook. Damien isn't a common name in my area. She agreed to a one off. I'm attentive in bed and tactile, that's how I am. I'm not sure what I could do differently. That's why I'm here."

We all know your name now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say she blocked you and then put lies on her status?

The only way you could view her profile after she'd blocked you was to create a new profile to view her profile to read her status. Isn't that a bit stalkerish or have I got something wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've blocked her how do you know she's posting crap about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex?

We don't know the other persons side of the story.

I really can't see a scenario that justifies stalking or posting abusive messages, can you?

No but I'm saying it's all hearsay. We don't know it's true. Do we?

No we don't, nor do we know it's a lie. The OP may be making the whole thing up, that doesn't change the fact that stalking is never ok."

I'm not condoning stalking - there are new laws about it. This whole thread seems a little suspect to me but that's my personal opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your privacy settings on Facebook so people who aren't friends can't post, message or see your full profile.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"why give out all those details if you only wanted a one off, or, did you change your mind after the meet?

either way thats not the kind of details you give out if meeting for a one off meet..so i would suggest a review of what messages you are giving out..

takes two to tango, negotiate etc etc..

We all know your name now "

Its on his profile.

OP, just block, ignore, and move on. If she starts up new profiles to get round the block, report to admin. Don't give people attention that they crave and they soon become bored.

If she doesn't become bored, report to the police and they go round and warn her.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Report and block

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"But on the flip side did you lead her on? Did she expect it to be more than a one off because of what you said? There is always two sides to a story and then there is also the truth

People are allowed to change their minds, no?

And as for anyone meeting people from a sex site then complaining about being "used" for sex? Exactly this. You hit the nail on head. Its a sex site"
with your lack of profile picture, i would guess thats what you use it for..however thats not everyones view of the site and as for being tactile etc etc in bed and thats how you are..this is obviously how she is....something doesnt ring true here, and talking about it in public, doesnt really add to your cause..just saying

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