FabSwingers.com forum: What does a wink actually mean!

By *unSeekingLincolnshire OP Man
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa

i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink

how are you & shes deleted the msg!

what does a wink mean in ur eyes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a good way of initiating contact. Let's you check them out too without having to bother with awkward first messages, be nice if it had an add feature something like opening your friends only pics to that person for 24 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't complain about it in your status, it makes you look a bit angry/desperate.

She may have winked accidentally? Or changed her mind? Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a wink is showing a interested... bit of a ice breaker etc for the first message and then go from there x

Mrs p x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink

how are you & shes deleted the msg!

what does a wink mean in ur eyes? "

Did you attach a face pic to that message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be honest - I never know what to do about a wink either. Wink back? Send a message? But why didn't they just send a message in the first place? Are they sort of kinda interested but not enough to actually say anything? Are they waiting for me to respond, or just firing off winks because they like to? Am I over-thinking it all?

Yeah. Probably that last one... Then I end up doing nothing about it at all.

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By *unSeekingLincolnshire OP Man
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa

exactly how i fort. shows interest & less awkward then sending a message! suppose u get those who change there minds alot

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By *unSeekingLincolnshire OP Man
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa

"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink

how are you & shes deleted the msg!

what does a wink mean in ur eyes?

Did you attach a face pic to that message? "

yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.

so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx

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By *unSeekingLincolnshire OP Man
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa

as i see from alot of ppls profiles winks mean nothing :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people think winking is lazy. As a guy I think it's a good way of gauging interest without filling up someone's mailbox. I love a good wink

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

She may have winked accidentally? Or changed her mind? Who knows?"

I have a habit of winking / sending friends requests by mistake when using the tablet.

It's really easy to hit it by mistake when just generally nosing. It really should ask you to confirm before just sending.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

" i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.

so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx"

They can be,but if you're winking someone that you think generally gets a fair amount of mesages your wink will get totally ignored. If you really like the look of them I would message if I was you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may have winked accidentally? Or changed her mind? Who knows?

I have a habit of winking / sending friends requests by mistake when using the tablet.

It's really easy to hit it by mistake when just generally nosing. It really should ask you to confirm before just sending.

It does on the mobile site, I presume that's the full site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got to be honest - I never know what to do about a wink either. Wink back? Send a message? But why didn't they just send a message in the first place? Are they sort of kinda interested but not enough to actually say anything? Are they waiting for me to respond, or just firing off winks because they like to? Am I over-thinking it all?

Yeah. Probably that last one... Then I end up doing nothing about it at all.

I'm exactly the same. I don't really know the point of winks. If you want me to know you're interested, just message me and send a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink

how are you & shes deleted the msg!

what does a wink mean in ur eyes?

Did you attach a face pic to that message?

yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)"

Well there you go, I'd say she saw your pic and decided you weren't her type. It happens. Move onto the next one.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

makes me laugh when people wink but have their profile hidden or nothing on it see

I tend to ignore them

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By *unSeekingLincolnshire OP Man
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa

"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink

how are you & shes deleted the msg!

what does a wink mean in ur eyes?

Did you attach a face pic to that message?

yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)

Well there you go, I'd say she saw your pic and decided you weren't her type. It happens. Move onto the next one."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you add a face picture with your message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got cum in my eye"

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By *xxxMan
over a year ago

Bedfordshire & Chester

I don't get offended if someone winks and then doesn't reply to a message as there are a while host of reasons why that is. Some mentioned already like accidental winking or change of mood/mind, if its s couple one might have been interested but the other half not or you might have changed your profile in some way like added an interest or pic. Attaching a pic to the message which could also have put them off.

All of which are valid reasons for not replying to a message.

I'll usually only wink first if I read in their profile that they use or are receptive of winks otherwise is a message. I wouldn't worry though as at least people are reacting positively to your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink

how are you & shes deleted the msg!

what does a wink mean in ur eyes?

Did you attach a face pic to that message?

yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)"

Just seen this. Well shes not interested simple

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Malmesbury

Yeah. Probably that last one... Then I end up doing nothing about it at all.

I'm exactly the same. I don't really know the point of winks. If you want me to know you're interested, just message me and send a face pic

For me, a wink is like being in a pub, seeing someone I fancy from a distance, catching their eye and giving them a sign that I'm interested in them - if the response is favourable, then I'll go over and chat.

I wink sometimes as I get a bit weary of sending messages that recieve no answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally wink at hotties after I've looked at an fabbed their pictures.

The winks I receive are about %90 from Gay men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have sent her a cock pic mate.

That's what they want with a wink

Works every time for me

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

" i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.

so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx

They can be,but if you're winking someone that you think generally gets a fair amount of mesages your wink will get totally ignored. If you really like the look of them I would message if I was you"

thanks for the advice......you enjoy your weekend.....maybe i'll message the odd one that stands out......xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Probably that last one... Then I end up doing nothing about it at all.

I'm exactly the same. I don't really know the point of winks. If you want me to know you're interested, just message me and send a face pic

I wink sometimes as I get a bit weary of sending messages that recieve no answer."

I was just going to say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wink = block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.

so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx

They can be,but if you're winking someone that you think generally gets a fair amount of mesages your wink will get totally ignored. If you really like the look of them I would message if I was you"

Shows how different fab opinions can be. We'd rather receive a wink, and we never ignore them, than sift through a hundred messages all of the same ilk.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

" i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.

so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx

They can be,but if you're winking someone that you think generally gets a fair amount of mesages your wink will get totally ignored. If you really like the look of them I would message if I was you

Shows how different fab opinions can be. We'd rather receive a wink, and we never ignore them, than sift through a hundred messages all of the same ilk. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just a good way of initiating contact. Let's you check them out too without having to bother with awkward first messages, be nice if it had an add feature something like opening your friends only pics to that person for 24 hours

yep, a good introduction to say you are interested

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe she did it in error,i have before.just a little ice breaker,you can either ignore or respobnd.Miss.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I tend wink and fab pictures ironically.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

No harm in winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink at people that I like but feel either they look like they get lots of mail or more likely they might not like me.

It stops the other person getting possibly unwanted mail.

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

my best friend on here......we socialise all the time...

"it started with a wink"

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"what does a wink mean in ur eyes? "

I just assume it was a fat-fingered mistake and they meant to hit the block button. Accordingly I get in first by sending them an abusive message before blocking them myself.

As a technique, it's never let us down yet...

Mr ddc

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

total waste of time effort and is for lazy people that cant be bothered to write a message.

we need have the option to turn the off .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you send a face pic and they delete the message, whether after a wink or not, then you're clearly not what they're looking for. Don't take it personally, people have different tastes. Also don't get hung up on it, their initial wink was just an expression of interest, not a binding contract.

Put it out of your mind, clear your status (that only makes you look desperate) and move on mate

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm happy to receive winks ,

I 'll respond with a message,

I never send a wink initiating contact I've always thought if the profile interests me enough to contact I'll message them I think the Investment in time is worthwhile.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink

how are you & shes deleted the msg!

what does a wink mean in ur eyes?

Did you attach a face pic to that message?

yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)"

So she didn't like your face and body!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She probably got a bit of cum in it.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We're a pair of winkers...If we like a pic we'll fab it, if we like the pics and profile we'll wink and if we get one back we send a message with face pics. When we get a wink, we check out the winker and if we like what we see then we wink back and it's up to them to send the message including face and cock pics...P's such a perv

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By *unSeekingLincolnshire OP Man
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa

"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink

how are you & shes deleted the msg!

what does a wink mean in ur eyes?

Did you attach a face pic to that message?

yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)

So she didn't like your face and body!

shes actually just msgd saying she doesnt fink shes what im lookin for. whats wrong with nice broad decent body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a wink to show interest and to try and break the ice. If I get a wink back I follow it up with a message. But generally I don't think they are that appreciated or used much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my old site it meant you hadn't paid your subscription!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a wink I will certainly check out the profile of the sender.If I like what I see I will respond.

Never dismiss a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I get a wink I will certainly check out the profile of the sender.If I like what I see I will respond.

Never dismiss a wink."

Spoken from the male perspective. Yes, a puddle in the desert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I often ignore the ones I have no interest in. But I dont dismiss out of hand.

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