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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One of my absolute hates in this world. The type who happily gossip monger and lie even though they are aware the damage they could cause. Why do people lie on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you mean shit stirrers? idk why people do it, they probably have low self esteem though and are almost to be pitied (and avoided).

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By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I've been accused this week of shit stirring when all I did was tell the truth about someone.

Other ppl made up shit saying I'd said things that I had not.. I think I was the one in the firing line because don't lie to or about ppl.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Some folk have such boring lives that gossip and shit stirring gives them a buzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the thing according to Sox.....

If someone proves themselves a lair, I see no reason to trust anything they say including any excuse they offer to explain their motivation to lie in the first place..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are obviously bo_ed ,I'm a great believer in ..If you havent got anything nice to say about someone, then hush your mouth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they like drama and live their life vicariously through here.

Just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some folk have such boring lives that gossip and shit stirring gives them a buzz "
Yes your so right in saying this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they like drama and live their life vicariously through here.

Just ignore them. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To exert control over others, or to assume a perceived position of power.

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Some folk have such boring lives that gossip and shit stirring gives them a buzz Yes your so right in saying this. "

Yep... it makes them feel important to impart so called secret stuff .. true or not. It's a sign not actually being trusted with anything by anyone..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here's the thing according to Sox.....

If someone proves themselves a lair, I see no reason to trust anything they say including any excuse they offer to explain their motivation to lie in the first place..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yeaterdays news tomorrows chip paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 06/06/16 16:22:36]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To exert control over others, or to assume a perceived position of power.

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There are some on here that have some extra benefits that abuse them, thinking they are higher than others.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

This threads about me isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This threads about me isn't it? "

Ha ha why have you told fibs against my name?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was on some forum regarding no Blacks/Asians. I gave an example by dm saying I don't usually go for heifers but if they was attractive/shapely I would happily engage. The lady I gave the example to went public and said I called her a heifer (which I didn't) then blocked me (fair enough) but the thread closed so I couldn't confute her spurious claim. The issue I have is people will now relate my profile to being anti which is not the case. Look up budd dwyer on you tube and see how lies can impact on some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP.. Some people like to gossip and gossip normally involves things been taken out of context or exaggerated along the way.

You will never change that unfortunately.

Just try associate with people who are trustworthy and genuine and avoid the "fair weather" type friends who don't really have your best interests at heart.

Most people enjoy a good old gossip including me. But there is light hea_ed gossiping and there is vindictive destructive gossiping.

Choose who you socialise with more carefully is my advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more brother. Shalom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't agree more brother. Shalom "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Because they can, stop over analysing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comes to something when they contact people that verify you ,and slag you off to them,yet you've never spoken to them that do it .havent a clue what that's all about,just dont understand it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It was on some forum regarding no Blacks/Asians. I gave an example by dm saying I don't usually go for heifers but if they was attractive/shapely I would happily engage. The lady I gave the example to went public and said I called her a heifer (which I didn't) then blocked me (fair enough) but the thread closed so I couldn't confute her spurious claim. The issue I have is people will now relate my profile to being anti which is not the case. Look up budd dwyer on you tube and see how lies can impact on some people. "
oh so she got it wrong you werent calling her a heiffer just other women

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It was on some forum regarding no Blacks/Asians. I gave an example by dm saying I don't usually go for heifers but if they was attractive/shapely I would happily engage. The lady I gave the example to went public and said I called her a heifer (which I didn't) then blocked me (fair enough) but the thread closed so I couldn't confute her spurious claim. The issue I have is people will now relate my profile to being anti which is not the case. Look up budd dwyer on you tube and see how lies can impact on some people. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Again I called no one a heifer, i used the term as an example and it clearly offended her the same way some non whites would feel offended when being generalised as being the same as whatever these people perceive of other races. If people really knew history I wonder what opinions they'd have of others then??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

@ms_yrdwoman. Interesting you put up the emoji of a violin yet you claim:

I love nothing more than to have a really good conversation with someone interesting over a drink or a meal. Personality really does trump looks for me, but I would be lying if I said that looks don't matter at all. However I don't go for the classically good-looking guy so send me a pic and I'll let you know.

Ironically I think my bio has words to the effect of being a better conversation than you think. I wonder what my interesting conversation with you over a meal would explore??? Some people have an inability to empathise with others situations. The fact it's a forum (discussions take place here) and you respond with a picture kind of worries me - no disrespect.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Again I called no one a heifer, i used the term as an example and it clearly offended her the same way some non whites would feel offended when being generalised as being the same as whatever these people perceive of other races. If people really knew history I wonder what opinions they'd have of others then??"
well my opinion is it all sounds like something in a school yard. She said this, he said that. Have you had hate mail because of it? If so report if not just let it go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Again I called no one a heifer, i used the term as an example and it clearly offended her the same way some non whites would feel offended when being generalised as being the same as whatever these people perceive of other races. If people really knew history I wonder what opinions they'd have of others then??well my opinion is it all sounds like something in a school yard. She said this, he said that. Have you had hate mail because of it? If so report if not just let it go"

Not yet but its one of those where you say......"incoming" )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the thing ......

If someone proves themselves less than trustworthy you only have yourself to blame if you then decide to continue any sort of contact with them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You talkin bout me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You talkin bout me? "

Would sir like the truthful answer or the none truthful answer?

We offer both,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But ofcourse I'm here for the fabulous answer.

FYI, it's Lord, not sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But ofcourse I'm here for the fabulous answer.

FYI, it's Lord, not sir."

Oooooo'er like in Gaylord.....

Get a load of you honky-tonk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in sales so I lie a lot but I am honest in admitting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe it or not this thread reminds me of my old Nan. She would say; 'I would rather have a thief than a liar. You know a thief will steal from you. You don't know where you are with a liar'. And she also used to say; 'She's beef to the heel like a Mullingar heifer'. Which, depending on your preferences can be an insult or a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Believe it or not this thread reminds me of my old Nan. She would say; 'I would rather have a thief than a liar. You know a thief will steal from you. You don't know where you are with a liar'. And she also used to say; 'She's beef to the heel like a Mullingar heifer'. Which, depending on your preferences can be an insult or a compliment. "

This is brilliant. Salute nan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But ofcourse I'm here for the fabulous answer.

FYI, it's Lord, not sir.

Oooooo'er like in Gaylord.....

Get a load of you honky-tonk "

Ha ha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's addictive for some people, maybe the adrenaline rush of living in a precarious position. And getting rumbled is a part of it.

It's beyond me as I don't like people getting hurt for no reason.

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