FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing and cuddles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't really kiss on meets and cuddles is a no no for me. How do others feel about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends if ive known them for quite a while and met a few times i dont do kissing apart from with john but dont mind a cuddle now and then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing!! dont think id like cuddles though, think thats too personal and intimate.

Kissing can be passionate, teasing, tempting, slightly aggressive and just a massive turn on.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

both essential activities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love doing both makes the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having only ever met once, based upon an email thread centering around

wanting to snog her face off, I would say I'm for it. That said I hardly ever kissed my ex wife.. how odd.. Hang on, no its not, it was more like she harldy ever kissed me.. bitch..

I'm not bitter.. and she was a prude.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I love kissing!!

Kissing can be passionate, teasing, tempting, slightly aggressive and just a massive turn on."

also very sensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love kisses and cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love kisses and cuddles

Yeah me too,is a must.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kisses and cuddles. Even when sleeping beside just friends we all cuddle up. xxx

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

love both,kissing is such a turn on

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By *ayc_BigballsMan
over a year ago

Derby

yes Yes & YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tell them to kiss me where it counts

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

kissing is part of the foreplay when we meet a couple for us and part of the build up to sexy fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both xx

We've had a lovely cuddle ain't we Soaps?

....that's all you are getting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A must, without it's just to clinical

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"A must, without it's just to clinical"

well ive had few meets with the no kissing rule but some do some dont but me its kissing all the way

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Both xx

Oh and you are so good at both babes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes both are needed and part of the fun xxx

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I love a good snog, and a hug after the Action has finished, gives me chance to get my breath back! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree need both adds to build up

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

If I cannot hug and cuddle a man I like enough to have sex with I would not want to bother in the first place.

Kissing is a huge turn-on when done properly and I would not like to meet people whose rules forbid it.

Soooo . . . yes please to both.

Jane x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I accomodate in my home..

they go in one room, me the other one and we have cam sex..

I ain't touching them, let alone fecking kiss them

I don't get many meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I bet you get the odd one _iew? Lol

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester

love them both, but will accept not all do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, kissing definitely. But I think cuddling is something I'd only do with someone I was going out with.

I know that might seem backwards to some, but kissing can be lusty but cuddling to me is more a more of a lovey thing to do.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I bet you get the odd one _iew? Lol"

aye, they dinna come much odder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhh gotta have a good snog and cuddle.ummmm

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

yeah i like kisses and cuddles. its warmer. i think without them the meet would be more mechanic, like your treating someone like meat. but plenty of people dont like to kiss with meets. so each to there own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love them! there's too many things we limit in life...let's not limit the things that make us feel good without any bad side effects!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love kissing!! dont think id like cuddles though, think thats too personal and intimate.

Kissing can be passionate, teasing, tempting, slightly aggressive and just a massive turn on."

I second that

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

both

also if your nervous a cuddle helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really kiss on meets and cuddles is a no no for me. How do others feel about it?"

i love a kiss and a cuddle i think its nice

I couldnt kiss and cuddle anyone tho so i have to really like a meet to have sex with them as if i just saw it as sex i couldnt kiss them so there has to be a real attraction for me

im quite a sexsual lover and i think some people read wrong into that, a lot of people are scared to shiow any affection during sex on meets as they are scared it will be taken the wrong way

but yeah kisses and cuddles are good for me and no i dont want a relationship with you lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

no kiss no meet here,i love kissing,find it an important part of foreplay/

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Nah.. Just the sex for us.. Butt plugs optional

But then as the great lil man said... " the world don't move to the beat of just one drum..."

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

love to kiss and cuddle, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"love to kiss and cuddle, xxx"

i go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the cuddles and the kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and ...........

I dont think i would like to meet a guy who didnt ...They would feel very....oh i diunno...strange.

I like a guy who is ok with all forms of contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite must for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some peeps are just cuddly to me, others just a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love tactile men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and couldn't imagine having sex with someone who didn't want to kiss. Just wouldn't work for me at all. As a few others have said, it would feel too mechanical.

And cuddles are lovely too, not essential, but a lovely bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really kiss on meets and cuddles is a no no for me. How do others feel about it?"

'pretty woman syndrome'

I go with the flow, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles are a no no on meets.. I never used to kiss on meets. still have no place for it during full sex, a little kissing for foreplay but certainly don't need it.

SOmetimes prefer in, instant play, cum and go. BUt on occasion I will be more intimate. I wouldn't class Is as essential.

Katie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when you have a social meet first and kiss someone you can get a bit of an idea if there's a connection,for me even no strings there has to be a connection and passion otherwise I just feel disappointed the morning after.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I love kissing and couldn't imagine having sex with someone who didn't want to kiss. Just wouldn't work for me at all. As a few others have said, it would feel too mechanical.

And cuddles are lovely too, not essential, but a lovely bonus.

Its great when it happens on a meet but with the fem of a cpl and when your told your great kisser but then the next message i wanted to continue the alarm bells start to ring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really kiss on meets and cuddles is a no no for me. How do others feel about it?"

I have to kiss as it makes me so hot under the collar but cuddles im not fussed about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love love kissing and cuddles ooooooooo and French kissing is the best thing ever hours of it ...... wowwwwwwwwwwwwwww it just turn me on BIG TIME X

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"I love kissing and couldn't imagine having sex with someone who didn't want to kiss. Just wouldn't work for me at all"

nods in agreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite yes to both. Kissing is a major turn on for me, and the best way to start, kisses on my neck make my legs go to jelly.

And cuddles after, when your still shaking with pleasure, are like the icing on the cake.

Sex without kisses and cuddles is like jelly without icecream!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very selective with both, only really like it with guys i like a lot and want to meet regularly!

(janelle im back!! yipee)xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and cuddling - my own guy.

on meets I am not fussed. I will kiss a guy but they always instigate it. I dont encourage long drawn out snogging sessions with a stranger, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

My guy will kiss too, but again it doesnt tend to be a long drawn out kiss.

We dont really cuddle other people afterwards. We will hug them to say thank you and give them a kiss, but I wouldnt be happy if after a sex session, my guy was sitting with the other woman cuddling her, and I would feel uncomfortable cuddling another man. Im not here to find intimacy with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I know people are gonna say, well you cant get more intimate than penetrative sex, but its entirely different to me.

I equate kissing and cuddling with lovers, and none of my playmates are my lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't meet a couple who didn't kiss and cuddle. We'd feel there was something wrong with us, that they didn't find us attractive enough, and if we felt like that, how could we get ourselves up for it?

We had a short notice social meet with a couple who came down to Cornwall on holiday. They only wanted a "soft" meet, but also specified no kissing either. When we asked, "well, what can we do then?" They said "loads".

Now I've got a pretty vivid imagination, but I was "well fucked", so perhaps that's what they meant, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing to me is a big part of the foreplay and i dont think i would like it if it was banned by who ever i was with

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

From a personal point of _iew, I have to laugh when people say I can fuck their wife, go down on her and play to my hearts content, but "you can't kiss her!" Now we have couples that won't cuddle cos it is too intimate??

Both of us love a snog and we love a cuddle too. Sometimes after the play has finished, we laze about and chat but without rushing back to our partners and really enjoy the intimacy. Have to wonder if there is jealousy when confronted by couples that won't even cuddle! Loved Jack's account of the soft swap, no snogging couple! Evening would be over before it started...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a tactile guy so both are a big yes for me in a one on one situation. I am however less so when meeting a couple, i would hate to disrespect someones husband and prolonged cuddling and kissing can.......well lets just say maybe somethings are best kept for just your partner especially if they are in the room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and cuddling even with one-offs but only if they want to. Most men I have played with (full sex) I have kissed as I need that to get me going lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love kissing and cuddling - my own guy.

on meets I am not fussed. I will kiss a guy but they always instigate it. I dont encourage long drawn out snogging sessions with a stranger, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

My guy will kiss too, but again it doesnt tend to be a long drawn out kiss.

You sound very much like me.. I wouldnt do seperate room swaps either ( actually only time we talk to couples is when I am looking to be the extra girl as dont want to "swap" as it were)

Cuddles definately would not be something we would do.. and cuddling up in bed with another man after sex just would be wrong on a million levels. Afterwards, I do sometimes lay there and maybe still be in contact with my regular guys... but its not cuddled up...

I prefer to be the one that starts the kissing.. I also will avoid them when I dont want them.. and get the kisses on my neck etc..

I couldnt imagine kissing a meet during full sex, but the I also dont often end up in a position that is possible.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really kiss on meets and cuddles is a no no for me. How do others feel about it?"
girl on girl is ok but you have to make it clear to others.xx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Kissing is essential for me. If people didn't kiss on meets then I wouldn't meet them. I like cuddles too but they're not essential. I sometimes like sleepovers but I don't want to fall asleep in someone's arms with their head in my chest. I don't mind spooning for a bit but then bog off back to your own side, I want to sleep face down whilst sucking my finger!

I probably want a lot from my meets. I don't want a relationship but I want some form of friendship with the people I fuck. I want laughter and filth and nonsense. I want someone who gets me and who'll fuck me how I want to be fucked as well as how they like to fuck. I want someone to experiment with me and I want to have fun with it. I like to be social with my meets and I'm not a fuck and fuck off sort. Don't get me wrong... there are times a quickie is brilliant but I want the choice. I don't like clinical sex and sex with no kissing for me is just not doable. I'd rather stay home and have a wank!

Sorry... I sort of waffled. What was the question again?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is essential for me. If people didn't kiss on meets then I wouldn't meet them. I like cuddles too but they're not essential. I sometimes like sleepovers but I don't want to fall asleep in someone's arms with their head in my chest. I don't mind spooning for a bit but then bog off back to your own side, I want to sleep face down whilst sucking my finger!

Sorry... I sort of waffled. What was the question again?!

I could not agree with you more. Well said.

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By *wingersrus465Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I love kissing so much, it's all part of the experience for me, a complete turn-on

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