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BUNNY BOILERS !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you guys.

have any of you come across any "bunny boilers" whilst swinging ?

My mate did two yrs ago and it became really serious when she attemted to stab him.

she wanted him all to herself and that was only after two meets,

she went to his works, his home and followed him everywhere.

scarey eh !

needless to say she was arrested for attempted murder but got medical treatment instead of incarceration.

he was lucky but he did stop swinging,.

it scared the hell out of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i met a guy who became abit obsessive it became scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i met a guy who became abit obsessive it became scary"

You ain't seen nothing yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not know bunnys but there are stalkers some frinds of mine had troubel with they had to get police invoveled and that put them off swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you guys.

have any of you come across any "bunny boilers" whilst swinging ?

My mate did two yrs ago and it became really serious when she attemted to stab him.

she wanted him all to herself and that was only after two meets,

she went to his works, his home and followed him everywhere.

scarey eh !

needless to say she was arrested for attempted murder but got medical treatment instead of incarceration.

he was lucky but he did stop swinging,.

it scared the hell out of him.

"

I'm not bloody surprised! Man, what a mind fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao bunny boilers as in fatal attraction yup ?.;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i met a guy who became abit obsessive it became scary

You ain't seen nothing yet!"

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not had the pleasure of that yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lmao bunny boilers as in fatal attraction yup ?.;-) "

u got it in one honey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont think ya want one cliggy

stick to sane ones in here...pmsl

ahem !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sound like polt in eastenders lol was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sticking sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I spoke to a oriental on line few times finally met up had few dates all went well .Then everywhere I mean everywhere I went upon net she asked if I'd been there thought nothing of it other than she was curious then she spoke to friends I know on other sites started asking me who this girl was that girl blah blah .Came to my house cooking me dinner one nyt omg she asked about couple friends then lifted pot off stove tryed to chuck it at me just glad there wasn't a bunny in pot lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of a few very jealous single fems on here ( dont think their quite bunny boilers) but i do think this is deffo the wrong site for some to be on when they meet guys then constantly watch them and give them shit if they meet other fems.... some odd folk around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes theres girls to though think there actually in love sometimes LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep we have, a woman my hubby used to meet a couple of years ago, she seemed ok till she started going round introducing him to people as her boyfriend, only one night she introduced him to a couple we have known and met many times over a few years, next think i know i had a call from the female of the couples saying she was sorry to hear we had split up and she was still friends with both of us etc....very confused i asked what she was going on about and she said this woman (who shall remaind nameless incase anyone knows her lol) had intriduced my hubby as her new boyfriend and they was moving in together anyway to cut a long story short we decided is wasnt a good idea for them to meet again as she seemd to be reading more into their meeting than was actually there and i actually turned out to be the bad guy in all this, she accused me of stealing her boyfriend and told everyone that he wanted to leave me but only stayed because i wouldnt let him go the resorted to being abusive to me every time she saw me on the net, funnily enough tho never in real life she tended to just stay away if she saw me face to face lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These stories just go to show how carefull we all have to be eh?

Were on ere to make friends too but thats just effin ridiculous!!!

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first EVER meet was a couple ... pom had been chatting to the woman on msn for several years in a non-swinging, non-sexual way. When he mentioned we were considering giving swinging a go, she pounced and suggested our first meet should be with them as they were swingers too (go figure!)

Turns out she'd already 'fallen' for him prior to meeting and getting together just made it worse. We met them for a whole weekend, she manitpualted the whole event, capitalising on the fact we were newbies (of course swingers do full swap separate rooms! That's how it's done!) and she confessed her 'love' to him on the last night. In the days following our return home, he got countless emails, texts and PMs all saying how she loved him with all her heart. I spotted her on msn and said she was to have no more contact with pom, she said 'only if it's what he wants'. Bloody hell, talk about deluded!!

She eventually got the message after he emailed her with a firm 'it aint happening' message followed by delete and block (although she did try contacting him under a new msn name). It was a shame in a way because he lost a good chat friend and we backed out of swinging for months (as a first experience it doesn't rate as too good lol)

We thought we'd give it another go though as I know that not ALL women are like her. We've had some great experiences since then but based on that experience, pom won't have penentrative sex with other fems and we don't meet couples for anything other than soft swing. He's also paranoid about any email spam he gets in case it's her trying to get in touch again. Maybe things will change in the future but for now, we're just playing ultra cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the answers simple, always take a loaded 45 magnum with you discreetly tucked in your hanbag... then if the punk tries any shit .. BLOW THE MOTHER FUCKER AWAY!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning..."
Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?"

Schizophrenic

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

Schizophrenic

"

sorry aqua but bi polar disorder and schizophrenia arent the same thing ...bi polar disorder is what used to be more commonly known as manic depression

x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

Schizophrenic

sorry aqua but bi polar disorder and schizophrenia arent the same thing ...bi polar disorder is what used to be more commonly known as manic depression

x"

Sorry I hold my hand up apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it is manic depression. this same guy on the second date tried to whip his condom off and penetrate me without it....i nearly penetrated his chuffing bollix to the floor

ah i have just thought perhaps it was the dom side of me he loved. someone to order him to take his medication lol

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

Schizophrenic

sorry aqua but bi polar disorder and schizophrenia arent the same thing ...bi polar disorder is what used to be more commonly known as manic depression

x

Sorry I hold my hand up apologies"

no problems sweetie ,, be easier if the didnt keep changing the names huh !!

xxx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

Schizophrenic

sorry aqua but bi polar disorder and schizophrenia arent the same thing ...bi polar disorder is what used to be more commonly known as manic depression

x

Sorry I hold my hand up apologies

no problems sweetie ,, be easier if the didnt keep changing the names huh !!

xxx"

Also I use to be indecisive, not I'm just not sure

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

giggle ! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

then i had another guy...yeah i know it always happens to me.

i had never even met this guy, just had plenty of msn and telephone calls from oct - nov. anyhow his wife was supposed to be into swinging as well. but one day another bloke who had introduced us. well we got talking and comparing photos. turns out this guy was sending pics of his wife to people and each pic was of a different person. so i decided to pull him up with regard to this. and he made me feel bad by saying he was having a really bad day as it was the anniversary of his father dying. and then went onto say he had sent me a poem that he had wrote about his father after he had died. so i went away and read this poem and nearly cried my leg off it was soooo emotional, about watching someone die and letting them go. so i went back on msn and apologised for having a go at him on such a day. but to my surprise he was quite up beat while i was totally upset. now bear in mind i had told this chap about losing my sister a few years ago (wish i hadnt, and wouldnt go into detail withh people now). anyhow i went back to the poem. i got on google and googled the first few lines of the poem. turns out it was wrote 7 years ago by someone else. this guys father was only supposed to have passed away the year before. so i got on msn and gave this bloke loads, really ripped into him, berating him for using something so sensitive to get out of his lies. well he harassed me with phones calls texts and msn until once again i blocked and deleted.

anyhow i did learn a lesson, not to divulge sensitive stuff to people

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

I kill bunnies but i dont boil em - now that is just too cruel!!!!

Humph!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nearly killed our house bunny when it chewed all the wallpaper and destroyed the house

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"nearly killed our house bunny when it chewed all the wallpaper and destroyed the house"

Oooooooooooooooooh - its the wires you gotta be carefull of - or not./....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nearly killed our house bunny when it chewed all the wallpaper and destroyed the house

Oooooooooooooooooh - its the wires you gotta be carefull of - or not./....lol"

yeah found that one out too late. chewed thru play station cable, ipod ear phones etc. also chewed thru up stander light...was going to keep quiet about that one from my other half and cash in on the insurance policy....saves leaving the skate at the top of the stairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whens dinner then or to late for rabbit stew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

left the rabbit being cared for by my niece and she took a shine to it. so its still there...gosh am heartbroken....not!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol nice one

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"nearly killed our house bunny when it chewed all the wallpaper and destroyed the house

Oooooooooooooooooh - its the wires you gotta be carefull of - or not./....lol

yeah found that one out too late. chewed thru play station cable, ipod ear phones etc. also chewed thru up stander light...was going to keep quiet about that one from my other half and cash in on the insurance policy....saves leaving the skate at the top of the stairs"

hahahahahaha

And a bit more "au natural" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yo Cliggy,just took a luk at your profile. the new pics are better hun. thought your verifications are sweet.....ahhhh bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello gash and verification are sweet ??? thanks hun xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hello gash and verification are sweet ??? thanks hun xxxx"

yeah they say what a gen bloke you are. that will appeal to the single ladies out there

your welcome hun...

your verifications are sweet, mine in contrast just say am a dirty fooker...lol

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"hello gash and verification are sweet ??? thanks hun xxxx

yeah they say what a gen bloke you are. that will appeal to the single ladies out there

your welcome hun...

your verifications are sweet, mine in contrast just say am a dirty fooker...lol"

Goes off to have a look at dirty fooker verifications......lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hello gash and verification are sweet ??? thanks hun xxxx

yeah they say what a gen bloke you are. that will appeal to the single ladies out there

your welcome hun...

your verifications are sweet, mine in contrast just say am a dirty fooker...lol

Goes off to have a look at dirty fooker verifications......lol"

and did u take a look debs???

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

Schizophrenic

"

Bi-polar and schizophrenia are NOT the same thing. They are COMPLETLEY different.

No wonder people get stigmatized when people dont have a flaming clue what there talking about

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

Schizophrenic

Bi-polar and schizophrenia are NOT the same thing. They are COMPLETLEY different.

No wonder people get stigmatized when people dont have a flaming clue what there talking about"

Err you missed the bit when I apologised that I had got it wrong

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

Schizophrenic

Bi-polar and schizophrenia are NOT the same thing. They are COMPLETLEY different.

No wonder people get stigmatized when people dont have a flaming clue what there talking about

Err you missed the bit when I apologised that I had got it wrong"

No i didnt i saw it, i was just confirming that they where not the one and same thing never have been, no matter what the name change.

It pisses me off when someone pipes up about something they obviously have no clue about

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

Schizophrenic

Bi-polar and schizophrenia are NOT the same thing. They are COMPLETLEY different.

No wonder people get stigmatized when people dont have a flaming clue what there talking about

Err you missed the bit when I apologised that I had got it wrong

No i didnt i saw it, i was just confirming that they where not the one and same thing never have been, no matter what the name change.

It pisses me off when someone pipes up about something they obviously have no clue about"

Well things piss me off but I tend to correct prople politely

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"well from the other side of it, I had a bloke who went nuts with me. I had met him twice and had fun. After the second time, I had to go in hospital for an op(boobs dun). I went on to have a date with a young woman. And when he found that out (coz I had mentioned it in passing) he absolutely flipped. Also went on to say I was messing with his head and that he had all these feelings for me, even declared he loved me. I was like...WOT. Told him he didnt love me because he didnt even know me. Turns out this guy was bi polar. He went on to become very abusive by phone and msn...so I soon blocked and deleted and moved on. He should have come with a government health warning...Excuse my ignorance, but what's bi polar?

Schizophrenic

Bi-polar and schizophrenia are NOT the same thing. They are COMPLETLEY different.

No wonder people get stigmatized when people dont have a flaming clue what there talking about

Err you missed the bit when I apologised that I had got it wrong

No i didnt i saw it, i was just confirming that they where not the one and same thing never have been, no matter what the name change.

It pisses me off when someone pipes up about something they obviously have no clue about

Well things piss me off but I tend to correct prople politely"

May I also point you to this article, if you have superior knowledge the I suggest you let the people involved know

A horde of genetic flaws have been tied to both schizophrenia and bipolar disorder in a huge trial that suggests the two mental illnesses have similar roots.

Scientists have long believed that schizophrenia is distinct from bipolar disorder, which is also known as manic depression.

But now the study, which uncovered thousands of genetic errors which predispose people to schizophrenia, showed that many were the same as those that trigger bipolar disorder.

The multinational group of researchers analysed the DNA of 8,000 people with schizophrenia, and 19,000 without it, in three studies reported in the journal Nature.

They linked 30,000 common gene variations to the mental illness, suggesting that the condition is not only triggered by rare mutations, according to London's Evening Standard.

Indeed, combinations of the common mutations may cause a third of all inherited cases of the illness, the researchers say.

Dr Shaun Purcell, from Harvard University, who led one of the teams, said: ‘Cumulatively, they play a major role, accounting for at least one third - and probably more - of disease risk.’

Dr Pamela Sklar, of Massachusetts General Hospital, said: ‘We fully expect that future work will assemble them into meaningful pathways that will teach us about the biology of schizophrenia.’

The teams highlighted genes found on Chromosome Six in an area known as the Major Histocompatibility Complex, which plays a role in the immune system, and in controlling when other genes are switched on and off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope never met anyone like that , hm maybe im doing something wrong, pretty scary though , why if these people are into that sort of thing are they swinging ? seems to me they dnt have the mental capacity to understand the lifestyle .

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"nope never met anyone like that , hm maybe im doing something wrong, pretty scary though , why if these people are into that sort of thing are they swinging ? seems to me they dnt have the mental capacity to understand the lifestyle . "

I believe medication can and does help, but I am no expert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

medication does help and why should they not be in this life style they can go years without problems and you wouldnt know they had any in the first place and yes I know people both with bipolar disorder and schizophrenia. It is only a small percentage that cause problems and yes its sad and upestting for both parties when they do but be fair they have as much right as anyone does to be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not having a go at people with mental issues , as there are a wide range of them and as you say can go years without anything and people might not even know , what im saying is if people are struggling to detach themselves from whom they sswing with , and to see it fr what it is , and what it should be , then maybe they should think twice about it all ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but that applies to people without mental health issues as well. I met a guy on here with no problems at all who I got to know quite well but when I decided that I wanted to move on and take things further treated me so badly I had to change my all my phone numbers and msn and email addys but yes I do understand what you are saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be fair to Aqua lady, she knew the guy with the bi polar herself. okay she got the term wrong and wrote the wrong thing. but this guy himself actually told me he had bi polar and had been diagnosed it. and also i have had it since pointed out from this threat, that the guy is up in crown court over harassing and stalking his ex wife. so the point of it was. diagnosis or not...he was in my eyes and other peoples who were unfortunate to come across him....a bunny boiler.

just thought that i had to stick up for Aqua woman, just coz she got the medical term wrong. she did apoligise for the mistake. but she actually did indeed know what she was talking about, by know the individual herself.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"to be fair to Aqua lady, she knew the guy with the bi polar herself. okay she got the term wrong and wrote the wrong thing. but this guy himself actually told me he had bi polar and had been diagnosed it. and also i have had it since pointed out from this threat, that the guy is up in crown court over harassing and stalking his ex wife. so the point of it was. diagnosis or not...he was in my eyes and other peoples who were unfortunate to come across him....a bunny boiler.

just thought that i had to stick up for Aqua woman, just coz she got the medical term wrong. she did apoligise for the mistake. but she actually did indeed know what she was talking about, by know the individual herself."

Aww thanks

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Firstly my post was absolutley nothing to do with people having or not having mental health issues. Of cause if someone is a danger then people should stay well clear this applies to people with or without mental health issues.

I was merely pointing out that someone making a random assumption that they no absolutley nothing about can lead to stigma for people with mental health issues.

50 Years ago anyone with a mental health issue would be institualalized and thats where they would stay.

People have fought long and hard over the years to get rid of the stigma attatched to mental health.

People here the word schizophrenia and if they have no knowledge of the condition automatically consider them a danger.

Now i notice of late (and i dont mean on here i mean in the media ect) that the new "bad mental problem" you can have is bi-polar.

What i saw was someone giving false information and i corrected it.

Aquawoman in that copy and paste please tell me where it says they are the same thing. The word having things IN COMMON was what i read.

You may as well say that all brain illnesses are the same.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I am not saying for one moment that the guy was not a danger as he clearly was. But he had said he had bi-polar not schizophrenia

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Firstly my post was absolutley nothing to do with people having or not having mental health issues. Of cause if someone is a danger then people should stay well clear this applies to people with or without mental health issues.

I was merely pointing out that someone making a random assumption that they no absolutley nothing about can lead to stigma for people with mental health issues.

50 Years ago anyone with a mental health issue would be institualalized and thats where they would stay.

People have fought long and hard over the years to get rid of the stigma attatched to mental health.

People here the word schizophrenia and if they have no knowledge of the condition automatically consider them a danger.

Now i notice of late (and i dont mean on here i mean in the media ect) that the new "bad mental problem" you can have is bi-polar.

What i saw was someone giving false information and i corrected it.

Aquawoman in that copy and paste please tell me where it says they are the same thing. The word having things IN COMMON was what i read.

You may as well say that all brain illnesses are the same."

What you actually saw was someone making a mistake, which I apologised for.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Firstly my post was absolutley nothing to do with people having or not having mental health issues. Of cause if someone is a danger then people should stay well clear this applies to people with or without mental health issues.

I was merely pointing out that someone making a random assumption that they no absolutley nothing about can lead to stigma for people with mental health issues.

50 Years ago anyone with a mental health issue would be institualalized and thats where they would stay.

People have fought long and hard over the years to get rid of the stigma attatched to mental health.

People here the word schizophrenia and if they have no knowledge of the condition automatically consider them a danger.

Now i notice of late (and i dont mean on here i mean in the media ect) that the new "bad mental problem" you can have is bi-polar.

What i saw was someone giving false information and i corrected it.

Aquawoman in that copy and paste please tell me where it says they are the same thing. The word having things IN COMMON was what i read.

You may as well say that all brain illnesses are the same.

What you actually saw was someone making a mistake, which I apologised for.

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Well as far as im concerned it was over and done with after i made my posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok lets move on. well whether a person has a disorder or not, they can still be bunny boilers. and in fact this guy that aqua and i both knew he admitted to me on the second date that he tends not to take his medication. apparently he found that it interfered with his labido and erection. now how silly is that. but i was glad i got out of the situation without the guy knowing too much about me. coz he turned very nasty and was very insulting.

but yeah i have had bunny boilers rite thru my life. there was a case of a guy where i worked when i was in my twenties. slept with him once and he made my life hell in work. it was a case of be nice to him or he was terrible to me. used to follow me round etc. in the end i got in touch with my union and they just simply said do you want us to fight it and you stay in the job, or fight it and get a pay out. well i knew that it would never be the same in work. i had put up with it for 4 years by then. so they got me a payout. acas came out and made me sign a form, waivering my rights in condition. so i got several months pay plus a hefty pay out. never seen the bloke since...

yeah i must have always had a sign on my head, saying stalkers follow me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

moral of this story: dont piss in your own back yard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"moral of this story: dont piss in your own back yard!

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yeah i totally agree and stuck by that until last xmas when my feme boss got a grip of me while we where out on the office night out. big mistake, the bitch aint given me a raise since...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you just move the cover's abit hun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you just move the cover's abit hun?"

wot?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump.... Pmsl

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

One used to stalk me outside our kids school, wiggles thought it was bloody hilerious, even when the bint used to send me texts telling me to sneak out or she would tell wiggles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good bump, lol

i've got a profile stalker , she's obsessed wi me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ok so female stalkers are called bunny boilers

what are male stalkers called?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sheep shearers

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"Ok so female stalkers are called bunny boilers

what are male stalkers called?

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I get the feeling there are far more male stalkers than female ones after talking to people. Mind the worst of all worlds would be a couple I guess as there would be two of them. So is there a name for a male stalker then??

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