FabSwingers.com forum: How important is a face pic?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is this the deal breaker??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet. Yeah definately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very! It's not blind date you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was for a meet, absoloutely.

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very important, we won't meet without one!!

Poppy x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yes of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like to swap face pics asap. Nothing worse than chatting. Thinking this guy is nice then getting a pic and not being attracted or vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?

Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

I wish hitlers dad send his mum a face picture before they met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?

Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?

Omg was in a hillarious chat about pampas grass today. Thought he was alluding to swingers and he wasnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I look at the mantelpiece when doing the pok...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't consider talking to anyone without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your meeting yep

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

To meet absolutely!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I work say if I was going to meet then yes for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya in the first few messages is a must x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?

Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?

Omg was in a hillarious chat about pampas grass today. Thought he was alluding to swingers and he wasnt

At the very first social gather I organised in Cardiff, we came up with the idea of a helium balloon on the table, so that we could be "picked" out

Someone kindly went to the trouble of actually getting one printed up with a photo of pampas grass on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely for me

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes helps to know what the person/persons your meeting with look like.

If you've seen our faces and still want to meet its a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont do the 'brown paper bag over my head' meets anymore. Easier to just send a pic.. what's to be scared of? Your hoping to meet anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, I won't chat unless a face pic is sent with a message or they have some on their profile for me to see.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Suspect the only time it doesn't matter is using a Glory hole..

Otherwise yes absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Among others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few shocks on fab already so yeah I guess a face pic important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very I have to see a face .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone else wondering what the OP looks like at this point, if he doesn't want to give his face pic to anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet without

I rarely shown mine first

I therefore rarely get past the first or second message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

face pic.... absolute requirement...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a face picture with every message. The best reply to asking for one was judging by your face picture your be happy when you meet mrs we dont send pictures

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's a deal breaker for me

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Wouldn't it be for you then ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the deal breaker??"

I think you got the answer. Not a surprising one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the deal breaker??"

I think it's vital.

I do like the idea of one of those mask type parties though, if they exist. Seen em on telly anyway, and I kind of like the idea of that kind of scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup deffo .could be chatting up ur mate lol ..need to know who ur talking too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone else wondering what the OP looks like at this point, if he doesn't want to give his face pic to anyone?"

Ya I was thinking the same lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, not bothered as long as we get 20 cock shots and a filthy one liner

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

I dont think its vital

I prefer a personality but i know how vain most are on fab so i send my mug shot and get deleted on 1ST message saves time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* Best viewed thru a glory hole

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By *ark074Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?

Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?

Omg was in a hillarious chat about pampas grass today. Thought he was alluding to swingers and he wasnt

IKEA's wavy mirrors appear to be the new pampas grass

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yeah ,there has to be attraction to meet .miss.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?

Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?

Omg was in a hillarious chat about pampas grass today. Thought he was alluding to swingers and he wasnt

My boss was talking about cutting his pampas grass back...I nearly choked on my cappuccino!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It usually is when I send mine.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It usually is when I send mine."

I usually get blocked when I send mine but I still think it's vital for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting responses, and no less than what I expected....but....

For all the people who came back with YES its important....how many of you have pleasured someone through a glory hole?

Or...

Had a fumble and more in a dark room in a club that we all know very well??

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think it's vital. Attraction is a 2 way thing. I'd never want someone to be with me if they weren't attracted to me.

As for a dark room.. I like the idea of it. Anonymity is sexy. And very different in my mind

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Interesting responses, and no less than what I expected....but....

For all the people who came back with YES its important....how many of you have pleasured someone through a glory hole?

Or...

Had a fumble and more in a dark room in a club that we all know very well??"
yeara ago before i had the internet i used to meet guys of the chatlines. All but one where similar to how they described themselves one was just a freak of nature. Yes ive done the gloryholes and the dark rooms for the buzz.

But now my marbles are more intact i wouldnt dream of it. Plus i do socials first so how would you know who you was supposed to be meeting

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

Attraction is important.although the mind of a deep person is much more alluringly beautiful.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Definitely won't agree to a meet without one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm a great believer in never judge a book by its cover .

I have met some lovely men on my previous page and my new one.

I think chatting to someone for sometime and connecting should not affect your meet once you've met. Some ugly fuckers actually are good lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to see the face before I arrange a meet. In fact at clubs the face is the first thing I look at. Contrary to popular belief not many women actually decide whether they will shag or no based on a cock shot. And no, I've never used a glory hole and never would and have absolutely never been in one of those pitch black rooms. I like sex yes but not enough to literally have no clue who is fucking me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a meet it's vital.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Imperative

No face, no chat yadayadayada.....

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

what about the man with no face

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I dont think its vital

I prefer a personality but i know how vain most are on fab so i send my mug shot and get deleted on 1ST message saves time"

It's nothing about being vain. People use fab for hook ups and not relationships. Should it be the latter personality is more important. For a hookup you have to be attracted to someone.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I dont think its vital

I prefer a personality but i know how vain most are on fab so i send my mug shot and get deleted on 1ST message saves time

It's nothing about being vain. People use fab for hook ups and not relationships. Should it be the latter personality is more important. For a hookup you have to be attracted to someone. "

Relationship or hook up if there isn't an attraction AND connection then I'm not going to enjoy it and isn't my enjoyment as important as the guys ?

The whole point is, we are all different and use the site in ways that workfor each of us.

Asking for a face pic... I don't think that makes me vain just honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo for me and I've met a few on here who are reluctant to give out face pics? Is that for fear of rejection due to previous experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I'm a great believer in never judge a book by its cover .

I have met some lovely men on my previous page and my new one.

I think chatting to someone for sometime and connecting should not affect your meet once you've met. Some ugly fuckers actually are good lovers "
why would you fuck someone who'd s ugly?

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We like to see who we are going to potentially play with, so always request a face pic

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Oh yes .. I need to see whom im chatting to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think may be important prior to meeting in person. Costa take a dim view of customers shouting 'Who here is waiting to interview an NSA sex partner'.

Even more embarrassing when half the shop raises their hand.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

a face pic is essential. .it's easy to look good from the neck down. .headless Trannie pics usually mean they don't wear make up or in some cases they have a beard. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..

what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??

So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..

what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??

So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?

Refuse what? To continue chatting? Or to shag them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't imagine enjoying sex with a man who I have no facial attraction to. If I shut my eyes and peeked to see a sweaty Chubby Brown with his eyes bulging it would throw me off my game.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?

Shallow as it seems

to have sex with yes because if I don't want to kiss then my libido will have switched off and there in the friend/chat only zone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..

what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??

So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?

I have always refused in the past until recently where let's say we both compromised on our own rules and met. Was a little strange seeing someone for the 1st time but also strangely exciting.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's essential, especially if paper bags are in short supply.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?

Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?

Swinging Ring... Pardon the pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vital. More than any other pic you could have. So much so that if we don't get one in the first message they will be deleted and blocked instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..

what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??

So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?

A face pic is important to me and i'd never meet without one, however i'm not necesarily looking for classically great looking men, i'm looking for a certain something that appeals to me, and I like all sorts.

My OH have said he's surprised by some of the men i've gone for, and also some of the great looking guys i've turned down, so just because someone asks for a face pic doesn't mean you can assume what they want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really important if your ugly it saves time chatting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..

what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??

So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?

Yep we'd refuse them. Simply can't be with someone there is no physical attraction with. Plus we would have blocked them before it got to that stage as a face pic is a requirement of ours from the off and is non negotiable with potential play mates.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..

what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??

So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?

In the days before the internet and before I ever knew about swinging I fell in love with someone based on our telephone conversations. When we met he made Quasimodo look like Adonis. We had a relationship for a year or so.

This is not about building a relationship until we have love before we meet (although it happens). For my safety I want to know who I am going to meet. I don't ask for a picture until I have exchanged a few messages and think it might be worth seeing if the chat will develop to a meet. In one case it turned out to be someone I knew through work so we agreed to just laugh it off. In other cases I just get blocked once I send a picture or told I'm not their type. It's a two way process.

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