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"Yes." Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry | |||
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"No." What they said.. Filters can help too, though most people will want chemistry ![]() | |||
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"Not me. I need to meet someone in person to know for sure. It's why I like socials. Everyone is different, though." Yes I sometimes think I am making mistakes going on photo alone lol, So many sexy people just are not when you meet them | |||
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"People don't always look like their photos though. Maybe they look hot all serious and pouty on their profile, but the second they smile on a meet they lose about 98 attraction points. And I've met people I was wasn't attracted to and became attracted when we got talking. Equally I've thought someone was really hot in ther photos. He turned up and I thought nah... and then we got talking and I was back to "fuck yeah". ![]() I'm with you on all respects | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry " You asked in your opening post if you could tell someone was HOT from their pictures... my answer would also be yes. HOT to me is that initial lust and if i found them attractive. To find out if i get on with them and have the chemistry would be another matter.. but HOT to me.. is looks alone | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry You asked in your opening post if you could tell someone was HOT from their pictures... my answer would also be yes. HOT to me is that initial lust and if i found them attractive. To find out if i get on with them and have the chemistry would be another matter.. but HOT to me.. is looks alone" I must of meant attracted ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry You asked in your opening post if you could tell someone was HOT from their pictures... my answer would also be yes. HOT to me is that initial lust and if i found them attractive. To find out if i get on with them and have the chemistry would be another matter.. but HOT to me.. is looks alone" I agree with this sentiment - that hotness is looks alone - but I don't think pictures really accurately tell you how someone looks all the time. Some people are amazing at taking pics and look hot as hell, but then you meet them and they're just not all that. Other people take pics really badly but are naturally beautiful when you meet them. So for me pictures haven't been a reliable indicator of hotness. Though they are the best we've got on the Interne, I'll admit. | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry You asked in your opening post if you could tell someone was HOT from their pictures... my answer would also be yes. HOT to me is that initial lust and if i found them attractive. To find out if i get on with them and have the chemistry would be another matter.. but HOT to me.. is looks alone I must of meant attracted ![]() Oh. Good to know ![]() | |||
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"Maybe..... We should all make better use of cam and chat there ? I don't really use cam much on this site, I used to be on another site, and thinking about it, everyone used cam before becoming friends. I'm defo voting more cam ! " This site has chat rooms with that facility.. There used to be 'Canada Invasions' once in a blue moon where forum users would invade one chat room so we could all see each other. Some were brave to go on cam, others just watched. | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry " You asked if you can tell if someone is hot by thier photos. I replied yes because I have to be physically attracted to someone to fuck them. Obv after chatting I may decide that they ain't that compatable with me. ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry You asked in your opening post if you could tell someone was HOT from their pictures... my answer would also be yes. HOT to me is that initial lust and if i found them attractive. To find out if i get on with them and have the chemistry would be another matter.. but HOT to me.. is looks alone" ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry " How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() you.cant.and thats why i dont find people hot just looking at the picture | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() So you have never looked in a glossy mag at an unknown model advertising underwear and gone 'phwoarrr' | |||
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"for me to 'Fancy' someone or want to meet them id have to take the holistic approach.. and include things like if i found them attractive, if their profile stood out to me, if i had any encounters in the forum/messages from them in the past.. I can very much find someone HOT/Attractive based soley on looks.. It could easily be ruined with their personality (or lack of it) " so whats the difference to being attracted to someone who is hot. Hots not really a word i use but i thought it had the same meaning as attracted too | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() For me "hot" is just an ascetic view ie I look at a pic n think "wow he's hot!". Then once chatting commences I decide if there is any chemistry or not. Xxx | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() exactly the same as me. Hot is purely judged on looks Fancying them involves more holistic approach | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() i can look at someone and find them attractive not to the point id.cream my knickers over them Maybe when i was younger but im not interested really | |||
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" so whats the difference to being attracted to someone who is hot. Hots not really a word i use but i thought it had the same meaning as attracted too" See to me HOT is just looks alone.. becoming attracted too someone is inclusive of personality. | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() But this dosent mean id fuck them anyway ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() lol ive never done that either mind.. but when out with mates we've often just randomly rated guys we have never met soley on looks. Its VERY shallow... but amusing for a short while | |||
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"Maybe..... We should all make better use of cam and chat there ? I don't really use cam much on this site, I used to be on another site, and thinking about it, everyone used cam before becoming friends. I'm defo voting more cam ! This site has chat rooms with that facility.. There used to be 'Canada Invasions' once in a blue moon where forum users would invade one chat room so we could all see each other. Some were brave to go on cam, others just watched. " I like the idea of everyone on. You don't even have to be naked! | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() That's awful,imagine if a group of did the same to you ladies. Of course we never would mind you. ![]() | |||
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"Can you tell if someone is hot from photos alone?" Yes , that's why I only meet people that post photos of their foot , hands , fanny , and ass. Face pics are overrated. | |||
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"Can you tell if someone is hot from photos alone?" Nope. I'm hot as fuck in reality ![]() | |||
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"Photos can tell you if someone looks after themselves or not but they can't tell you if they have a nice personality or even they can string a sentence together..., so I would say no ![]() Or if they are creepy! | |||
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"When you think yum to a great torso pic then they send a face pic and it's just not for you " What do you need to see his face for? Just shag him with a bag over his head ![]() | |||
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"When you think yum to a great torso pic then they send a face pic and it's just not for you " What you trying to say? ![]() | |||
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"When you think yum to a great torso pic then they send a face pic and it's just not for you What do you need to see his face for? Just shag him with a bag over his head ![]() I was thinking of doing that to you last night. I had images of you with a hood on tied in the corner servicing my every need. Fancy it? Hehe | |||
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"Maybe..... We should all make better use of cam and chat there ? I don't really use cam much on this site, I used to be on another site, and thinking about it, everyone used cam before becoming friends. I'm defo voting more cam ! " Not for me. I don't want everyone in the chat room seeing me and listening to my conversation with someone and I don't Skype because it is linked to my email address | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry But you said hot, hot can be identified from pictures whether a chemistry is there or not. You mean an attraction, that comes primarily from pictures but also from getting to know someones personality through contact. Mrs x" I'd agree with this ![]() | |||
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"When you think yum to a great torso pic then they send a face pic and it's just not for you " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"When you think yum to a great torso pic then they send a face pic and it's just not for you What do you need to see his face for? Just shag him with a bag over his head ![]() You're a very cruel woman ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() I gag him so he can't speak ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() Wouldn't care , we don't meet for a chat ![]() ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() My hero ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() ![]() I like your style ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() ![]() You want me to wear a cloak too?? ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Now you're talking.... I need to tick cos play off my bucket list. | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You're being brave for someone thousands of miles away.... ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You don't scare me.... I ate my wheatabix | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() wouldnt bother me one of the guys ive known the longest.(not on here) has a terrible stammer and hes not english so a stammer with an accent ![]() ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() ![]() You're a good woman. No need to let good cock go to waste just because he can't talk... ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How many.......your answer is very important....think carefully.... | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() he can talk, he has a stammer hes not dumb I just cant understand him on the phone | |||
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"Not me. I need to meet someone in person to know for sure. It's why I like socials. Everyone is different, though." Same here ![]() | |||
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"But what if a guy has super hot pics but has a stammer in person? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I crushed 2 with warm milk and honey | |||
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"People don't always look like their photos though. Maybe they look hot all serious and pouty on their profile, but the second they smile on a meet they lose about 98 attraction points. And I've met people I was wasn't attracted to and became attracted when we got talking. Equally I've thought someone was really hot in ther photos. He turned up and I thought nah... and then we got talking and I was back to "fuck yeah". ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() I agree wholeheartedly with the above. I meet a bloke regularly that I didn't fancy from his pics. He's not my type on paper at all and yet he's so freaking hot? I wish I could bottle his sexyness x | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() So did he catch you at a moment of weakness or loneliness? | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() What i was wondering.....why meet someone you don't find Attractive from their pics?? | |||
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"Can you tell if someone is hot from photos alone?" The photos attract me to the person enough to want to meet them but in reality sometimes the hotness just isn't there. | |||
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"Can you tell if someone is hot from photos alone? The photos attract me to the person enough to want to meet them but in reality sometimes the hotness just isn't there." Blindfolds were invented for this ![]() | |||
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"Can you tell if someone is hot from photos alone? The photos attract me to the person enough to want to meet them but in reality sometimes the hotness just isn't there. Blindfolds were invented for this ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Can you tell if someone is hot from photos alone?" Physically of course you can but personally I need a bit more than that!!!! You know someone who you can have a good convo with and a good laugh with etc, etc ![]() | |||
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"Can you tell if someone is hot from photos alone? Physically of course you can but personally I need a bit more than that!!!! You know someone who you can have a good convo with and a good laugh with etc, etc ![]() And fuck ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() I was attracted to his personality and thought hey ho I'll give him a go.... met him for a coffee and he had me at the first kiss. And he's shorter than me which is already a no no for 5ft 10in me! Just goes to show re book and cover x | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() Need a few more women like you on here ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Really, I may be on the wrong site I need chemestry How can you asses chemistry from just a pic ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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